How do I start dating in my 30s? I don't have any experience with women, honestly no idea where to start. I've tried online dating, but couldn't even get one date.
You need to quit your job and go to university again. Dating is result of regular and frequent conversations you have with women and the only way to start this process is in school (only alternative are parties but if you're a 30 yo virign with no experience clearly you have no access to those) Once in school you start conversations with women you see them and talk about your majors, classes and build from there
>>32230448This is shit advice
>>32230454its the only advice that will allow OP to speak to women and get anything he wants out of life
>>32230448lmao>>32230436go to a cooking course or an organized hiking trip or boardgame meeting. you can find stuff like that through meetups or campus/church blackboards. or outdoor fitness courses, like crossfit. helps if you live in a city. look for a quiet shy girl, talk about stuff, ask her number. make sure to show romantic interest early on to avoid getting friendzoned, but apart from that take things slowly. dont talk about being a virgin or depressive stuff in general, women like optimism.
>>32230508LMAOcooking is done alone in your housetrips are taken by established groups of friends, board games are played in their living rooms so OP is just glued to people he already knows and since he needs to ask how to meet women clearly he cannot meet girls this wayThere is nothing he can do to talk to women except for going to school. In gyms everyone is just with earphones on doing their excersises and they're always men. You are a fat fuck if you dont know every gym is just men and its basic etiquette not to try to talk to people there especially women, it was a whole fucking meme where everyone talks about how absurd it is to think you can talk to women there for years already. You already have everyones number because they're on social media, you can send messeges to every human being on the planet and none of it lets you meet in person with them. You cannot show romantic interest or even speak to any women anywhere except for schools.Your advice doesnt work, it doesnt allow for any conact with women at all. Your advice just keeps OP celibate, alone and miserable until he's 80 year old dying. Especially the number begging is obvious sign you didnt do it and are just reposting what some indians retards wrote. Everyone has social media, no one even speaks to their friends through numbers. You are completely oblivious to how real life works you fat indian incel. The only place that will ever allow OP to speak to women is school campus.
>>32230448Schoolers back Ignore him at all costs
here you go, friend
>>32230551Y'all need to stop with this fucking cope already. You don't get women and are too much of a pussy to accept you have a part of responsiblity. Boo-fucking-hoo.
>>32230436Do you have any male friends, OP? If not, you might want to work on that before you try to get a girl. The advice >>32230508 gives is good for that too, but the point is you need to spend more time outside of the house. Look for people at these events who are standing around awkwardly, they're probably looking for friends just as much as you are.>>32230448Reminder, der Schooler projects such an unpleasant aura that no one wants to be near him in real life. You do not want to take his advice or be anything like him.
>>32230551None of this is true.
>>32230619the advice other gave is SHIT its just nonsense spam that has been debunked already >>32230448He just tells OP to stay alone and celibate longer. He gives no option to ever speak to women. There is no event for him until he returns to school and starts meeting people there who will get him to event. The only "event" he has is sitting alone in his room in silence and celibacy until he dies. >such an unpleasant aura that no one wants to be near him in real lifeYou're projecting your own shortcomings. What I have is base minimum of social skills and understand that human beings speak and I know that you cannot just break into someones home hoping they happen to be playing board games. You have such high autism and eminnate such obvious incel shut in aura that no one should ever want to take your advice or be anything like you. You literelly didnt even know what a board game or cooking is you fucking retarded moron. >>32230551That's not even fucking true. OP is objectivly better in all listed categories than every single high schooler. So why arent high school girls fucking HIM instead of guys they meet in HS? They cannot have more money or be taller than him at that age. He's just forced to sit alone in his room and drink all on his own and no one even knows his passions and hobbies and how goofy he is. Instead they fuck guys who are objectivly worse than him they met in schools. Schools are the only thing that matter, you dont even get to speak outside of them as has been proven before.
Schooler is right once again.There are no such events where you can go alone and just meet people.Everyone goes somewhere with their friends.People go play board games with their friends.People go to the movies with their friends.Book club? No such a thing exists.Cooking club? What?Hiking? People go with their friends.
>>32230546I met my wife 8 years ago on a museum trip for foreign exchange stundents (I was not even in the same department as her, anyone could join). I have attended hiking meetups where we went skinny dipping in a canyon, collected mushrooms and stuff, it was worth it just for the experience and meeting new people alone, but also a great opportunity to find a girl. The cooking courses I have attended took place in clubhouses, student dorms or apartments of the hosts (again, meetup - anyone was free to join). I am in a swimming and jogging club myself right now and nobody is wearing earphones. People chitchat while jogging and we go for a sofftdrink after exercise.you seem like a person looking for excuses not go out of your comfort zone. at least you should stop giving bad advice.
