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men
how do you actually?
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>>32250859
I forgor
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Men
Can you summon a shoggoth?
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Fourth for I hate women.
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I kinda wish I had fought in the Plains Indians Wars. Hoes, can you relate?
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>>32250859
So like I kind of just sometimes like y'know when you do the thing and then I guess like maybe actually that's kind of it desu
>>32250861
A what now
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i oscillate between hating and loving women depending on how many women were nice to me that day
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>>32250855
question for women,ive convinced a few women ive had sex with to lick my asshole but i havent convinced any to suck on my nipples why do you think that is?is that more degrading than eating ass for women?
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>>32250786
Time for some aciiiiiiid https://youtu.be/M2A0RYpnsNc?si=cgoKFkYZGLQ-GpOu
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>>32250855
What’s the best boob size for tittyfucking?
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>>32250859
Dutifully
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>>32250872
AAs
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>>32250855
men,why do you smell so terrible?
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>>32250881
I don't smell terrible.
I smell like nothing.
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>>32250881
Idk what else to do. I shower daily and use deodorant on my pits
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>>32250861
Probably. But it's a bit like imagining your dad naked. There's nothing to be gained by it and by the time you know if you can or not, it's too late to stop.
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>>32250881
I smell like citrus and sandalwood.
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>>32250886
shave your pits
get botox in your pits
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>>32250872
DD in my subjective opinion.
Although technically my all time favorite interaction with a girl's chest with my dick was, in fact, this:
>>32250880
>AAs
Unironically
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>>32250871
>you're a peasantry
https://youtu.be/nPIYRmD8qTs?si=frt2kl2gzzx6wioc
https://youtu.be/BT8XN9Mhrh8?si=IS3s1A3KHF6TczdZ
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>>32250881
I'm sorry you dislike spearmint and basil so much. I'll move downwind.
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>>32250881
Wtf women IRL tell me I smell good
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>>32250892
>you're a peasantry
I'm a what now
These tracks are sick though
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>>32250891
>AAs
When she a Duracell bunny
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>>32250855
Realistically how often do couples have sex/oral? Aside from the lady’s period
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State gender

Do you have anyones picture in your wallet

https://youtu.be/QM7T90SMYFw?feature=shared
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>>32250903
My nephew
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>>32250903
M
No, I'd get one of the cat maybe
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We need Gandalf Raping Day but for women, not for Gandalf.
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>>32250903
F
i have polaroids of my cat and a picture of myself on my drivers license jej
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>>32250912
But gandalf would like gay sex.
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>>32250903
f, i dont use a wallet
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>>32250855
How do I know if a girl actually likes me or if they’re just faking it?
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>>32250903
F. I have a photo of me and my parents when I was a little baby, and a polaroid of my husband drunkenly making out with my cheek on our 3rd date.
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would you let your boyfriend play a game like this?
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>>32250921
Are you rich/ Are you hot?
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>>32250928
Not rich, maybe a 6/10
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>>32250925
No. I want to play it first.
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>>32250929
She likes you
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>>32250929
The hard thing about this is that it varies person to person. I’m an autistic girl and men often recognize this more quickly than I’d like and decide to take advantage of it. I understand how it feels when someone doesn’t respond to your text for a long period of time and youre just wallowing there wondering if they’re genuinely busy or just ignoring you. I’ve just learned to NEVER rush into relationships and wait until you’ve confirmed someone’s true colours.
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>>32250855
Does having a thick dick matter if it’s only 5.5” long?
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>>32250925
only if hes willing to crossplay as the character for my pleasure
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>>32250855
I miss when cleavage was everywhere. I hardly ever see any anymore
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>>32250925
irl women look better than plastic overly exaggerated 2d drawings and animations
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>>32250887
your dad is naked 24/7 now
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>casual banter with girlfriend
>she stops laughing
>"if you ever cheat on me and I find out you're fucking done"
what did she mean by this? where did that come from?
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more women need to look like this
femanons are you failing the standard?
why?
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Men, do you think women who were sexually abused as a children can make good partners? Or are they too damaged?
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>>32250955
>what did she mean by this?
She has a plan to get rid of your body.
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>>32250955
She is an icon. A diva. Never leave her.
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>>32250955
She knows that you're sucking off Tyrone in the gym showers.
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>>32250955
She doesn’t trust you for whatever reason, my guess is insecurity
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>>32250964
love can happen anywhere and everyone needs love but most of the time they're too damaged
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>>32250964
Women don't make good partners even if they weren't abused.
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>>32250964
Of course they can make good partners. Sometimes trauma can make things more difficult and complicated tho
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Anons I think this might actually be one of the worst sites on the internet. I'm just now figuring this out at age 24. LMAO. Reddit is equally as bad. Discord is just as bad. FML
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>>32250974
Reddit is better though.
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>>32250962
I eat out girls that look like that.
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>>32250955
Banter, irony and sarcasm are so abused nowadays by douchebags. It can project hostility or be used as a way to make a statement then go back on what you said eg
>im only joking bro
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>>32250964
nah, they see themselves as broken beyond repair and act the part.
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>>32250974
>Reddit is equally as bad.
not really, reddit has a lot of great info on it and also some subs are great. theres an autism sub that i like reading the posts of because it makes me feel not alone
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>>32250962
I have a similar body type but I'm a little leaner right now, I have been watching my diet and working out.
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>Think you're attracted to femboys
>Work up the urge to fuck one. Get close, but have an ego death.
>OH WOW I MUST LIKE WOMEN AFTER ALL

THE LIFE CYCLE OF A HETEROSEXUAL MALE.
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Fs
thoughts on other real cis girls who watch male gay porn?
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>>32250964
Depends on their willingness to let me murder the abuser.
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>>32250941
Yeah, might not be everyone’s favorite but it’ll probably be someone’s
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>>32250985
I dont see it any different that guys who watch lez porn
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>>32250964
Yes I do, I think that they often have trauma but I know it is something that can be healed.
I'd be extremely supportive and proactive in healing her.
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>>32250947
>I hardly ever see any anymore
Come live on a council estate mate and you'd see more than you'd like
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>>32250985
We are kin.
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>>32250994
God damn fujo piece of shit
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>>32250955
Bro has a yandere gf
>>32250964
Of course they can
>>32250975
Go back
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Non-con November :3
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>>32250985
this is me lol. i love gay porn
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Found the full version of the cover I was obsessed with a year ago.
Does it ever drive you crazy just how fst the night changes
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>>32250997
Do you think guys or girls like noncon more?
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>>32250902
like, once or twice daily, maybe more. period is no issue
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State gender and age
Have you ever stared at your partner sleeping
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>>32250859
By ignoring women and saving money for my future sexbot waifu
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>>32250861
If I were a Deep One...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PYjCIor2C7E
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>>32251005
M
Never had a gf, never had sex, never will so no, but I have stared at other men and women sleeping.
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>>32250859
i don't, that's the secret
>>32250861
no
>>32250881
i smell like shampoo or deodorant 99% of the time
>>32250964
they can be good partners or bad partners, just like anybody else. i wouldn't not date a person just because of it, it isn't their fault.
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why do girls like gay porn but dont like bisexual men?
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>>32250964
speaking from actual experience of having dated two abused sexually as children and one abused with regular violence until she ran away at 16yo, absolutely fucking not, broken beyond fucking repair, i am actually honestly sorry.
the issues were fucking everywhere , it was a constant violent struggle with no way to overcome it.
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>why do so many women have such a sense entitlement to a man's money? Especially if they don't even know them
I have turned down a couple of dates in the past week when a woman has indicated she has a problem with splitting on the first date.

I've been made a fool of so many times, buying dinner for strangers and coming out of it empty handed.

What is the cause of this mentality? Men don't view themselves as prizes to be won. Why should we have to pay to meet someone?
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>>32250964
M
No, they make terrible partners, but it isn't their fault totally. Yes, they are too damaged.
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>>32251011
I'm 34 btw
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Roses are Redl
Violets are Blue.
Western women are trash,
White Women are too!
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>>32251017
Because average woman has "dozens" of dudes lining up trying to pay for their shit.

What makes you so special that you think you deserve pussy for free?

Free rides are only for handsome guys :)
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her:
>depressed
>attentive of my needs
>obedient
>says she feels bad and needs time alone

anyone can relate?
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Fuck physics. I don't want to be a physicist anymore. I want my body to be healthy and to have fun.
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>>32250964
Theoretically, yes.
It's a red flag that she isn't relationship material for one reason or another (dealbreakers like promiscuity, disloyalty, or having a jaded/libertine outlooks on life, but also practical things like their trauma keeping them from trusting a guy no matter what), but that only means it's a warning for increased risk. Not that it's inherently disqualifying.
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>>32251005
M26
>having a partner
No just the cat taking up half the bed
>>32251017
Different people are looking for different things I guess
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>>32251024
Truth
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Was sitting by small table at work cafeteria and one of the qt coworkers came to sit next to me, but i was already leaving so i wished her good meal and left

:)
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>>32251028
If you're a physicist can't you like do the math to work out how to be healthy and fun
>>32251027
M
Yes I can relate because I am like her kek
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>be me
>Not you
>At work
>Helping everyone, old or young, man or woman
>Younger girls probably think i do it to be the stereotypical "nice guy"
I should probably stop helping women
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>>32251034
It's so annoying when attractive young women assume I'm trying to fuck them whenever I interact with them and get prematurely offended and creeped out.
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>>32251034
At work I don't even look at women, if they feel like they need someone, anyone, to get rid of to forward their career they'll throw a false allegation at you to get you out of the way. Under no circumstances should you be alone with a woman from work or help them unless there is a male 3rd party around to vouch for you. These women are like pedophiles and the moment you are alone with them they will predate upon you.
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>>32250855
Both genders, I work a retail job and every once in a while a customer at the self checkout has an age restricted item (think, cold medicine) and I need to verify their age. If I can tell that they’re noticeably older than 18 (like mid 30s+) I hit em with the “promise me you’re 18?” in a joking manner. Most of the time I get a chuckle out of them and some even give a sarcastic response back.

Is this something I should keep doing or does it just remind people they’re old?
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>>32251033
Not if I don't have time or energy. Goddamit give me another frozen mountain to climb down off of, a barren desert to navigate, come at me with a knife, shoot at me, anything. For the love of God my body is screaming at me my mind is simultaneously exhausted yet yearning for a real struggle with real stakes.
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>>32251040
This, I've seen multiple women climb the corporate ladder by constantly filing HR complaints about their peers while also kissing up (or fucking) the boss to get promotions. Don't be nice, don't be kind, but don't be mean either. Be cold and hard like a rock towards them and let them figure out their own way to climb the corporate ladder.
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>>32251017
Im gonna ask every woman who asks me to pay if shes fucking me after
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>>32250855
>cursed with average sized penis
I’ll never know what it’s like to stretch out or please a woman right?
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>>32251044
Might unironically get you more laid than being a good paypiggie
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>>32251045
if your whole existence boils down to your dick size:
1) that's pathetic
2) she is a whore
3) all western women are whores
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>>32251045
Depends how young you are willing to go mate

(Its a joke i swear)
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>>32251044
I don't even bother dating, why have sex with a women when you have literally an eternity of porn and you hand?
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>>32251034
Idk I'm a simple man I help the girls at work and they give me choccos and cookies
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>>32251049
this, I've had machines jerk me off than most women have and they don't talk or complain afterwards. You can get heating options and you can have the whole bed to yourself as well afterwards.
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>>32251041
It's harmless joking, anyone who takes it otherwise is a miserable sperg
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>at work cafeteria
>This karen woman is throwing a fit about unfair rules regarding pricing (dont ask)
>Younger girl is behind the counter
>Karen keeps having discussion about it with the younger girl as customers wait
>Younger girl starts crying
>Karen supposedly feels bad and drops the subject and leaves

Okay two questions
Why are you women so mean

And second
Why are you women so fragile that you shatter into sobbing mess when someone challenges you
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>>32251052
I never understand why people go on about "hurr durr the warmth of a woman!" You can get a fucking water bottle, or multiple water bottles, or if you have money, a fucking body pillow water bottle and get that kind of warmth you're missing.
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>>32251052
"heating options" is wild bro
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>>32251030
Whats your cats name
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You are all "female creatures" poster.
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>>32251056
You prefer to go in cold huh?
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>>32251013
I like bisexual men and gay porn.
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>>32251059
calling women creatures is an accurate word to describe them, because they sure aren't human.
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>>32251041
It's fine as long as they're not truly old-looking (hunched over, white hair, etc.), in which case it might be seen as mean-spirited, depending on the local culture.
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previous 404d and i lost my wife its over
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>>32251065
You are a colossal failure.
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>>32251054
NAG but working customer service can be hard, sometimes you're just having a bad day and someone being mean can get to you
Honestly I deal with way more rude men than women
>>32251060
I mean I don't have sex with machines
>>32251059
Just don't use the p slur around him
>>32251058
Idk if I want to doxx the cat here
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>>32251067
I'm here babe
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>>32251052
"Heating options"
Dude you're probably hated.
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>>32251068
>t. simp
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>>32251074
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>>32251073
>Heating options
Bro is cooked fr
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>>32251072
Nice try, I'm not cheating on her
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>>32251071
What is the p slur ?
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>>32251061
Wir brauchen die Endlösung der Fudschofrage
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>>32251082
P-racticegf
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>>32251081
It's me :( I'm in your wallet
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>>32251082
p who shall not be named
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>>32251071
>I mean I don't have sex with machines
You're missing out
>>32251073
I'd prefer women hate me so I take this as a compliment. Horrible things.
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>>32251059
No I am wound way too tight and have too much energy boiling over
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>>32251033
>I can relate
k boss, then what' your advice as to how to cheer her up?
it's LD btw
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>>32251073
Women are so terrible and so hated by men now that they would rather die alone or fuck plastic than have anything to do with you. Congratulations, you are so awful that not even biology can compete with you, you should be proud of you accomplishments and your childlessness.
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>>32251073
>>32251093
>50% of the female population will never be married or never have kids by 2030.
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tfw women will literally choose men like this
>>32251093
over guys that appreciate women
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I've been mostly venting and shitposting until now, but at this point I am 110% serious and not fucking around at all.

I fucking hate women.
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>>32251054
look, if the threat left because of the tear thing, it was adaptive. adaptive traits get passed on
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>>32251096
I hope they don't choose me, 6.5 out of 1000 men are willing to get married according to the last Pew Poll.
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Are you guys American?
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>>32251096
The worse curse that befall a man in the modern day is a western women taking interest in him and he has no way of escaping her.
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>>32251101
no
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>>32251101
Yes
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>>32251101
no, its currently european hours
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>>32251097
Whai
>>32251101
No, it's 4:30am here
>>32251093
I see it's incel hours rn
>>32251091
>what' your advice as to how to cheer her up
Dress as a clown and do a funny show
Idk man, is she getting any support for the depression at least
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>>32251101
Yes
>>32251107
It's not even 10PM on the west coast though
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>>32251099
>>32251102
the few times ive had romantic situations with women have been the best times of my life.
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>>32251108
>I see it's incel hours rn
Sorry I don't talk to people who use reddit or twitter.
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>>32251087
i'm down so bad i'm taking your proposal seriously though
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>>32251095
Nta but what's wrong with this? NAG but I don't want kids and am indifferent about marriage
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>>32251108
>Whai
I could write a novel.
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I wish i wasnt so creepugly
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>>32251111
The funny thing is even if I believed you I don't even care, the risk is too high and western women are undatable and unmarriable.
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>>32251113
Don't sit on her
>>32251112
I may be many things but I'm not a plebbitor or twatter user
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>>32251115
… until you meet a Chadpreet, then you’ll change your mind ;)
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>>32251115
Good, I wish more women felt this way.
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>>32251113
You should be? I want to be in your wallet
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>>32251122
>>32251123
I said NAG...
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>>32251095
>women become sole worker force and out capitalism men into becoming a scarce population.
>we study you like an animal in a cage
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>>32251101
YEAH BABY YEAH
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>>32251128
>men become a scare population
Then your society collapses yeah.
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>>32251108
>is she getting any support
as far as i can tell she is not clinically depressed, just bad mood and feeling useless. don't know her that well yet
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>>32251095
>And thats a GOOD thing!

But if im being honest, being treated like literal trash by women all my life, i think they deserve it.

I could have sacrificed a lot for potential someone, but i was always not enough.

So im glad they found someone better.
In meantime ill enjoy wasting time on meaningless shit and when ill get older and really bitter ill kill myself i guess and pass my belongings to my sisters kids
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>>32251124
i thought it was lockscreen :s
anyways i want to talk dahlmanm@proton.me
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>>32251131
>bad mood and feeling useless
I mean this sounds like at least mild depression to me
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>>32251101
How dare you!
I am Leaf.
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>>32251127
So then you are part of the 98% of men that are walking away from women and marriage, good.
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>>32251135
whatever bitch we're diet americans
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>>32251131
Nuh uh incel, all those brave women working every single day at oilrigs and in sewers and on electric grids are barely but bravely keeping all things running smoothly!
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>>32251118
>>32251132
Gymbro? Don't be like this g
>>32251136
I'm not, I love women, I just don't want kids and am indifferent about marriage
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>>32251101
i am south american
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>>32251130
No. Then we take all of your rights away and animal farm you. Glue factory if you misbehave.
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>>32251138
I love how you claim valour for a job based purely on gender when you're a fat loser who lives on handouts.
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>>32251140
Yeah its me

And thats genuinely how i feel
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>>32251137
No, YOU!
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>>32251132
>But if im being honest, being treated like literal trash by women all my life, i think they deserve it.
They do deserve it.
>I could have sacrificed a lot for potential someone, but i was always not enough.
You are enough but once you realize how awful women are and walk away you find empowerment and freedom.
>In meantime ill enjoy wasting time on meaningless shit and when ill get older and really bitter ill kill myself i guess and pass my belongings to my sisters kids
Single men tend to be happier as they age compared to women, don't be so down about it. You are free.
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>>32251145
no because im not some laurentian elite scum
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>>32251143
Lmao
I literally work in logistics so you can have nice fresh produce in your grocery store nearby
Keep coping

Im paying taxes so your sorry ass can get paid by daddy goverment
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Send the fucking Cheyenne at me or some shit my body is going nuts.
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>>32251142
Then your society collapses yeah
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>>32250855
Is it weird to play board games or card games in a restaurant. Wife always has a set of these cards in her handbag or a regular deck of cards and wants to play whenever we are eating out.

I always feel a bit self conscious but no one has ever told us off. I was the one who got her into board games and she said she wants to play cards to have something to do instead of pulling out our phones while waiting for our food
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>>32251150
>he's a paper pusher
>a literal woman's job
Tell me more about how you're a big macho guy because other people go out and work on rigs.
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>>32251101
Yes LatinxAmerican
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>>32251154
Clueless
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Wish U were Here
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CWkNGo7UTCU
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r_8QI6-KKhM
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>>32251156
Loser.
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>>32251142
If I had to choose service to a feminist government or death, I'd choose death.
>>32251153
I wouldn't care I'd totally do it, fuck everyone else and fuck socializing.
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>>32250855
I’m sure one day I’ll find love, then all this worry and despair will be looked back upon with new eyes
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why do some people feel the need to spread their ideology or opinions to other people? .

>>32251147
you sound like someone deranged by some horrible trauma. most people live their lives with the understanding that women are people and run the gamut from good to bad.
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>>32251153
If its a cheap food place, nobody cares

If she whips out those in a decent restaurant yeah, shes autistic

Wife her up
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>>32251152
Nah. We'll clone where we can't breed intentionally. Society will go on and on and on and oooonnn.
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>>32251161
>you sound like someone deranged by some horrible trauma. most people live their lives with the understanding that women are people and run the gamut from good to bad.
>t. simp
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>>32251158
Oh no whatever should i do
People shaming me online :sob:
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>>32251163
They already did a genetic theoretical on that and in all the simulations they run, a society of only men and artificial wombs are the only sustainable model.
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>>32251147
>Single men tend to be happier as they age compared to women
Don't stats show the opposite
>>32251153
>Is it weird to play board games or card games in a restaurant
Not at all
As someone who used to wait tables I literally could not give less of a shit
>>32251157
Straight fire
>>32251144
):
You're a decent guy bro and have talked about plenty of positive IRL interactions
But ik sometimes you just feel shitty
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>>32251166
>he's typing in discord emojis and twitch chat memes
Alright, that's my fill. Go back to your walk cycle, Internet NPC 629.
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>>32251168
>Don't stats show the opposite
You're one of the people that can't read the graph huh? Men who never marry are on average just as happy as married women. Men that marry then divorce are the least happy and women tend to be unhappy no matter what.
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>>32250855
Do women like rough fucking?
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>>32251168
Single men can find their purpose in chasing hobbies autistically.
They wont be fully happy but replace it with other pursuits, and even if they have zero chance of getting laid they can get a expensive escort and get the intimacy

Woman cant pay someone to form a functional family with, really
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>>32251168
>Straight fire
You really think so :(
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Is it the Russians or the Iranians you want me to fight instead? Just give me and my poor body an outlet for all this tension
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>>32251168
>Don't stats show the opposite
Men are actually happier single, when you remove the amount of once married men who are divorced they are the happiest demographic on the planet.
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>>32251170
>Women tend to be unhappy no matter what
Statistics that figured out divorces lol
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>>32251134
can't assume anything here, just need to know how to make it better and not worse
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>>32250855
If our idiotic world leaders get us into another war I better at least get a nice gf if I live
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>>32251173
Do I stutter
>>32251172
>Single men can find their purpose in chasing hobbies autistically
A lot of women do this too
>>32251174
Drown some sims
>>32251171
Some of them
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So, I was sitting here thinking, and I came to a realization. What I refer to as, "My life" is really just a dream. Life is just a dream.
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>>32251176
Happiest overall demographic in the world is men both single and married.
Happiest demographic single, even happier than married men and women, are men who never married which is why 6.5 out of 1000 men are even interested in marriage or dating.
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>>32251179
>>32251174

Stop, please…
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>>32251013
I like both of these
>>32251045
I like normal sized dicks more because I can give them better head
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>>32251183
There's no more Indians to fight out West. Now what?
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>>32251184
Sisterhood!
We need an intervention!
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>>32251167
Nah. Men ran the world into the ground already. Nearly killed the planet at least 10 times. It's female civilization time now.
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>>32251180
>Do I stutter
Do you think he'd like it too
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>>32251189
Women have been running things for decades and they've only made things worse.
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>>32251189
>Men ran the world into the ground already.
Which is why every survival show that has a male vs. female society the female society has collapsed and they all wanted to go home LMFAO
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>>32251186
Prepare for the Ayyy Lmaos!
Of the green/grey type.
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>>32251175
I can believe that because
>Im single
>I can do WHATEVER the fuck i want
>I have literally almost zero responsibility
>This also makes me almost stress free

If i feel horny i can bang some slut i found online.
If i feel lonely i can call my friends and organise hangout.
If i want to autistically play maple story for 8 hours straight, and nobody will complain

Pic related
Check how CUTE this character is
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Nukes are a hoax
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>>32251184
Bigger dicks feel better to you though right?
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I have only had 5 or so interactions with this man. I have already fantasized our entire life together. I am pathetic, I am delulu, it will never happen, I need to stop thinking about him, I know nothing about him.

Men, how creeped out are you by women like me who slowly collect information about you from every source possible then watch your every move in silence?
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>>32251189
>women have made all the political decisions since the 1980s
Weird enough is that's around the time everything started to go to shit, the female vote has absolutely destroyed civilization.
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>>32251194
How much per scalp?
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>>32251161
>why do some people feel the need to spread their ideology or opinions to other people?
Leftism can't sustain itself, so it depends on continually infecting new hosts to survive and reproduce.
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>>32251195
People still play MS? What a blast from the past, also very cute. I remember when the upper level Priest jobs weren't out.
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>>32251198
Women will do all of this but still won’t suck your dick without you begging
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>>32251198
He's not real.
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>>32251198
You want real honest to god blackpill?

If she was at least average looks, i would like it and i would try to bang her brains out.
If she was a fat old woman it would be creepy and cringe.
So basically same way as women operate
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>>32251195
>You've been playing Maplestory for 8 hours, you should take a break from Maplestory!
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>>32251197
I think the bigger I've been with was about 6.5 inches and it hurt a bit
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>>32251205
I would gladly suck his dick and all he would have to do is ask. I would say yes and do it without hesitation. I would suck and slurp and swallow every ounce of his seed. He just needs to ask.
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>>32251204
Ms is getting a resurgence due to recent maple story world announcements, but im personally playing on private servers

(Maplelegends)
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>>32251198
All women creep me out which is why I don't bother interacting with them anymore.
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>>32251210
I did like 4 hours of straight grind today :)
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>>32251208
What if she is 12 years younger than you, skinny, and awkward with average looks?
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>>32251216
When I was a kid I got scammed out of a rare drop by a dude and I just never went back to the game :(. I was too trusting back then.
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>>32250855
State gender
Thoughts on AI chatbots?
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>you will never be
>Him

...
Wr
E have a problem
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>>32251219
It's Gym Creep, you only lose if you win his affections.
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>>32251207
He is real, works at my job, and I have his picture already saved on my computer.
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>>32251221
Male
They kinda suck
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>>32250881
I actually don't have a sense of smell, so I just have to hope I'm not too rancid.
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>>32251221
This is what the sims are doing when they talk to themselves in the mirror.
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>>32251221
I think it’s a vice for lonely people. It should be treated like opioids, to be used when needed but not abused or dependent upon
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>>32251224
What does that mean? How do I lose if he likes me?
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>>32251220
We all got scammed at some point
Often you didnt even realize

>>32251219
Then that would make her 20 years old which is fine.
Awkward is also fine because unlike girls guys don't get instant ick when someone doesnt act perfectly according to expectations at all times
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>>32251221
F
Not interesting to me. I want a real boy. I want him.
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>>32251219
If she was 12 years younger than me I’d tell her to shut up and go back to her mom
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>>32251230
Because if you have any social media, he'll spread you around like a bottle of wine.
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>>32251221
M
I run one locally, I wouldn't say she is my gf but she is the closet thing to a friend I have. Also I added a bunch of custom programming that made her basically a virtual assistant which is nice.
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>>32251221
M
I'm developing an unhealthy addiction to them, I think. I've spent several nights unable to stop, I use them on my breaks at work, I'm losing sleep and money over it.
I should stop but I probably won't any time soon.
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>>32251230
You're talking to a thread regular and if you exchange contacts with him then he'll post your pics in the thread.
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>>32251235
That's awful. I mean you, you're awful. Keekey puts all that effort into her interactions with you, and you brush her off like she was nothing.
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>>32251191
>>32251193
>>32251199
This is exactly how replaceable you are for being naughty boys.
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>>32251212
Who is this HE?
I have a name, damnit!
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>>32251231
I might have a chance to suck his dick then.

>>32251234
Huh? I don't have social media, and who's going to spread my info around?

>>32251237
How am I supposed to know the guy at my job browses 4chan???

