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>>32189412
Pic related for recognizing bullshit and getting what you want out of life.
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>>32189437
I've been on 4chan for like 10 years and still suck at arguing
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>>32189523
You don't notice your progress in a combat sport when training: everyone around you working about as hard as you gets good at about the same pace.

It's when you go against someone untrained or new that realization sets in, because they walk into obvious pitfalls that make you say
>what, do they WANT me to hit them? What are they even doing??
Go argue with a few boomer normies
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>>32189437
>no matter how old you are
doubt
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>>32190266
that's the truest part. Like 99% of critical learning period for eg language learning is
>The little asshole spent literally 12 hours a day doing language immersion television, movie, and spoken lessons from a guided speech tutor heavily invested in their success
no job, no distractions, just putting the hours in. you succeed at the things you put the hours in, and the timetable across basically all skills that happens is "about 5 years of reasonably serious focus"
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>>32189412
For incels
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>>32189412
Bumperino. I do like some effort posting.
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>>32192531
the classic
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>>32192531
>Weak jwline is a symptom of being an incel
Excuse me, what?
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>>32192789
depressed angry people who can't get laid eat to stuff their feelings so they have pizza face or lots of excess face fat so I think that's what he's getting at
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>>32192821
Yeah, he probably meant symptom of poor lifestyle choices besides the genetic factor
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Bamp
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>>32189412
Bump

https://mega.nz/folder/v6AzSDSJ#9nFO3qrNGUEKs3M-uMFfuw/folder/uihXibQK
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>>32192531
>self-flaggelation meant to undermine you by insulting you
lol
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if it has one of these a as the picrel, it's gonna be an all timer, full stop

nothing iconoclastically splinters the ossified and stale /adv/ orthodoxy like the incomparable ecstasy of unplanned, organic teen love
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>>32196977
>teen love
Is absolutely cringe bullshit. One day you will become an adult and will understand.
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>>32197066
i can never become a man when all of societies tests and milestones have been denied me. at best i will be a worker drone, totally alienated and deracinated from my potential
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>>32197166
You are the only man in history who has never had that chance. Congratulations, you win the Special Snowflake medal.
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Not the best advice ive read. But hits home. I have so much love, but I do not just give it to anyone.
I am hyper aware, and its a curse. I just want to do right by the few, close people in my life. I honestly cant even expect them to do the same. As long as I am real and genuine.
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>>32197228
>... forest gump.
Forest Gump was a cuck all his life throughout the movie while Jenny was whoring around and didn't even care for him. Don't be like Forest.
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>>32195896
some degree of self-abuse is kind of required as a guy. you don't really progress by being a happy little fuckin' fairy all the time
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Bamp sars
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>>32196977
I dated a highschool cheerleader, widely known as "the most popular girl".

Takeaways:
>she had a million "friends" that would go with her to parties but only one real friend. She was actually very lonely and felt nobody understood her
>there were a few girls in the "cool girl circle" who were actually not cool girls and were made fun of behind their backs. The cool girls were very bitchy and toxic. The uncool girls in that group were also just as bitchy and toxic, but uglier.
>her one "real friend" tried to cuck her and get with me. I told her. She forgave her "friend" instantly
>she instead decided to get back at ME and cheated with my friend
>I dumped her and she started dating my friend
>a year later I run into her again. We talk like old friends, she admits she only got with my friend to make me jealous and she only stayed with him because I dumped her
>I shrug and say "well, hope you're happy now"
>every time we meet after that she avoids me or treats me as an enemy
It was an interesting experience to know how lonely and isolated the "cool kids" felt.
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>>32189412
Picrel is a /lit/ post, not an /adv/ post, but it contains useful advice on how to read more, which is especially important nowadays, seeing how most people don't really read.
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>>32200033
best books to read in your 20s?
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>>32189412
Anyone got any of the Australian idiot who was stalking Japanese AV star Reiko Kobayashi, who flew to Japan, was arrested on arrival and immediately deported back to Australia and was on here crying about it.
I laughed so fucking hard at that idiot
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Yeah, I'm not reading all that shit lol

