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I have strong cuckold tendencies but I would never want to actually see my gf with another man.
I really, REALLY want to do some cuck roleplay with her without involving anyone else, but I'm afraid af of her actually cheating on me.
Should I try it or should I keep it to myself?
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bump?
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Try it, it will be hot if she’s into it
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The fear is what you're getting off to
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>>31754576
Yeah, but my fear is she becoming too much into it.
Like I said, I don't want her to actually cheat on me, I lie her too much.
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>>31754583
Maybe? I never saw it from this angle.
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>>31754591
>>31754583
hes right OP
can i take a guess and say youre really into porn (no shame)
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>>31754677
>can i take a guess and say youre really into porn
Yeah, I am. I'm trying to do better, tho.
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Didn't you see the thread from the other day about the guy who did this very thing and he accidentally trained his girlfriend to be a whore? If you didn't see it look for it in the archive. Very dangerous imo
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>>31754726
so when youre really into porn you start misinterpreting different emotions like fear and anxiety as arousal
im not a neuroscientist though so idk how it works i can corroborate it though cuz i used to be like that
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>>31754454
I think if you tell her like you told us and she loves you, she'll understand.
Also, maybe you wouldn't find it horrible if it's a girl that's "cucking" you (could even be limited to what's possible clothed as a boundary), so you could consider that angle if you want to RP and have a plan for "what if things get real".
Because that's the thing with fantasies, it's natural for them to get real over time esp. with repetition.
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>>31755048
>>31754576
people are so fucking gay these days man.
OP clearly posted this because he knows that his thoughts are wrong on some level and that if he entertains them then he will actually, unironically get cucked, and it wont be a roleplay or fantasy, youre both dickheads for enabling him kys niggers
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>>31755080
Can bring a horse to the water, not make it drink.
He's obviously not close to convinced that he could manage his fantasies. His relationship getting messed up with accidental actual cucking is the least bad outcome if he doesn't course correct indefinitely.
So to advice repression OR some kind of actual sense restraint would just piss him off or make him dismiss it out of hand.

Go ahead and share what you can advice on the basis of the OP if you have a brighter understanding. Because I don't see a better option. Compersion is an actual emotion and FFM threesomes are the most harmless, low-risk kind of swinging.
If your roof is leaking the first thing you do is catch the water with buckets, to protect the flooring.
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I'm in basically the same situation, I love my boyfriend to death but I keep getting fantasies about him with another woman or me with another man (the former is more appealing to me). It's not something I would ever want to try in real life because I'd get too jealous and in general just don't think I'd like it but the idea of it turns me on so bad.
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>>31754454
>>31754576
>>31754587
>>31754726
>>31755048
>>31755576
Kill yourself.

>>31755128
>Go ahead and share what you can advice on the basis of the OP
He should kill himself. Cuckolds are lower than dirt. They do not deserve to live.
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>>31754970
being a cuckold is known literally back to ancient Greece before there was pornhub. totally different problem
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just repress it OP. never bring cuckshit into serious relationships where you see yourself marrying them one day.

you will cause a whole lot of problems for yourself in the future if you do this.
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>>31754454
Literally every cuck relationship breaks down after a few years. Repress and hope your weirdass fetish goes away
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>>31757271
I remember that one legit femanom who posted a thread here, her boyfriend pestered her for several months to suck his friend’s dick until she caved in and did.

then the cuck got angry at her and she felt like shit on top of disgusted with herself and wanted to end the relationship and the cuck was now a paranoid freak.

Cucks are weirdos who want to recreate betrayal for their own catharsis and then when they get their fucked up fetish fulfilled they use the pseudo victimhood to become massive bleeding cunts to their woman.

That’s why it breaks down. Fucking headcases.
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>>31754454
Don’t keep it to yourself, but don’t try it either. Go speak with a professional for help. Stop browsing porn, and also stop normalising betrayal and sabotage. That’s all cuckolding is, its a fetish for dysfunction. Normalised disorder where watching the female fuck someone else feels familiar, like watching mom leave dad and find a step-dad to bang.
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lmao so many people telling you to repress it
just tell her and see if she's into it
then fantasise together
cheating is a very common kink unlike what most fags on here would have you believe
every kink plays into an anxiety
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>>31757506
Please. KYS
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My take: detox from porn for a while. A long time. Like months. See if you still feel the way you do. I have a corruption kink. That was before porn, you know? It merged into a cuck thing where I would self insert as the bull. Lo and behold I quit porn and I lose all interest in group sex and swinging. Just a thought.
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>anon wants a decent, loyal gf
>she cheats on him
>anon has a cuck fetish
>gf will not indulge him
Happens every single time. Women just want men to suffer. End of story.
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>>31754454
didn't do it, man. You'll ruin your relationship.

she'll fall in love with another guy and will leave you, no woman likes to be with a cuck, she'll leave you for a better man.

i used to have cuck fantasies mainly because of my small dick, but i'm not stupid enough to put It into practice because i value my relationship more than any degenerate desires
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> I really, REALLY want to do some cuck roleplay with her without involving anyone else
What the fuck are you talking about, those are statements that contradict each other.
Cheating is lying, if you know about it happening and allow it is not cheating. First. Second you can choose the bull or whatever and set it up exactly in a way you prefer, given that she loves you and is willing to please you. Your problem is not being a cuck but being a whimp. If you just bring in another man and arrogantly say to her face that we gonna share you bitch it is gonna be completely different vibe from uh oh i think i may be a cuckold but actually no uuuhm Im not sure, maybe we can try IMAGINING the third person?(that honestly sounds even more pathetic that begging your woman to fuck a nigger before you)



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