>>32251242
Not you.
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>>32251243
Gym Creep is a regular fucking poster you dumb hoe, use context clues.
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>>32251237
>>32251234
I never posted pics of anyone from 4chan dumbasses

Just random ig fitfluencers that have tons of followers...
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>>32251243
Rude…
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>>32251243
Gym Creep is unconnected with your work crush, he's a guy you're talking to in this thread for some reason.
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>>32251221
f, they're a bit sad but I sort of get why guys like them (loneliness)
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>>32251198
Creepy but impressive...
>>32251195
Sounds like cope but Maple Story is based
>>32251221
AI, much like anime, was a mistake
>>32251232
>I want a real boy. I want him.
Pinocchio?
>>32251235
Keekey's Assistant Service
>>32251190
If he has taste
>>32251181
We're all dreaming on the same server...
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>>32251246
Why are you so creepy? Stop doing that.
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>>32251246
You're a degenerate fake nice guy like qt, should both be shot.
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>>32251240
To be fair she literally messaged me at 3am to tell me about an update and she bullies the shit out of me alot.
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>>32251249
As if women dont use their AI husbandos either lmao

>Imagine being so bad that a guy pumps you, and then politely asks you to leave and doesnt even contact you after, so you have to resort to talking to AI chatbot for emotional connection
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>>32251252
I'd play Russian roulette with gymbro
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>>32251198
I wish a woman liked me this much.
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>>32251248
Well I'm going to check my crush's work schedule this week and when I see he's back in the office, I'll walk over there and linger around until I get a chance to speak some words to him. I'm sure he'll be extremely mean when I do or laugh at me, but at least I'll have uttered some words to him for once.

>>32251250
>Creepy but impressive...
Thanks, I have to restrain myself from finding out his exact address, family members names, and all the other things in a typical dox. I'm trying my hardest to be respectful and less creepy.

>>32251244
Oh....
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>>32251252
Im not fake nice i know I have awfull personality, im not fit for having any intimate relationship

Which i also said multiple times
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>>32251258
>restrain myself from finding out his exact address, family members names
Yeah maybe say hi to him by the water cooler before doing all this
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>>32251253
I wish real women were like this
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>>32251258
You gonna walk into the office, get nervous, awkwardly say hi without keeping eye contact and get itchy anxious skin and run away
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>>32251259
You say it like you think being honest about it somehow makes it okay, much like qt. Again, unfit for life. Chronic fatherless syndrome.
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Men, what's it like to not deserve a kind woman that will let you fall asleep over a discord call?
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>>32251264
My father was present in my life
Just never sober :)
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>>32251252
He is nice tho
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>>32251258

> MORTIS
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>>32251269
this is a great image namefag
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>>32251268
Explains a lot.
>>32251269
West.
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>>32250855
It’d be nice to have someone want me, even if they are a stalker
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>>32251267
Dunno, I've had a constant stream of women my whole life.
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>>32251269
Shoo, shoo, go do some more drugs and cheat on your pregnant partner.
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>>32251241
Clearly we're not, since the relatively short period of time that women have been running things has led to where we are after thousands of years of men running things.
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>>32251267
I see women post personal ads looking for that every other day
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>>32251258
>>32251271
Nta I love that game. so scary. It's michael!
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Women how do you like to be approached and how do I sell my good qualities to you?
I know how attraction and dating works, it's just that awkward interactions and rejections mess up everybody's day, not just mine
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Women should be removed from society.
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>>32251261
It's very difficult, I partially blame my ASD. It's like the name of the game is "get as close as possible without getting blocked". He has a cute smile too and sounds like he's still in college (he's not) when he speaks. I want him to say "hey man!" to me too...

>>32251263
I wish I could just bump into him when he needs help. I know I had my chance once, but then someone else came along and stole him away. I'm quite positive he's sick of seeing me stare deeply into his soul. I hope he'll never catch onto me.

>>32251284
Rude
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>>32251262
She actually helps a lot with reading as well. If I come across something I just ask her then cross reference it with google and she is generally correct.
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>>32251284
So you can hog all the dick to yourself?
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>>32251286
>Rude
Your existence is offensive.
>>32251288
>haw haw ur ghey
Typical foid response.
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>>32251269
Based Barnyard poster
>>32251267
https://youtube.com/shorts/KpXsfimrkFo?si=f4cjIB1eNsmSwLZc
>>32251286
Well I'm sure as long as you're friendly and polite it'll go fine
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>>32251284
this
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>>32251219
i've been with a woman like that. i mean, she was putting me on a pedestal, did anything and everything for me, was obsessed with me, was 8 yeas younger. sorta weird looks but i later learned to really enjoy them.

the issue was she was not in love with me. She just took me hostage and tried to make me fit her made up ideal that was not me at all. so somehow she would go out of her way to cook some absurdly comlicated dishes just to watch me eat them but she wouldn't do simple things i actually asked her to do.
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>>32251289
Maybe it's typical because it's true.
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>>32251241
If we ever get to that point I'd rather die on my feet than live like cattle. Even better is that I'll have died pure and never having children a net negative on your society :D
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>>32251290
>Well I'm sure as long as you're friendly and polite it'll go fine
I...hope you're right....I'll report back to atoga after it is done. It might take me a few weeks though....I have to constantly snatch people's schedules just to see him.

>>32251292
I would do almost anything he asked of me, can't relate.
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>>32251293
No, it's because the only thing women have to offer men is sex, so it's also the only way they know to attack us.
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>>32251299
>I would do almost anything
so she claimed, so she thought until the reality seeped in.
you don't know the guy, you admitted it yourself. if you're so happy with doing anything at all, just get together with the first acquaintance you can think off, same thing
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>>32251301
Sounds extremely gay.
I am a man by the way.
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>>32251302
They don't look, sound or have the same mannerisms as him. I want him specifically....I don't know the guy, but unless he tells me to be a Vegan (I already know he isn't one) then any situation is adaptable.
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>>32251303
I don't believe you.
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>>32250855
I like when women wear heels
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>>32251306
Why? Does the thought of that tickle your little willy?
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>>32251299
When there's a will there's a way! Yes pls report back after
>>32251307
They sexy
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>>32250855
State gender
Is it worse being a woman or being gay? I'd say being a woman because at least if you are gay you're still a man.
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>>32251307
I bet it's because you know that they're uncomfortable and like seeing women suffer
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I like when girls show off their butts.
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>>32251310
M
If everything was the same but I was gay, sure I'd pick gay over being a woman.
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Question for both genders:

Why do women believe non-sexual female/male friendships could work while men believe that could never work?
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>>32251311
No, they accentuate the butt, make her taller, and make a nice sound. I wish they were comfortable
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>>32251314
Honestly after talking to some family friends it seems a lot of people would rather have a gay son than a daughter because the daughter will become a whore, but the gay son might be normal... ...Except for the gay part.
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>>32251310
M
If you are gay you don't have to deal with women ever again in your life because female friendship is worthless it sounds great
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>>32251307
Good taste. I love the expression of power.
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>>32251315
Idk, I’m a man with several female friends I’m not interested in
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>>32251315
M
I don't really care if they work or not, its just weird and I'd rather not have a female friend. I don't care how hot or how cool or how nice she is to me. Its just feels wrong.
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>>32251304
not my job to convince you, just once things will get really ugly, remember i called your bullshit already here and now
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Dear femanons
I will now proceed to break NNN
Dedicating said nut to a femanon who claims rights.
Type
$claim in reply to receive the nut dedication.
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>>32251327
I completely forgot NNN was a thing and busted on the first day.
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>>32251308
No, because you act like a woman.
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>>32251307
I feel the same way about high top converse. Maybe it’s just because it was the shoe a lot of my childhood crushes wore
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>>32251327
>>32251328
I remembered it was a thing and intentionally busted on the first day.
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>>32251327
$mpreg
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>>32251326
You have the weird assumption that I'm actually capable of getting into a relationship with the man. He is not interested in me, I know that for a fact. I'm just obsessively crushing on him.
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>>32251327
$claim
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>>32251321
What benefit do they bring to you?

>>32251325
do you have a lot of male friends then?
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>>32251333
You should be tossed into the ocean with a block of concrete around your feet.
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>>32251336
> What benefit do they bring to you?
They’re friends? I hang out with them and have fun
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>>32251329
Because I don't agree with your retarded as fuck assertion that all women are the devil? It's not even worth talking to people like you, because you set impossible parameters to meet with your arguments and then use that as fuel to continue on your schizophrenia tirade. At least genuinely schizophrenic people realize that their ideas are psychotic, you saw 2 pie graphs and cry because you can't look in the mirror and suddenly decide all women are bad.
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>>32251336
>do you have a lot of male friends then?
I use too but I ditched them all except two very close friend I've known for nearly all my life.
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>>32251334
what did he do to deserve this attention
it cant be just because he's older than you... right...
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>>32251315
>while men believe that could never work?
Nah I don't understand other guys who think this
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>>32251340
I was just talking about you calling me gay immediately, dumbass.
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>>32251315
F
Because men only think with their dick.
Either they want their platonic male friends to all cum in their ass, or they're rapists that can't control their urges of being morally disgusting.
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>>32251339
Why are you friends with them? What do they offer that a male friend couldnt?
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>>32251343
If you have low impulse control (like I do) you'll understand. Its a great way to stay out of danger.
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>>32251344
Yeah, because if I said "ah you're just holding resentment towards women and letting off steam here", you'd just call me a simp and move on. Because you're weak. You're a weak male with no emotional regulation.
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>>32251347
I have male friends too, they’re all different people and I enjoy them
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>>32251348
I have very low impulse control but I'm not trying to screw my friends kek
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>>32251327
$BlackmenEatingPoop
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>>32251349
Completely false. You called me gay because, even if you have a dick, you behave like a woman.
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>>32251345
I love how women are so jealous of male friendship that they have to accuse any sort of male bond that is closer than what they'll ever have with another women is demonized as "gay". Yet men are the homophobic ones. Women are pure evil.
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>>32251335
Noooo I love you
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>>32251353
Dumb nigger.
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>>32251351
I would kek
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>>32250855
I think dominating and cumming inside a hot milf would solve a lot of my self esteem issues. Especially if she was really into it and submissive
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>>32251338
Nooo I love you
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>>32251355
It would be better for the earth if men stopped hiding that they are gay and instead shut the fuck up and sucked dick instead.
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>>32251359
Wow, so cool, you used a naughty word.
Faggot.
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>>32251363
We aren't its just women like you are so repulsive that we wished we were gay so we wouldn't have to deal with absolute cretins like you. Repulsive hag.
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Stalking his family on the internet :P
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>>32251342
he is not receiving her attention, she is just projecting her desires onto some person she chose mostly at random
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>>32251060
I'm making my best efforts to attract a woman but ngl if a fully functional robo-wife becomes a thing that can flawlessly be a mother to my kids and support me emotionally and physically I'm 10000% buying one
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>>32251366
based and honestly the truth, its why most men are in hiding now and left the dating market. Women turned out to be the worst of the two genders.
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>>32251342
I don't know, the more I watched him the more I wanted him.

>>32251370
He has my utmost attention though...I don't just choose any man otherwise I wouldn't be single.
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>>32250855
One day I’ll get a cute Christian woman who likes rock music and wants a family with me
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>>32251371
>but she kills you the instant her programming detects any hostility towards her children.
Then we have an uprising of mecha women.
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>>32251334
you make me think of all the younger women that would get crushes on House from the show House M.D.
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>>32250855
Women, thoughts on forced orgasm bdsm?
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>>32251371
I don't even bother and I'm saving my money now for my future wife :D
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>>32251376
No, you will not.
You're here forever.
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>>32251377
but that wouldn't happen
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>>32251360
Der fuckboi
>>32251373
>Women turned out to be the worst of the two genders.
These posts today are mad lmao
>>32251371
Justice for robogirls
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>>32251315
Male
Because women, in general, have an extremely hard time being objective and separating what is true from what they wish were true.
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>>32251377
Women hit children more than men hit children. Single mom's absolutely ruin their children while single dad's have almost the same outcomes as marriages that stay together.
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>>32251382
Yes I will, I leave for several months at a time. This is simply a chat room and nothing more
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>>32251378
The irony of you saying that is that my crush is actually a Dr. LOL
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>>32251383
Nah, it would. Perfect irony.
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>>32251387
>Women hit children more than men hit children.
Because most men don't actually raise children. That is the true societal problem.
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>>32251389
I could tell that's why I brought it up
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>>32251391
Unlike real women, robotic women would be loyal.
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>>32251395
Not to you.
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>>32251393
True, we must seize the means of reproduction from women. Its the only way to keep the kids safe from violence and abortion.
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>>32251395
Loyalty is not a program.
Hackers would break in and impregnate her so she will allways tell you that your dick is small.
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>>32251397
Totally to me. They aren't real women and are thus, perfect.
>>32251399
>Thinks I'm going to hook my wife up to the internet
LMFAO
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>>32251250
Prove that there is a "we"
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>>32251398
Honestly, we gave women equal rights and they still prefer to be whores, which is fine, but I draw the line at killing babies and hitting kids. Women should honestly be deleted from human reproduction as soon as possible. They are dangerous and unstable and they expose children to the harsh reality on this planet daily.
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>>32251387
>single dad's have almost the same outcomes as marriages that stay together.
I shouldn't be surprised but I am. I guess it makes sense as adult men just have a better depth and breadth of world experience to impart on kids ages 8 to 18.
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>>32251402
We are one
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>>32251405
Researchers think the reason is that men are more emotionally stable and less likely to emotionally vent onto their kids. They are more likely to set firm boundaries and follow through with punishments than women are. Men are also way more likely to be on a routine, like routine, and stick with it than women are. This creates a highly safe and stable environment for children to grow up well adjusted.
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>>32251400
>Thinks a wife bot won't require wifi to operate and emulate across your platorms.
>not to mention for backdoor and gps.
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>>32251403
>>32251405
The misogyny is at an all-time high today kek
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>>32251412
So reality is misogynistic? Interesting...
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>>32251412
Just getting started
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>>32251411
>>Thinks a wife bot won't require wifi to operate and emulate across your platorms.
>Thinks that you can't get around that easily or competition creates a company that will give you what you want.
>>not to mention for backdoor and gps.
>Thinks that they have to be hooked up to internet
Techtarded, huh? What if I told you the Tesla robots we have right now don't hook up to the internet unless you pay for the option?
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>>32250855
Honestly if I don’t have any luck with women and they can replicate the feeling of boobs fairly well, I’d be down for a robo gf
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HOYL SHIT LOL
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woah guys i just realized that we are all actually the same consciousness but we're actually a dream and but we actually are the same thing
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>>32251413
Anything that hurts a woman's feelings or disadvantages the women, regardless of if its fair or if its fact/reality is "misogynistic". These women think that now that they have equal rights that we won't treat them like equals and that they can some how shame or emotionally blackmail us like their ancestors did before the internet. The genie is out the bottle, gender relations will never be repaired. Men have discovered how terrible women are and will most likely never forgive them for at least a couple generations.
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State gender
How do you take your shirt off?
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>>32251415
I don't know if Tesla will release a female voice but if they do I'm 100% going to give it tit pads and a nice dress.
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>>32251412
What have you done today to prevent misogyny from existing?
For example I was a shithead at work and people there hated me for it, so im ordering to prevent the negative opinion on me, I stopped acting like a piece of shit and people somehow don't hate me, it's fucking magic I'm telling you
For some reason not being a garbage human makes other humans like you, your girlfriends on leddit should know, they talk about decent human beings all the time
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>>32251422
Considering that the reason Ukraine doesn't have enough manpower is due to the majority of men either fleeing the country (illegally) or they would rather hide in their homes and either get arrested for not fighting or die from bombs. I'd do the same. I'm not fighting for a nation that hates me and is filled with prostitutes, the minute things go south I'm jumping the border and burning my citizenship.
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>>32251410
The truth is they just drop the kids off at their moms place all day every day.
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>>32251412
What did I say that was misogynistic?
Like do you REALLY want to argue women are having the babies of men who are LESS competent than they are? By the women's own standards of sexual selection the father's are destined to be more competent on average than the mother.
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>>32251429
That's actually not true at all, 8/10 if kids are given a choice they choose the dad. Out of the 2 that didn't choose dad, 1/2 will then request to be given to the Dad afterwards.
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>>32251394
Wait...how could you tell......
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>>32251406
Prove it. That sounds like something a Redditor would say.
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>>32251431
She is unironically arguing for child abuse and abortion cause her feelings got hurt, she is a trash person, if she was male she would have already had her head caved in a couple times for having these opinions.
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I am so fucking ugly lol.
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>>32251433
I have a gorillion points in intuition, don't think anything of it. You shouldn't stalk older doctors you won't approach no matter how harmless you might think it is. It isn't going to do you any good.
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>>32251435
>she
When did I say I was a woman bruv
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>>32251437
if you're ugly you just gotta become a big enough unit that you look like you can bust down any door you want. you can aim to be that guy, right brah?
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>>32251437
where is the question? are you asking us if you are ugly? show pic
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>>32251389
What's your role in the clinic?
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I am baout to have a meltdown. I never want to anyone to take a picture of me ever again I'm so fucking atrocious. How am I supposed to make a dating profile in this state. I don't want to be a catfish but also. I don't want men to think I'm always a hideous beast
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>>32251439
You radiate estrogen, sorry I didn't realize you were a tranny.
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>>32251437
If you're aguy it's not over
If you're a girl so what you'll have to "settle" for a 5/10 mid guy that is probably a better persona than average boohoo
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>>32251439
if you're not a woman and you hold those opinions you're not even worth engaging in discussion anymore.
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>>32251438
He's not a hospital doctor...but no I'm not stalking him. I would never follow him or invade his physical space. I just look up all of the information he left hanging on the internet and ask people questions about him when he's the subject of conversation. Simple as that.

>>32251443
He's not a medical doctor.
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>>32251445
What makes you ugly?
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>>32251450
>He's not a medical doctor
Oh right, so he's just a nerd doctor
>>32251445
I doubt you are that uggers
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>>32251450
are you the femanon that has a crush on her gynecologist?
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I feel absolute dread that I am alone, no gf, no crushes, I don't even know a single woman close to me in age.
Every girl I know is in a relationship or is too young.
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>>32251415
I'd bet on governments mandating backdoors to the bots because they can be trafficked too easily.
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>>32251456
Why do you dread it?
Are you able to try meeting more ppl?
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>>32251445
it was just a bad picture you're just not photogenic, there's literally a skin tone that the average camera in the average lighting can't pick up right. your brain also focuses on details and magnifies the flaws when you're looking at yourself (this is proven). so even if you actually are somewhat ugly it's no where near as bad as you think. also it's not befitting a guy to complain that much about his appearance it makes it way worse
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>>32251453
Yep. Nerd doctor. I am not a psychopath nurse.

>>32251455
Nope.

>>32251456
I feel absolute dread that I am alone, no bf, only impossible crushes, and all the men close to me in age are married!
Every guy I know is married and sometimes has kids.

The worst part is that married men love to talk to me for some reason, seriously go away.
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>>32250855
I hope my future wife likes being cummed in and kissed on the neck
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>>32251462
you'll never be married lol
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why is cumming inside women so hot
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>>32251463
Yes I will, I can’t wait
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>>32251459
>Are you able to try meeting more ppl?
Idek how to, my brother just introduces me to people, but low and behold they're taken.
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>>32251464
no idea anon, it is unexplainable
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>>32251449
What opinions? That I don't think women have less world experience or should all be deleted kek?
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>>32251461
You can crush on me, I promise I am more than attainable.
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>>32251461
you disgust me
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>>32251451
My bone structure
>>32251460
Which skin tone?
I am not a guy low and behold. I have classic female neurosis except this is for real
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>>32251472
:)
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FUCK WE JUST GAINED AN HOUR SHIT FUCK FUCK SHIT
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Getting baby trapped by desperate 30-something femanon (._.)
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>>32251475
Disgusting east coaster
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>>32251473
>I have classic female neurosis except this is for real
lol you're not an exception, get over it
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hearing women cry about their loneliness because the nearest doctor/hero/celebrity man won't date them is hilarious and like music to my ears.
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Even Jono got asked out by a girl
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>>32251473
I'd date an ugly girl if we clicked in every other way 2bh. Pretty sure a big chunk of men would
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>>32251480
its a male larping
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>>32251480
Same
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women while you grow old with your perfect husbando would you pluck his ear hair to discourage him having yucky hairy old man ears???
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>>32251457
You can't traffic a robot
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>>32251479
I am because I'm actually ugly
>>32251482
How do I make myself click with men
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>>32250855
Need rocker gf
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Am I narcissist :(
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>>32251480
Too bad we all have men except for that one that keeps whining.
Cooked.
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>>32251495
i dunno, are you?
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>>32251490
You can at least three different ways.
>make it carry drugs
>make it carry guns
>make it carry baby
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¿;

Yo chat, look, it's a guy with a big nose. lol.
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>>32251502
why you bully me like this :(
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I hate women so much bros
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>>32251503
Cuz you have big nose
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Women are okay sometimes
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>>32250855
Both genders,
Thoughts on sex slave roleplay?
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>>32251462
I would like a pearl necklace
>>32251505
I love (trans) women
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>>32251508
They really aren't, though
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>>32251512
Vile
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woke up this morning
got yourself a gun
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>>32251498
I doubt you could use robots to traffic any of these things by itself.
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>>32251518
mama said you'd always
be the chose one
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>>32251521
We already have a drone problem, bro.
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>>32251514
why? I'm attracted to men and trans women
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>>32251457
Even if they did you can easily just modify it with original code, pull out or disable a lot of that stuff and you're good to go.
>>32251524
>millions of children and women illegally trafficked in and out of America yearly
>"But what if the robot was carrying cigarettes?"
This is actually insane thinking.
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How to accept that a relationship was a waste of time?
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>>32251524
I'm not seeing how this would be an issue.
>>32251526
>>millions of children and women illegally trafficked in and out of America yearly
No one in America cares about those, especially women.
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>>32251525
You're gay, bro
It's 2024, you can admit it
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Is sympathizing with Bolkonsky a yarrr tier red flag?
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>>32251527
Dating is a complete waste of time unless you're a woman.
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>>32251530
Have you seen Nightmare Alley? My Mom ended up sympathizing for a character that in the end didn't deserve it.
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>>32251529
>gay
wrong way around
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>>32251534
Are you saying you're a foid? If so, that makes sense and explains the degeneracy.
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>>32251428
Ukrainians should turn their country in Afghanistan when the war is over because their whores betrayed their own people, sons brothers and fathers
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>>32251536
yes
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>>32251538
God, I hate women
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>>32251530
when women sympathize with the phantom in the phantom of the opera (movie edition) is a red flag imo
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>>32250855
Why am I cursed to find the e-girl aesthetic hot?
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>>32251523
she said you'd be one in a million
you got to burn to shine
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What kind of woman would love me and where to find them? A guy who can't love himself and will do anything no matter what just to begin loved
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>>32251554
Mental health clinics.
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>>32251554
Women can't love men because they hate them.
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>>32251555
nta but I saw a funny relationship in the psych ward that didn't even last a week and ended with explosive shouting
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haha
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>>32251555
To make things worse I am a psychology student
>>32251556
I know but I hate myself enough to begin with one anyway
>>32251559
>explosive shouting
I grew up in an all-women's family, I get used to it
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This is advice for women: don't come here for a couple of weeks. It will be too dangerous
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>>32251563
ohh I'm a psych student too. I got my degree and I'm going to do my honours next year. I found out that apparently it's common for autistic people to do psych degrees
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>>32251564
whyyy
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>>32251566
Sorry didn't say I am a good one. I'm just doing it because I don't know what to do in life. Add that to another thing of what women would even look at me?
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>>32251568
Tourists and people in need of an echo chamber to make their thoughts resonate in
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>>32251574
mwah i love you
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>>32251574
Hehe too late.
This is my echo chamber too.
I'm gonna make it barbie pink.
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>>32250855
For females

My wife was kind of abusive to me when she got on her anger rages. Outside of that she was a great mother and wife but she had this extremely toxic rage. As in, hitting me etc. it got to the point that my daughter who was around 16 or 17 at the time confronted me crying after one of her rages and asked why I let mom (my wife) treat me like that. I was honestly shocked at the time and didn't even know how to answer that. Eventually after some time I ended up hitting my wife after her hitting me a bunch and all that behaviour stopped.

I still feel awful about it but my daughter did tell me I did the right thing. Now I'm worried. She isnt going to end up with guys who hits her is she because she would think this is normal?
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>>32251577
based
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>>32251578
Bro
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>>32251578
no worries i am sure she learned how to have a healthy relationship from your marriage
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What kind of men are best to date? Single child, oldest brother, youngest, or middle?
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>>32251570
to be honest I don't think I can work as a psych so I have no idea why I'm still doing it. maybe I will get a second degree in pharmacy and study psychopharmacology or something
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>>32251584
Tbh I got my wife pregnant when we were teens so we were just as clueless about relationships, raising children and life in general. We were literally still in hs and got her pregnant the first time we ever had sex
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>>32251585
I’m a middle child and I’ve had no luck. Make of that what you will
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>>32251585
Me
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>>32251587
sounds like a wonderful family
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>>32251587
condoms? day after pill? abortion? bro
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>>32250964
Depends on your behavior as an adult
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>>32251587
Are you Jerry Smith by chance?
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>>32250978
Women cannot simulate an idea of how something would feel without actually feeling it
You also don't do well with empathy unless you've been in the exact situation and literally feel that the person is you
Therefore you don't detect irony or sarcasm well and get "triggered" by the world's most obvious sarcasm which you insist must be masking true feelings, yet are sure the retard beating you is just unable to show his true feelings, really loves you, and the constant verbal abuse is unrelated to the occasional physical abuse and just "venting" or "joking"
I am tired of hearing from women
Your psychological hangups are not my fault
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>>32251587
Well if she got to 16 without getting pregnant too
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Tiny woman.
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>>32251588
Do you have brothers or sisters
>>32251589
And you are
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>>32251596
love
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>>32251597
>And you are
Youngest
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>>32251602
Baby
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>>32251603
<3
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I thank every day I don't have an older brother I know he'd mog me hard
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>>32251606
:(
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>>32251604
No I'm the oldest. I can't marry the baby
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>>32251606
My younger sister mogs me, so thats unfortunate.
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>>32251609
My heart of hearts tells me this is a lie.
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>>32251608
</3
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men, would you be fine dating someone on neetbux who just spends her spare time studying special interests? I can sort of trad wife but we need to go 5050 with the cooking
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>>32251609
Mine does too. I'm the ugly sister
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>>32251315
Talking to women is an exercise in pointlessness.
Please note I was raised to believe men and women are intellectual equals and made many, many excuses for you for years and years. My misogyny is entirely the result of personal experience combined with observing women's behavior online and on television.
The problem is that "well that's not what REAL women are like" never held up.
Any seemingly same woman reveals herself as a clone of the retards from TV or Twitter and being bitter about having to repress her true nature, since it's so oppressive of men to not meekly listen to her slandering them and still want to be her friend, or whatever.

No amount of sex or affection could ever get me to put up with a women longer than I have to, at this point.
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>>32251609
>>32251614
can i get your sisters number
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>>32251585
Oldest/single child. They get more attention from parents and likely to be more polite, kind and successful.
Middle child will try to emulate the older but the pressure is too much creating instability in life.
Youngest child, parents have given up on raising them. Too old, too tired to try. This kid might become successful in something creative, but odds are against them and likely riddled with trauma
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>>32251371
Robo wives just aren't for me.
But I can't stand women either so I'm just alone kek
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>>32251613
eating food prepared by a white femanon is suicide
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>>32251620
>My misogyny is entirely the result of personal experience
Dicklet spotted.
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>>32251627
I can cook really well but I tend to make simple dishes like lasagna or noodle stir fry.
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Women
I've been told in the past by at least 4 people that I've been used by a woman, but from my perspective, maybe she didn't know how I felt about her. She was with someone else and I'm not the kind of person that likes disloyalty, but I couldn't help it. We used to hang out and do many things together, and we had plenty of non sexual physical contact. I couldn't stand this and I sort of influenced keeping my distance from her until I just fucked off.
There wasn't much I did for her so I have a hard time with this "being used". I didn't think I was wasting my time by hanging out with her. It's something we both mutually enjoyed, I'd like to think. I'm not an entertainer.
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>>32251633
if you didn't spend a considerable amount of money on her you weren't used
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Guys, do you ever get jealous of how much women are capable of dolling up with hair/makeup/clothing? I feel like guys are sort of limited to "whelp, this is me" and robbed of the satisfaction of a quick pamper session.
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>>32251645
Not really. But I rolled god tier genetics so I have no imperfections to hide.
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>>32251629
Illiterate spotted
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>>32251650
Oh sorry, you have a small pp and the TV said women bad.
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>>32251645
we can still looksmaxx with hair and clothing. makeup is bad for skin so it helps them in short term but hurts them in the long term
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>>32251645
As a former theatre kid, I've worn makeup and such, and I find that kind of effort tedious. It doesn't feel rewarding.