Jokes aside: people are not actually serious about anything, they're almost all pretending, posing and full of bullshit. Be actually serious about *anything* and you will come on top.
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>>32202852
The European classics. Ignore self-help books, new releases, most exotic stuff, and almost all American books.
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>>32189523
>I've been on 4chan for like 10 years and still suck at arguing
>he doesn't collect images of smug anime girls to automatically win arguments
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>>32197886
>she admits she only got with my friend to make me jealous
why do they do this? is it media brainwashing? do women not understand that men hate infidelity?
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>>32203687
It was because of lies. Obvious to me now in retrospect, when she confronted her "only true friend", her friend must have lied and said I was the one that hit on her, turning the tables on me. The cheerleader naturally chose to side with her "best friend" that she knew for years over me, a guy she basically just started dating. I didn't realize this back then, but I realize it now. Then my own "friend" also lied to the cheerleader to get her for himself. That I know, because she directly told me the last time the cheerleader and I met, that my "friend" saids about me behind my back. The girl obviously wanted to give it a second chance with me at that point but I wasn't going to allow that because of my pride.

But I think that there is some karma to all this. See the guy she ended up with was a scumbag and became a drug addict. He would eventually go mental when she dumped him for cheating and he'd basically stalk her for years.

Everyone failed to be human. I failed to understand what was going on because I was pretending to be a Chad, when I was basically just a good-looking 4channer, and I ignored a developing situation instead of talking to her and sorting it out before she cheated, because I figured Chad was supposed to play it cool. The girl chose to believe what she preferred to be true, picking her false friend over me. The two false "friends" (hers and mine) were just manipulators who didn't care if they wrecked someone else's high school romance, they just wanted to be cool kids and get laid by the hot guy/girl. People get really aggressive about relationships in the popular circles. Lots of lies and backstabbing.
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>>32196977
best thing that happened to me was lurking 4chan while underage and planning ahead before this phase ended
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>>32196977
I hated the dumb chicks in HS. My first real girl was at 15, she was a gorgeous goth who was 6 years older than me. it was like living a dream and I never recovered when she threw my heart into a trash bin after she got bored
still the most beautiful girl I've been with, I've never been with another girl that was remotely comparable and all my other girls were attractive.
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>>32200033
Based
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>>32189412
Absolutely based
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>>32197260
reading comprehension
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>>32192531
A lot of this is good but bringing up anecdotal shit like that YouTube channel is pointless.
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>>32196977
>>32197166
My highschool sweetheart cheated. I would've taken back my virginity if I could.
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>>32192531
incels literelly do every applicable advice written in this you fucking retard

you didnt read any of this

nothing in this wordsalad posts involves ever speaking to women
its just bullshit that incels ALREADY KNOW and they ALREADY SAY TO THEMSELVES EVERY DAY of their lives

none of this is "advice" all if it just repeating incels problems back at them without solution to ever verbally communicate with a woman in their lives


there's only 1 piece of advice that means anything to incels and its telling them to quit their job and go back to university again and this time talk to women and maybe write them a few sentences they can say to women there. that's it

your wordspam is not advice, none of it informs incels about anything other than water is wet water is wet water is wet.
do you think a single fucking incel doesn't already know that they should "sleep"????

