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>24 year old male
>virgin
About 2-3 years ago, I started slowly getting into cheating/cuck/ntr/virgin humiliation porn, rationalising that I simply don't deserve to have sex. If I did, a woman would have been interested in me - as they were in my friends.

It's reached the point where I have complete psychological ED even when masturbating. I can only get mentally horny thinking about the girls i am interested in or the giirl i see on the street getting railed by another guy. My sex fantasies just don't have me in them because I just don't feel like a sexual being. I've never had a hug, handhold, kiss etc, while I see 16/17 year olds kissing and grabbing ass on the subway. So I imagine that even young guys are sexually superior to me.

I don't have a small dick, and I'm actually extremely tall. I'm just skinny and nerdy and deathly afraid of women.

How do I break this? I fap about 1-2 times a day. I don't really want to nofap.
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>>32008202
Are you white?
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>>32008230
funny. yes. No, I don't fantasise about black dudes.
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>>32008202
>How do I break this? I fap about 1-2 times a day. I don't really want to nofap.
Bad news is that's exactly how you do it
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>>32008731
Well, I can give it a shot. How long do you think it will take?
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>>32008202
>HOW DO I BREAK THE HABIT I REINFORCE A LEAST TWICE A DAY WITHOUT STOPPING REINFORCING IT
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>>32008760
It took me about a year
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>>32008773
See, that's the issue. I'm 25 and a virgin. I want to at least have some experience in my 20s. If it takes a year i am already nearly 27 by then. Is that it? Did I just lose my 20s like that?
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>>32008231
Maybe if you fap to WMAF cuck porn you'll start to see yourself as the bull?
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>>32010081
kek
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>>32008202
Stop watching that fucking trash, you have no idea how many braincells you lose everytime you get off at the idea of a woman you love fucking a man that isn’t you.

I had a similar problem, i started watching vanilla/wholesome porn comics, not only i stopped to fap to porn gradually, but also learned how REAL love looks and feels like.

It’s not too late anon, break that cycle, i believe in you.
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>>32008202
lmao same. I think its just the taboo nature of it. Its peak degen content so its peak. I'd never be attracted to that shit irl. Hence why its fantasy.
>How do I break this
Noporn or make sure you stick to a specific genre. Issue becomes how disciplined you are. Can you handle looking at images still? Or will you suddenly end up looking at ntr?
>Undisciplined
Then do noporn. You HAVE to tell yourself this and stick with it.
>Disciplined but a horndog
Then stick to only vanilla images or solo girls. All other content lock out of your mind. Doesn't exist. If you jerk it, your doing it to vanilla or solo.

>>32008780
Hence why I think doing noporn is the best route. Jerking off isn't the issue, porn is, and most of the time if you are doing it more then once a day that is too much. Ideally you do it once a week. I have heard once you get over porn you jerk off less. So that should be taken into account.
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>>32013717
Thanks guys, not OP but kinda needed some advice about this hellish addiction after some painful stuff happened
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>>32012027
It kinda worked for me 2bh
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>>32012066
>wholesome porn
Really man? You ate deluding yourself.



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