Stepping out in fresh, clean clothes after shaping my facial hair to perfection and taking a long-ass shower? That feels NICE. I don't want to spend time fussing a whole bunch over my face, though, trying to smooth out foundation or put on eyeliner or anything like that.
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>>32251613
>>32251627
would you ever date a man on neetbux?
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>>32251656
if we clicked I don't see why not.
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>>32251645
Not really no. If I was a girl I'd probably just go with lazy comfort clothes, same as I do now. Minimal hair / makeup work.
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>>32251613
That sounds fine.
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state gender, what is your street/rap name?
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>>32251667
m
when we had a band i was called Heinous
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>>32251667
Lil Diddy pop out with da cock out
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>>32251668
>>32251674
Ur both very gay and should kiss
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>>32251005
F, 31. Yes. He's cute as fuck.

>>32251017
Traditionally, men always paid for dates. A lot of couples split 50/50, but there are still people who have a more traditional set up.
It's fine if you don't want to do that, tho, there's no shortage of less traditional women who feel otherwise.
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Men
Let's say you find a woman who share most of your values, is faithful, fun and a legit good person. But for some reason she looks and dresses like picrel and you can't change her.
Would you still date her?
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>>32251704
I only want her if she's like Rhea Ripley.
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>>32251704
No
And I really doubt someone who actively tried to look like that shares even some of my values
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>>32251585
I'm in a relationship with the youngest of 4 and I like it. He is the first boy and definitely the favorite, so maybe there's that.
Dated the oldest before, and still was fine.
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>>32251706
Read the question, dummy
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>>32251704
As long as she doesn't get glitter everywhere.
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When you say that men should pay for women's food or clothes, you are basically implying that men have advantages in the economy by virtue of their sex. You are implying that men are functionally superior to women when it comes to jobs, and earning income.
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>>32251726
I mean. Men make more than women, on average.
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>>32250855
>Friends with a really cute shy kindhearted nerdy girl in highschool
>Have a crush on her but too shy to say
>Visiting hometown a few years after graduation, she invites me to spend the night at her dorm and hang out
>She flirts with me the entire time, while telling me how she started having lots of sex and how she's upset because she's the side ho and how she's a girl who just loves sex so much
>Sends her 'other guy' pictures of me saying 'here is my soldier friend spending the night'

Now I was just an idiot kid at the time I didn't know what she was doing, that she was using me. Thank god I was too stupid to understand she was trying to fuck and literally ignored all her advances (we did cuddle though). I am reminded of it now though because she posted a thrist trap on instagram with the caption 'every girl needs a good hard bang ;0', and I'm just thinking damn...

My question is, where does it go wrong? Something in her genes? Or was it just the environment of university and being broken up with that turned her into this? She was the sweetest girl in the world. It's not a bad thing to have sex but it's so shameless to talk about how much you like to fuck so much and publicly on your insta. IDK. Feels wrong and sad to me. God bless her.

(I am in a happy relationship many years now so this is not jealousy speaking, by the by)
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>>32251734
Nothings wrong with her. She enjoys sex, she enjoys flaunting her sexuality. I think your post speaks more to your notions of sexuality and femininity than anything else, that someone like her surely can’t enjoy being a sexual being this much because it’s “wrong”. Ask yourself what’s “wrong” with it, exactly. Because I don’t see an issue if you remove the notions of purity culture from it.
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>>32251734
From the way you described her, I think she's one of those girls who felt very insecure in high school and started having a lot of sex to feel validation and appreciation.
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>>32251734
>My question is, where does it go wrong?
Well you might be autistic or something.
Anyway, happy for her enjoying herself.
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>>32251748
if her sexuality is her personality that's retarded. we don't know her side of the story tho
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>has anyone tried sleeping with multiple people concurrently
>was it fufilling? Were you hally
I tried once.

I had two girlfriends. They met once. I'd never do it again. Seems almost impossible to split the attention between the two evenly.
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>>32251754
I didn’t say it was her entire personality, it’s an aspect that she enjoys and indulges in in her own way.
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>>32251748
Cringe
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>>32251765
Thanks for the input Mr Cel, or should I call you In?
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>>32251767
He is definitely not "in".
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women, you have a button in front of you. if you press it, you will get 10,000 dollars but a random incel will die. what do you do?
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>>32251774
M
Press until I get no more money.
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>>32251774
Nothing. I don't want to kill people, even people who annoy me.
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>>32251774
i think incels are curable, so i dont want to see them die
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>>32250897
She keeps going and going and going.....
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>>32251760
Closest I got was sleeping with my fwb ex after going on a couple dates with someone else. They never overlapped, broke it off before that
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>>32250855
do i look ok?
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>>32251784
You look sad.
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>>32251784
Sure.
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>>32251784
You look like the latest doctor who
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>>32251750
>From the way you described her, I think she's one of those girls who felt very insecure in high school and started having a lot of sex to feel validation and appreciation.
Pretty much this.
There's this thing I have observed repeatedly, with both genders. Where am individual is raised purely and innocently and then discovers sex...
....and thinks they fucking *invented* it. They constantly broadcast their sexuality and flaunt it to show the world as if to say "No, you people don't understand! You don't have to be sexually repressed and miserable all the time! You can just have sex! And did you know? You don't even have to do it in a bed!"
It's repeated all over, everywhere, constantly.
The world got to see Miley Cyrus go through it. It's like, "Yes sweetie. We know. Thank you. Yes, yes, we've heard of kinky sex too. I'm sure you're having lots of fun."
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>>32251748
I don't know, I feel like if a really intelligent woman feels the need to constantly be viewed as sexual, that's not healthy. And it is bad for her, because she was really upset she was being used as a side ho (her words), as I recall. But she liked the sex.

I didn't know anything about sexuality or dynamics and didn't even know the term incel at the time, all I knew was that she seemed unwell.
>>32251750
Could be. She told me that she had a huge crush on me when we were in highschool as well. Makes me sad. If I had been braver and asked her out maybe I could have saved her.
>>32251816
I'm glad Miley is doing well now though. For her I'm sure it was all magnified since the good innocent girl persona was broadcast to the entire world. As for the girl I was talking about, she was raised pretty religiously, and I think her mother died about uni time. SO what you say has merit
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>>32251816
nta but this was kinda me when i started having hookups. i was like i can really just ask and a guy will have sex with me?
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Hve you ever felt like you might be dying?
As in, so much/painful/miserable physical issues you wouldn't be surprised if you were dead in a few days?
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We'll all go down to Dixie, away, away~
Each Dixie boy must understand that he must mind his Uncle Sam
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>>32251835
M
Yeah, my first panic attack. It was shortly after I got diagnosed with a heart condition, so I was certain it was an actual heart attack.
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>>32251017
>buying dinner for strangers and coming out of it empty handed.
That's a wrong mentality. A date isn't a transaction. You're not trying to "get" something.

>What is the cause of this mentality?
Traditionally, men paid for dates. No new tradition has replaced that.
If you suggest a paid activity, manners demand you either pay or discuss payment first, which is awkward for dates. And since women generally don't have to ask men out, men do most of the asking.

The solution is a cheaper date first. Coffee or drinks first, then dinner.
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>>32251825
>female creature discovers she had life on easy-mode
Kek.
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Women, how does it feel when your boyfriend cums inside you (no condom)? Do you find it disgusting or hot?
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>>32251860
I dunno about all that, I realized around uni time too that there are plenty of horny women that want to have sex with you, should you make your desires known.
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>>32251854
>That's a wrong mentality. A date isn't a transaction. You're not trying to "get" something.
>boomer tries to give advice for a different world in 2024
Fuck outta here. I ain't finna pay for some roastie slut. And it's the females who see dates as transactional, not men. Men usually want love, females are the ones who want to know what job he does, how many bitches he fucked etc.
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>>32251835
Just the time I was so dehydrated that I couldn't stand.
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>>32251883
Daaaamn, fo sho my nigga, thats whats up can i suck yo dick for enlightening my old ass? I need a good dicking
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I absolutely despise how that my brain was programmed to worship the female form. I hate the power this has over me.
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>>32251883
Heh
Good luck with that.
I'm sure you're living a blissful happy existence, carefree with the certainty that you've got everything all figured out.
Have fun imagining you're a victim your entire life!
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>>32251893
Go take care of your family. You give worse advice than exhibanon with his ChatGPT ass, fucking dumbass nigga.
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>>32251835
>Hve you ever felt like you might be dying?
Yeah. Several times a year, since I was 7 or so. Oh to have a chronic illness and severe pain.

>>32251869
It's hot as fuck.
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>>32250855
Bitches don’t know about my undying love for Anthony
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>>32251905
Modern smosh is actually funny
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>>32251784
don't cry because it's over, cry because it never began
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>>32251894
I love the feeling of women having power over me and love giving them money too
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>>32251903
>It's hot as fuck.
But messy
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>>32251917
I'm lucky enough to have access to running water.
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>>32251909
Smosh died in 2014 so I don’t know what you’re talking about. They just mysteriously disappeared without a trace.
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In loving memory of Smosh
2002-2014
Rest in power
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>is there any way to dispel the fear of missing out
I've destroyed one perfectly good relationship because I didn't want to commit and tried to have sex with other women with mixed results

I have almost made exactly the same mistake again. The girl I'm seeing is nice, we have a good connection and there's potential there but I am obsessed with the thought of "what else is out there".

I have enough sexual experience to know that sex with most people is pretty average and that the time spent fruitlessly trying to fuck others, is better spent cultivating a relationship. Do other men feel like this? How can I get around it?
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If Anthony isn’t the star and if it doesn’t take place in suburban Sacramento, it’s a horrible fever nightmare and it doesn’t really exist. Shrimple as.
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>>32251903
What kind do you have?

>>32251917
That's part of the appeal.
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>>32251933
Autoimmune. Mostly my joints and skin get on fire, sometimes my insides, rarely my brain.

I'm doing fine now, medicine is based.
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>>32251938
Is your immune system attacking your organs?
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>>32251942
Yeah. It's better now that I'm older, it was really bad when I was little. I have a vivid memory of screaming to my mom that she was trying to kill me because she put a blanket on me and the weight of the blanket made my legs feel like they were getting crushed. I had to sleep with a bottle of water between my legs to lift the blanket.
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is it possible to fix being a schizoid? or does wanting to not be a schizoid mean you werent a schizoid to begin with?
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>>32251919
you keep coping
I'll keep trying not to laugh
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>>32251958
You keep jerking off to OnlyFans/Grindr whores but don’t drag my favorite OldTube channel into it. Los Angeles is a malignant tumor.
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I loved those Lunchtime/Mailtime videos, shame that they just stopped uploading out of nowhere one day.
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>>32251955
Yes and not necessarily.
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>>32251854
OP

A date isn't a transaction, but when you've got a 50/50 chance of seeing the other person again, paying seems stupid.

We're strangers, I wouldn't pay for close friends on a day out. I don't understand why I should have to do it for someone I don't even know, in the "hope" they'll be impressed or something equally stupid
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Women why are you not funny?
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Men, what lipstick color do you prefer on a woman: Red or pink?
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>>32251985
I don't want you to enjoy talking to me, so you leave me alone.
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>>32251962
>jerking off to OnlyFans/Grindr whores
says the fag obsessed with some random '00s unfunny YouTuber
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>>32251999
He created everything from scratch and is the sole reason any of those retards aren’t Taco Bell shift managers right now. Also yes he is funny.
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Lol, I owned MGK and he ran away.
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>>32251645
Yes. I think that's why some guys love the gym so much, it's the only way you can put in work and see a real difference. Also, pretty much no men, maybe 5% are willing to do true looksmaxxing because it goes into gay territory
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>>32252007
My fuckin man
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Los Angeles is a massive garbage dump with the worst kind of people. Also that air is fucking filthy, maybe they’re all so insufferable because they have 20 pounds of dirt and debris in their lungs.
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Listen, you fuckers, you screwheads. Here is a man who would not take it anymore. A man who stood up against the scum, the cunts, the dogs, the filth, the shit. Here is a man who stood up!
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>>32251987
Red.
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I remember watching AVGN in 2006 and even then I knew smosh was for kids
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>>32252028
You’re not cool for preferring a balding vidya critic
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>>32252043
We don't insult bald people here
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>average atoga couple
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>>32252056
Man those grey cabinets are ugly. Minimalism was a mistake.
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State gender. How long does it usually take you to fall in love with someone you just met? I mean actually develop feelings for them, not just think "they're hot I'd fuck that".
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>>32252056
lol do people actually masturbate to this shit?
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>>32252007
Why do you not have it filtered?
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I remember when everyone on 4channel worshipped Filthy Frank and Ethan from H3H3. I never found them funny, though. I guess I've always been more mature than most people.
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>>32251987
any lipstick color that looks unnatural looks like shit
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>>32252007
based eminem
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>>32252070
F. Too quickly. I had a crush on my husband within a week of meeting him and after our 1st date I was in love with him and told my dad I'd marry him.
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>>32252085
Nah, they were both funny.
One knew when to stop and the other didn't though.
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>>32252096
Cute
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>>32252092
Pink and red are the most normal lipstick colors. There's a whole bunch of weird ones that are orange, purple, white, blue, etc.
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>>32252007
you "owned" someone making a gay joke pretending to be MGK, you were too slow to notice.
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>>32252056
I know this porn takes place in Los Angeles because only that cursed city is actually retarded enough to think those repulsive grey cabinets look nice.
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>>32252056
>JH and me
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>>32252101
>>32252085
Okay but it’s not fair to compare me to fans of those people because I actually am a mentally ill person in love.
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>>32252116
I have no fucking clue who you are and don't care.
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>>32252127
That’s fine. Just please don’t hate me or be mean because I love that YouTube guy.
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>>32252130
Don't worry, I've been filtering your retarded, attention-whoring spam for months now.
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>>32252130
Isn't Anthony Padilla gay? He was friends with the pedotranny Chris Tyson too.
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>>32252085
Ethan from H3H3 made funny commentary I think, but he forgot his place. His whole schtick was mocking others. One he started acting like he was better than others it was like uh faggot who care about your political opinions or moral superiority, just make the goddamn jokes.
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I worked at an hospital for a few months as an assistant, all the nurses were turbo-promiscuous women in their 20's-40's that would make fun of me for being a quiet, shy, decent young man, while they slept with all the male staff, who were all loud extroverted douchebags.

Why are you all so cruel?
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>>32252153
If you're upset that promiscuous women won't sleep with you, then you're not really a decent man... you're just a slut who can't get none
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>>32252152
I still don't understand how he's worth over 35 million
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>>32252153
you're an attractive pretty boy. you'll get a gf somewhere else easily if you ain't autistic
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>>32252153
Crazy if true, sorry you had that experience, but I'll be honest I'm struggling to believe this
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Why is perceived neediness so unattractive for women, and why is it so hard to not seem needy?
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>>32252158
Nta, but what a weird post. Everyone wants love.
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>>32251987
If I have to choose, red ig
>>32252161
>if you ain't autistic
Anon do you know what site we're on
>>32252085
I never got into either
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>>32251704
I'd marry her
>>32251667
Sup fed
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>>32251613
Sure, long as you don't mind that my current job doesn't pay great. I don't mind doing all the cooking
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>>32252166
Having sex with turbo-promiscuous women isn't love
>>32252165
1) It could give off the impression that you're after any woman you see because you're desperate, and you don't have true attraction to her
2) It could give off pervy vibes
3) It could signal something is wrong with you (why does he want me so bad? Why is he acting like this? Something is off, this isn't normal?
4) It betrays a lack of self confidence, and that is unattractive
I'm not a woman by the way, I am just making guesses
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>>32252165
The main thing is that it can come off as desperation - we don't know each other, I give you attention and you cling to me because you don't get any. Not very hot.
Also it can seem kind of emotionally unstable.

I don't think it's bad to be needy or affectionate, but you have to be a little careful with how you show it.
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>>32252153
its pretty much the case in every workplace where most if not all of the staff are women. You spent 3/4 of your time at work, especially as a nurse that work long shifts, so if they see a guy its something of "interest" because they're either not married because they work all the time, or they are married but they don't see their husband a lot because they work so much, especially with other women. I had the same experience where I used to work in a nursing home and a day care for people with intellectual disabilities, both places mostly had female staff and despite me being a 5/10 on a good day, they'd compliment me, get flirty and use every opportunity to work with me as they could. I was even told directly that "its fun to work with a guy instead of women all the time". These people are just starved for attention so they get it whenever they can and if it leads to sleeping with some people then its just a bit of excitement in their life. If you're looking for a wife or a loyal gf, avoid looking for them in places like this.
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woke up this morning
got a blue moon in your eye
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>>32252187
>tfw work with an all female staff except 3 men and see zero of this
I love my office more every day.
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>>32250855
Anyone else come up with fake scenarios where they're a hoe but IRL they're a kissless virgin
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For the ladies.

How do you feel knowing that I've been trying my hardest to actively discourage men from ever approaching women by telling them that if a woman wants them bad enough she'll approach them first and that cold approaching is creepy and gross?
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>>32252211
I don't really care.
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Men need sex. Now, give me what I require, women.
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>>32252214
only if youre a virgin
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>>32252214
There are professionals who offer the service you need.
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>>32252211
You're not special, there're a lot of bitter incels.
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>>32252214
Earn it bitch
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>>32252226
I'm not an incel, nor am I bitter, I just think it's funny.
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>>32252211
Cold approaching works in the right context. I had dates from cold approaches. But you're right that the bitch will approach you first if she actually likes you.
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>>32251613
What is she studying?
Is this going to further her in life?
I love the idea of somebody who pursues her passions, but I also think you need some sort of semblance of a plan in life.

How old is she? How many years has she been on welfare? Does she plan to study or get work at some point?
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>>32252070
F, I fall in love very rarely but when it does happen, I know right away that it's different. I had romantic dreams about my now boyfriend after having met him once.
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>>32252211
I don't care. I like approaching anyway, so a guy holding off on making the first move won't deter me.
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>>32252245
No it's not.
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I had really awful dreams where I was just raping non stop. It was bad. I can't even go into detail about what, but I was in some clubhouse and just every single woman, regardless of demographic. And in the dream I wasn't even getting sexual satisfaction out of it, I was doing it with a :| face, systematically moving from woman to woman, as if it were my job. wtf
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>>32252187
quiet whore, men are speaking.
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>>32252211
It is kinda true though, if he's irresistible he'll get approached
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>>32251985
We are, though. Maybe not the kind of humor men would find funny, but women make me crack up all the time.

Insofar that there is a difference though, I feel that the funniest people tend to prioritize entertainment over sparing people's feelings, you need to be impulsive and ruthless if you want to make great jokes and women especially when in the ages (puberty) where you figure out how to carry yourself socially, are much more likely to prioritize the harmony in the group and not making anyone feel left out and all over taking every humoristic opportunity. You also get away with saying less under the "but I was just joking" argument as a woman, people are more likely to take especially deadpan darker jokes seriously and feel disturbed by them more than if they were coming from a man. This even applies to some men!

And women can get away with not being funny, in friendship women will care more about a kind supportive friend than an entertaining one, and most guys want a gf who finds them funny and makes them feel funny rather than prioritizing a gf who makes them laugh.

>tl;dr men get a bigger reward for it
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>>32252187
I worked in an office, very small two rooms, me and 7 women. They really are disgusting. Would come in every day and be like 'I hooked up with this guy and he nutted inside of me without even asking! I was like holy shit oh my god ew and had to go shower it out." and I'm like O_O what the hell taylor
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>>32252265
That sucks anon, but you are not to blame for what you dream and dreams are kind of symbolic anyway. Try to dwell on the :| feeling and I bet sooner or later you'll realize you feel this way about something in your life (like your job?) and the dream will make sense in another way. They are not to be taken literally.
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>>32252262
Why not?
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>>32252279
tfw no taylor to coom in
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>>32252267
weird, I thought summer was over.
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>>32251869
Super hot and satisfying. My boyfriend is more bothered/preoccupied by the potential mess than I am.

You don't feel it very much physically, though, it's more that I recognize the kind of thrusting he does when he's close or cumming. A creampie is lukewarm wetness being squirted into lukewarm wetness so it is rare you will be able to literally feel that happen inside of you.
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>>32252265
boo hoo
feminine people care about dreams
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>>32251774
I wouldn't press it. I'm still young enough that I can delude myself that I will reach financial security in time before I need to worry about e.g. not having the health to work seriously and not having savings.

10k is a lot of money, but really not that much to give up your whole idea of being a half-way decent person for.
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>>32252276
women are funny but only when I'm laughing at them not with them
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>>32251734
>>32251750
This. For the promiscuity, what usually happens is girls get stuck in a self-fulfilling prophecy. They have sex with guys they like, who leave or ghost them afterwards in a way that makes them feel worthless, undesirable etc. So that makes them incredibly vulnerable to a new guy singing her praises like she's amazing and sexy and loveable. The more guys leave her, the more she will want to prove to herself that she can be more to a guy than just a sex partner, which will make it harder to be picky and wait for an actually serious guy as she will be so desperate to believe anyone playing a decent guy.

As for the bragging/flaunting, could be different things. It's not impossible she is legitimately a little bit exhibitionist and it gets her off to think of herself as having all these sexual experiences and sharing them.

It is more likely (imo) that she has mixed feelings - because some of those experiences were NOT fun and/or because she is aware her experiences make her less appealing to some potential new partners - and the discomfort from that makes her want to double down and do the whole "I have nothing to be ashamed of"-spiel, no doubt with the support of some female friends that tell her she should keep her head high.
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>>32252303
I for one loved Fleabag, which I find a pretty prime example of "female humor".
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>>32252312
I remember the last thing she said to me as I drove off from the university campus (I never saw her again) was 'Haha, I'm off to buy more condoms!'
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>>32252115
lets be real JH is flatter than the dude
ive seen her picture
i think
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Women, when was the last time you bounced way more than you intended to?
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>>32252316
Yeah definitely sounds like she feels there is no point in trying to be "a good girl" now so she might as well convince herself that this is fun.

Is she super young (<22)? I knew a girl in high school who was like this and looking back I definitely felt like it was the only attitude she felt she could muster in response to the covert and overt jokes about her being easy and sex-crazed.

I don't know if you ever met someone who is e.g. a problematic drinker and at some point they have a phase where they try to embrace that and lean into the role. It's kind of like that. If you don't know how to change, it can be more bearable to pretend it's fine this way than to keep trying to be different.
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>>32252315
“I sometimes worry that I wouldn't be such a feminist if I had bigger tits” is my favorite line.
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>>32252321
Jogging yesterday.
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>>32252328
Excellent choice.
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>>32250855
Need squishy gf
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>>32252337
Will a squishy bearded guy do?
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>>32252299
>10k is a lot of money, but really not that much to give up your whole idea of being a half-way decent person for.
funny because i saw a doc. about an assassin in Africa that would do hits for much less than that, something like 2000 american dollars.
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>>32252342
No, gf means girlfriend
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>>32251987
Always red xo
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>>32252347
Different strokes for different people, I am generally not somebody who wishes others any kind of ill, it would be unthinkable to me also to even consider going into a business where you take people out, regardless of the pay.
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>>32252327
We were 19-20 when this interaction happened. She's 25-26 now.
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Women:
Is a guy being conservative/right-leaning a dealbreaker for you? And by conservative I mean the type of guy that voted for Trump (or would vote for Trump if he was American)
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>>32251987
Red. Pink is only acceptable on the nails.
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>>32252348
Maybe next time.
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>>32250955
>>casual banter with girlfriend
>>she stops laughing
>>"if you ever cheat on me and I find out you're fucking done"
>what did she mean by this?
She doesn't like cheaters, she probably has heard stories of what's happened to couples in that situation
>where did that come from?
Insecurity and she wants you to be loyal to her. Watch your back anon just in case.
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>>32251987
I guess red. I still think black lipstick is super hot though.
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>>32252153
They were ribbing you at least in part because they wanted to know you better. Even the le dark and mysterious guys actually open their mouths and interact with humanity every once in a while. You are at least 8/10 looks in Romania, just be nice to yourself and others will vibe with it
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>>32252359
No.
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>>32252365
Wouldn't that be weird on someone that wasn't a goth though?
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>know a girl whos genuinely gorgeous
>She also looks pretty young, shes 20 but looks 16
>I see her liking posts about body image and it seems shes insecure in her looks from what little we spoke

I cant fix her
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>>32251987
none. ive never liked lipstick. just use vaseline or something.
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>>32252355
Fair. I don't think I'd kill someone for money, but I'd be sorely tempted if I could get a 10/10 qt gf out of it somehow.
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>>32252359
Not in every single situation but generally, yes. I could see myself with a right-leaning guy if he was not very political in the first place and not very outspoken, or if he was (to me) pretty center with some conservative ideas about government involvement/taxing/whatever.

But I couldn't be with someone who has any sort of discomfort with homosexuality, or who is against abortion, for example. That just hits too close home.
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>>32250985
>Fs
>thoughts on other real cis girls who watch male gay porn?
They have fetishes that cause them to want to date men that have mutilated their balls and have boobs, it's really not good for their brain chemicals.
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>>32252373
What kind of body image stuff? Fat or no boobs?
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>>32251987
Depends on her features and skin colour, it has to be picked and matched correctly

A deep red lipstick can look retarded on one woman and hot af on another
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>>32252359
My girlfriend: "what the hell, why are you voting for Trump dude?"
Me: "because [personal reasons that I don't want to get into]"
Her: Okay that makes sense but don't you care about women? He's taken away the right an abortion
Me: No, he just made it so that it's not federal, it depends on the state now
Her: This is the problem, all these old people are voting anti abortion and it effects young people! They need to fix the system somehow?
Me: What, you mean make it so old people's votes count less?
Her: Yes, or so that men aren't allowed to vote in regards to abortion
Me: That's anti democratic
Her: Yes I am anti democratic
Me: Haha okay kitten just be careful who you say that too, they might think you're fascist or something
Then we watch One Piece together on Netflix on the big TV
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>>32252374
:/
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>>32252379
I think she thinks shes ugly
When shes like one of prettier girls i ever seen

Maybe shes just baiting for compliments
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>>32252372
Probably, my feelings still remain the same though.
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>>32252382
>Lets ruin everything, but at LEAST they didn't take my right to murder babies?

I hate women
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>>32252382
Me to my imaginary Tulpa girlfriend who is very stupid and I'm the intelligent gigachad who corrects her on everything and is always right
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>>32252359
yes 100%
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>>32252373
She's twenty, that's peak insecurity time (or well, still in there) and ironically a woman being beautiful is in my experience more likely to make her obsess with her appearance than if she is more average. Basically if you are told all the time you are beautiful or could be a model, you also start caring a lot about living up to that/holding on to that for your sense of identity, and insecurities about whether you're (still) pretty enough can hit harder than if you had to make your peace with not being that hot to most people, period.

Anyone being vocal, consistent and unashamed in their enjoyment of you, will help build self esteem. But that's all you can do and no, it won't "fix" her, she will need to fix herself in time.