You're genuinly not a living human being if you read this stuff and thought of this as advice. It's all just shit incels do their whole lives and they are still incels because it doesnt matter how low your standards are or how fucking amazing they enjoy their incel lives, they are still forbidden from ever speaking to women as long as they are not in school setting and women do not even fucking KNOW that they have movement in their lives and are proactive, they are still forced to stay completely alone with no woman to ever speak to.
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>>32209634
False. Incels never try. That is why they are incels. They want to be incels. They chose to be incels.
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>>32209803
False. Incels try all the time but they get no option to speak to women so no one is aware of any of their tries. Incels do not want to be incels, that's what involuntary means. They are forced to be incels because they're not in university.
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>>32209634
ESL detected. Opinion discarded.
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>>32209634
I was never more miserable and alone in my life than when I was in school. If you're introverted, alone, and have no social skills then school is just hell. It will not teach you those things, it's not a free space to get friends, it will just force you to be in proximity of people who are annoyed by you. Of course most of it was self inflicted because I was 'that kid' and an edgy pessimistic spaz. I only rebuilt my social circle after I left school, kicked all my bad habits, and chilled the fuck out.
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>>32209858
Will implement the goal method
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>>32209867
No, you're wrong.
University was the only time in your life when you had a shot at being happy, the only chance to use your social skills and get girls and have a good time.
You just didn't want to use them at the time and need to go back there.
It absolutely is free space to get friends, girlfriends, everything you want, that's their whole point. It's free space to walk up and talk to everyone around you, it gives you things to talk with them about, to bond over, to make conversations in setting they are comfortable with people and arent inside meatcubes.
There's nothing to do outside of university, no one even knows you kicked any habits since there's no one to open your mouth to, they dont know your name much less that you're chill, they just walk past you without knowing fucking anything about you. The only place where girls will let you enter their social circle for lonely men is inside of university.
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>>32210140
Universityfag has entered the thread
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>>32210140
This magical university where you can get friends if you can't get friends outside of it, do Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny teach there?
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>>32189523
winning an internet argument is like winning the special olympics
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>>32204063
Male manipulator was the only one with a positive story
even I can fuck the hot cheerleader girl and beat her up for fun
all I need to do is lie
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>>32210805
>This magical university where you can get friends if you can't get friends outside of it
yes you retard
its not magical, it's just how shit works
>The magical car which lets you drive if you cannot drive a car outside of a car
>The magical glass of water which lets you drink water it if you cannot drink outside of an empty glass

there's no option to speak to women outside of uni and in uni there is. do you think water and cars also do not exist?
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>>32210840
Since you clearly know and see all, tell me, why is it that so many people manage to go through university without getting any friends despite putting effort in, and how people manage to get friends/dates outside of university.
Saying they're not real is not an answer. I've never seen Finland but that doesn't mean it isn't real.
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>>32210826
Well he got his karma in the end. Not as a result of any external circumstances but because of his own impulsiveness and stupidity. Of everyone involved he ended up the worst off.
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>>32189412
Good post, Anon. I'm feeling motivated. LFG! I'll start off cleaning my room.
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>>32210943
They simply do not. We know Finland exsists because every answer about it can be answered. If someone gives their location you can give them step by step guide how to get from where they are to Finland.
Nothing like that can be said about your example. You cant tell me what would you say verbatim to get girls meaning it's not real.
>manage to go through university without getting any friends despite putting effort in
They just got unlucky or didn't try enough or want it enough
>and how people manage to get friends/dates outside of university
they simply do not, it's just schools or friends
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>>32211406
Except in that case, someone will retardly chime in about how the road they took led to a forest or the plane they went on actually went to Sweden. Everyone on the internet who says they're Finnish are lying and actually Swedes or Russians.
>You cant tell me what would you say verbatim to get girls meaning it's not real.
And that doesn't also apply to schools? After you ask someone their major, you're not going to have anything else to talk about because this is the sole thing you have in common with them.
>They just got unlucky or didn't try enough or want it enough
So, you agree that people can get friends outside of school, they just didn't try hard enough.
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>>32210140
>No, you're wrong.
No I was definitely miserable in school and so were the vast majority of people I was surrounded by, they just didn't want to be there. I don't know what schools you've been to but I have never once seen people spontaneously form friendships while I was there.
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>>32211525
>someone will retardly chime in about how the road they took led to a forest or the plane they went on actually went to Sweden
Exactly because you gave bad directions. If you were to give advice how to get to Ngjhgjaksmadialand and then someone ends up in Sweden, Russia and Finland it's a proof that directions you gave are wrong and there is no Ngjhgjaksmadialand or whatever bullshit you want to lie about. I can give directions to Finland because it exists, you cannot tell me directions to Ngjhgjaksmadialand because it doesn't. I can write what can be said to women in schools because people can speak there, you cannot write anything to be said outside of it or friends because it cannot be done.
That's why we're speaking in practical terms instead of hypothetical, anyone can say whatever they want in hypothetical scenario. We can stretch this hypothetical argument infinitely but that's your only line of defense because if you had to defend your REAL point (harassing strangers into relationship) you'd eventually have to write actual dialogues and conversations which you cannot do because just like directions to Ngjhgjaksmadialand they don't exist.
>And that doesn't also apply to schools?
No, schools offer near infinite conversation topics during initial contact. Asking them about their classes, what are they like, what they learn during them. About their group, how large it is, how many people take her major, does she get along with them, did she know any of them beforehand, which school she went to before or where she came from and what that's like.