>>32230811Everything you wrote is wrong. The only example you wrote which allows for speech with women is being students in university activity that no one but students could even know is happening, much less join in. As been said before, everything else cannot be done with girls, you're forced to do it alone. If you dont have a girl and go hiking, you hike alone. Same with mushrooms or cooking or swimming or jogging. You're just forced to do it alone, there's no women there at all to speak to. No one is even aware you're doing it. You cannot enter a dorm as a complete stranger, no one will let you in. Same with apartments, women dont just let strangers in, you dont even have a way of knowing which apartments have women in them you autistic retard. There is no activity to do or anyone to speak to outside of university. The only way OP can get to be in the same place as women where he can speak to them is by quitting his job and going back to university. You seem like a retarded autistic moron who got all of his information about the world from reddit and other internet spam and now get upset when a normal person explains to you how retarded you're being. You should stop giving bad advice you're obviously just copypasting from others. You should've realized how retarded you're being when you suggested this student dorm bullshit. Play out this scenario to us. How is OP as a 30 year old non-student supposed to end up in girls dorm right now, right this evening without being a student again? He cannot, he cannot ever speak to women unless he returns to school setting as a student. He will just die celibate if he doesnt return to school.
>>32230798stop samefagging. I said cooking course. here is the group that I used to meet people at my university https://www.instagram.com/piastauhh/?hl=en back in the days. look at the girls. they are all nerds and crave for some social interaction because they come from strict asian families, have little experience with guys and don't know anyone in the city. for cooking we just made stuff like chinese dumplings, mixing the filling and preparing the dough and putting everything in the dorm fridge. I have attended similar events with exactly the same type of people (but older) through meetups. as for board games, there is an open meetup that has an event every 2 weeks or so in different cafes, I have not attended that after corona though.you are just procrastinating, looking for excuses not to go out and expose yourself to critique from other people.
>>32230886So you are a student?Doesn't that prove him right?
>>32230908not him, (You), stop samefagging. you are generalizing and being overly dramatic. of course colleges offer opportunities to meet new people like in my example. But those are not exclusive. I have mentioned meetups and fitness activities multiple times. There are also dancing schools that accept singles and I can assure you the majority of people going there treat them like speed dating. Before you decide on a partner you typically go out for a coffee and stuff. They have (online or real) blackboards where you can find a dancing partner. Of course there is competition but the ratio is much better than on fucking Tinder.and those are just events I have attended personally. there are probably local opportunitiesin your area I am not aware of. and yes, I was skinny dipping with 20-something girls on hiking meetups in Spain during summer.
>>32230714Yeah, because going into a tard rage because people disagree with you is an indication you have a base minimum of social skills. Thanks, Chris-chan!>>32230886These non-university meets you've had, do they usually advertise on social media and nowhere else? I know there's meetups dot com and of course paper advertising, but I tend to stay off actual social media since I'm already on the computer too much.
>>32230646how so?
>>32231111meetup dot com is not social media, you dont really have a personalized profile there and you can prevent people from seeing what events you attend. there are just posted events and club advertisements, not current news or profile updates from friends that you would sink time into like facebook.other than that, use google and social media to find a (sports/dancing) club. you just need their phone number or web url, no need to make a facebook/instagram account. in germany this one here is popular: https://sportspass.de/as for "who would let a stranger"... dont know how it is now with zoomer generation but 10 years ago I have even been couch surfing. people were literally offering their bed to sleep in for me and a buddy from college on our trip through europe.while we are at it, I have also met a few nice (male) AirBnB hosts who we watched TV and drank beer together and played cards and stuff.