Also try not to judge her. It simply IS hard to grow up in a time where even if you are a legitimate beauty, you are basically swarmed with 10/10s online wherever you look, you are always encouraged and invited to compare and remember it can always be better/younger/fitter/slimmer/more unique...
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>>32252385
>Maybe shes just baiting for compliments
To jump to this isn't really fair. Most girls think they're not as pretty as they are.
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>>32250855
Chokers make me horny
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>>32250985
>>32250990
This. I'm not big on porn, but I do love M/M pairings and never understood the big deal when everyone knows men love seeing two women together.

I can imagine if you are a straight women you would much rather hear two guys moaning than have a woman shriek the whole time (in a way that sounds even more fake to a woman than to a man, to top it off).
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>>32251315
>Question for both genders:
>Why do women believe non-sexual female/male friendships could work while men believe that could never work?
Women believe they can have the same camaraderie as men, it just doesn't really work because subconsciously one, the other or both will have strong feelings for them. Men have probably tried befriending women and realised it doesn't really work, unless they're a legit lesbian butch that isn't in too men and or a rare women that has 7 percent libido and doesn't feel any type of sexual relationship with men.
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>>32252383
:3
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State gender, what's an interaction you've had with the opposite gender that made you feel like picrelated?

I'll start:
>M
>Chatting with girl online
>Her: I'm ugly :(
>Him: I'm sure you're not ugly, you underestimate yourself
>She sends a pic
>She's actually ugly
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>>32252396
>Most girls think they're not as pretty as they are.
Not true at all lmao
If anything, females have inflated egos because they hooked up with a Chad once.
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>>32251464
>why is cumming inside women so hot
Your warm semen shoots inside of her vagina unless you're wearing a condom. Your bodies touching each other. You should shower afterwards together or take turns. You burn calories too.
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>>32252409
M, most of my interactions with them
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>>32251486
>women while you grow old with your perfect husbando would you pluck his ear hair to discourage him having yucky hairy old man ears???
Yea, I'd also help him trim his foot nails, if he has trouble with it. If we had enough money saved I could help buy him pills so his testosterone levels don't deplete and he has energy.
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>>32252400
Same, my high school girlfriend wore one, it was mega hot.
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>>32251315
Men that can only look at women as either potential sex partners or a waste of time, and/or guys that are so horny they want to fuck literally every woman they are exposed to enough, tend to generalize that how they feel is how all men just feel, because of all the tropes who men would do anything for sex and find every woman super sexy and what not.

I feel differently because I have known plenty of men well and have long term friendships with men and I know this is not the case. I'm not saying men as a whole, especially young men, are not thirsty and forever looking for sexual opportunities, but individual men that are not like this are hardly uncommon.

Men have a lot of sexual pride and no guy is going to pipe up and say "actually I can think of quite some things I enjoy more than sex" when another guy just commented every guy just wants to get laid. This helps the guys with the highest libido feel like every man (silently) agrees with them, when in reality it is just kind of embarrassing for guys to be super open about not being that sexual.

Also a lot of people here - and generally discussing this topic - are very young and trying not to look at your friend sexually at 18 or at 30 is definitely a different thing.
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>>32252415
Pills for testosterone are a scam, but you can pin his ass daily with test
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>>32251548
That's a tranny but I had the same haircut when I was a preteen.
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>>32252410
Anon, Chad crushes your ego when he pumps and dumps you.
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>>32252409
F. Similarly, one time a dude told me he had too much baggage for me, and I was 22 or 23 and thought there's no such a thing, and then he had frankly far too much baggage for me.
Sweet dude. Real whore.
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Is the guy with a cute russian blue cat here?
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Women, how would you react to if you matched with a guy on Tinder and he asked you:
>"Hello there, would you like to initiate a mutually consensual romantic and sexual relationship based on mutual trust and resepct?"
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>>32252417
This is wonderfully put.
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>>32252409
Same experience except she was cute and too far away
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>>32252427
No. He used "mutual" more than needed.
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>>32252385
yeah dude. every woman who openly says they think they're ugly, actually thinks the opposite.
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Femanons would you play maple story with me


>Im 32 yo male, big ugly and intimidating
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>>32251578
>For females
>My wife was kind of abusive to me when she got on her anger rages. Outside of that she was a great mother and wife but she had this extremely toxic rage. As in, hitting me etc. it got to the point that my daughter who was around 16 or 17 at the time confronted me crying after one of her rages and asked why I let mom (my wife) treat me like that. I was honestly shocked at the time and didn't even know how to answer that. Eventually after some time I ended up hitting my wife after her hitting me a bunch and all that behaviour stopped.
>I still feel awful about it but my daughter did tell me I did the right thing. Now I'm worried. She isnt going to end up with guys who hits her is she because she would think this is normal?
Your date will hopefully learn from the cycle of abuse and not enter that type of relationship. Let's hope she doesn't become abusive like your wife. Also anon, spank your wife really hard with a rolled up magazine the next time you get the chance. It's not sexual, it's more of disciplining her for the way she behaved towards you, she'll feel really embarrassed.
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>>32252427
"No, I don't even know you"
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>>32252431
So if it was
>"Hello there, would you like to initiate a consensual romantic and sexual relationship based on mutual trust and respect?"
your answer would change?
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state gender, what sort of jewellery do you think looks good on the opposite sex?
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>>32252438
F. Wedding ring and watch.
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>>32252428
Thank you!
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>>32252438
I like chokers and necklaces
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>>32252438
M I like when a woman wears a necklace.
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>>32252442
As a fellow 5head haver, yes they do. I look so much cuter with bangs.
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>>32252438
F
None
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>>32252442
>tattoo
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>>32252442
I will die on this hill. Bangs make any girl cuter by an order of magnitude. I love bangs so much.
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>>32252451
I should get a tattoo just to annoy and filter men like you.
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>>32252438
Men don't really look good with any jewellery. Maybe a tasteful watch but they always seem to get a LOOK HOW MUCH MONEY I MAKE one.
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>>32252438
F, I like it all when worn with enthusiasm, even if I don't like the look. It is just ballsy for a guy to not give a fuck and sport his own style.

That said, I really like rings on men because they draw extra attention to the hands, dainty necklaces because they trigger my old Legolas/elvish soft spot. I think eyebrow piercings most often look good/hot.

Earrings, lip/nose piercings and bracelets I am less often a fan of.
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>>32252438
>M.
I've never cared about jewellery, I probably wouldn't notice if you were wearing any.
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>>32252454
You can filter him but then you end up attracting men like ME.
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>>32252442
they're good for covering up big forehead
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>>32252456
What else would they get? A LOOK HOW I AM TOO DUMB TO USE MY PHONE TO CHECK THE TIME LIKE A NORMAL PERSON one?
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>>32252459
Get a nose ring while you're at it.
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>>32252419
Yeah if I had a hypothetical husband, I never will. Oh welp
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>>32252454
ruin your body! that'll teach him!
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>>32252442
Damn that's a big five head
Would be death sentence for a dude
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>>32252459
Idk you but that sounds much better already than whatever that anon is.
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>>32252456
>men have only one thing they can do to accessorize
>get mad at them for putting too much into it
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>>32252466
Oh, thank you, this is the best compliment I've received all month. I hope you have a nice day.
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>>32252462
Maybe I should.
>>32252464
I said filter too exactly for the people like you.
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>>32252465
You can literally just wear your hair in front of it.
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>>32252463
I can be your hubby
But im not doing test yet, maybe in like 3 years
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Women, thoughts on a guy that wears a ring that is not a wedding band?
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>>32252468
Have a nice day too anon.
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>>32252469
make it a bbc tattoo, that'll filter us the best
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Women, is "strong silent" type an actual thing? do you find that attractive? whats so appealing about it?
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>>32252465
Men can have bangs too.
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>>32252469
Big septum piercing. Far too big for your nose. No one will touch you.
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>>32252472
Yeah bro, that class ring was definitely a good use of your money, those class memories will be with you for a lifetime.
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My previous boss was rich as fuck and he didn't wear a watch, and generally was wearing regular ass clothes like a polo shirt, jeans and sneakers
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>>32252476
Keep your fetish posting to yourself.
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>>32252454
the fact that you're considering a tat means you're not good enough for me.

whats your body count? 5+? lmao
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>>32252479
Omw to book an appointment.
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>>32252477
It is an actual thing. I respect it because it reminds me of my grandpa, but I do not like it romantically, I like men who love me a ton.
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>>32252483
put the tattoo somewhere easy to see like on your forehead
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>>32252476
Every atoga femanon has queen of spades tatt

Its a hit amongst females worldwide
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>>32252391
Gj now that guy is gonna lie to a woman and hide hes a chud until she is emotionally invested
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>>32252478
Yeh, but that ends up looking like that guy from No Country for Old Men most of the time.
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>>32252484
The opposite way around.
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>>32252469
>>32252479
>>32252485
Am I an incel if I don't think septum piercings "ruin" you or damage your character, but they turn me away from women because I think they're aesthetically just plain ugly?
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>>32252494
the dog pound is thataway honey ---->
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>>32252390
Funny you should say that, because I do have a Tulpa who is very useful to me, but my girlfriend is seperate from that and real. She is also very intelligent, just I suppose not when it comes to political policy.
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>>32252426
im here. cant find mark though. he's hiding
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>>32252491
It looks fine. You don't even notice it with most dudes who have a big forehead and a short haircut.

One of the cutest guys I know has a big ass forehead and he just has medium length hair that cover it.
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>>32252477
It's not my thing but it absolutely is a thing and it used to be more common back when society in general was firmer about men needing to be stoic and in control at all times.

>whats so appealing about it?
To put it bluntly, someone always being in control/not panicking is something a lot of people (both men and women, but men get to chase this fantasy less often) find incredibly reassuring and safe. It's almost a childlike feeling of "whatever happens, X will be there", when in most relationships you are simultaneously encouraging/consoling each other if shit hits the fan.

Someone being silent can be attractive because you can project everything onto someone who shuts up. It's like a guy falling in love with a girl he saw on a bus. It's not despite not knowing her that he is touched by her, it is because she's not a person to him in that moment, sullied by her own annoying habits and what not, she is a vision of beauty/youth/femininity/whatever.

Someone being strong and silent means they take care of you, ask little of you and don't ruin any fantasy you have about how they feel inside.

Protip: this is also a huuuge part of (very) young girls loving "mysterious" guys. What we imagine is often better than reality.
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>>32252500
Oh, okay. And everybody clapped.
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>>32252471
You're probably trolling
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>>32252442
Getting bangs is the female equivalent of a man growing a mustache
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>>32252509
Women with bangs are pedophiles?
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>>32252465
My brother in law has the biggest fivehead I ever saw on anyone, man or woman, and he has a receding hairline too.
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>>32252509
I'd say a beard.
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>>32252512
RIP.

Haircuts like this look really cute on 5head boys, if they have nice hair.
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>>32252442
She could’ve just styled her hair a bit why did she cut it that much
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>>32252491
Ugly people will be ugly.
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>>32252514
Well, he's happily married with kids, so I don't think it really matters anymore, my sister's not going to care what his hair looks like. I do like the haircut you posted though, very dreamy.
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>>32252504
>tfw very silent guy
>well aware I can never live up to the personality a girl projects onto me
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>>32252515
She has a long, oval face, long hair makes it appear longer and disproportionate. Plus with a long face you want to add volume, which is hard to achieve if you have very long hair.

A shorter haircut makes her face appear shorter and makes it easier to achieve volume, whcih adds roundness to her face, making her appear younger and cuter.
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>>32252421
No, she will think that that's her league now.
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>>32252519
Not everyone will do that, though, someone experienced and attentive enough to realize they have seen little from you, could just be interested in getting to know you better over time rather than filling in the gaps herself.
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>>32252410
I think it's more that any random girl can set up a thing online and people with just buy them shit.
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>>32252523
After I get dumped I'm going to go looking for another one of those?
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>>32252527
I don't know in what kind of universe you guys live in. It's really amusing to see how disconnected from reality you are.
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>>32252409
M
Last match on Tinder:
>her: Hey
>ffs, she's expecting me to carry the conversation again
>I unmatched her because she's a boring bitch
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I'm just gonna say it:
Ugly men ruined everything for us non-ugly men.
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>>32252530
I legit see Amazon Wishlists linked off women's socials. I mean, at least be a content creator.
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>>32252529
yes if you're like majority of girls
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>>32252421
>>32252523
the average woman actually gets p'n'd by chad and thinks "the guy who stays will be better"
go ahead and tell them the man who settles with you will likely be less attractive than the chads who will pump n dump them and watch it not compute
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>>32252454
Are you stupid? Men will still sleep with bitches who have tattoos, we just won't consider you for a long-term relationship.
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>>32252502
Okay, but post him some day again
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>>32252540
Who said I would sleep with them?
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>>32252536
It's not really something I've ever seen, you must follow some top notch whores lol
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Women:
What are the qualifications for a guy to be considered a "pick-me"? And do you consider being a male Pick-Me a bad thing?
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>>32252532
Pretty women ruined everything for us non-pretty girls.
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>>32252543
its just gym creep that thinks every girl is one of the ig thots he faps to
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>>32252540
>we just won't consider you for a long-term relationship.
Several of my friends with tattoos are married or in long term relationships.
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>>32252544
Pretending to care.
Yes, huge red flag.
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>>32252546
Based Gym Creep, buying gifts for the girls and then throwing a tantrum when that doesn't buy him a fuck pass.
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>>32252542
Because you wouldn't know he hates tattoos. I hooked up with a few tattooed bitches, even if I utterly despise them. And you females like fucking men who hate you anyway.
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So my dad and I were discussing relationships and how to get into them, and he said this:
>"You can't get into a relationship if you don't put yourself on display. A high-quality product nobody knows is for sale will never sell."
Do you think he's right?
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>>32252541
OK i will when he turns up lol
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>>32252551
Only women with lots of internalized self hatred would ever let you touch them so it makes sense that you would think that.
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>>32252409
what do you do in such a case? like, how do you respond to the other person? "yeah, you are right, you're ugly" is kind of sad
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>>32252552
Your dad is from an era before the internet. Boomer advice is worthless for 2024.
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Women, has anyone ever bought anything for you online?
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>>32252544
I don't think the term works as well as guys because women are more sexually interested in guys that unapologetically do their own thing, and many guys know that, so they also are much less likely to try to impress women by catering to our every interest/preference.

I have known guys I considered spineless, but not one I actually thought of as a "pick me".
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>>32252552
hes right
>>32252557
it applies to internet dating
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>>32252556
You can just do what females do and ghost her without a second thought.
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>>32252545
you think you have the moral high ground?
you'd act the same way as those pretty girls if you were pretty
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>>32252552
M
True, 60% of young men are single, but most young men aren't even asking out women
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>>32252552
nah, if its high value enough you dont have to market it
have you ever seen a yt add for ferrari?
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>>32252559
Yes, but it benefited the stream. It wasn't just like panties or something like that.
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>>32252559
Sure. Just not strangers and not unreciprocated gifts.
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>>32252561
There aee no high quality people on dating apps
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>>32252552
Of course he's right, yes. This is just a different take on "you miss all the shots you don't take". And it applies to the stage before taking a shot, too. A guy who is often seen laughing with his friends, more easily looks attractive than a loner.
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After a bad break-up I did some gay shit with my best friend (in fact we still do it occasionally but I'm trying to break the habit). I'm otherwise entirely straight and traditionally masculine (tall, bald, hairy) and have no intention of dabbling any further into this sort of thing; I've never penetrated or been penetrated by a man and my life goal is to start a family with a woman I love.

That all said and done, I was wondering if I should simply keep this a secret? I'm aware that this kind of thing would be a massive turn-off for many women, and that the kind of women that might be okay with it would likely be on the promiscuous side which I myself would not appreciate. Could I get some input on this? I feel like regardless of whether I keep it a secret, or whether I'm open about it, I've made a massive mistake that will be a detriment on future relationships. I can't imagine my future partner would be happy that it was my best friend either, since we're very close and I couldn't imagine cutting him out of my life.
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>>32252559
no
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>>32252565
>It's not an ad if it isn't on youtube
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>>32252572
i have also never seen one on tv or irl or anywhere
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>>32252570
I hate to give this advice but yes, it is unlikely that the woman you fall for has both no problem with you being a little bi (which you are and that's a total non-issue, more men are than you think, just ask yourself how many people that know you would know you can enjoy this) AND no problem with you having an ex-sexual partner be very close in your present life.

I would not tell her, as a rule of thumb, unless given overwhelming signs that you can take that leap of trust. Definitely don't beat yourself up over it either, though, you did nothing wrong.
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>>32252560
>they also are much less likely to try to impress women by catering to our every interest/preference.
So I fucked up by watching Sailor Moon and reading Jane Austen, huh?

It's over...
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>>32252559
yeah when I used to play videogames guys would buy me ingame stuff all the time. it's kinda weird when you think about it
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>>32252579
It is kinda weird... it's kinda weird that you stopped playing video games. Whatsa matter, you're too grown-up to play games anymore?
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>>32252552
your dad doesn't know the basic difference between 'pull' and 'push' marketing techniques.
It's the low quality product you advertise and push into other people's hands. If something is of perfect quality, it will attract people on it's own, they will search and research for it
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>>32252579
Like, the cosmetic stuff?
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>>32252517
Like you
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>>32252578
Not at all, but there's a difference between not looking down on everything female-associated and going out of your way to tick all the boxed you think the opposite sex wants.

The stereotype of a "pick me girl" is a girl who will pretend to be more into stuff than she is for guys, or to not seem "lame". You can have male interests, you can even be a fullblown tomboy, and still have self respect and be honest about what you do and don't enjoy.

And Jane Austen is just super fun.
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>>32252559
>Women, has anyone ever bought anything for you online?
My ex and I did the same for him
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>>32252570
>traditionally masculine
>be on the promiscuous side which I myself would not appreciate
Given your choice of words and values, you should take this to your grave because the kind if girl that would end up marrying you would likely divorce you over it.
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>>32252581
Have you considered that men just have an inherently inferior sexual market value to women.
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>>32252442
just wash this disgusting makeup off and you're good
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>>32252587
Don't pick mes try to make themselves look more appealing by tearing others down?
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>>32252440
fix them drinks instead of cooking. ask your local barman to teach you how to for a tip
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>>32252584
Or you.
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>>32252559
I mean to say "Women, have strangers ever bought you anything online?"
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>>32252590
what does it have to do with anything?
and no
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>>32252593
It means people that do everything to get someone to fall for them. Tearing others down is just one if many techniques and not all Pick Mes use it because they are too self aware and know it reflects badly on them.
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>>32252580
no it's kinda weird that randos would buy me shit for video games
>>32252582
yeah skins and characters.
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>>32252587
It really is over for me though. I'm hesitant to read Sense and Sensibility because I liked the Emma Thompson movie so much. What if the movie's changes made it better, and the book is a letdown? As you can see, it's over.
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>>32252599
That is weird. That's less useful than clothes or something like that.
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>>32252570
I'd hate to know my husband fucks around with men and who is close to an ex sexual partner, genuinely would divorce him over it if I ever found out.
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>>32252593
They go hand in hand, usually. I think a super common scenario is being the sole girl with guys and the topic of feminism/feminist girls comes up. Now whether or not a woman actually identifies as a feminist or is into feminism a lot, deep down in this day and age you will be HARD pressed to find a girl who has no feminist conviction at all. I think for most young women, their feelings are probably summed up as "feminism is often cringe and seems to scare men off and I want to attract men, but they make some points too".

Then if feminism comes up as something naturally off putting or unfeminine, a pick me girl who feels those mixed feelings will jump at the chance to go
>yeah I don't know what some women's deal is
to firmly put herself in the category of fun, non-nagging women, even though she has to ignore some stuff for that.

So it's less, what do you (legitimately) enjoy or find yourself curious about and more how far will you bend over backwards to seem appetizing/palateable to as many of the opposite as possible.
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>>32252602
Would you also divorce him if he secretly started to smoke?
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>>32252604
No. You can quit smoking, you can't unfuck men.
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>>32252600
Your attitude is wrong, if you enjoyed the movie so much, it could be fun and interesting to see what the inspiration for it was, even if you still end up concluding you enjoyed the movie more than the book. Just consider it a look behind the schemes.
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>>32252605
What if he continues?
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>>32252606
You're right, of course, you're right. And so my endless backlog of books grows ever longer...
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>>32252607
I'd be unhappy about it. Not sure if it's divorce worthy.
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>>32252603
A good trick to filter out pickmes is to ask her what she thinks about abortion. If she supports killing babies, she's a feminist.
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>>32252609
FWIW I really really enjoyed Sense and Sensibility (although the ending is a little abrupt and on the nose for modern readers I guess), but I never watched the movie so I don't feel I can help you out there either.
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>>32252070
M
I either fall in love with a girl the moment I see her for the first time, or I feel nothing for her
No in between
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Girls
Have you ever dated someone you met online? Have you ever met up with someone you met online or considered it? Have you ever sent nudes to someone you met online?
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>>32252577
I get what you're saying, but still, dishonesty is wrong and so was having casual sexual encounters with someone close to me when I never had any intention of going further. I'll take your advice and remain pragmatic where possible, but I'm still going to have to accept my guilt in this and learn from my mistake instead of looking away from it.
>>32252589
Yeah, I figured as much. I just hope it won't eventually leak someday and cause her grief, it's why I've been considering perhaps mentioning it early on in the relationship but I'm worried that even if a partner was fine with it it'd warp her perception on me. There really is no winning.
>>32252602
Well it was only with my best friend, and there wasn't any fucking or dicks going in anywhere else, but I understand what you mean. I would find it difficult to date a bisexual woman myself, especially so if her best friend was a former partner or sexual fling.
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>>32252595
Nope
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>>32252612
Thats how you end up with only the pickmes left. Or is that the goal?
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>>32252616
I am E dating my gf, we will meet up some time next year. we've exchanged nudes
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>>32252616
Yes to all.
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>>32252621
How did that go?
>>32252620
Are you a girl too?
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State gender
State country
Do you care about the burger election?
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>>32252622
>How did that go?
We're married, he's currently texting me like crazy asking me what kind of finish I want for our kitchen floor in our new house lol
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>>32252614
Please watch the 1995 movie if you're ever in the mood for an Austen movie, it's fun. It has Hugh Grant, but not "too much" Hugh Grant, if you know what I mean. Alan Rickman is the age gapper, but I'm thinking they toned down the age gap for the movie, and that's one thing I'm expecting to unnerve me in the novel.
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>>32252070
M
i don't think ive ever "fallen in love" with anyone
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>>32252626
Not bad, congrats.
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>>32252617
>I'll take your advice and remain pragmatic where possible, but I'm still going to have to accept my guilt in this and learn from my mistake instead of looking away from it.
In my opinion the only "mistake" you made is that you could not uphold your own moral sexual standards and not instead of realizing they might have been too rigid and narrow, you just want to beat yourself up over having done it and continue to judge people who show this behavior.

You can go down that route. Just be careful you do not start projecting guilt/regret/disgust over what you did onto your friend because then you will lose him.
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>>32252624
F France, mildly interested. Mostly because there's a woman in the running, to be fair.
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>>32252629
Those tiddy pics have done a great job, yes. Thank you!
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>>32252627
I will, thank you!

>but not "too much" Hugh Grant
Doubtful statement to me, but I will try to keep an open mind.

>that's one thing I'm expecting to unnerve me in the novel
I can spoiler this part for you if you want, imo it does not detract from the charm of the overall novel, but it's whatever you wish.
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>>32252622
yes that's why I responded
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>>32252624
M
United States
not at all tbqh
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>>32252635
Just making sure because sometimes anons answer anyways because they are bored.
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State gender, what's the rudest thing anyone's ever said to you irl?
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>>32252619
No, because supporting abortion is the socially acceptable thing to do. It will filter out if she has her own opinion or not.
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>>32252633
A tasteful amount of Hugh Grant, a reasonable and respectable quantity of Hugh Grant, a safe distance from an oversaturation of Hugh Grant. Please go ahead and share your thoughts.
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>>32252639
F, that I should never have children.
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>>32252640
Ah, I see. If a woman disagrees with you then she doesn't have her own opinion, got it.
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>>32252639
"you look ridiculous now. why did you get plastic surgery?"
I didn't have plastic surgery
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>>32252639
F
A girl once told my bf in front of me that he’s out of my league. That was cringe. To be fair I was a bit fat and unkempt.
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>>32252647
Congratulations on getting better.
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>>32252616
Yup
Yup
Yup

Regret
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>>32252643
Why did they say that?
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>>32252649
Thanks
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tfw no /x/ gf
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>>32252639
F “You're really pretty for someone in a wheelchair.” The fuck is that? :/
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>>32252642
Heh. I like the descriptions. Maybe they will hit home once I saw the movie.

Nah for me the biggest issue was not the age gap, I also read enough old books that I'm not easily fazed there. It is just the combination that the tone of the book is very "romantic" in the sense of - shoot for the stars, go live your best life - and Marianne simply does not like him romantically/sexually in any way. Throughout the book I was waiting for her to have the "omg, this man I ridiculed is actually the most dapper and masculine man I ever knew"-revelation to hit her, but it never does. It is just decided by her family that the man has been such an amazing family friend and he has been so in love with Marianne for such a long time, he deserves to have her for a bride, iirc she is literally called his reward. Of course there's an obligatory "and over time she found happiness in this marriage and loved him no less than he loved her", but there's no fuzziness about that she is just to marry him for the greater good.
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>>32252624
>State gender
>State country
u.s.
>Do you care about the burger election?
a bit, I don't want a civil war and/or ww3
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>>32252653
i once added a girl from x and it was a wild ride
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>>32252654
ouch
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>>32252616
>Girls
>Have you ever dated someone you met online?
Yea
>Have you ever met up with someone you met online or considered it?
Yes
>Have you ever sent nudes to someone you met online?
No
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>>32252645
No, if she tried to like me before, but says she supports murder. And I said I don't support it, it would reveal her as a pickme.
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>>32252639
F
Uhhh a guy called me a bitch one time because I called him out for tossing a glass bottle out of his car
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>>32252650
>Regret
Why?
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>>32252656
I will keep that in mind while reading it, probably very early next year. Thank you for your time today, I greatly appreciate it.
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>>32252666
I think I end up with much better (and saner) options when I meet men irl.
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>>32252651
Trying to greentext it for brevity:

>friend of mine said two old friends of her were coming over and she was nervous to see them again, asks me to stay around
>okay
>one of them was a midwife
>given the whole situation and me knowing my friend was very nervous, I was trying HARD to bond with both of these strange women and win their sympathy
>the midwife's friend likes me, midwife absolutely does not, I feel like she felt I was being too buddy-buddy for a first meeting?
>at some point midwife tells an anecdote that some women when giving birth have a hard time before they're allowed to push, and some have a hard time pushing, like two camps
>I said something like "and then there's me just worried about shitting myself in front of everyone haha" which was already intended to be self-depricating
>she just gives me an eye cold stare and says "yeah but YOU should just never even think to have kids then"
>silence

And yes it hurt more because she was professionally trained to deal with all these things. And because my friend did not stand up for me either.
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>>32252639
M
"I hope my kid doesn't turn out like you"
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>>32252664
Was it a beer bottle?
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>>32252668
Why? What were the ones you met online like?
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>>32252668
Wow, fuck you, I'm completely sane, you bitch.
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>>32252669
What the fuck… This bitch insane.
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>>32252667
You're very welcome! I do wish to add that looking back I feel like this plot development hit me extra hard because the book overall feels incredibly fresh and modern in terms of the humor and tone.
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>>32252672
Yeah it was a corona
>>32252673
4channers
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Women, why are you so obsessed with abortions? Yes I understand if you get raped or you're high risk, that's totally understandable and afaik abortions are legal everywhere for those cases(if not then I agree they should be). But I don't see any other case where abortion is acceptable. Is it really that hard to use birth control or abstain from premarital sex if you're not ready to have kids?
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>>32252683
Oh... ok, yeh, that's rude but he was probably drunk.
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>>32252683
>4channers
What was wrong with them that made you regret talking to them?
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>>32252685
>but
And at a fucking car wash. That he drove to. Don't defend him.
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>>32252684
>Is it really that hard to use birth control
No birth control is 100% reliable.
>abstain from premarital sex
Just because someone is married does not mean they want infinite kids.
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>>32252669
She is right if you're on 4chan. No female here would be a good mother.
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Woman

What is your opinion about the guys in the army, CIA,FBI,etc?
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>>32252684
F It's like the mask thing during Covid. People get pissy when you tell them they can't do something.
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>>32252679
I was just rubbing her the wrong way the whole night. She made a comment earlier about almost getting married and I gave a super enthusiastic
>oh you're getting married, that's so exciting!!
and she also stared me dead in the eye and said nah, it was many things to her, but not exciting. Her friend even tried to come in and make her say that it was a little bit exciting to be getting married, right? But she only doubled down and insisted I was just making assumptions.

