What does it mean if I feel no emotional attraction to women? I'm not asexual because I do feel arousal and jack off regularly. I just have never met a woman I wanted to date and have as my gf. Never been in love either, obviously. Am I broken? Not gay, btw, I considered it but it does nothing for me either.
>>31695586If you have no continuous close contact with women obviously you won't feel any emotional closeness to them. Fascination takes a bit of time. Genuine love takes a long time, and often requires commitment as a prerequisite. You don't really grow to love another until you have made a number of sacrifices for them.
>>31695625I do have female friends. One of my best friends, if not my best, is a woman. But while I would say I love her I wouldn't claim I'm "in love" with her. Even before loving, I don't find girls I see "attractive" in the sense of being smitten or taken back by them. I can recognize when a woman is pretty or hot but that's the extent of it, it never translates into interest or action.
>>31695586So you've never felt that tingle in your heart when you're looking into the eyes of a girl who just gets you on a fundamental level? Even if it's in your imagination? Or the idea of protecting this sweet, caring girl? That doesn't make your heart flutter?
>>31696291Not really. The closest thing is a wholly platonic relationship with a woman who got me, but I'm not into her that way. A couple of years back I finally met a girl with whom I had something of a fling but when she broke things off a month and a half later it didn't bother me that much, or at all. Maybe I'm a schizoid.
>>31696331Nah I think you're just asexual probably. Nothing wrong with that
>>31696342But I do watch porn and I like masturbating.