You can talk about everything in the world by being in university, the camput is the only gate to the social world.

>you agree that people can get friends outside of school
No ESL, that's not at all what I've said

>>32211546
You were the happiest you ever were in school you just remember it wrong. The sole reason for schools existence is forming friendship and everyone you know started it there.
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>>32211566
No, the point is just because you've never seen a thing and someone gave you bad advice about it does not mean it does not exist. You can rationalize away anything if you act like an ignorant ass, but that doesn't make it untrue.
>if you had to defend your REAL point (harassing strangers into relationship) you'd eventually have to write actual dialogues and conversations which you cannot do
It's strange that you cannot imagine two people at some place having a conversation that isn't automatically harassment. No wonder you need precise advice in order to engage in conversations with anyone.
>No, schools offer near infinite conversation topics during initial contact. Asking them about their classes, what are they like, what they learn during them. About their group, how large it is, how many people take her major, does she get along with them, did she know any of them beforehand, which school she went to before or where she came from and what that's like.
And yet you didn't write an actual dialog about it, so clearly this doesn't work. Surely if someone else needs to provide an actual conversation to disprove your own point, you can provide one to prove your own...?
>No ESL, that's not at all what I've said
By your own logic, you have. You just haven't tried enough.
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>>32211653
No, the point is that if something is impossible then it cannot be done and there will be no specifics about it. You can argue and change subjects as much as you want but if something is untrue it's not going to become true by you generalizing it until you cannot even mention what you mean in reality.
>It's strange that you cannot imagine two people at some place having a conversation that isn't automatically harassment
It's strange that you cannot imagine that someone harassing someone doesn't count as a conversation or relationship. No wonder you cannot even imagine what that conversation would be in the first place.
>And yet you didn't write an actual dialog about it
I had written it numerous times in the past meaning it does work and it's the only way to meet someone.
>Hi, how are you? what class are you waiting for? what's your major?
then ask them some follow ups to it like
>Why did you pick it? What is it like? What do you learn there? What got you interested in it?
after first few questions, you most likely introduce yourself
>Hi I'm anon btw, what's your name
then they give their name, note that after everything that you say they are likely to ask the question back to you so prepare to answer it back
>What major are you in? what classes do you have today? what are they about? What has it been like so far? What do you think about it? what are your teachers like? Why did you pick it? Did you always want to study it or did you have anything else in mind/why?
>How does it compare to last semester? Did you have problems with finals? What year are you in?
>how large is your class? do you get along with them?
After you break ice, you talk to them like to a friend at a party, which is a different conversation topic and much easier in general. You can ask them
>so what do you do in free time? what music do you like? what movies do you watch?
>You just haven't tried enough
Yes, that's why I'm going back to try this time around.
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>>32211707
>accuses others of being an ESL
>then fails to comprehend what someone else is saying.
Uh-uh, I see why you fetishize college then.
>It's strange that you cannot imagine that someone harassing someone doesn't count as a conversation or relationship. No wonder you cannot even imagine what that conversation would be in the first place.
Because there's a difference between randomly striking up a conversation and forcing a conversation? Granted, I realize there's a certain amount of reading the room in this that most people here don't have, but if you're someone autistically planning this ahead you should already be planning something to say at any given event.
>I had written it numerous times in the past meaning it does work and it's the only way to meet someone.
If writing things on the internet meant they were true we'd all have huge dicks and be millionaires. That said, what makes you think this will only work with people twenty years younger than you with completely different interests? Why don't you plan something like this with other people? To use your own logic, you haven't tried hard enough.
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>>32212122
He's literally a special needs indian you're wasting your time talking to him.
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>>32211566
>You were the happiest you ever were in school you just remember it wrong.
No I definitely am not 'misremembering' being the most miserable I've ever been in my life. You might want to log off.
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>>32212122
>accuses others of being an ESL
>then fails to comprehend what someone else is saying.
So exactly what you did in this argument. No wonder you're retarded enough to think I'm wrong, you're retarded in every area of life.
>Because there's a difference between randomly striking up a conversation and forcing a conversation?
No there isn't autistic retard. It's the same thing. It's speaking. If you cannot write what can be said then you couldnt speak in real life either because they both use words. Words which do not exist in any context other than school/friends. Your "autistic planning" is literelly just basic communication, every human being that ever spoke is autistic by this metric.
If you have any ability to read any room then you know that the only room where men can speak to women is through their friends or inside schools.
>If writing things on the internet meant they were true we'd all have huge dicks and be millionaires
This can be said about your delusion about harassing women you dont know into relationship without you being able to speak to them, not about me. I have essentially claimed im a millionaire and told you my bank account which you saw has a million in it. I was able to write conversation proving my point is true, you werent able to write yours because your point is false. You still lie on the internet, I have showed proof.
>That said, what makes you think this will only work with people twenty years younger than you with completely different interests?
Nothing in uni requires being the same age, and you can have the same interests as them. Uni is the only place to learn someones interests because you get to speak to them and talk long enough to get there or you can get the same interests as them after learning them, age is irrelevant to interests, 80 and 18 yo old both watch movies, both like sports, both like music etc. age doesnt impact interests or speaking in school.
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>>32212122
>Why don't you plan something like this with other people?
Because as you have already proven to us, there's no way to ever open your mouth to a woman outside of schools, there's no possible dialogue like one I wrote anywhere outside of schools to first get to know someone or learn their interests. every written text in all of human history is a proof that there's nothing that can be said to women outside of schools or friends to start relationship with them, there is no plan like that and it cannot ever be done.
>To use your own logic, you haven't tried hard enough.
Yes, that's why I'm going to go there again because last time I didnt want to do it and now I do.
>>32212230
Nope, you're an indian. That's why you're obsessed with harassing women you dont know you fucking streetshitter
>>32212240
Yes you do misremember. You dont know what you're talking about. uni was the only place to get to talk to women wherever you see them on campus, there's absolutely nothing like it anywhere in the world. You have no idea how good of a place university is and how good school is, it's literally the most pleasant thing a man can experience or at least the entry to everything good in the world because that's how you start life of parties, dating, hook ups etc.
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All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (7 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.

tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to
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>>32213765
>it's literally the most pleasant thing a man can experience or at least the entry to everything good in the world because that's how you start life of parties, dating, hook ups etc.
Name one good experience like this you had at uni
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>>32211963
>mentions the why
>doesn't know how to practically implement it

Useless information
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>>32211988
Grim. I've gotta move my ass.
Thanks for the dump anon.
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>>32189568
I think we might have this one backwards.
Whenever I see a boomer who regularly argues on facebook or a leftist who host a subreddit for arguing with people or a youtuber with hour long political rants; their best arguments are at the beginning of their online hobby. After 5 or even 10 years, their arguments are compelling to no one. They just state their opinions as if they're a fact and get pissed when you disagree.

It the redditor example, there is an explination for this since they're the mod and will just ban opinions they don't like. So maybe they just got good at creating echo chambers, but not really because they still read the opinion and argue poorly against it.

And then there's those that do think they're arguing in good faith. What did these get better at in 5 years?
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>>32213781
>All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest.
Same for the good looking men who would make great husbands and fathers. If you're struggling to date, you're not one of them.
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i'm gonna be honest lads, i've yet to see an actual good post
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Anyone have the anon who fucked their sister?
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>>32209634
>do you think a single fucking incel doesn't already know that they should "sleep"????

If one could birds eye track all incels all over , I would bet more than good money they have shit habits including failure to sleep on time. Yes you "know" the fact sleep is goof for you - but you still won't do it.

You guys really just don't try to fix your basics hence why it bears repeating over and over. I read that OP post - the root idea he's really getting at is, to get the point of talking to women is not really in the words you say but the vibe and energy you bring to the table. And to authentically bring energy to the table - you gotta be living a life (IE escaping the bedroom basement) in the first place (the "movement" idea he touches on).