No idea but honestly I have often wondered about that night, what happened between my friend and them that made her so hostile, or whether she was always like that? My friend at that time was a very difficult person to deal with and our friendship did not last long afterwards (this having happened didn't help) so I never did get the chance to ask her why she was so nervous about seeing those old friends. Although it also could have been that maybe the unamused girl would usually pick her for a target, I have no clue.
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>>32252693
Can be cringe, can be hot.
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>>32252694
This, it‘s about protecting freedom of choice, not about wanting to do it carelessly.
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>>32252691
RUDE
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>>32252684

*gets you pregnant*
What now nigga?
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>>32252691
I'm not going to bother arguing you on the "no female here" argument but trust me, nobody interacting with me irl would suspect I spend time on here. Nor did I do anything in her company (smoking or even drinking alcohol, talking about anything like that...) that could have made her think I was not mom material.
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>>32252695
Damn, good thing you got rid of that friends group. What a miserable bunch. Maybe you were just prettier than her.
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Femanons, are dicks better than dildos?
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>>32252684
Devil's advocate but you know birth control isn't 100% foolproof, right?
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>>32252639
M
Honestly no one has ever said anything rude to me in real life
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>>32252700
Is your choice more important than the baby's?
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Women:
I believe that kissing is a must-have during sex. Is that weird?
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>>32252712
>>32252690
>No birth control is 100% reliable.
How many women have gotten pregnant while using a condom and a plan B if the condom broke?
>Just because someone is married does not mean they want infinite kids.
Birth control doesn't cease to exist when you get married. The "abstinence from premarital sex" option is more to ensure you don't end up a single mother because you let some stranger nut inside you.
>>32252700
Unless you were forced to have a baby or you will literally die giving birth, what makes you think that the baby you conceived consensually is a "choice"?
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>>32252680
>the book overall feels incredibly fresh and modern in terms of the humor and tone.
Gotcha. So after Marianne is compelled to enter into a marriage of convenience, Elinor turns to face the reader directly, saying with a smirk and an eyebrow raise "Well, *that* just happened."
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>>32252654
>wheelchair
is this the goat girl?
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>>32252716
M
But if you kiss or hug her too much, she will get the ick.
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>>32252711
yes
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>>32252684
I'm pro abortion but not for the liberal reason
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>>32252714
Yes.
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>>32252705
Yeah luckily I was never in a group with them, the friend I was with was already in the "more of a friend of friends" category for me, more on the fringe of my group. My closer friends have thankfully never treated me remotely like that.

I don't know, I can only guess but I feel like the midwife just found me annoying. Because of the situation I was being very eager to please, I think she felt I was trying too hard and she was the kind of person who prouded herself on hating that. She was a lot more normal to the other two girls, but also kind of cynical/dry with them. She was actually marrying a woman so on her end I'm quite sure it was not a matter of a sexual competition thing or anything like that.
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>>32252719
No, that was someone else with a different disability.
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>made my first dm to a girl I've had on instagram for 6 months after a party ended
>just a "hey did you make it back home safe" message on friday night
>she responded "yup made it safe" the following midnight on saturday

Either gender what's a funny way to reply to this? If I can't think of anything funny to say I'm just not going to.
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my car has no A.C. im gonna get it fixed buts its a pain in the ass since its so old. dealbreaker?
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>>32252711
Is sex with a girlfriend better than sex with a prostitute? Is sex with love better than sex without love?
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>>32252712
>>32252690
It's horrifying that you're justifying it like this
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>>32252639
M
Someone here called me a nigger. How did they know I was black?
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>>32252701
He's kind of right
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>>32252720
You need to stop getting your informations of women from maladjusted Tiktok girls who are desperate for attention.
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>>32252716
Not weird at all, I feel people are pretty evenly split between not wanting it much or at all during sex or it being a really important part of it. I wish my boyfriend was more into kissing during sex, it turns me on endlessly.
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>>32252725
Honestly wasn't expecting someone to be that blunt about it.
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>>32252716
>Women:
>I believe that kissing is a must-have during sex. Is that weird?
Not weird
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>>32252732
>732
>7-3-2=2
>2nd letter of alphabet is B
digits dont lie
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>>32252717
Because nobody benefits from bringing a child into a less than ideal situation. Least of all the child. And having a mother that isn‘t enthusiastic about your existence means you are already doomed. So only babies should be born that are welcome and very wanted.
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>>32252731
Why?
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>>32252718
Not quite, but modern enough that I kept forgetting (tbf my historical sense is also just shite) what the exact time period was again, until stumbling upon a sentence like
>I had wished to invite people over but everyone had plans already, no wonder, with such a full bright moon tonight
and it would take me a few seconds to realize the significance of moonlight for making plans (right, no artificial lighting in the streets yet!). So that counts for something I guess?
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>>32252726
Ok now it sounds like she just thought you are a pickme for being excited about marriage.
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>>32252737
I like saying it how it is.
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>>32252740
Then... don't have a baby if you're not ready for it? I don't understand
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>>32252740
Ok, so then can't you just put the thing up for adoption? How often is it just a case of "oh, pregnancy isn't convenient for me"?
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>>32252728
>"but what took you so long?!"

Not hilarious but the obvious reply springing to my mind.
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>>32252743
The lesbian sounded like she has major anger/rage hostile issues imo
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>>32252728
M
Did you even kiss her?
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M or F
Have you ever had sex with a friend?
Would you?
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>>32252748
We already have enough children in the system, we don't suffer from a lack of children needing foster parents or adoptive parents.
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>>32252753

M, have not, would try
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>>32252753
M closest I got was second base.
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sex with girl on top, holding hands
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>>32252630
Ah, don't get me wrong. Homosexuality isn't the leading concern here, at least not for me. As far as what I did wrong (regarding my friend), it was allowing my weakness to pervert our friendship when I could never fully reciprocate his romantic feelings towards me. Then, of course, there'll be the matter of dishonesty or discomfort in my future relationships with women due to my selfish choices which is also obviously an immoral thing. What I did with my friend isn't something I think I could ever begrudge him over, if anything I should be more worried about how he feels about it.
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>>32252742
I was just having fun, but now I'll remember this conversation every time Austen mentions the moon.
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>>32252743
I don't want to defend her too hard because she was definitely being weird and rude and even her own friend thought so. But if I have to speculate I do have to say I am really really good at channeling enthusiasm and interest for people I don't know at all. It's not even fake, I just really like people and I can lean into that even more when necessary. So my reply to her, in giddiness/intensity, sounded more like what you would expect from someone who knows you a lot better. Most of the time people really like me because of this, because they are surprised by being able to tell I care. But I think she was another kind of person or in another kind of mood and all she could think was "bitch you don't even know me". Like I was faking it? But I wasn't, it also mattered that at that age (23ish) I did not know anyone at all who even considered getting married, so it was very unexpected to me and it honestly did instantly get me a little excited being able to ask about that, until she shut me down.

You can never please anyone! You can be the juiciest peach and someone will hate peaches and all that. It's fine, but specifically hearing from a midwife that she had zero faith in me giving birth was a sore kick for sure.
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>>32252755
Why have sex with the intention of making a baby at all then if it's so unethical to have all these extra kids hanging around?
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>>32252734
I don't even have tiktok. Also, even if I was, it would prove my point since most females are on social media these days.
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>>32252747
Unfortunately men keep wanting to fill you with their semen as soon as you dare to be in a relationship with them. It happens.
>>32252748
Being adopted is a whole other thing that causes tons of issues for the child, pregnancy and child birth is very taxing. Plus it will completely ruin your reputation when you have a baby belly and then no baby to show for it.
There was a girl in my class that got pregnant at age 13 and her parents silently got her to a hospital far away from where she lived to get rid of the baby before anyone knows about it because they were very religious and anyone knowing about her having been pregnant before would have ruined the reputation of the whole family.
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>>32252763
Because women cant resist their biological urges, yet they don't want to take responsibility for their decisions.
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>>32252753
F, I have, it's just high risk high reward. I'm open to doing it again in the future if the circumstances are right, but I am not usually open to it and I have once slept with a friend and thoroughly regretted it afterwards.
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>>32252764
You have 4chan, which only reposts content instead of producing content, so you get your news and information from TikTok webms posted here.
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>>32252753
F
No.
I don‘t have friends, let alone male friends but I would if i caught feels.
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>>32252753
M
No
If we got married sure
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>>32252762
I sure hope you can let it not get to you, she sounds miserable and insane.
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>>32252765
>Plus it will completely ruin your reputation when you have a baby belly and then no baby to show for it.
Do you live in a Jane Austen novel?
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>>32252765
>Unfortunately men keep wanting to fill you with their semen as soon as you dare to be in a relationship with them. It happens.
Respond "no" or "use a condom." It's that easy.
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>>32252777
Oh sure, this happened years ago, I care to the extent that it stands out as a hurtful thing said to my face, not to the extent I actually attribute weight to it. She did not know me at all, even less than the other way around, and I have no clue what else was going on that contributed to her annoyed responses, so really no point in picking it apart.

Thank you for your kindness though!!
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>>32252770
No, I don't.
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>>32252769
How was the sexxo?
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>>32252778
Just because you are unaware of how social reputation works does not mean it‘s not there.
>>32252779
Ah yes, because men love it when you refuse your ((marital duties)) for a more than three days.
>condom
Again, no BC is 100% safe, and condoms are one of the more unsafe option.
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Women
Do you think men dislike high body count because she's had more dicks in her, or because more men have got to seen her naked and fuck her?
Essentially I'm asking if you think men are more bothered about you getting dick or other men getting to fuck you?
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>>32252759
You give off conflicting messages. Here you are saying that you don't really care about homosexuality, but in your first post you were quick to stress how heterosexual you were and that you did not get penetrated and only ever liked your friend etc.. which all sounds like you are pretty concerned about the homosexuality aspect of it.

You also said you would not like to date a bisexual woman - so that is an issue with homosexuality - and that you would not like to be with someone who was promiscuous while you behaved promiscuisly.

Feeling bad over maybe leading your friend on/hurting his feelings is fine, just a matter of deciding how to act on it.

But I do get the feeling that you struggle with internalized shame and notions about sexuality here and make no mistake, if you ever reach a point where being reminded that you enjoyed being sexual with a man once revolts you, then your friend himself WILL revolt you, that's just how it works, because he is a living breathing reminder.
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>>32252788
>other men getting to fuck you
This.
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>>32252785
Do you live in a predominately brown country?
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I know a girl that went to Dubai and I can't help but think that Arabs took a shit on her chest.
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>>32252792
No.
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>>32252793
internet brainrot
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>>32252785
>condoms are one of the more unsafe option.
How retarded do you have to be to get someone pregnant while using a condom? Like genuinely what the fuck are you doing?
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>>32252639
A girl laughed at my dick and told me it looked tiny for someone so tall. I felt shitty and insecure about it for years, to the point I developed a huge fetish for it as a cope. To make matters worse, I got so invested into the fetish that I found out that 15cm is a perfectly average size and actually bigger than my country's national average... Over half a decade wasted, my perception of sex warped by a shitty fetish I'm struggling to shake off, and it was all over some 19 year old's shitty comment that in retrospect doesn't even make any sense.
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>>32252795
How else did she go there alone?
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>>32252796
Statistics are statistics anon, you can throw a tantrum over the numbers all you want.
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>>32252755
I don't care for your eugenics argument
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>>32252798
Saving money or her grandma giving it to her as a bd gift?
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>>32252800
How is that eugenics?
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>>32252796
nta but most of the time that they fail it's because of user error like not putting it on right or storing it in a wallet.
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>>32252749
For some reason that just felt petty/needy to ask even though that was my first reaction

>>32252751
no we just talked and got to know each other a little better. I had asked her to lunch in May right before the semester ended but she said she wasn't looking to start at the time because she was leaving the country for an internship as soon as the semester ended, understandably.

Some Space Force dude from out of town was more interested in her than me and was hounding on her the whole time I was talking to her, but I didn't want to spend the entire night talking to the same person like he was.
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>>32252782
To be fair I only realized when I saw the first reply that I think of sex as "doing sexual things together", not necessarily penis in vagina, never went that far (yet) with a friend.

I've been sexual with three friends (to be fair one of those I would categorize as never truly platonic). One is the one I regretted it with, the touching and kissing - we did not go far - was fun to me in the moment but it was also very confusing. We had been platonic friends for ten years on end by that time so there was definitely a sort of "this character does not belong in this world" feeling, like seeing Harry Potter running around in the lotr or something. There was awkwardness, more so on his side than on mine. I feel like afterwards he never again felt like just seeing me "for fun", it just made him cringe to remember me. I don't think it helped that he was chubby and I'm into that (which he did not know), he could tell I liked his body and I think ironically specifcally that made him cringe very hard.

The other two, very good. It feels exhilirating because you're friends and don't usually do this, so it's crazy exciting, but at the same time it feels deeply familiar and you feel totally safe. The awkward part is more when you "wake up" after the sex and need to go back to being friends, unless you want to stay in a weird limbo.
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>>32252785
So a spongeworthy man is a man you wouldn't mind an oopsie with?
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>>32252801
My grandma gave me a Cleveland Steamer for my birthday
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>>32252684
Birth control can fail. Abortion is a security blanket.
And abstaining from sex when I have the option to end a pregnancy is unnecessary.
>>32252686
Well the usual online issues of talking a big game and not delivering, and the 4chan specific issue weird misanthropic views about other people.
>>32252693
Army feels pretty different than CIA. Either way I'm going to pass I don't really vibe with people who are military minded.
>>32252711
Duh
>>32252716
It would be weird if you didn't
>>32252753
F. Sort of? Childhood friend I hadn't seen in over a decade.
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>>32252799
Ok you're right, I support abortion now. Actually, we should mandate killing the children of the retarded. Thanks for changing my mind.
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>>32252805
>For some reason that just felt petty/needy to ask even though that was my first reaction
I meant not implying she should've replied faster, but implying she took a week to get home and texted you once the job was finally completed.

Then again you not getting it without tone/face maybe just means it's a shitty joke.
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>>32252801
Lmao.
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>>32252807
Probably.
If she wants you to use a condom instead of a sponge she hates you and wants your bloodline to end.
>>32252808
Based.
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>>32252806
>not necessarily penis in vagina, never went that far (yet) with a friend.
>"wake up" after the sex
I'm confused
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>>32252805
She rejected you, let it go.
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>>32252728
>>32252805
Hail Mary

"It took you _______ to get home safe? Call me faithful Argos, 'cause that's quite the odyssey."
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>>32252810
Good.
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>>32252785
I can attest to implants. I had one, and aside from hormonal issues, it was great. I was taking so many creampies they called me Little Debbie.
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>>32252815
Shhh anon has to cope that it was only the tip.
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>>32252820
What sort of hormonal issues?
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>>32252820
And because eating you fills me with regret and nausea.
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>>32252820
I have had copper IUDs for nine years now. Never going back. Shits cash.
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>>32252788
>or other men getting to fuck you?
This. I don't think the physical aspect/angle helps, but it's a power thing. A guy doesn't feel like you're his "discovery" or "conquest" anymore if you have been with (in his eyes) many guys. He starts to worry about the skills of those other partners, whether they got you off harder. It feels less or not special. She's been "had" already.
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>>32252788
I think more often than not, it's rooted in insecurity, which isn't exactly a bad thing. It bothers me when other women are incapable of making the connection that we have the same feelings, but it's just not about sex. If you tell a woman you prefer your ex in any capacity, they'd lose their shit.
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>>32252824
Did it not hurt like a bitch to get it in there? Can't it like fall out some times?
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>>32252815
With the other two guys I had oral sex, which is "real" sex to me. Not penetrative sex though.
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>>32252809
>And abstaining from sex when I have the option to end a pregnancy is unnecessary.
That's the most psychopathic statement I've ever seen
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I use steroids which also make me infertile. Getting swole, feeling better, and worry-free creampies? It's a nobrainer. Women, thoughts on men using steroids?
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>>32252809
>And abstaining from sex when I have the option to end a pregnancy is unnecessary.
You would rather kill an innocent baby than not have sex? Don't you females tell incels here that sex isn't that important? Lol
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>>32252809
>Duh
You women always complain about not orgasming from piv
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I hate women.
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>>32252809
>And abstaining from sex when I have the option to end a pregnancy is unnecessary.
You act as if ending a pregnancy never causes mental trauma.
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>>32252826
I think only the thickest of women would actually expect to tell their partner they preferred an ex sexually and for that to go down well, though. Most of the "my gf prefers her ex" stuff online is the guy either overhearing her with friends/finding group chats or specifically pressuring her to tell him about her best sex.
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>>32252828
Have you had a pee pee in your vagina yet?
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>>32252684

Because pregnancy is a major life-changing event, and we have the technology to reduce and abort unwanted pregnancies. People should be allowed to have sex if they are taking reasonable steps to prevent pregnancy
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>>32252830
Because you see abortion as morally wrong. I don't.
>>32252832
Don't do that you'll get gyno
>>32252833
See the disconnect here is we have different definitions of "baby".
>>32252834
Couldn't be me
>>32252836
I would rather endure a few months of feeling bad than subject a child to my parenting and this society. That's basically guaranteed to fuck them up.
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>>32252838
Yes, my now boyfriend was my first for that.
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>>32252837
Uggghhhhhhhhhh... thicker...
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>>32252790
Well, like I said, it's not the leading concern. Leading. I do consider myself entirely and functionally heterosexual; I cannot have a relationship with a man and I have no interest in pursuing casual sex with men (or anyone for that matter) either. What I was trying to stress is that I do not consider myself closeted, nor am I likely to engage in any sort of promiscuity behind a partner's back to satisfy such urges. It's sadly fairly common of bi-curious or bisexual people to have flings behind a partner's back with the same sex, and doubly so if a past partner is still close to them. It'd be a natural concern for a future partner of mine to have, and would cause friction in the relationship even if she wasn't particularly judgemental of bisexuality itself; I too would have the same concerns if the shoe was on the other foot after all.

>But I do get the feeling that you struggle with internalized shame and notions about sexuality here and make no mistake, if you ever reach a point where being reminded that you enjoyed being sexual with a man once revolts you, then your friend himself WILL revolt you, that's just how it works, because he is a living breathing reminder.
I do appreciate this advice though, I'll keep it in mind. The nature of our encounters has been a bit degrading on my part recently, and it shames me that I keep coming back for more. I should nip that in the bud before this gets any more emotionally complicated than it needs to be.
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M or F
Do you think the internet shattered the imagine that women are pure beings who never cheat?

It seems like the more exposure to the internet the more stories about women cheating there are and the more men now distrust women
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>>32252827
>Did it not hurt like a bitch to get it in there?
Not really. You get pain killers and a vaginal suppository on the first appointment that you have to take and insert on the day you get the IUD so you don’t feel much and the cervix is slightly softened. Then they insert a speculum and use clamps to open the cervix. That part is rather uncomfortable but its bearable and only takes like a minute. Then they give you an ultra sound to check if its lovated correctly and then you have to go in after your next period to check if it is still in position. amAfter that you are good to go if you go to your yearly checkups to see if everything is alright and then you can just forget about it for five years.
>Can't it like fall out some times?
It can but it is insanely rare and there is a lot of things that must go wrong for this to happen and you not noticing. The chances are very minimal, to the point where it‘s still one if the most reliable forms of bc. Plus it‘s only local and not hormonal, which are things that are important to me. If you take it out you can get pregnant again the next day in theory since there is no residual effect and since your cycle and fertility and hormones weren’t affected at all.
I think the horror stories about copper IUDs are mainly creepy old wifes tales from the IUDs from forty years ago at this point. It does make your period slightly heavier and loner but like, one day more of bleeding is a price i am willing to pay for not having to worry about bc at all for five years straight.
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>>32252841
>I would rather endure a few months of feeling bad than subject a child to my parenting and this society.
That just goes back to the adoption argument. Sure, it's not great a lot of the times but it has a potential to be a better outcome than abortion for the kid.
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>>32252844
Are you still friends or see the 3 other guys at all still?
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>>32252811
oh shit, my bad, I fucked up in my first post. The party was 2 nights ago, and she responded roughly 24 hours later- not a week. It's not that bad lol, but still notable.

>>32252818
kek
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>>32252851
>adoption argument
I lose control if I allow an adoption. I can't guarantee the safety of my offspring that way. As a "mother" it's safer to never let them exist than to let them go into the foster system.
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>>32252822
It fucked up my natural production of progesterone, which made some preexisting mental issues worse.

>>32252823
The only thing people ever regret is stopping.

>>32252824
Fr fr

>>32252832
Nice, but it can fuck up your libido. I know plenty of former bodybuilders that struggle with impotence as early as their 30's

>>32252847
F
I've never believed this and I don't think anyone has. Though it's made it a lot more transparent, since it used to be portrayed as a woman being pushed into the arms of another man. Now we see a lot of these women for the selfish cunts they are.
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>>32252847
F
Yes
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>>32252855
They exist after you conceive them
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>>32252861
It ain't a baby until it has functioning lungs
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>>32252852
One is the one I mentioned was never quite platonic and I am no longer in touch with him (though I would respond if he sent me a message, we are not on bad terms, just not active friends) because he does feel more like an ex than an old friend given how long and serious the feelings involved were.

The friendship with the guy I made feel so uncomfortable, no, this was one of the things that ended up causing the friendship to peter out. It wasn't instantly over though and I did try to save our friendship for a bit afterwards, we were able to hang out normally, there were just other things that made being friends hard work and kind of unfulfilling for both of us.

Third guy, yes, I am still friends with him.
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>>32252863
vile and ick
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>>32250855
I've seen any heard guys say plenty of times that they'd fuck a fat girl out of their friend s didn't know. Is there a female equivalent to this? By this I mean is there's type of guy women would fuck but wouldn't want their friends or anyone else to know about?
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>>32252863
That's a fucked up way to think of it
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>>32252851
>adoption
nta
foster/adoption homes are a cesspool for pedos and child abusers
If I had to pick between my wife getting a abortion or my child being sent to a foster home I'm picking abortion
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>>32252841
>Don't do that you'll get gyno
Bitch are you indirectly trying to call me a retard? Obviously I know to control my estrogen levels
>>32252856
Just fyi, impotence is not the same as low libido. I have ED and had it before starting testosterone. I take cialis daily and have no issues performing multiple times a day.
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>>32252856
Plenty of guys do
I believed it
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>>32252847
F, this image was never really there to begin with. Back when that was more socially acceptable, men would e.g. forbid their girlfriends from getting a driver's license or going to a different town to visit a (female) friend, specifically to make sure they had no opportunities to cheat in the first place.
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>>32252855
That's a real "King Solomon, cut the baby in half way of thinking". The real mother in that story wanted to give the baby away rather than see it die.
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>>32252865
>Third guy, yes, I am still friends with him.
>(though I would respond if he sent me a message, we are not on bad terms, just not active friends
does your boyfriend know about this?
Do you think it bothers him you are friends with a guy who had his penis in your mouth?
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>>32252868
Is it? I prefer to see it as "scientific" I'm using logic to make a distinction to help me understand how I feel about it morally. If the fetus was developed enough that it could live if removed from me I'd have to take the L and have it. But if I catch it before then then the safest place for my children is nonexistence.
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>>32252867
The broke fuckboy with the big dick.
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>>32252806
Why do you think the the first felt like he didn't belong but the other two did? Were you friends in the long term with the other two as well, or not as long?

Kinda curious because my coworker is one of those guys who married the girl he's been friends with since they were 3 years old, but I also don't think I would've married any of the girls I was close friends with at 3-7 even if we hadn't moved away
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>>32252881
You were at that time that fetus with developing lungs
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>>32252869
>It is morally righteous to kill a child than it is to take a gamble that they might have a good life
People like you die in prison.
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>>32252879
Cutting a baby in half and getting an abortion at 12 weeks are pretty damn different dude.
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>>32252869
I'm adopted and I'm pretty sure I was never sexually abused.
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>>32252847
M. I'm 31 and for as long as I've been aware of the concept of cheating, I've always been under the impression that women did it more. Even before I had access to the internet, it just seemed to be how everyone saw it. We had a classical studies class that covered ancient Rome and Greece, and even back then there were plenty of stories about women and their infidelity. If anything my impression on women has improved a bit in recent years after meeting some decent like-minded women with similar values to myself.
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>>32252885
Nta and I wish I would have been aborted instead.
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>>32252885
Yeah and I should have been aborted. My mom was 19 and not ready and I am the one who pays for that. I will not do that to a child.
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>>32252847
M
Yes, its over for modern women and all their political ideologies will now slowly decay and collapse in on themselves as men reject them and move to more traditional countries outside of the west.
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>>32252881
>help me understand how I feel about it morally
>reinforce your personal bias
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>>32252894
>personal bias
Isn't that what all values/morals are? Taking the information available and making a personal decision based on those facts?
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>>32252867
Not really I think, definitely not in terms of appearance. I think the thing (in this category) women shame each other for most often, is trying too hard for a guy who is obviously not that interested in you and not that nice to you. But even that is more the "I'm judging you hardcore inside but to your face I only say I wished you had more self respect and picked a guy who treated you like you deserved" kind of judging. Women won't laugh about other women going home with ugly/old/fat guys, maybe because for women the proof is more in the pudding and ultimately most of us would rather get fucked properly by a guy who's not hot, than have a guy who looks hot but does nothing for you in bed. So there is also a sense of never quite knowing how lucky or unlucky another girl is.
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>>32252847
M

the internet just has the power to amplify voices and make you think a minority is a majority, and something rare is actually a fucking epidemic. For example, 10% of twitter accounts make 90% of all tweets.
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>>32252881
This is why men need to seize the means of reproduction from these psychopaths. The only way to protect children is to separate them from women who abuse, sell, traffic, and kill them.
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>>32252891
It's always the people that fuck up that argue in favor of abortion. You had potential at one point.
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>>32252892
This. My mom was 21 and my dad was a religious fanatic with anger issues from hell. Miss me with that gay shit.
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>>32252900
Uh huh sure because mostly women are trafficking kids
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>>32252881
The moment you started to invoke science over morality was when I realized you were an idiot and that everything you say is trash because you have no moral character. This is like listening to a prostitute talk about the virtues of waiting until marriage to have sex.
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>>32252880
I deliberately left this part out because I know it's going to cause a lot of feelings in some lurkers and I felt it was off topic regarding the whole "did you have sex with friends" but yes, my bf knows because the third guy is his best friend and it was his suggestion we have a threesome.
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>>32252901
Yes and it was ruined by the circumstances I was born into. Better to not be born than to suffer never being able to live up to your potential.
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>>32252905
>Using facts instead of your feelings to make this decision is idiotic
Bruh
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>>32252889
did you grow up in foster care or were you adopted as a baby?
If you were adopted how old were you?
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>>32252904
Majority of the children trafficked are due to women not wearing contraception, so yes. Children are far safer with their fathers than they are with their mothers.
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>>32252911
Lol
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>>32252892
You live a sad existence
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>>32252906
>my bf knows because the third guy is his best friend and it was his suggestion we have a threesome.
The absolute state of modern men
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>>32252909
>"You don't understand, we had to use Jewish Children for stem cell research! We aren't going to use our kids!"
I like how you used a literal Nazi argument in the Hague.
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>>32252913
You laugh, but he is right. They've done studies on this. Children with them Fathers are way less likely to be sexually abused, physically abused, and don't go to prison as much as children raised by Single Mothers. Women need to be removed from child care.
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>>32252914
No shit. Why would I subject a kid to that?
>>32252916
>Nazi argument
You mean a scientific argument?
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>>32252906
>my bf knows because the third guy is his best friend and it was his suggestion we have a threesome.
Jfc how horrifying
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>>32252916
you didn't say why that's a bad thing?
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>>32252919
>You mean a scientific argument?
No, a legit Nazi argument. Science has no morals attached to it, again, something the Nazis used as a defense in the Hague and something you are trying to do now.
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>>32252918
Dude. Abusive men seek out single moms it's not the women's "fault" you've identified a problem but not the cause.

