tl;dr Haven't heard from my penpal in a month, should I reach out?>GF of 4 years has an illness and I travel a lot for work so we don't talk much during the week>friends are getting married and having children so don't have anyone to talk to really>find a penpal place on Plebbit and make a post>make a post, most of the replies are shit or trannies>one reply from a girl who is a few years younger, also in a relationship>exchange e-mail for about 8 months, usually one email every fortnight, e-mails are 10k words each with the last one from her being 18k>no reply for a few weeks, send her an e-mail to see if everything's okay>she replies, says she's really busy with work and apologises for the delay, says she'll reply soon>no reply for a month and a half>still active on PlebbitI have a rule that I never reach out to someone twice so I don't want to chase her up again. I enjoyed talking to her though and it was fun to have someone to talk about everything and anything, especially as we both love to read. I made another Penpal post on Plebbit but it's just trannies and boring people so deleted my account. Should I reach out again? I'm thinking perhaps her BF doesn't want her talking to another guy perhaps? I'd make new friends in IRL, but I travel so much during the week that it's impossible and my weekends are spent with my GF.
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