You can say the exact same words as a chad every single time, but shit sleep influencing your delivery , poor posture, and a number of other factors will ensure she never interprets it the same way. It also just doesn't look authentic.

Which is why most of you are dead in the water even if you "do" (which u dont) whats purely related to your problems like "Game" or social skills , etc.
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>>32212010
This is retarded , half these guys aren't all stars to begin with , they just started whatever sport they started and had the genes to keep going into the high school and collegiate level. His team is his social life prebuilt for him and the image of the team/victory confers his status with women , not some 4.0GPA or "hard at work at his sport" KEK. And he's pounding back kegs at the party easy.

And for her , more of it is true than for the guy. But even then - most girls in your average school are NOT this calibre. This whole post is just "pedastalizing" american high school culture to an insane degree.
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>>32212016
I think I might've done something similar to this before, but only because I wasn't sure what she wanted from me, not because I thought I was being cool. I still regret it over a decade later.
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Everything I lay my hands on, I get tired of sooner or later. Photoshop, university, photography, guitar, and now college. I can't seem to focus on one thing for some reason. I'm suspecting fomo is involved. I'm constantly DISTRACTED. "There, there's a better opportunity there!". I don't even have a better opportunity from college, and AI taking over jobs is just cope because of the so many examples I've shared. The same thing holds for relationships as well. I can't sustain a relationship. I get bored of girls easily. But maybe I just haven't found the right one. But yeah, this is preventing me from being productive, focus, in flow.
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>>32212010
What's with the little blue squiggle?
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>>32197166
>i can never become a man when all of societies tests and milestones have been denied me.
Conveniently, that would mean that you shouldn't ever bother trying, you'll never need to risk failure, and that, since you're a completely innocent victim of fate, none of anything you suffer is your fault or responsibility to fix, ever!
Gee, I can't imagine why you'd prefer to believe this.
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>>32197228
This one reads like a poem
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If you try to follow all this advice you will burn out. Some highlights I liked
>>32192531
All of Mistake #2. Go out and meet people if you get opportunities. Sometimes create the opportunities yourself, invite people
>>32211980
Do your daily grind on something you want to improve, however small the contribution is (even 5 mins).
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>>32218641
And >>32211983
You have not put in the time you think you have. Try tracking your daily habits to see how much time is spent being a loser and actual improvement
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>>32218647
This was a hard pill to swallow for me at first kek
>8 hours of vidya and mindless 4channel scrolling a day, I see, cool
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>>32218641
>go out and meet people if you get opportunities.
Ok, but where, where do I go to meet people? I don't think walking up to random people at a mall is a good idea.
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>>32219120
Hobby groups. Try meetup. Or look for events in your area that seem fun. Even somewhat rural places have something going on.
If you don't have a hobby, think about a hobby you want to get.
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>>32189437
>Picrel
The most easy-difficult thing to do
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>>32196977
The only thing cool about teen love is comic absurdity of the dissonance of treating the low ass stakes as world shattering. Teen love is all important in the same way schooler thinks going to university is all important
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>>32197228
Brootal
Luckily I have eaten every blackpill
I know
I'm aware
And I honestly I just let go ofy desires and ideas
That anon is too attached
He can't let go
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>>32200030
Best advice ever
Very simple
Yet so complicated and meaningful
Unironically this is the meaning of life
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>>32200033
Kino
As a kid I was reading so much
Now...
Lol
I really wanted to get back into it, perfect time I guess
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>>32204063
What a shit show
Sometimes, actually it's more often times these days I consider myself lucky and blessed I never have been with a woman
I spent a lot of time in isolation
Pondering
Thinking about the world, people, history, anything really
All I did was think and think and think and eat every blackpill know to mankind I could get my hands on
Did it cause me extreme mental stress?
Without a doubt but I grew and matured as a man and I would consider myself worthy to be on par as the great men of the past
Maybe it was for the best, after all
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>>32219120
>if you get opportunities
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>>32189412
This is simply a specific case of the post below
>>32189437
Based post
>>32192531 (and many others)
This is simply a specific case of the post above
>>32197228
Based post, but sooner or later he will have to learn there is no unconditional love in this world
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>>32203674
That actually shows that he was right. There are very few good arguments on this website. Most people will dismiss facts and proof outright, if it doesn’t reinforce their world view, and they will dismiss it either by using profanity or by using an image (or a combination of both).
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fuck off with the incel hate. is there really no one else you can bully? are you so low in the hierarchy you have to step on incels? this says more about you than the "incels".