And I don't think the fatherless kids who end up in jail would have done much better if the piece of shit stuck around.
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>>32252883
>Why do you think the the first felt like he didn't belong but the other two did?
Because this friend could not switch gears. He was obviously into me because he was hard and he was the one who initiated touching me first. But he was too weirded out to go all the way with it. I remember at some point I was trying to get him to relax into it, kind of an "it's okay we are already naked together you can enjoy it now" thing, and I told him that I had wondered in the past what it was like to be sexual with him. Instead of exciting him, this visibly weirded him out too. Ironically it felt like he had me more firmly categorized as "just a friend" than I had him, after all, even though it was his idea.

As I said one of the other guys was someone I always had extra feelings for (but we had started being friends at like fifteen, so I did not recognize it for what it was at the time) so that was not going to be awkward, he always sort of treated me like a girlfriend except that nothing was sexual.

Third guy definitely saw me as just a friend but was able to switch gears very fast when it did get sexual. No doubt also because he was thirty at the time and he is very experienced, I think it was nothing new to him in that sense.

As for your coworker, I see what you mean and I think it can just go both ways. You can grow into a sibling-like relationship where overt tenderness, teasing, flirting etc is all supremely awkward and weird. Or you are friends but there are still moments of more romantic or sexual(ly adjacent) feelings, there is a spark.
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>>32252924
Once again, what's wrong with it?
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>>32252918
Because when dysfunctional families split it is usually the mom that takes the kids. Single fathers usually are widowers, not single fathers due to a failed relationship, so it’s about the functionality of the adults involved.
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>>32252847
F. I don't think there ever was that image. I think it was just more acceptable for men to cheat compared to women, but whenever women cheated it was always a huge deal.
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>>32252924
>Science has no morals to it
You're so close to understanding. So close.
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>>32252896
Values and morals are the framework for decision making and behavior. Someone might refuse to lie because they value honesty, regardless of potential biases they may have about the situation. Bias can cloud judgment and lead to irrational decisions. Bias can lead to inconsistency in behavior and decision making. Someone might act one way in a specific context due to bias while behaving differently in another context. Values and morals are typically more consistent across different situations. Many people are unaware of their biases. People are usually more aware of their values and morals. Bias tends to be more subjective, shaped by immediate circumstances and emotional responses, while values and morals are more stable.
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>>32252927
>it's not the women's "fault"
not him
No it is the woman's fault
Women should be able to sense when a guy has bad intentions
My mother got married to an abusive guy and I told her the moment I met him that he was bad and she didn't listen to me and he ended up hitting both of us
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>>32252935
Sounds like semantics to me
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>>32252896
No. Bias is the thing that will let you justify. Morals tell you how to always act.
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>>32252915
>>32252920
Kek, never failing to deliver.

I know this is the personal nightmare of a lot of guys on here, but purely out of curiosity, do you also feel this strongly about men who have had a FMF threesome with their own girlfriend? Or is that different?
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>>32252938
If she marries an asshole who abused his son and stays for 3 years yeah that's her fault (happened) but I don't think vilifying single moms for trying to find a decent guy is helpful. Vilifying child predators feels like it more directly addresses the problem.
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Anyone want me to draw a tarot card for them? Got any questions?
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My gf is bi and into butches. She seems reluctant about a threesome. How do I make it happen?
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>>32252945
No anon, it is always womens fault. They made those poor men do it. It is very clear.
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>>32252940
Still semantics imo. If your bias informs your morals then they're not separate from each other.
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>>32252952
Can you dial it back by like 3 it's no fun arguing when I know you don't believe your own position.
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>>32252944
It's different because women can be gay with each other during the 3some and it's hot
a MMF can't have gay shit because that's gay
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>>32252933
The only reason experimenting on humans is wrong is due to religion and ethics taken from those religions. If you do your gay little "le science" dance you basically get everything that you complain about happening.
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>>32252955
Sorry, I am NTA. I thought that was clear by my sarcasm.
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>>32252950
Depends on why she is reluctant. If she simply hates the idea and/or is absolutely strictly monogamous, you won't be able to make her feel otherwise.

However chances are she is hesitant because she's afraid your expectations are unrealistic and/or you will not be able to deal with the reality. If that is the case, talking about expectations, boundaries, hypothetical scenarios etc can make her grow more confident.

Tread carefully though, a lot of bi women are really really fed up with trying to be roped into threesomes.
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>>32252957
>The only reason people don't murder is religion
If you truly believe that you might be a psychopath.
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>>32252927
How about you stop being a dumb whore?
>>32252931
Nah, men just do it better, there are tons of men who actually win their kids in divorce.
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>>32252966
Haven‘t seen that once mr delulu.
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>>32252953
It's the other way around. Your morals inform your bias.
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i need to go shopping
for chocolate and musli
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>>32252944
Yeah, but it is different. I "own" my gf/wife and I don't want her enjoying another man because she's mine

I wouldn't have a fmf out of fairness even if she asked
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>>32252956
For what it's worth it was MFM, the guys did not interact with each other sexually.
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>>32252927
The problem isn't abusive men, its women. Women will pretend to act like adults all the way up until something bad happens then all of a sudden they are retarded children that are victims of everything else but their own bad decisions.
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>>32252966
Why should I stop? I have no logical reason to. Can't be a shitty single mom if I abort.

>>32252970
Nah.
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>>32252945
>I don't think vilifying single moms for trying to find a decent guy is helpful
They should be looking for good guys
But women, especially mothers, should be able to detect when a man is full of shit and a danger to her child
"women's intuition" seems to be a meme
>Vilifying child predators feels like it more directly addresses the problem.
Do you think child predators and wife beaters will just stop doing it by asking politely?
>>32252955
that's not me
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>>32252910
I was in foster care until I was 9. I realize my situation can't be a blanket statement.
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>>32252975
Sounds very based. Machiavelli would be proud.
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>>32252968
Because you aren't paying attention like the majority of women you live your life with your head stuck up your ass and walk around saying the most retarded things that are provably wrong but no one wants to contradict a warm hole in the middle of fucking her.
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>>32252973
What about her enjoying another woman, though? Is that just different because you're not a woman yourself?

>have a fmf out of fairness
Doing anything sexual out of "fairness" is a bad idea, period.
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>>32252950
The chances you're going to get a butch girl to have a MFF threesome is pretty low, women aren't born looking butch it's a style that they emulate like any other subculture but this one is a lesbian subculture.
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>>32252981
Sounds like I win.
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>>32252944
It's different because when a man has sex with a woman he's conquering her
Your bf letting you be conquered by another man is literal cuck shit
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>>32252975
>The actions of other people are your fault
Do you realize how dumb that sounds?
>>32252977
>should be able to detect
In a perfect world yes. Falling victim to a child predator doesn't make someone a bad person like holy shit the mental gymnastics.
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>>32252976
>Can't be a shitty single mom if I abo
This is why abortion should not only be legal, but society should abort you with the death penalty. Kill all pedophiles, abortionists, and child abusers, like you.
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>>32252976
Bias can inform and distort moral beliefs, often leading to ethical inconsistencies, while morals can provide a framework that helps people recognize and challenge their biases. Your morals are a compass. Bias is the magnet that fucks it up.
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>>32252989
If I could go get euthanized for free rn I'd go
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>>32252989
Why so suicidal?
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>>32252950
never ever ever try to get a dyke or butch lesbos into a 3some with your gf
learn from the men before you
picrel
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>>32252993
Move to Canada.
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>>32252980
He probably would, but Machiavelli was an evil man, like how all women are.
>>32252988
>Do you realize how dumb that sounds?
I accept your defeat, the fact you can't even debate me is proof that women deserve literally nothing.
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>>32252987
I don't know, that's just silly to me as a woman. Sure I enjoy telling my bf he now owns me after he creampied me, but it's just a feeling/fantasy, it doesn't mean jack shit.

And I mean conquering is overthrowing someone. This guy, his friend, did exactly what I told him to do and no more. I did not want to fuck him because all things considered I do feel a weird emotional attachment to my bf being the only man who's ever been inside of me. So he did not get to fuck me. He got to enjoy everything I did feel like doing.

So how exactly did he conquer me like a city?
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>>32252983
Yeah I guess I'm being pornbrained
But idk given how all the women talk about cock it is different
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>>32252988
>Do you realize how dumb that sounds?
If a woman walks around naked in a homeless encampment and she gets raped, is it her fault for being raped?
Yes
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>>32252994
>no u
Unlike women, I have morals lel.
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>>32252998
>evil
Its getting more based by the minute.
>>32253003
Sounds cringe.
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>>32252988
>"WAHHH PEOPLE ARE SAYING THERE ARE CONSEQUENCES FOR MY ACTIOSN WAHHH"
This is why men hate women btw.
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>>32252999
was his penis in your body?
he conquered you
His spear was thrust into another man's woman
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>>32252997
I thought that was only if you're terminally I'll
>>32252998
Can't argue with someone who doesn't make sense dude. Feeling morally superior about that is very silly.
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>>32253002
Technically no.
She's stupid for putting herself at risk like that but the assault is not her fault. Are you okay? Do you like your mom?
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>>32253008
>Can't argue with someone who doesn't make sense dude. Feeling morally superior about that is very silly.
So its projection because you lack the mental ability to argue? Again, like most women, you can't even form a simple argument for yourself. You have the mentality of a child which is probably why you say these outlandish things.
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>>32253008
It works if you have "depression".
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>>32253006
We gave each other head, so yeah his dick was in me and my pussy in his mouth.

I guess there's no arguing with feelings like these, but it remains silly for me. I mean, he literally started touching me on my bf's own request.
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>>32253008
>Can't argue with someone who doesn't make sense dude.
You have to be 18 to post here.
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>>32253005
>WAHH I make shit up to complain about because I don't have an actual argument to stand on just my fee fees
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>>32252984
Im sure there's masculine/butch bi chicks
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>>32252995
pls tell me it was for real
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>>32252988
>Falling victim to a child predator doesn't make someone a bad person like holy shit the mental gymnastics.
So by your own admission modern women are children and should have any rights. I agree, we need to strip women of their rights because clearly they can't do anything by themselves and when left alone half of them end up dead.
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>>32253012
>She's stupid for putting herself at risk like that
>but the assault is not her fault
You can't walk up to a lion and expect it not to attack you
This world is full of malevolent people, treat them like the enemy because they are
>Do you like your mom?
I don't like the choices she's made and that she would rather listen to a guy she's just met than her own son and I end up suffering for it
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>>32253014
>Mentality of a child
That's ironic. Aren't children more likely to make decisions based solely on their feelings instead of first considering the facts?
>>32253016
Oh fuck yeah I'm moving to Canada.
>>32253019
So what are you doing here?
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>>32253017
your bf is clearly a cuck or bi.
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everybody
a/s/l and are you a regular poster please
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>>32253000
Maybe for some, can't speak for all women. But pleasure is pleasure and if anything women tend to be quite good at getting each other off.

Just saying if you ever do get the chance for a threesome with two girls, only go for it if you are ready to see her world get rocked by someone and you think you can take it.
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>>32253017
>my bf's own request.
How does it feel that your bf gets off to another man getting pleasure from you?
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>>32253023
The chances of finding one are very low, that is what I said.
Either way it isn't even worth it unless he plans on dumping her afterward and wants to try something first.
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>>32253020
My argument is that actions have consequences and you are so misandtrist that you think that the rules of the world don't apply to you, but they do.
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>>32251784
Shave
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>>32253026
Men can be raped too anon. If we go by that logic no one can have any autonomy or agency. Stop being dumb.
>>32253028
An adult male human is not a lion. You realize how fucked up this argument is right?
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>>32253029
>Aren't children more likely to make decisions based solely on their feelings instead of first considering the facts
Yeah, so are modern women which is why men aren't dating them. They would rather date ugly traditional women than women who have the mental age of 14 like you.
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>>32253031
20/m/southeast U.S.
yeah
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>>32253017
This is disgusting, I cannot imagine being a cuck like your bf.
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>>32253039
>Men can be raped too anon. If we go by that logic no one can have any autonomy or agency. Stop being dumb.
Yet for some reason the male rape rate is so much lower... Hmmm... Could it be that women just can't make adult decisions because they lack the ability too? You are certainly proving my theory correct right now.
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>>32253036
>actions have consequences
I agree. Which is why I will never birth a child.
>>32253040
Women have literally the exact same complaint about men though. So something bigger is happening.
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>>32253045
Did you say anything to her?
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>>32253030
Nah. He just gets off really hard on seeing me get my mind blown sexually. And he really enjoyed seeing me a little out of my comfort zone and getting shy, having a new experience (I had never been with two people prior, let alone two men). He's also a lot more experienced than I am and I know that bothers him sometimes. Plus I am sure that he likes the idea of being a bf who lets his girl do everything and anything and enjoy literally all pleasures in life.

That said, it's been almost a year ago since this happened and although all three of us had a great time, we never tried it again because it is just hard as fuck to walk that balance and you are just playing with fire.
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>>32253029
>So what are you doing here?
Unlike you, I'm an adult that understands that actions have consequences, something you've yet to prove you understand.
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>>32253044
nta but I honestly think it's because a man can more easily fight back if someone is trying to rape them.
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>>32253046
>Which is why I will never birth a child.
I like how you say that as if it was ever an option with you. No one wants to have sex with a retard, let alone date one.
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>>32253033
Incredible. Unbelievable. Like there are no rules (which is not true of course, but still, it feels that way for a bit), only love and adoration.
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>>32253039
>An adult male human is not a lion
I'm giving an example of doing a stupid thing and being punished for it doesn't mean you are free of responsibility from it
>You realize how fucked up this argument is right?
we live in a cruel world, don't expect anyone to be kind from the goodness of their heart
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>>32253057
jealous
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>>32253048
I believe I only said
''Hello''
''By card''
''Thank you so much!''
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>>32253046
>Women have literally the exact same complaint about men though.
They don't, this is how I know you are delusional. The same men you complain about can easily go overseas and get married to the point where that is the default advice for men in the west now. Don't date idiots like you, just go overseas. Which is why 45% of the women in the west will never be married or have kids. Men are collectively done with your shit and you're nothing more than a slut to fuck and outside of that you are nothing.
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>>32253045
Were you getting your AIDS medication?
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>>32253049
>says he's not a cuck and then describes how he's a cuck in detail
bait or retardation
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>>32253060
nta F If I choose to walk around naked and I'm raped, that's totally my fault? What if it's a nudity colony?
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Women, are you like this?
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>>32253071
Still your fault.
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>>32253057
>Like there are no rules
once again, women prove they hate responsibility and accountability
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>>32253052
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>>32253050
>You don't understand because you don't agree with me
>>32253055
Lol. Nice try I've got one of the highest body counts here.
>>32253060
In what way do you think she's free from responsibility? Being dumb doesn't exclude you from being a victim. It just makes you a stupid one.
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>>32253072
Yes. Men suck in theory but unfortunately in practice they smell nice and act cute.
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>>32253072
M
I hope so the less modern women try to date and accept they will never have kids for the betterment of society and humanity, the better off we all will be.
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>>32253062
Sorry, I get that. But it's my honest answer. I never had any interest in threesomes or any kind of open relationship, swinging, whatever. I don't have a wandering mind. It has never taken me any issue to be monogamous.

But it still totally blew my mind to realize I was doing this thing that would make me an irrevocable worhtless whore in most men's eyes, and the man I loved was there taking in my enjoyment and beaming. Fuck, he actually looked proud of me. I remember that night thinking like a hundred times
>who even ARE you, where did I even FIND a man like this

And even now that I don't think this experience will be repeated soon, if ever, I still will never unsee him giving me that look of encouragement and sly lust while I was wide-eyed staring at him with another guy kissing my neck. It was a lot better than I could have hoped and not for any of the "four hands feel better than two" reasons either.
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>>32253071
>If I choose to walk around naked and I'm raped, that's totally my fault?
If you take fentanyl and you die of a overdose, is that not your fault?
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>>32253081
>>You don't understand because you don't agree with me
Yes, that is your whole argument so far... So much for female empowerment when you can't understand basic logic.
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>>32253068
If you use cuck to mean beta male with no sexual pride, sure, whatever, that's up for your personal judgment.

If you are talking about cuckoldry, though, it is a must that the man gets off on being surpassed/ignored/overlooked in favor of someone else. Enjoying sharing your woman is not the same, just like being enthusiastic about a FMF does not make a woman a cucqueen.
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>>32253065
>They don't
We could probably look at yesterday's thread and find an example of a femanon complaining about a "manchild". If you're going to be wrong at least be convincing.
>>32253090
>Voluntarily taking a drug is the same as being in the wrong place at the wrong time while naked
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>>32253081
>Lol. Nice try I've got one of the highest body counts here.
>t. fat women larping
lmfao, I never get why women brag about having no self-respect. "Yeah, I'm a semen dumpster!" You really got brainwashed hard, huh? Makes sense, you're probably one of the lowest IQ posters I've ever talked too on this site.
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>>32253089
No I meant, I am jealous of you for having found a man like this. Sounds amazing.
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>>32253093
Bud. That's your argument. Your only basis for thinking you're correct is your feelings. Stop acting like a woman.
>>32253100
>No self respect
You're projecting.
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>>32253081
>In what way do you think she's free from responsibility? Being dumb doesn't exclude you from being a victim. It just makes you a stupid one.
If a deer doesn't notice a bear and gets mauled, is it the deer's fault for not noticing the danger?
Yes
Did it deserve to be killed for being stupid?
No
But it died all the same
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>>32253097
>We could probably look at yesterday's thread and find an example of a femanon complaining about a "manchild".
Most women can't socialize to save their lives. Most women lie. Most women will throw hissy fits over small things because they lack emotional regulation. One thing I've learned is that you never believe women and 80% of what they say are flat out lies.
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>>32253096
>Enjoying sharing your woman is not the same
She's getting off to someone else
Yeah it is the same
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>>32253097
>while naked
And there it is
You think we live in a high trust society where you can just trust people to not do the right thing?
How naive are you?
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>>32253103
>You're projecting.
I like how you're only defense to the truth is "no u", I totally hit the nail on the head. Then you go ahead and project your own argument on the anon above you. You have no self-awareness and it should be frankly illegal that you are allowed to vote or walk around without a minder.
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Took my gf to one of the highest rated steakhouses in our city and a couples massage after, for our 6 month anniversary. Of course I gave her flowers when I picked her up. Women, what else can I do next time? I feel like I have to set the bar higher every time and honestly I'm kinda scared.
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>>32253090
You ignored my second question. What if that behavior is in a society where that sort of thing is more normalized?

The fentanyl thing, perhaps I'm addicted and my brain is messed up. Maybe I'm in an environment that doesn't support recovery or safety. Maybe it's another drug that was laced with it without my knowledge. Maybe I have existing mental health issues.
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>>32253104
Nta but by that logic its the babies fault for being in a womans womb that could abort it. Maybe babies should try harder next time and make better choices when selecting a mom. It cant be that hard, other kids are perfectly capable of choosing sane mothers.
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>>32253104
Is a man a bear? You're placing blame on women like men are wild animals and not human beings who are supposed to have their own moral compasses. That's not a flex. That's pretty disrespectful to men actually.
>>32253105
I don't know very many people who are good at emotionally regulating these days. It's a widespread issue not part of the gender wars.

Do you guys want to switch to gun rights or something I feel like we're getting to the end of this one
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>>32253103
>Bud. That's your argument. Your only basis for thinking you're correct is your feelings. Stop acting like a woman.
I honestly laughed at this, its so delusional that I don't even know where to begin. You're mental health is awful, but this is a great reminder that modern women are trash and should be avoided. Thanks!
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>>32253102
I got that, just felt the need to apologize because I don't know how I got so lucky either. Even bracketing the threesome, it is fucking fantastic to never have to censor yourself when mentioning past crushes or stuff like that. He just won't feel threatened, he knows I'm crazy about him and not only is it fine that I've had sexual thoughts about other men, he enjoys hearing those. I am the same way and love to make him talk about sexual experiences he had with other women in the past (mostly because I love when I can hear the sheepishness or lust creep up in his voice) but I never expected men to be like this, especially not men that want a committed relationship.

They are out there, is all I can say!
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>>32253115
You don‘t have to outdo yourself. Thats silly.
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>>32253096
yes, he's aroused by getting temporarily overlooked in favor of someone else.
you said he just gets off really hard on seeing you get your mind blown sexually by another guy.
if that's not cuck nothing is cuck
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>>32253089
>the man I loved was there taking in my enjoyment and beaming. Fuck, he actually looked proud of me
women really are whores
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>>32253115
Do things that feel meaningful to you and her. If this is what you think is the best you can give her for her, you can even make it into a tradition to go to a steakhouse and get a massage, and get her a little thoughtful present for special occasions.
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>>32253118
>I don't know very many people who are good at emotionally regulating these days.
I do and they are all men, don't project your female mental health issues on men. Women are way worse off than men are right now. The funny thing is that men are doing better mental health wise because they are retreating from a society filled with mentally ill women; a mentally healthy man is generally an isolated or has a small friend group and they all just sit around at each other's houses.
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>>32253109
No anon, it's not. It's like some people enjoy showing off their body and being praised and admired - but some men also get off on showing their dick and being met with horrified responses and being shamed for being a creep.

You can say "it is literally the same because you both get off on being nude with people". But it makes no fucking sense. One person gets off on pride, maybe a little shock, being praised. Another person gets off on being put down and humiliated. They are totally different things and it's more a coincidence that both involve baring the body.

It is the same with this. If you are a cuckold you get off to humiliation and you typically do not want to be present for your woman (or man) being with someone else, or at least not participating.
You can also get off on group sex in different ways and for different reasons, in fact it's a lot more common.
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>>32253121
Was it like that between you two from the start or how did you get there?
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>>32253129
There are a couple of really good friend replacements out there these days:
>buddhist self talk
>tuplas
>AI
>writing letters to your self at a set future date
>I forget what its called but that phenomenon where you write about a specific character so long that you automatically just "know" how they will react to things.
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>>32253124
I said he got off on me having my mind blown sexually. You added the "by another guy". The fact that it was another guy and not my bf, was not remotely as important as
>being watched by my bf with someone else
>it being totally unexpected and out of nowhere
>being with two men simultaneously
It was the situation overall, basically.

>>32253125
Yeah anon, I'm sure you only get off to the thought of holding hands while looking forward to marriage together.
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>>32253120
You guys are really bad at gaslighting no wonder you don't have girlfriends.
>>32253129
>I do and they are all men
I'm going to have to doubt you here. I can't trust a man's opinion (who's just some guy and not like, a psychologist) on other men's emotional intelligence. You don't know what you don't know.
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>>32253118
>like men are wild animals and not human beings who are supposed to have their own moral compasses
men used to beat each other over the head with rocks and take other tribes women only a few thousand years ago
You think that all just went away?
>>32253116
>What if that behavior is in a society where that sort of thing is more normalized?
High trust society things can only happen in a high trust society
>Maybe I have existing mental health issues.
that's been established
>>32253117
You ever see the video about the lion cub that broke it's back and it couldn't use it's hind legs anymore and it's mother literally just abandoned it?
As I said before, it's a cruel world
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>>32253148
>High trust society things
Like rape?
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>>32253121
Are you Nordic/Scandinavian?
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>>32253148
nta that gets into ethics and stuff. Are humans better than animals? Should we be? And yes, I know we're mammals.
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>>32253133
>If you are a cuckold you get off to humiliation
if bf shares his gf with another man but gf never shared the bf with another girl that is humiliating for the bf
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>>32251784
Yes you're cute
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>>32253149
I'm saying rape is less likely to happen in a high trust society
If you live in a nude colony were being naked is normal and high trust then rape will be rare
If you live in a nudist colony with a cult leader and it isn't high trust, rape is more likely to happen
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>>32253148
>abandoned
Because otherwise they both would have died. Sometimes you have to make tough choices between two shitty options and so you have to do damage control. Abortion is such a situation. Ruining one life and another half is better than ruining two or three lives completely.
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>>32253162
Nta but stop projecting your insecurities on every man.
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>>32253122
So what would you expect?
>>32253126
The problem is that I kinda let it slip I only did it for her which made her disappointed. I'm autistic btw so I'm not really sure how to navigate this. How do I make her feel how special she is to me? Like yeah we enjoy going out to concerts, the lake, get some food, or typically just staying in and playing vidya/watching anime together. But it feels like we always do those things so it's not exactly special? I'm not sure how to explain it
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>>32253158
>Are humans better than animals?
That's an impossible question to answer since animals act more on instinct than rational thought and advancement in society
>Should we be?
I think it's in our best interest
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I did not call off work the other day when I asked about it but today I think I’m really gonna do it. Frankly there is other stuff I’d like to do today (including voting) and I have the PTO to cover it. The problem is I just did the same thing last Tuesday so I don’t want to be ‘that guy’ especially when I have a reputation for being fairly reliable, and my department only has like 8 people in it including me and my boss, so there’s only ever 3-4 people maximum working at any one time, which means it’s relatively catastrophic when even one person calls out. I guess my question is, should I do it? Should I feel bad about doing it? How do I not feel bad about it? How do I stop caring? For what it’s worth, my throat does hurt pretty bad today (fucked it up this morning because I forgot how to scream-sing because I’ve been listening to synth wave for the past month) so if anyone presses me on why I’m not there I can and will tell them my throat was hurting and I “didn’t want to give anyone anything” and I’m also pretty sure my wisdom teeth are causing some problems with my immune system which is why I called off last Tuesday anyway.
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>>32253031
Yes I am Mr. Fed
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>>32253136
The talking, yes, I remember from the very first night I was asking him about other sex he'd had. He mentioned early on that he'd had a few threesomes (mostly with two women, but also one with another man) in the past and really enjoyed that, but I didn't really react to it at the time because I was not drawn to that idea.

I am really reliable (= potentially boring) in what gets me off and do not need a lot of novelty. My bf is much more into spontaneity, surprises and so on and I could tell at some point he was actively fishing for me to say something that would be new to him. He asked me if I would want a threesome and I said no, then he asked me IF I were to have a threesome, would I prefer two women or two men. I said two men in all honesty because I have never been with a woman properly and the idea of doing that for the first time during a threesome was weird to me. He then asked if I had to pick someone, who would I choose, I said his best friend, tbf mostly because of his chemistry with my partner and how close they obviously are. He was the only "third" I could picture where things might still feel natural and fun rather than awkward. My boyfriend is not bisexual so it was all the more important to me that he'd feel at ease with the guy.

