Hey, long story short - wife of 8 years fell in love to our friend. we got 2 kids together. I accept it, dont blame any of them, but now i need to refocus from her and seeing her as my partner for it not to hurt.I planned a weekend trip with my work collegaues for tomorrow, so thats nice, but how to easily and comfortably move forward? There is no other woman in my interests so thats not an option. Im 29, programmer, recently started playing guitar again. When I try new hobbies it works for a bit, but then it hits again as its very fresh news.And it doesnt help re-telling the news to everyone around, one by one.
>>31692779>playing guitar againplay music and process the grief with relevant songs and carharsis>we got 2 kids together.also dont be a selfish subhuman and think about how this affects your kids and focus on how you can help them become good and capable people
