i was never into men for the first 15 years of my life. when covid happened i started becoming reclusive and i stayed inside all day even after it was over. i had an incel phase too (was even a member of a forum about it). eventually i started believing i was incompatible with women entirely. i didnt like being around them back in high school, i never shared any interests with them, and i just wasn't on the same frequency. i won't ramble too much but i basically tricked myself into liking men because they were nicer to me and i shared hobbies with them. my stereotypical "femboy" appearance also didnt help.i never had a boyfriend nor did i engage in sodomy but now that im nearly 19 im pretty much done with this gay stuff. living a fag lifestyle doesn't sound appealing and now that i go out and do stuff more i don't hate women as much. my main question here is this: is this a common thing nowadays? i genuinely felt like i was gay for at least 3 years (never told family though) and it kinda fucked me up.
ok i just cleared it with the boss of heterosexuality you are good to stop being gay
>>32019173i know and respect that this thread was intended to be about other coming of age pseudofaggotry commiseration but that is actually gay as shit my nigga
>>32019173>>32019182i have the mind of a child really, i dont get all of this adult stuff very wellit doesnt help that all of the definitions and lines have been blurred by modern day identity politics
no idea. but I experimented with my best mate when we were both 14. jerked each other off, and I came in his mouth. now he's married with kids and I have a long-term gf
>>32019128I'm currently in my asexual phase
>>32019201you told you would keep our secret.
>>32019128I sucked a dick once.
>>32020329How do you do it?I really want to get dicked but I don't want it to be gay. I just want to go out on a date with a non-gay dude, see if we vibe, then we meet again and this time I dress up and suck his dick. If things go well I would like to be a gf of sorts but only sexually. How can I find someone else to do this?
>>32020406If its two dudes, its gay. The end.
>>32020406Valid feelings. You do you, as long as youre not committed to someone else I dont see anything wrong with it. But if youre cheating and hiding it from your wife that would be pretty shitty. I could only imagine the emotional tourment she would feel if she found out you were sleeping with a man / men.