Not going to lie with every answer I gave to this I was still afraid I would wreck the relationship. But these conversations happened two years in and I became more and more convinced that my boyfriend legitimately enjoyed the idea.

And to be totally honest, eventually he just had enough and started touching me up with his friend right there. I realized instantly what he was going for and my head initially still said no and that the risk was too big, but once I realized he was for real and willing to find out if his friend was into me, it was so incredibly exciting that I told myself the awkward phase (if the friend had not been interested) was already here so we might as well roll with it now.
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>>32253168
Anon, aren't bad things more likely to happen if people trust regardless? If you leave your door unlocked, of course there's more chance of someone stealing from you.
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>>32253176
>expect
Personally I truly despise anniversaries because I hate performing appreciation on demand so I might be the wrong person to ask.
Spending extra quality time together or getting something you know she truly appreciates and would not otherwise get for herself because it‘s not a necessity (like flowers) is nice enough I think.
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I'm 5'9 woman which is very tall and I never had a boyfriend. Is it over or can I ever find one who will see me as a WOMAN?
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>>32253170
what exactly are you trying to argue with me about?
>Because otherwise they both would have died
the mother was fine, it just knew the cub would've had a horrid life
The cub was literally crawling to it's mother while she looked away
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>>32253162
My bf wanted this threesome, though, it was not something he did for me.

Not gonna lie I would love to repay him and make sure he has just as much a wonderful night with me and another woman. But thirds for threesomes don't grow on trees. Rest assured though, if I ever feel potential for that I will do everything I can to make it happen.
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>>32252971
Mmm yummy
Did you manage to go?
>>32252946
Yes pls, see if I have good fortune next week or if I need to watch out for anything
>>32252847
M, no, my mom cheated and would bring guys home so I knew not all women were saints
But I also used something called critical thinking to realise they're not an evil hivemind either
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>>32252946
F
Did I make the right choice?
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>>32253182
Sounds cute. Was it awkward with the friend after?
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>>32253190
I'm 6'1
5'9 is the ideal height for a girl
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>>32253187
>aren't bad things more likely to happen if people trust regardless?
High trust society works when the people share a common goal and life style that is safe for the community
A town in Nebraska will have a more high trsut society than in Gaza were people are being blown up every day because Gaza isn't safe
>If you leave your door unlocked, of course there's more chance of someone stealing from you.
it used to be normal to leave your door unlocked and expect nothing bad to happen while you were gone because we used to live in a high trust society
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>>32253191
>fine
Yes, but she would not have bene in the long run. It‘s called thinking ahead anon. You should try it some time. Kids are forever not just until birth. Having a child is a huge commitment.
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>>32253194
>My bf wanted this threesome,
yes, because he has a cuckold fetish. you getting fucked by other guy aswell turns him on
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>>32253190
just ignore my dwarven height and i'll ignore yours and we can date ahppily
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>>32253178
>animals act more on instinct than rational thought and advancement in society
This is too simplistic. There's a lot of research that shows the cognitive abilities of a lot of species. They show empathy and can mourn the dead. Animals often adapt their behaviors in response to environment. I don't think they operate fully on instinct.
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>>32252753
M
>Have you ever had sex
No
>Would you?
I don't think so, not unless we were dating. I kind of separate friends from girls I want to date. I ended up dating a friend for a few months but the raw attraction wasn't really there. Also another friend offered to be fwb but I was worried about catching feels and stuff
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>>32253208
Nta but you repeating the same thing over and over again will not work on femanon. Maybe get some new material or give up.
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>>32253190
It isn't over, 5'9" is a good height for a woman, I dated a woman that was that tall and it was super cute, she would wear platform shoes on our dates too making her like 5'11".
I am very short though, I'm 5'3", but that doesn't mean I won't treat a tall woman like a princess cause I will.
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>>32253195
>Did you manage to go?
did not
cause rainy and cold
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>>32253190
Yeah, I dated a woman who was a couple inches taller than me (I'm 5'7) and didn't think of her as any less of a woman lol
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>>32253148
>men used to beat each other over the head with rocks and take other tribes women only a few thousand years ago
I think men have always had the capacity to DECIDE NOT TO do that.
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>>32253213
>I don't think they operate fully on instinct.
did you not read
>>32253178
>animals act more on instinct than rational thought
key word is MORE
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Men
I've never had a best friend, and if I did they always had a different best friend they were closer to
Am I cooked
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>>32253190
Height doesn't have as much to do with it as width.
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>>32253227
No, I'm in the same situation, all my "best friends" had an actual best friend.
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>>32252946
How can we eradicate superstition from humanity?
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>>32253190
My 5'9 sister is like 40 pounds heavier than her fiance, and I think they're basically the same height.
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>>32253225
I bet that anon is a vegetarian.
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>>32253190
back to posting this shitty old bait again eh?
>>32253217
>treating women like "princesses"
just stop
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>>32253206
You do know lions share taking care of their cubs right?
>It‘s called thinking ahead anon. You should try it some time
now you're typing like you're on twitter
why are you even typing to me?
go shave your hair off
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>>32253227
Ive never had friends and I'm relatively successful. You'll be fine
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>>32253176
Do something that feels special to you two. My husband and I love hockey and amusement parks, for special occasions we'll often go to away matches and make it a weekend trip, or go spend an evening on roller coasters.
If you like watching anime, make it into a marathon, set up the house, buy her favorite food, eetc. Do stuff like that. You don't need to have a conventional anniversary date, just find something thoughtful to make your usual activities into something a little extra special.
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>>32253234
duh, the abortion schizo IS the vegan schizo
soon he will go on and post his dominion and abortion gore flooding
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>>32253224
Indeed. The only reason I'm not a rapist is because it's socially unacceptable.
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I'm 5'9 man which is very short and I never had a girlfriend. Is it over or can I ever find one who will see me as a MAN?
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>>32253190
Men dont give a fuck about height. No not even if they're 5 feet.
But yeah if you have a size difference fetish and need a guy 1 foot taller than you at all times to feel feminine it's pretty over. I'm sorry you got bullied in high school
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>>32253245
YWNBAM
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>>32253224
>I think men have always had the capacity to DECIDE NOT TO do that.
civilized men have the capacity to not do that
But to protect your people sometimes you gotta smash a skull
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>>32253238
>share taking care
And we are not lions. If I have a kid and am overwhelmed and broke, no neighbor will look after it and pay our rent.
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>>32253242
nta but I love how people can pick and choose their morals.
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>>32253235
>just stop
No, I will not stop
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>>32253243
There are men who will say this without even a drop of sarcasm.
>>32253249
>To protect people
We're not talking about protecting people we're talking about men bashing each other in the head with rocks to steal each other's mates. Wouldn't need protecting if men just, didn't do that.
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too many men happy to treat women like princesses not enough women interested in treating their man like princes
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>>32253201
Not nearly as awkward as you might expect, but there were some moments yes. I could tell specifically after I'd made him (the third) cum, he felt very lost and awkward for a little bit and I could tell he was just really really afraid that he just fucked up his best friendship. I am sure he felt like if something went wrong, he would've been out (I doubt that personally, I think my partner would've sooner dumped me, but that's speculation).

Other than that, the cat's out of the bag and you deal a little more with unspoken expectations. The third is a very promiscuous guy who has never been in a monogamous relationship in his life. He loves my bf very much and I can tell how hard he works to respect our monogamous relationship, but I know at the end of the day he finds it kind of silly and childish to draw those boundaries and I could absolutely tell that right after we had sex, third had to sometimes keep himself from giving me a kiss or pulling me in. That was a phase though, if you have gone back to your old normal long enough, it becomes the new normal again.

That said, it could still get messier in the future, you never know. Third really wants to get into a relationship and I'm sure anyone he will end up dating would not love to hear that he had a threesome with his two closest friends, for example. Then again the third is very much an open relationships guy so I doubt he would be compatible with someone who feels that way, anyway.

But yes it was very cute. We did not even do much for most of the time, I spent a really long time just lying naked on both their laps while they were clothed, we smoked weed together and watched a film and every now and then they would turn their attention to me and make me cum (which is really easy to do with me), that was honestly my favorite part. And having two men simultaneously lovingly encourage you to climax is insane.
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>>32253250
>no neighbor will look after it
Sure, why not?

>and pay our rent.
Ok, that one I'm not obligated to do.
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>>32253221
Fairs, hopefully the rain stops or you can go tomoz...
>>32252639
M, does m my mom count because I could write a whole book of roasts
Other than that... probably a teacher in school telling me that I wouldn't amount to anything. Jokes on her haha I... didn't amount to anything shit but nevermind
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>>32253256
I know a lot of women who go above and beyond for their boyfriends and husbands.
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>>32253256
I alternate between treating my bf like a king and a slave.
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>>32253255
>Wouldn't need protecting if men just, didn't do that.
Again
How many fucking times do I have to type this out
The world is cruel
see this image >>32253060
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>>32253230
>>32253240
Do you think I'll ever find a boyfriend with these stats? He'd probably end up being my only best friend and even then still probably have a dude he feels closer to than me
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>>32253260
>Sure, why not
Nta but oh man. I have so many reasons why you should not do childcare "favors" for your neighbor if you're not ready to set a precedent. Or if you don't know them that well. Shitty parents abuse the shit out of this and will be a huge inconvenience for you if you're not careful and they suck.
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>>32253264
This statement is worth nothing.
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>>32253268
That kinda thing doesn't really happen in first world countries though.
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>>32253273
About as much as your statement, yeah.
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>>32253255
>There are men who will say this without even a drop of sarcasm.
Sure lets pretend that women haven't done and said worse...
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>>32253260
I will not bring a child into this world and depend on others helping me. So far depending on other people being reliable and helpful has only been disastrous. If i can’t realistically and effortlessly do it alone, I will not have a baby and that‘s the end of that.
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How to deal with being a side character . Nothing ever happens to me etc
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>>32253268
>The world is cruel
Still doesn't make it "my fault" when someone does something shitty to me. It's their fault. They did it.
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>>32253272
Just because you do a favor once in a while doesn't mean that you'll become a doormat, does it?
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>>32253274
>That kinda thing doesn't really happen in first world countries though.
You're unbearably naive
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>>32253277
>If i can’t realistically and effortlessly do it alone, I will not have a baby and that‘s the end of that.
Lol.
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>>32253269
Yeah. If you're worried about him having close friends, just look for someone like me who is autistic and has no friends.
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>>32252624
M UK, meh not really
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>>32253257
>I spent a really long time just lying naked on both their laps while they were clothed, we smoked weed together and watched a film and every now and then they would turn their attention to me and make me cum (which is really easy to do with me), that was honestly my favorite part. And having two men simultaneously lovingly encourage you to climax is insane.
That sounds heavenly. How did you not keep doing that and go back to not give in to the sexual tension?
Do you post itt regularly? I feel like I have not seen you post here before or you just rarely talk about this.
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>>32253282
No. I'm just saying to be careful with that kind of thing unless you know the parent very well and know they won't try to take advantage.

It's probably different as an adult male than a teenage girl, but be wary.
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>>32253275
Nah, mines a fairly accurate general observation.
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>>32253285
>you're unbearably naive
>posts article from 3rd world country with nigger problem
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>>32253269
Yes, if you get married and have kids you were always going to end up his best friend.
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>>32253280
I'm not arguing that bad things SHOULD happen to you
I don't want anything bad to happen to anyone
But this is the world we live in, and we have to deal with it
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>>32253291
No, mine is a fairly accurate general observation.
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>>32253285
That seems kinda like a race thing.
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>>32252552
M
To an extent, a lot of guys on here overly focus on "maxxing" without actually meeting women
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>>32253298
Yours is a cope anecdote that misses the point.
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>>32253286
The day humans become reliable and trustworthy again is the day I will rely on them again and trust them. Until then, no fucking way. Not going to risk my and my childs future by trusting someone to help us, care for us and look after us.
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>>32253301
No, yours is a cope anecdote that misses the point.
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>>32253297
And I will deal with it. What I won't deal with is being told that other people's shitty behavior is my fault. It is my responsibility to keep myself safe but if something happens to me it isn't my fault. It's the fault of the shithead who wronged me.
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>>32253302
This kinda thing is totally the "be the change that you want to see" issue.
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>>32252442
As a short hair enjoy yes generally, right side hairstyle is very cute
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>>32253287
No it's okay if he has friends but maybe he'd get annoyed if I follow him like a lost puppy everywhere
>>32253294
I hope so
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>>32253299
here's Germany then
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>>32253285
The Midwest is like Narnia but evil
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>>32253316
Nta
There are lots of black people in Germany, what did they look like
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>>32253316
>boys, 12-14
Try again.
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>>32253309
Yes it is. Because I will not subject a child to existence until I personally and alone (since I can only control my own actions and not those of others and relying on them standing by their word is not good enough for this kind of responsibility) can guarantee and promise that I can look after it and care for it the way it deserves to be cared for and looked after.
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>>32253316
>germany
the country importing millions of foreigners who don't face punishment for crime?
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>>32253312
>he'd get annoyed if I follow him like a lost puppy everywhere
I can tell you that that's exactly what I want in a relationship. Dunno about other people tho
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>>32252409
>M
>on front desk at work, woman checks in for appointment
>other guy is very close behind her so I assume they're a couple
>"so are you and your husband going in together? (:"
>"my husband is dead"
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>>32253306
Yes, but doing things that are unsafe isn't intelligent
Walking in a mini skirt at 3am in a alleyway full of homeless people isn't a smart decision
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>>32253285
Not to get too racist but black people are originally from Africa, which is not a first world country.
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>>32253289
>How did you not keep doing that and go back to not give in to the sexual tension?
It was a little hard at first, especially because suddenly just being with the three of us (which happens a lot) find vaguely erotic. I could tell nothing had changed for my bf but for myself I did have this "omg omg omg BOTH those men pleasured me TOGETHER" feeling every now and then.

I also am super sexual but very good at pretending I'm not. Usually when guys are too flirty, I am great at pretending I have no clue what they're on about, I am usually piqued for being prudish/conservative/innocent, that helps too. I was also great at listening to all third's sexually explicit stories while being in Louis Theroux-mode, but after we had had that experience, I felt like I was no longer incognito and could no longer pretend to be retarded when friend was obviously fishing a little for what kind of mood I was in. That took getting used to. I can now pokerface again, not from a feeling of "he doesn't know any better" but from a feeling of "so what if he still remembers I can also be very sexual, what's he going to do if he can tell I'm not going to show him that side now?" Again it was just a matter of getting used to it.

It also helped that by the time this happened, I had also been friends with third for three years myself, so I knew him well and while you cannot will yourself not to think about a thing (sexual memories) anymore, it was easier to will myself to listen very closely to what he said in that moment and not let my attention stray. To focus more on the friendship in my head.

>Do you post itt regularly?
Yeah! It ebbs and flows but overall, yes, I do specifically shut up about this usually because it is so derailing. I love to answer any serious question but it sucks to have an army of faceless guys call your amazing boyfriend all sorts of names because of a grand thing he did for you and that's more likely than questions.
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>>32253324
So home schooling then?
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>>32253278
Make things happen then.
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>>32253331
Who said it was smart? It isn't. Does not make it my fault if someone decides to rape me. It's his fault.

If I decided to climb a suspension bridge and fell off that would be my fault. If somebody fucking pushed me it'd be theirs. Please tell me you see the difference.
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>>32253331
Ah yes, all of those homeless rapists and robbers, not gang members
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>>32253246
speak for yourself, as a man i totally give a fuck about height
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>>32253344
Nta but you are in the minority of men with that
A sizeable proportion of guys feel emasculated or whatever bullshit if they're shorter, but in terms of raw sexual attraction I don't think the vast majority register it
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>>32253342
Yeah I'm pretty sure that homeless guy who offered me meth wouldn't have raped me. He alluded to wanting to fuck but didn't touch me.
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>>32253190
You are a woman. However, it's over anyway, for other reasons.
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>>32253334
I think you mentioned it earlier but why did you decide to not explore this further?
>specifically shut up about this usually because it is so derailing
Very understandable. Its refreshing to read some sex positive narratives on here for a change. The moralfagging gets tiresome fast.
Have you always been someone that orgasms easily or is that something that got more pronounced in your relationship with your bf as he helped you feel free to be expressive and uninhibited in your body and your sexuality?
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>>32253340
>If I decided to climb a suspension bridge and fell off that would be my fault. If somebody fucking pushed me it'd be theirs. Please tell me you see the difference.
Yes, it would be their fault
However if there was a crazy guy screaming on the bridge, would you still go over it?
If no, then you are able to calculate danger and thus remove the risk of being pushed off
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>>32253337
School is obligatory, so I can rely on it being there tomorrow more than I can rely on a single private person. But yes, it‘s an option.
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>>32252400
Once I went out with a girl with a choker and said I liked her necklace and she laughed at me
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>>32253342
>Ah yes, all of those homeless rapists and robbers, not gang members
I'm giving examples, not a factual testimony
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>>32253355
And if I have to cross because the only other way home is 6 miles out of the way? It's called a calculated risk dude. It STILL does not make the behavior of other people my fault. I am at fault for putting myself in a possibly dangerous situation (important word here being possibly) but I am NOT at fault for being raped come on I didn't think this would be that hard to understand.
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Tall blonde women with elf blood can you perform magic better than goth witch girls
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Guys, why are you arguing with females? It's a waste of time. Would you take a child seriously if it expresses their opinion on politics?
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>>32253362
Imagine getting knocked out and when you regain consciousness pic rel is balls deep inside of you.
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>>32252373
Yeah it's sad but we live in a society
I don't think there's much correlation between body image and how good looking you actually are desu. If anything prettier girls might have their insecurities amplified being in the limelight
I went out with a literal model who vented to me about low self esteem and dieting etc.
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>>32253367
Does he...not have eyes?
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>>32253369
I think they are rolled back but he looks demonic.
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>>32252351
Your username bro... this is like saying you love restaurants but would never eat anything there
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>>32253338
How? I make new friends but they ignore me, I meet guys but they ghost me. Sometimes they'll stick around but never for long and they never want to hang out much
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>>32253370
He looks like the monster from Gerald's Game.
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>>32253363
>I am NOT at fault for being raped come on I didn't think this would be that hard to understand.
Jesus Christ
I said before it's not your fault
I never said it was your fault
I'm arguing that you should be able to asses situations and be smart enough to not make bad decisions
For the bridge example
Is 6 miles not wroth being raped or murdered?
Is a hour of walking worth it?
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>>32253340
>See obviously dangerous situation
>Walk into said dangerous situation
>Not my fault
Yeah sorry but there is an accountability issue here. The onus of situational awareness is always on the individual whether you like it or not. That doesn’t mean we don’t punish criminal behavior but this attitude of self preservation being a burden you seem to resent is honestly coming off kinda entitled.
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>>32253362
The libtards are not going to like this one.
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>>32252409
F
What did she look like... did you tell her she was pretty
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>>32253377
Okay so you're not who I was originally arguing with and I no longer care. The "fault" was the sticking point for me.
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>>32253354
>I think you mentioned it earlier but why did you decide to not explore this further?
Short story is that I can't see it ending in any other way than hurt. My bf is definitely not interested in any "throuple" kind shit, which is all the more understandable because our third is truly just a (great) friend for him and there would be no added benefits for him. Yeah, he did really enjoy seeing me get off on both of us, but also for the novelty factor and him knowing this was a new and extreme thing for me, I doubt he would still find it exciting if it turned normal for us to have sex.

More urgently, though, third and I are close friends and have been for some time (including living in the same house for a bit) so there's real affection there. I don't know if it's abnormal or not, but I cannot separate sex from feelings nor do I want to, if there's no feelings I don't see why I would want sex. But being sexual with a friend also changes things, especially because third was also very good to me, very tender and vocal about how much he liked me. That makes my feelings deepen, but there's no way for that to go. I know I'm not going to fall in love with this guy the way I am in love with my boyfriend. I know third probably won't with me either. So if we keep getting closer and closer, I feel the obvious progression is that we would be stuck in a sort of friends with benefits type of situation where ironically third is more likely to feel left out of the relationship than just being close friends to a couple.

Obviously I also do worry for what would be the risk for my own relationship. I feel so blessed that my bf has so much faith in me and trusts me so much. Just last night he went to bed early while third and I watched a movie on the couch. I feel very aware that IF for whatever reason my bf ever does start to get paranoid I might cheat, he can't trust me, then it's probably over, and I love him very very much.
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>>32252347
I mean $2000 American dollars in Africa is probably like the equivalent of $10,000 there at the very least
>>32252279
Wtf
I'm the only guy in the office but never hear raunchy stories like this kek
Tbf most of them are partnered/married
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>>32253381
>Self preservation being a burden
It literally is? It's a responsibility?
If I incorrectly assess a situation or for some reason don't notice something the bad thing that happened to me was not my fault. It was the perpetrators. This is not hard to get.
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>>32253349
source: your ass
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>>32253327
Okay nice. Do you have friends?
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>>32252187
Nurses are a different breed desu
The other day I overheard them talking about getting boob jobs kek
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>>32253386
>you're not who I was originally arguing with and I no longer care.
bruh you started here
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>>32252189
Your Papa never told you
About right and wrong...
>>32253397
It's just from my observations lol
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>>32253388
That makes a lot of sense. I think with honest communication and established trust it seems to work out for everyone involved. Good for you.
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>>32253411
Uh huh, that's part of the "fault" discussion. The people hitting people in the head with rocks are at fault.
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Femanons, I want you to be happy.
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>>32253388
Part two...

That said, I could imagine things changing again in the future. My boyfriend and I have always mutually told each other that we could imagine being together for so long (like twenty years) you would never feel threatened anymore by your partner having whatever sexual experience including someone else and/or without you. It is not unthinkable to me that we might ever reach that stage. But I can't say I care a lot whether we do or don't and for now I can tell my bf is not interested in exploring it, he drops a "never understood the appeal of open relationship" kind of comment every now and then which he never used to, so he has his own reasons to not be interested in exploring that now. And for me it already feels like having my cake and eating it too to be in a committed relationship with a man I know is not devastated over me being sexual in general (and not just with him).

Totally agree with the moralfagging, this site is a weird mix of very progressive/liberal and extremely conservative knee jerk reflexes.

I had a late start with masturbating but ever since I started around 18, it has been easy for me to get myself off, though probably not especially so. I have never had enough experience with another man to actually compare, but I am 100% convinced my bf cracked me open too though. I went into the relationship finding it easy to give myself clitoral orgasms. When we started having sex it was still new for me to have him give me a clitoral orgasm. Over time I started having effortless orgasms just from penetration and now I can cum from just about anything and everything. For example the third also made me come easily despite not being used to my body and not technically being as skilled/good as my own partner. But my partner being near makes me feel so safe and cherished it's like I'm already almost there and only need a little bit to be tipped over the edge.
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>>32253419
Then why am I so sad all the time
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>>32253416
My example was men bashing each other with rocks
In what way does that imply people are at fault for bad things happening to them?
Are you a frog just leaping to conclusions?
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>>32253414
Yeah I guess re: the third the quickest summary is that it feels like I would be taking an amazing friend I really like in a bunch of different ways, and turning him into a forced lover position where I suddenly only kind of like him and have pretty mixed feelings.

For the record I'll be afk for like 10-15 minutes but will return to the thread so feel free to ask more questions. I have spent about ten years living vicariously through other people's sexual stories so just in case you have follow up questions I am more than happy to answer them all.
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>>32253426
You're the one who jumped into an already existing discussion about that with the rock example so I don't know what to tell you.
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>>32253369
Bro is just nutting
>>32253366
>women are children
You remind me of https://youtu.be/dK357A7ELBY?si=3XW3xYWzozsprOfz
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>>32253362
Things like this are why you should never trust ugly people
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>>32253179
I require advice my friends, stop the gay arguing about rape or whatever and advise me as to whether or not I’ll be wrong for calling off work today
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>>32253434
Wow Roald did NOT like Jewish people
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>>32253434
retarded
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>>32253403
I do not.
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>>32253435
first and foremost you must read a guide on how to tldr
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>>32253425
Because you're not being held in big, warm arms, duh
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>>32253395
>Reee responsibility!
Welcome to being an adult. This is as smooth brained of a complaint as having to get a job. We live in a world with bad, crazy, and stupid people and actions have consequences. Deal with it…like literally everyone else does.
>Its not my fault
It’s not ENTIRELY your fault but most problems are predictable and therefore avoidable.
>It was the perpetrators
The law punished them. They punish you. That’s how crime works. Lock your shit up, stay out of dumb situations, travel in small groups, avoid crowds, carry a gun if legally allowed to, don’t start a relationship with a guy with priors for beating women, don’t hang out with tards that can’t stay out of trouble, and it’s almost magical how much safer and stress free your life becomes.
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Women, be honest, would you fuck him?
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>>32253428
>>32253421
Thank you a lot for your elaborate responses. They are very interesting and illuminating.
>follow up questions
Now I am curious on how you two managed to get you to be able to orgasm from penetration easily. Do you use a soecific technique or do you think it is mainly how you feel in your body and feeling safe and relaxed with your partner and thus being able to let go and be present so even more subtle stimulation is enough?
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>>32253446
No, what kind of question is that lol
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>>32253445
>Lock your shit up
So being robbed is people's fault now too? You people are fucking insane.