>>32230886>at my universityTHATS MY POINT YOU RETARDYou HAVE to be a student to ever be around them, in universitya 30 year old non-student will never get to speak to them. It's NOT an open meetup, its closed off isolated meetup which not a single non-student can ever even learn takes place. You are just being retarded moron who has no clue what life is like outside of universities. I am objectively correct and your whole post proves I am right.>>32231111Explaining to you how world works is "tard rage"? Lmao then you have gone on several tard rages ITT all on your own so far, you're chrichan squared!meetup.com is literelly just crypto scammers and webinars of IT workers. No women, no meeting anyone in person and all paid. It's just spam, it's not a way to meet women at all. >>32231244If you were to use google you will quickly find that there is literelly not a single way to ever get to talk to women except for schools. Your link doesnt even link to any meetup, its just a gympass you're supposed to pay for. No women, no speaking, just irrelevant bullshit to waste money on. You're just an advertising bot posting about something completely irrelevant to OP. Sports are just done with people you already know, dancing is done with your partner, so OP is just going to stay away from pussy if he listens to you most likely in his complete solitude. Meanwhile by being a student he gets to just walk up and chat with girls all over campus. There is nothing like it on yoru website which is literelly no women just give them 20 euro to stay isolated and alone. The other guy at least posted pictures of men being around women and having fun with them, but guess what? He linked to UNIVERSITY instagram page which requires men to quit their jobs and to be a student
>>32230940No, you are objectivly wrong. Everyone who asks how to meet women has no other option but university. You mentioned bullshit which does not allow for contact with women and forced OP to stay alone and celibate. There is nothing for him to do except for going back to school. Dancing schools are mostly for children, and the very,very rare ones for adults are just other incels and a rare couple preparing for their wedding. No women at all to speak to there. I assure you that not a single person would ever reccomend it for dating who has gone to any dance school. The ratio is the same as tinder, it's just as impossible as tinder or as staying alone in your room. There's no option to ever get to talk to women unless he returns to university. there are no other events, there is no other opportunity but school. If you had ever gone hiking you'd see that its literelly just walking completely alone for hours and then back. No girls, no sex, no socializing or meeting anyone up. Just passing people by without speaking just like on streets. There is no such thing as an opportunity to speak to women outside of schools/friends, it cannot be done. I have literelly entirety of human history and human literature as evidence that proves it's true, I have infinite number of books that shows women cannot speak to men outside of schools or their friends.
>>32230448Why haven't you slit your wrists like the fucking bitch that you are schooler
>>32231438why havent you shot yourself like a pathetic incel you are yet faggot
>>32231444Trips of truthI should probably go shoot myselfbut first I'm gonna go get your mom's numberno registrar necessary
>>32231244Doesn't sound too different from paper advertising, just focusing specifically on what interests you and going for.it rather than stumbling upon it. Good advice.>>32231378>samefagging>constantly hostile tone against the merest suggestion he's wrong.Okay, I'll bite, what do you think is tard rage then?
>>32231378>>32231407i am laughing my ass off. I am not sure if this is satire, trolling or schizophrenia.you are telling me there is no way to meet women in 21 century except on tinder and in school? are you for real? and even those tech meetups you speak of are full of single women, I am a programmer myself and the UX-design and data science meetups are full of cute pajeetas and other girls. lots of them came for the job from overseas and are also looking for a partner
>>32231491you must be new here
>>32231491No, tinder does not work. Women dont use it, the rare ones that do never swipe on anyone but supermodels. >cryptoscam webinars will toooootally let you meet girls LMAO you retard, does your autistic brain really not see how retarded you seem? No wonder you're laughing, you must be trolling pretending to be such a redditor. This must be first time you've seen anyone not repeat the same bullshit copypasta of random locations. There is no way but school and mutuals which is clearly not an option for OP. >>32231497of course he is, he never once seen anyone post anything except the reddit location spam and broad bullshitme being specific and realistic is unbelivable to someone like him lost in autistic chatgpt spam>>32231483everything you do is tardrage chris, everything you do is your retardedass being mad at normal people explaining to you and showing evidence that your delusions are not real
>>32231505you are the only one mentioning cryptoscam, I am done talking to you. I have the feeling I am talking to a bot here, you just repeat the shit that someone told you to say, making the conversation go in a circle.
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>>32230448Classic Schooler W.He might be a little schizo but he's not wrong!
>>32231537poo in loo
>>32231526Now that you got proven to be objectivly wrong, you cannot even imagine how to dissaprove my facts so you have try repeat back my own arguments. Pathetic. You are literelly braindead and had to copy paste my argument from >>32231505 where I called you bot. The conversation goes in a circle because you bring up some copy pasted bullshit from reddit, you get BTFO and then repeat back the same bullshit and get BTFO in the same way>>32231536The whole image is just facts. Its hilarious you think writing down all the ways in which you're wrong, and then making up some strawmensif you were really right, we'd live in a world with millions of books of exact conversations between men and women and absolutely no incels and never have a single "how to meet women" thread ever because everyone would have themthe fact there are any incels proves you and your spam of locations is objectively wrong and I am objectively right and then you springle in all these IT terms just to further proof you are some autistic retard with no idea how people behave or bond. you're just malding that someone doesnt want to shill your crypto scam website as happily as redditors do it. you're just a retarded autistic moron mad that the only normal person you ever interact with thinks you're a retard and proves you dont know how to meet women. >>32231557>poo in loofurther proof you're just some indian incel, shoot yourself now
>>32231561>you're just some indian incelUsually people talking about projection are just talking nonsense but in this case...