whats the point to build some giant strawman, then say bro JUST DO IT? its the most pointless kind of advice i have ever heard. inceldom solved.

fucking no, the answer has to be political. feminism combined with a police state results in mass infertility, in so many countries it can not be a coincidence
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>>32223834
Fertility decline is universal across all countries including highly traditional ones where feminism is synonymous with a swear word. So no, that ain’t the reason you’re not getting laid.
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Anti-memetics for schooler-posting to help speedrun newfags out of wasting time replying
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You can do all of this and still be miserable. Read the five pages, learn the new language, take up the hobby, work out, stop jerking off to horendous shit, do the course, stop browsing 4chan, ask the girl out, etc. You can do all of this and still be misersble.

But if you don't even attempt to do any of it, you WILL be miserable.
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>>32225598
So just give up and don't even try? Got it.
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>>32189412
I just want you all to feel my pain .


Best post ever.
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>>32223834
Fork out for hooker you cheap bum
Even borrow the money off mommy
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Where the hell is everything that I've posted? I only post gold.
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>>32210824
Naah the Special Olympics athletes actually did something and they beat at least one person whom isn't a bot. Neither apply to internet arguments.
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>>32216504
I was going to post this. Thank you.
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>>32211971
Almost too late for me.
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>>32189412
Does this actually work? Have been debating about trying it for a while.
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>>32204200
Based was trying to get my brother to live it to the fullest, but he doesn't listen. He is much like me, but even I went to parties occasionally. He hasn't gone to one, and he is already around halfway through.
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>>32213781
I really just want a solid 6 whos nice and can clean up after herself.
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>>32196977
Only someone who never had it can say something like this. Teenage crushes and girlfriends are bullshit. So many completely irrelevant crap gets in the way of the relationship.
>I meaan, I like you but Cindy said that you only have 900 followers on instagram and she said I could go for Hugh who has 1200 instead
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>>32228804
It does and you don’t even need to be as radical as him. You can apply it to smaller things in life.
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Capped this the other day. Great triple dub dubs
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Bump because this thread is gold.
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>>32226155
You imbecile
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>>32229567
Explain
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>>32212230
Oh, he's a wog? That explains so much.
>>32213752
>says I'm missing his point.
You had a point beyond school will magically get you laid? Because all you care about is getting women.
This is more for other people than you, since judging by the way you type there's something fundamentally unlikeable about you that will never be fixed. I can tell from the way you type that in real life you give off a quiet serial killer type of vibe. The type of vibe where your neighbors won't act shocked if they find out you're in jail for raping someone.
Now, the rest of you, the ones with some degree of self-awareness, should find some way to get rid of that aura. Its what's keeping you back, much in the same way you can spot an AGP a mile off. Remember, other people don't think that much about you if they don't know you, they think about their own shit.
I presume most people here are intelligent enough to recognize their own failings but can't fix them. So simply take those, and search elsewhere for them. If nothing else, you can observe people in real life. Because presumably you're aware that you have to actually go out and talk to someone at some point. People who fall into your lap in your house have fallen from the ceiling, and that means you'll have many broken bones.
>>32219120
Events want more people as much as you want to meet more people. That said, try looking in local papers or community centers. You could always try conventions, but that's not quite oriented towards meeting people as other events.
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>>32229064
Will probably partake in some form. Feel like I can't reasonably do the drop everything for a week.
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>>32228804
If you had that kind of willpower you didn't need the method to begin with
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Forgot the book
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>>32231450
The Manual - A Philosopher's Guide To Life, a bunch of quotations of Epictetus
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>>32202852
Cormac McCarthy's border trilogy
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There's some solid advice in here
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bump this gold thread



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