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A girl is almost certainly into me and I can't handle it. This really stresses me out. She's not the love of my life or anything, I don't even have a crush on her, but she's definitely cool and attractive. I can't handle this shit bros women are scary.
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>>31690966
Is she someone you think you could fall for?
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>>31690983
Well yeah, I guess I wouldn't freak out about it otherwise. I'm a khv so I have no experience with this shit. I'm pretty charming and good looking tho but just never did anything with it due to mental illness.
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Fuck. Bros I don't wanna fall in love. Please. I don't wanna fall in love. I hate love
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>>31691004
Then why worry? If you're attracted to her and she's attracted to you why not let it happen?
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>>31691016
We're both a bit crazy and I am just fucking terrified
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>>31691020
Why are you terrified, anon?
Come on, man. Work with me here.
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>>31691037
People just scare me, especially women. I have severe bonding issues, people get close to me and I freak out. Got ADHD + autism too so my emotions are all over the fucking place
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>>31691050
Then just take it easy and communicate properly.
Clearly you already know how to talk to her or she wouldn't be into you.
Love is the best part being alive, anon. Don't be scared of it.
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>>31691050
Start journaling to excise the crazy, and keep doing what you're doing with your girl. If you're not even crushing on her, take it as a study/learning experience/exposure therapy - even if you lose the girl, you gain valuable experience for the next one you're actually emotionally invested in.
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>>31691085
I might be crushing, a little, maybe, idk

I guess I just don't want to admit it but fuck it maybe I do have a crush
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>>31691060
>>31691085
anyway thanks this is good advice

man I'm such a mess. aaaaa women
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>>31691104
or maybe I don't
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>>31691118
You do, otherwise you wouldn't be making such a big deal out of it on here.
Just be happy, anon. Life is wonderful when you're in love :)
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>>31691126
Well shiiieeet.
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>>31691141
Describe her
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>>31691149
fat, bald and retarded
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>>31690966
LARP
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>>31691170
Why would it be
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>>31691166
Sounds hot
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>>31691166
Real helpful
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>>31691197
Yeah sorry but I don't feel like describing her. I don't see the point if it and I avoid posting details like that to keep myself anonymous, I'm paranoid about being doxxed/recognised
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>>31691210
Honesly dont think anyone really cares, but you do you.
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>>31691220
If it wasn't obvious already, I'm very neurotic



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