>>32231571what are you talking about you retardyou're the one obsessed with harassing strangers and repeating internet spam (location names) indians are the only retards who thinks harassing random people is how people form relationshipsyou should all be killed, inferior race who has no idea how human bonding worksyou couldnt even imagine how to prove me wrong so AGAIN you copy pasted >>32230714 my debunking of you from previous in the threadyour whole race cannot think on its own, cannot meet or talk to women in real society, just copypasting and being retarded and seething at normal well established people explaining to you how to be normal. kill yourself and take out as many of your race as possible with you.
>>32230448Der Schooler is correct to a degree. University makes meeting people (both guys and girls) extremely easy mode. Once you graduate, it gets harder and you have to put in more effort. HOWEVER. It is still possible and is not as doomer. Have I had success at it, you may ask? No lmao, I don't go outside besides my part-time job.
Meetups made it very easy for me to make new friends. it also made it easy to meet new girls, up to the point where I had to decide with which girl that invited me to spend the evening with her I would go out with.Though, one time I was invited to sushi...and she brought a female friend. But then I had both of them later (not the same evening though), so it turned out alright.No visiting universities was required for this. I did have some flings with highly intelligent chicks attending university though, but that can happen if you made some friends.Good luck.
>>32230811Nobody fucking makes friends that way. People have friends because they just exist in a social flow ever since school, their neighborhood etc. and make more and more friends through friends. They will tell you to go to fucking bars or parks and talk to strangers but no one makes friends that way.He'll, they would tell me that bullshit intentionally just to tell me to fuck off. I used to have "friends" where I was a third wheel, extremely one sided where I essentially has to beg them for interaction. No wonder it all fell apart.
>>32234383that is the whole point of those events, to help people without friends to find each other. exchange students, expats, high skilled temporary workers, people who lost their friends to marriages (no time to hang out with singles), do you think not having friends is so exclusive to 4chan autists? nobody said you are supposed to integrate into some group of friends who know each other since middle-school.
>>32234408It's over as soon as you turn 18 and leave the school system without a well established social circle. You go to work, but you won't make any friends, just coworkers. You join a sports club, same deal. It's over, because everyone already has their social circles locked in since childhood. You'll be nothing more than a coworker, destined to be alone for life. Social life and relationships are like trains you have to catch at the quay, a race against time that takes place during adolescence. And by extension, logically, ofc, no social life, no women.But normies don't understand this because they are clueless normies who think you can walk into a bar full of strangers and magically form a social life like in The Sims. Only women can start from scratch and create a social life and get a boyfriend from scratch because of their status as women.Whether you're 30 or not, it doesn't change anything, maybe for the normies, but for you and me, Chud, a year like any other, the sands of time flowing towards nothingness, nothing more.
>>32233684Yeah, but if you're so unlikeable that people don't talk to you at all, going to school is going to do nothing for you. Plus, if you do so as an older man with the intention of picking up women, you're going to always be that creep at best, arrested at worst. You'd think people on this board who talk of normies being able to sniff out people who haven't socialized in a week would be able to figure out that they can sniff out people who are going to college just to pick up women.>>32234421Crab mentality. If other losers would rather be alone than with you its not other people that are the problem, its you. No one likes a pity party, but if you hate everyone and throw a pity party for yourself, nobody is going to want to talk to you ever, not even if you magically went back in time.
You can waste your time hitting on every walking female, or you can pay attention to clues (or in this case "cues") to alert you to an interested woman. Smiles, staring too long, attempts to talk to you, these are all signs of interest/attraction.If you look out for that stuff you can then shoot your shot, rather than blindly hitting on every female in town
>>32234652>you can pay attention to clues (or in this case "cues") to alert you to an interested woman. Smiles, staring too long, attempts to talk to you, these are all signs of interest/attractionNone of this shit happens to 95% of the discarded males in society. Another worthless advice by woman or normgroid.
>>32231491I love that people still haven't heard of the schooler. Dude, this guy has been posting this stuff for over a year now.