What do you do when people say something like>why are you mad?They will say this even when I am not mad and then if I deny it they take it as evidence that I am. Literally the most annoying shit in the world because I have no recourse and everyone around me thinks they "got me"
>>32004774Your face makes you look like you are angry or at least mildly upset all the time. In other words you have resting bitch face.
>>32004774I would just literally ignore them. Literally say nothing and do no acknowledge them. As you already know, if you do anything else, they "got you".
>>32004902if you say nothing they also say i'm angry lol
>>32004774You ask them “what is it that I am doing that makes you think I am mad” and be genuinely schooled and concerned. But you are mad. Because that is what is behind your mask and you are bad at keeping your mask up.
>>32004993but I'm not mad, I'm neutral.
>>32004774>What do you do when people say something like>>why are you mad?Evaluate if I have a valid reason to be mad.If I do, tell them that reasonIf I don't, then I stop being mad.>They will say this even when I am not mad and then if I deny it they take it as evidence that I am.Oh you mean an opponent or enemy is doing itJust dismiss their bullshit or tell them to shove it up their ass. It is not an attempt at honest communication.>everyone around me thinks they "got me"They did, because you tried to engage honestly. Do not engage honestly with shit talk. Either dismiss it or talk shit back.
>>32004978Then let them think you're angry, who gives a fuck? You? If so, why? Some rando has a wrong opinion, big deal
>>32005021sometimes it's disadvantageous>>32005016>They did, because you tried to engage honestly. Do not engage honestly with shit talk. Either dismiss it or talk shit backI did not even think that it would be shit talk. I thought they were just retards with magical thinking
>>32005040Just tell them the truth, you are mad because you have to see their face every day and the place would be better off without them.
>>32005015It sounds like you arnt good and listening to your feelings bro.
>>32005425No. I know myself pretty well. I just don't express myself like a normal person
>>32005437This is a lie. You arnt an alien. You are lying to us and lying to yourself.
>>32005447no he is not, he has resting bitch face. Where your face makes you look more aggressive or just angry even when you are neutral. He has to work on changing his face's neutral posture if he can.
>>32005451There are no accidents. Learn to make your neutral face more positive looking. You think you are neutral, you arnt, your inner bullshit is leaking out.
>>32005460Never said it was an accident. Your new age shit isn't helpful at all.
>>32005472Is calling you a dumb nigger new age enough for you? You are fucking boring fucking whining about the fact others see you as negative, it ain’t them if it keeps happening dipshit! Get your shit together which for you means learning to enjoy life and understand your emotional landscape instead of ‘hur durrr, I’m just neural man, I’m fine just tired. It’s fine, I’m fine. No clue what they means, no clue how I feel, it’s fine though, totally neutral here. No feelings at all. Nothing but an empty shell bro. ‘
>>32004774say nothing
>>32005704Sweet Jesus Christ you are a piece of work. Now you are accusing me of being OP and having to resort to more mumbo jumbo straight out of some new age guru's mouth to justify your bullshit. Being neutral isn't some empty shell with no emotions it is simply not feeling anything in particular for the time being.OP is being told he is angry because people are shallow and only judge strangers they don't know by their immediate first impression of their appearance. That is life and just how people are. my advice is practical and geared to getting people to cut that out.