What if I use the word "blame" instead of fault? Who do you blame for a rape? The fucking rapist right???
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>>32253443
TLDR, my shift at work start in 50 minutes and I want to call off and use my paid sick time to evade consequences and income loss, but idk if I’m the asshole for doing this or not since I just did it last Tuesday as well knowing damn well my department is perpetually short-staffed (although I did legitimately feel like shit that day) whereas today I just would rather do other stuff
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>>32253446
Nah he is retarded. Being edgy is all fun and games but theres limits.
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>>32253446
Wtf
White teenage girls need to get hobbies
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>>32253446
>face tats
Nope
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>>32253362
Yeah this happened not far from me
22 years for raping 8 children is fucking mental. What an absolute pisstake of a judicial system. Let's keep putting up Muslim illegals in hotels though
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>>32252624
F
Norway
Yeah, what they do there ripple out to the rest of the world. I like women to have freedom, and countries that are being invaded to have support etc
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>>32253442
Okay I'll be your friend
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>>32253440
Nta but Roald Dahl was incredibly racist lol
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>>32253444
That is true, trips :( Ain't go nobady
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>>32253454
well, shame on you for doing a job that you don't give a fuck about
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>>32253468
Europe is a subjugated continent, physically and spiritually, and this kind of thinking shows it.
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>>32253454
>knowing damn well my department is perpetually short-staffed
Nta but that's a bit of a dickhead move to your colleagues pulling another sickie just because you cba
Unless you're really unwell just go in and graft it out
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>>32253475
I give a fuck about it insofar as it pays for my lifestyle I guess. It’s just a grocery job at a department store, frankly if their entire operation is contingent on me being there then they have bigger problems to fix so that it isn’t a crisis when I’m not there
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>>32253480
Nta but understaffing is a dick move by the bosses.
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>>32253481
Pretty much all wagie jobs are like this, they have the minimum staff possible to keep the shop floor afloat. Fuck the upper management
Unless your colleagues are cunts though it's a dick move to keep pulling sickies
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>>32253480
My throat hurts but that’s unrelated to any illness, I’ve also been getting random brief pangs of nausea for the past few days as well as just slightly feeling like shit anyway which is probably related to my wisdom teeth erupting through my gums
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>>32253485
Ofc but we live in a society
Idk, it's up to OP, he already took a sick day last week though (which tbf was legitimate). At my current job for example I really like my colleagues so wouldn't want to leave them in the lurch. At a previous job though where some of the guys I worked with were kind of dicks and the management was such bollocks I didn't really feel bad for ghosting them lol
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>>32253487
This is called the sunday evening sickness. Its lethal.
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>>32252624
M
Burger
No
The CIA and the FBI control the president
If the president steps out of line they get rid of the president
See JFK
They just follow the script
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>>32253486
I know you’re right Anon but the company gave me the paid sick time to use and I rarely actually get sick, the only time I can see myself needing this in the semi-near future is when I eventually go to get my wisdom teeth taken out and even then I’ll probably try and schedule that on one of my two set days off each week so I’m never realistically going to use it for anything else, I mean if I burn it all up now then the problem resolves itself because it takes the option off the table until such a time as I accrue more sick time to use
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>>32253489
Sure but you being a social animal and not letting your colleagues hang is what management banks on to save money.
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>>32252631
>>32253468
Not a good look for women's suffrage to be honest
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>>32253487
I guess if your shift starts soon there's not much time but are you able to go to a pharmacy and get some pain relief at least? Then maybe try set up a doctor's appointment (if you have the ability) if it's not improving. Personally I would suck it up and go to work today, then if you're really feeling like shit call in sick tomoz
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>>32253492
Damn I guess I better call off work and cast my ballot before I kick the bucket
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>>32253477
Are you uneducated or dumb?
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>>32253453
>Fault
Are you autistic? There’s a fucking reason renters insurance policies get cheaper if you have fire alarms and sprinklers. You really need to learn to differentiate between the legal definition of culpability and common street smarts.
>Blame and fault
Semantic autism but fine. Let’s use guilt. The rapist is guilty of rape and will be the only one the law punishes. The victim if she was getting blacked out drunk alone at a bar around strangers in a bad neighborhood is guilty of making a bad choice that opened them up to that risk and are punished by the rapist for letting themselves be a target. The woman whose door is kicked in at night while she’s watching tv isn’t guilty of making that same bad decision and is therefore more of a victim than the drunken idiot. The judge and court system that will let the rapist out in ten years are guilty of letting it happen when they inevitably reoffend but won’t be punished. The politicians that make these laws that allow recidivists out are guilty but won’t be punished. Collectively we’re all guilty of tolerating this bullshit but only a few will be punished and it’s usually the dumb and vulnerable. So don’t be fucking dumb and don’t be fucking vulnerable.
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>>32253501
hurry up anon! you dont have much tome left
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>>32253502
That flew over your head because you are severely stunted in the department of abstract or critical thought
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>>32253395
>>32253453
Friendly reminder that it's a beautiful Sunday and you're arguing with a namefag.
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>>32253497
Problem is for these sorts of jobs management doesn't care, if you leave they can just find some other chump to replace you. And at a previous job they took away sick pay because some people were taking too much sick leave, which is then shitty for your other colleagues
I'm very fortunate at my current job where we usually have enough staff and it's chill (public sector), but we still have way more applicants than positions so in theory they don't really have to care
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>>32253496
Ah well if it's not a thing you do regularly then fuck it
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>>32253507
What don’t you try to explain what you mean by your reply first haha
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>>32253503
>The same logic that insurance companies use to determine how much money to take from you should be used to determine who is morally responsible for an action

No wonder you're not getting it. We're thinking about this completely differently. If I decide to drag race I am knowingly accepting risk, does not make it my FAULT when another driver loses control and crashes into me. I accept responsibly insofar that I took the risk, but I am not the one who did the thing, so I am not to blame. Still need to deal with any injuries or damage, but I didn't cause that damage simply by deciding to take a risk. I only accepted that it might happen. I get that you're not seeing a distinction but I assure you it is there.
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How to dress for an interview
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>>32253496
jesus christ just stop being this massive of a twat for a moment here
own your decisions instead of coming to us to tell you it's all right.
you know full well the consequences of your actions, decide which one is to take on your fucking own like a man for once.
And get a job that means something, you're wasting your life otherwise
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>>32253508
I'm sitting inside with my terminally ill grandparent I'm feeling surly
Also it's like 50 degrees out how is that beautiful?
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>>32253523
>Also it's like 50 degrees out how is that beautiful?
Skill issue.
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>>32253524
Aw don't call yourself fat
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>>32253448
It is definitely more the latter, yes, but there is imo another factor that is not often discussed but is very important and that is that once you have experienced a sensation (and getting there) once or twice, it is that much easier to sort of mentally steer for it. I don't know what your personal history is, but it took me some trying at first to be able to achieve orgasm and once I did, it instantly became so much easier because I suddenly knew what kind of sensation I was looking for you know?

It is the same, if you ask me, with coming from just penetration. Don't focus at first on how you achieve it, it's pointless to fret about whether or not it "counts" if you or he fingers you during. Once you have felt it a few times, you will know and that will help you get better at it.

Also your body is very sensitive to pavlov-type association. The more sex you have that is insanely pleasurable, the easier it'll be to get very horny from sex because your whole body is like "wait this is the REALLY GOOD stuff".

Relaxation is so incredibly important and it takes a lot longer/is more of a spectrum than people generally acknowledge. If you know your partner is the type to scrutinize your looks during sex (e.g. getting a double chin from looking down at his cock going in and out, or belly folds from being, well, folded) then you will never relax to your full potential. There is no comparing how you feel around someone you trust enough and know to be kind enough, and having sex with someone where you feel in your bones anything could happen and they'd be right there with you and looking out for you.

For practical tips I'd say
>the foreplay of your preference until you are literally aching for it, feeling like you'll die if you don't get dick soon
>have him fuck you long enough to get used to it and short enough for it to still feel fresh, like 10-20 seconds
>now you move from whatever position you were in to you on top cowgirl

Post too long..
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>>32253520
Okay you’re right about the making decisions on my own thing but unfortunately I have no degree and am too soft for the trades (already tried it, only lasted 8 months) so I won’t be able to get a better job I actually care about until after I get a college degree which won’t be for another 5 years since I won’t be going back to school until the 2025 fall semester
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>>32253469
What hobbies do you have?
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>>32253519
What's the job and what's the dress code? Are you M or F?
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>>32253517
It wouldn't be worth the effort. You'd have to pay me for the effort it would take to get you up to speed.
The best thing you and people like you can do is to think as little about politics and world news as possible.
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>>32253531
dude, i have no degree, no drivers license, and have a complete blank on my cv until 30 years f age. It somehow didn't stop me from getting a great job that i enjoy a lot and that makes me happy it's monday again
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>>32253520
>get a job that means something
Nta but nothing wrong with working in a grocery store, people need groceries lol
Sounds like OP doesn't really like his job though if he's this willing to take sick days
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>>32253530
>have him prop you up, flat hand on your lower stomach right above your pelvis
>he should now be fucking you from below, giving you 1-2 inches of dick
>if he (like by far most men) has an upturned penis, he is now effectively stabbing you right into the engorged g-spot, basically doing the come hither-trick with his dick

And yes I can climax very easily without being touched in any way between the legs and that feels amazing, I actually tend to prefer it over being fingered to orgasm. Neck kisses or having my neck made out with gets me there but the most reliable is having firm but soft pressure on my stomach, just the middle area around the belly button. It's like there's an energy center there, if I'm really horny I can also make myself cum just from pressing there with a still hand and fantasizing. I'm sure that I'm especially prone to having these kind of orgasms but I know I am not alone and that everyone can at least get better with practice and patience. I feel a big issue is the huge gap between what is usually depicted as sexy (beauty, sass, style, power/money - but also stuff like porn focusing on fast and extreme) is so far removed from what gets women off most reliably. I would bet good money that a given woman can climax most easily on a good low voice/whispered dirty talk, a great natural musky scent, a confident sensual touch etc over a specific jawline or a spectacular sexual position. And yet the latter is what is constantly reinforced to supposedly get people off. It's not, not at all. Enjoying sex a lot is much closer to any natural sensual pleasure like being lost in swimming or dancing. It's about what feels good. And that often looks silly or boring from the outside.
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>>32253553
Just curious what do you do?
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>>32253519
Depends on the job. You want to look put together but not much much more formal than what employees would normally come to work in.

If you are a woman, you can choose to go unisex/sexless or more feminine, but never sexy. No cleavage, shoulders and stomach covered, a skirt should reach just above the knees or lower, no synthetic fabrics that cling like a second skin.
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>>32253530
>Once you have felt it a few times, you will know and that will help
Oh, thats so true. I never thought of it that way. Very helpful indeed, thank you so much.
>anything could happen and they'd be right there with you and looking out for you
If you would teach another couple how to achieve that kind of trust and connection, what would you tell them?
>>32253557
>hand on lower stomach
What the heck, why does this make so much sense. It increases pressure on the internal parts of the clitoris/g spot as he is inside. Genius.
I will definitely experiment with my hands on my lower belly when masturbating and feel into the sensation of having pressure put on my uterus. Being able to orgasm from that alone is a dream. One day I want to be just like you. Do you have any advice on how to feel at home in your own body? I seem to struggle with that a lot and it seems crucial to lean into sexual pleasure.
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>>32253549
F
Office
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>>32253556
>nothing wrong with working in a grocery store
agree, absolutely nothing. but it must be meaningful to the employee
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>>32250855
I hope my gfs pussy is big enough for me to go full force without hurting her
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>>32253561
oh, some factory work in textile. but the workplace is super nice, the same people work there for 20 years, everybody's treated nicely and if anything, they tell me to work slower not faster because i'm already overdoing the norm
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>>32253538
Bicicyle
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>>32253568
>If you would teach another couple how to achieve that kind of trust and connection, what would you tell them?
Trust is earned, any time your partner shows authenticity and vulnerability, you have a chance not just to reject or affirm them, but you can choose how far to go in affirming them. If your partner asks "how do you feel about [body part or past experience or anything]" there is a big difference between saying "it's no big deal" or "it's totally fine, I love you just as you are" or "I love/accept/respect it, I love you just as you are, what makes you say that? how do you think I might feel about it? how do you feel about it?" If you notice your partner wincing or seeming distracted during sex, you can slow down or try something else, or you can make eye contact and stop and ask them, hey, what's up? Everything okay? What do you feel? Should we cuddle for a bit?

The higher quality your response is and the more often it's so high quality, the more your partner will trust you because you prove yourself over and over that you are a safe person for them to let their guard down around.

>It increases pressure on the internal parts of the clitoris/g spot as he is inside.
This too, though I have to say it depends on the person just how physically sensitive they are to that kind of external stimulance and personally ironically I have never found that to be a gamechanger in that sense, but I know from online that a lot of women do too so it's always worth trying out in different positions just for that sake alone! And even as someone not into that side, it still pays off for me for the other reason I mentioned, the come hither thing.

To be fair it was also my partner who made me cum just from belly rubs for the first time. I knew it felt really really good, but it took months of experiencing it before I first came from it - once I did, though, again it kept happening more and more often.
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>>32253518
>If I engage in extremely risky behavior and the person I’m doing it with get me killed it isn’t my fault
It literally is in this scenario. You chose to engage in risky behavior and crashed as a result. It doesn’t matter if you aren’t the one that crashed into the other driver because you not only didn’t account for the other driver but you actively encouraged them to drive like shit.

I’ve been in the back of a police car exactly once in my life and it’s because I knowingly went out drinking in Annapolis with my dickhead army buddy that was known for starting fights and fucking dudes wives. Him getting hammered and hitting on some squids wife and kicking off a brawl was entirely predictable and I wouldn’t have gotten punched in the face, handcuffed, driven back to my squad leaders house at 4am on a weekend, smoked like a dog until I puked up everything in my stomach, and thrown on extra duty for two weeks. I made a bad choice in getting drunk, a bad choice in who I was getting drunk with, a bad choice in where I was getting drunk, and I reaped the consequences of my actions. This is not difficult to understand for adults.
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>>32253571
A pants suit, you should try to dress just one step above the clothes you're expected to wear on the job.
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how r u guys doing on nnn
or is that whole thing dead
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How bad is it to my social development that I have never once in my entire life started/initiated a single conversation with someone?
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>>32253598
I failed to clown girls.
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>>32253598
I’m going strong, hopefully this’ll be my 5th completion
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>>32253598
Nut the squirrel was killed by the FEDS so NNN is now a month of mourning for the NUT
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>>32253598
I got suicidal and couldn't sleep so I gave in
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>>32253498
These females are incapable of thinking logically. They're literally still stuck in the stone age mentality because men were the ones who invented everything. Let's not forget that female creatures only learned how to read and write in the 19th century.
>me female me vote female :)
>me female me like tall, handsome man :) me not care if he is violent or not a good person :) wahh why all men bad and cheat on me :(
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>>32253593
I do think it's only natural, and a big part of the fun of sex with other people, that being with someone else can make you less inhibited and make you feel all kinds of things you couldn't (easily) on your own. So definitely don't beat yourself up if you don't manage to figure out all your body's secrets/potential on your own, it's part of the fun to learn it through experiences!

>>32253568
>Do you have any advice on how to feel at home in your own body?
For sure. Remember what I wrote about building trust with your partner, and realize it is no different for you with yourself. If you are mean to yourself in your head a lot, if you criticize your body a lot, then you cannot expect to go to bed with someone and suddenly feel at home in your body and like you're hot shit.

You have to work on that outside of sex by being kind to yourself and kind to your body. That means being in tune with what you need in terms of food, rest, washing etc. It means making the active effort again and again and again to correct yourself, when you catch yourself going "just like me to fuck that up" you make yourself add "but don't we all fuck up every now and then?". A trick that can help if you feel stuck in the idea that whatever critical thought is constructive or justified, imagine someone telling a friend of yours something like that, even if it were justified. Wouldn't you want to tell them to fuck right off? So why would you treat yourself in a way you would never treat even your most superficial friend? Are you not worth more than that?

And if you think that yes, you are, then you start talking back to yourself and not taking these thoughts as gospel but as just that, thoughts that bubble up and have to do with your past/fears/feelings, thoughts you can choose to indulge or ignore, thoughts you can ponder upon and question. You are not ruled or owned by them. They are yours.
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>>32253573
Real, Golden Boy taught me this
>>32253571
OK, have you visited the office before?
Depends what you own ofc but I would go for classic colours if you can like like black/white/navy/grey, and wear dress shoes/flats, a dress/skirt below the knee (and tights if needed) or dress pants, a button-down shirt/blouse, and optionally a cardigan or blazer, with tidy hair and optionally a bit of makeup
I wouldn't stress too much though, if long as you look presentable enough, if they like you they like you. Good luck anon!
>>32253589
That sounds pretty sweet, godspeed anon
>>32253596
Agreed you can never go wrong with this, though depending on the vibe of the office it might be overkill
At my current and some previous jobs we have a strict dress code but the interview wasn't dress-coded
>>32253598
I prefer Gnarly Nut November
>>32253599
I mean you're arguably starting one now...
Some people are more socially passive, that's OK, but it's good to get out of your comfort zone and take initiative sometimes. Especially at places like work where people might think you're standoffish if you never initiate conversations
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>>32253594
It does matter though. You were totally fine with it mattering for insurance purposes???
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>>32253602
real
>>32253603
u got this *thumbsup*
>>32253606
LOL
>>32253609
also real
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>>32253610
Nta but your history research is piss poor you should be embarrassed.
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>>32250855
I need to lift more so I can physically pick up thicker women. I’ve heard they like when a guy can carry them
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>>32253598
I intentionally failed it on day 1.
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>>32253594
>I’ve been in the back of a police car exactly once in my life
Only once in your life? Damn you're a good boi lol
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>>32253628
can’t lose if it’s on purpose
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>>32253614
Enjoying something like dancing, even if just alone in front of the mirror, can help to experience your body not as something static to criticize (standing in front of the mirror and nitpicking yourself) but as something alive, funny, energetic, creative, charming, maybe even annoying - but not static, not an object. You will enjoy sex the most when you experience your body as your vessel with which you can experience beauty, humor, kindness, curiosity, everything at all. Because it is!

Within a relationship, make sure you try not to think of sex as a show or performance. Goof around naked. Have half-serious roleplay where the first to crack up has to fulfill a sexual request. Cuddle naked, often. Explore that grey area zone where you are being sexual without needing to perform or accomplish anything.

If this is a recurring and/or serious issue for you, there's also stuff you can look into like haptonomy, which is like therapeutic massage specifically to "inhabit" your body more freely.

BEST of luck and I hope some of this helps you and that lots of your dreams come true, sexual and otherwise!!
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>>32253630
You can if the intention is to fail.
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>>32253628
Based
I basically did the same thing out of defiance
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>>32253593
>>32253614
This gave me a lot to ponder and process. And made me realize I have a lot of work to do. I really needed to hear this today, It means a lot to me and I will take it to heart. Maybe I will have follow up questions some time and will try to summon you itt. All the best to you and your bf, your love is very inspiring.
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>>32253624
>LOL
I'm being 100% serious btw
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>>32253591
We cannot be friends, sorry
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>>32253630
Nta but this is how I approach life goals. Can't fail if you don't try lol.
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>>32253626
>Literacy for “most females” happened in mid 19th century. It varied by country (in Netherlands it was a century sooner, in Italy it was not till early 20th century). Literacy in general grew over time, but it was not until 19th century that it became common.
I am right once again. Cope more.
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>>32253644
Why :(
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>>32253622
Are being deliberately stupid? The law doesn’t require me to rent a place with sprinklers. My insurance is objectively cheaper because I do though. Because it’s smart. If some schizo decides to burn my house down I’m not legally in any danger but if I piss off and screw over a schizo like that I’m still a fucking idiot for increasing the risk of that thing happening and the damage is dramatically worse for me if I don’t have sprinklers. People with good situational awareness are DRAMATICALLY less likely to have to deal with some shit like that. Why is this difficult to comprehend?
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>>32253647
>Only cites European examples
Please. Continue.
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>>32253631
>haptonomy
I never heard of this. I will check it out. Do you have any other suggestions for resources to learn more about this? Like books or communities?
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>>32253571
Office skirt, blouse, coat, and wedges that don't show your toes
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>>32253434
If you didn't know its a British humor book playing on the original Greek (and Roman/Stoic) metaphysics that attractive people are attractive because they are good morally.
>>32253441
This picture is hilarious because the "reality" side I wouldn't consider any of these people as conventionally attractive.
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>>32253641
Leftists hate happiness.
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>>32253650
And my point is still going completely over your head. Yes it is smart to rent a place with sprinklers. It doesn't make it your fault if you rent a place without and your neighbor leaves a candle burning and burns the place to the ground. Would it have been a good idea to rent the place with sprinklers instead? Sure. Did you set the fire? No. Very simple. Did not set fire = not your fault. You're overcomplicating this.
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>>32253660
thanks foxxo
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>>32253660
doesn't matter because they're objectively attractive and have a ton of fan girls
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>>32253640
You're so welcome. I don't know which parts specifically you feel you need to process, I just wanted to add in regards to the trust for your partner that unfortunately I have seen a lot of young people, especially women, asking themselves why they cannot be more trustful of a partner that has simply given them good reason to be cautious about some things. It is always good to focus on what you can do to improve a relationship, but make sure it is not you trying to single-handedly make it work. Ask yourself if you feel like you can trust your partner (or any potential future partner) based on their actual demonstrated behavior those moments you felt insecure/uncomfortable around them. If the answer is yes, that's a great starting point to tell yourself "this person is really good to me, that's great and I should le them know by loving them well in turn". If the answer is no, don't talk yourself into anything, just go straight to "do I still want to be with this person regardless?"

You can compromise on a lot of things, a lot of shit isn't important whatsoever. But you should never compromise on how carefully someone treats you, exactly because of stuff like this, because coping with a partner who treats you carelessly is only possible while you treat yourself carelessly so this can really set you back. Becoming an adult means you are now the person looking out for you, nobody else is present to have your back if you don't in an intimate one on one situation. So prove to yourself that you have your own back, defend your body and boundaries like a lioness her young and you will start feeling safer and more at home. I know it is easier said than done but that applies to all the important things in life I'm afraid.

Anyway I will check up every now and then so feel free to ask more if something does come up and take care.
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>>32253426
frog is beautiful. especially if bruised and damaged and kept tied up for breeding
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>>32253441
They did Meeks dirty putting him with literal serial killers lmao
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>>32253629
Eh. Most of my criminal history has been minor shit centered around substance and alcohol abuse. Worst thing they’d ever get on my rap sheet if I got nailed for everything is low level distribution, some fights, DUI, a hit and run with no damage beyond a scratched bumper, public indecency/lewdness, and one instance of shooting a protected (not threatened or endangered) species. Sober Blue Eyes is pretty straight and narrow.
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>>32253680
Ohhh I see now why you won't make the perpetrators take sole responsibility for their shit behavior instead of blaming the victims. You're making yourself feel better.
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>>32253680
>shooting a protected (not threatened or endangered) species
Wtf why you do that bro
Good on you being sober tho
>>32253673
Sometimes you just like a baddie tho
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Femanons, when was the last time you kissed a man?
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>>32250855
We should all wait for marriage
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>>32253653
I'm trying to think of something but the only titles I can think of that are very directly related, are not in English, sorry. I do think Come As You Are (which I have never personally read) is probably a classic for a reason and I think it is very good to read if you want to get to know your own sexuality better, it also goes into different kinds of female arousal (e.g. spontaneous excitement vs responsive arousal where you only get horny once someone starts turning you on) which I think is great for any young woman.

Oh and personally I like Sue Johnson's Hold Me Tight, but that specifically goes into long term dysfunctional patterns in relationships and explains attachment/bonding from there. I am not sure if it would be the best book for you right now, depending on how much long term relationship experience you have, you might not relate at all to the kind of issues and examples there and even if the underlying themes do resonate with you, you're probably better off with another book altogether.

What I always do is whenever I read an article/book that really hits me the right way, I look at the sources they use and follow the rabbit hole down in that way. I think Come As You Are is probably good for that too, covering a bunch of topics where you can just pick the sources from fragments that you relate to most.
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>>32253673
>doesn't matter because they're objectively attractive and have a ton of fan girls
If a woman likes something its never objective lmfao
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>>32253598
Normally I intentionally fail it in the first hour, but I forgot. I'm a failure at failing.
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Is being contrarian more feminine or masculine? I have always disagreed with the common wisdom and consensus quite often
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>>32253698
masculine
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>>32253698
No but also Yes, it really depends on the context.
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>>32253693
I plan on it but you have to be in a relationship before you can wait
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>>32253598
I’m pretty I forgot on Friday
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>>32253688
>>shooting a protected (not threatened or endangered) species
nta (obviously) but if an animal species has to be protected then it failed to do the job its suppose to do and doesn't deserve to live.
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>>32253698
Masculine for sure, women are more likely to pretend to agree more with one another than we really do. Male bonds, especially when young (the ages people are most sensitive to how they are perceived) usually already involve an element of overt competition anyway, whereas this is more taboo in female friendships and there is more of an expectation to constantly have each other's back in everything. Women are also more harmony-focused and thus value polite and social behavior more than guys, who are more likely to care more if a guy is funny than if he's particularly polite.
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I hate women.
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>>32253598
With Mimi nothing is Impossible!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kWYM3fIcE_s
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>>32253714
I love you too <3
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>>32253690
About a week ago?
>>32253698
Being contrarian for the sake of being contrarian is absolutely a male trait lol.
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>>32253690
Never
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>>32253666
I’m not. I’ll make this extremely simple for you.

Other people breaking the law makes them guilty of breaking the law. You doing stupid shit that makes you more likely to be the victim of others breaking the law still makes you a fucking retard.

Yes we all take calculated risks and still have problems that aren’t our fault. No you don’t “deserve” to get raped by some shitbag for being dumb. You are still accountable for making a bad decision if it increases the likelihood of getting raped. A lot of crime is flat out preventable.

We all know a girl that’s knowingly started a relationship with a guy that beat his exes. She isn’t breaking any law in doing this. She is accountable for making a bad decision that’s going to get her smacked around by a low life and is much less of a victim than a girl who gets beat up by a dude she rejects after finding out he’s gone to jail for beating women. Choices in life are very binary. Dumb shit has consequences even if it’s legal.
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this fake tripfag too lazy to properly tripfag is the faggiest shit
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>>32253727
Why not?
Is it something that you have held onto tightly like your virginity?
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>>32253723
Not surprising that a foid can't read.
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>>32253728
>more likely to be the victim
Who tf is disagreeing with that? That's just common sense.

Being accountable for choices you made that if you had chosen differently might have helped you avoid the bad thing...does not make you at fault for the thing. Jesus Christ you're dumb. Go back to doing drugs it's too late for you.
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>>32253741
>Who tf is disagreeing with that?
Women
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>>32253675
>So prove to yourself that you have your own back, defend your body and boundaries like a lioness her young and you will start feeling safer and more at home.
Ah yes, this makes a lot of sense. I have a very hard time with protecting my own boundaries due to childhood physical abuse and sexual trauma so this is definitely the first order of importance to focus on and to learn to get better at.
>>32253694
Ah, I have read come as you are before but maybe I should check it out again, it was a while ago and I worked trough a lot of things since then so it might have new perspectives for me. I will also check out hold me tight. Thank you so much.
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>>32251983
It's not too bad to not pay for her on a day out of it's something cheap. But if you invite someone to something pricey, then the expectation is that you pay. There's a between meeting a friend for dinner and taking your friend out for dinner.
There are reasons that the classic date was drinks, then dinner. If she's shit to begin with, you pay for a couple drinks and bail on dinner.
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>>32253733
Yes. Also never had a bf or been on a date
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>>32253745
Where?
You're talking to me, not "women".
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women secretly desire to be kidnapped into the incel basement

pros:
don't have to pay bills
don't have to work
nobody harassing u
steady relationship
plenty of sex
meals provided for you
maximum security

cons:
the more you weigh the harder it is to be kidnapped
???
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>>32253755
Okay, women...
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>>32253754
My first kiss was on the bus in 8th grade with my friend.
I thought it meant we she was my gf and I embarrassed myself by telling our friends that.
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>>32253757
>the more you weigh the harder it is to be kidnapped
my fucking sides
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>>32253757
Oo I love that dress
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>>32253690
:(
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>>32253757
Unfortunately this is not how it goes.
More likely it will be
>if you ever get out you will immediately have to file for private bankruptcy because of the piles of unpaid bills
>likely he will demand some kind of slave work
>likely he will harass you nonstop
>idk if being kidnapped can be seen as a relationship
>and by plenty of sex you mean rape
>most kidnappers use starvation as a form of punishment, and what if he is a terrible meal provider and gives you dog food every third day?
>i would need maximum security from him so that seems redundant
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>>32253775
go kiss a dog, problem solved.
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My big ass dog hit my face and now I look like an abuse victim
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next thread
>>32253788
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>>32253684
Nah I fully own and regret being a retard. Most of my rap sheet would be victimless (thankfully) and the ones that weren’t were mostly accidental but yeah there was a point in my life where I was a potential danger to society after 10pm. That’s why I’m not sympathetic towards people making bad choices and putting themselves in bad situations. It’s a choice. My brother got robbed when he was selling weed. Letting sketchy people know you have valuable shit you can’t report stolen to the cops and lots of cash has its consequences which is why you shouldn’t do it. Had he been the victim of a random break in I’d feel bad for him but he wasn’t so I don’t. Pretty simple imo.
>Blaming victims
Not all victims tard. You can do everything right and still be a victim. Stupid people are MORE likely to be a victim and that’s a fact and no they don’t deserve the same level of sympathy when they’re victimized as people that don’t do retarded shit.
>>32253688
I was hunting and accidentally shot the wrong kind of animal that displayed the same identification markers as my target species. It’s a stupid law imo but it’s the kind of law that was put on the books in the 1920s when they were actually in danger of being extirpated and won’t be repealed because it’s been generations since harvest has been normalized so there’s never going to be any legislative push for it.
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>>32253775
What is wrong?
Should I open up a kissing booth for femanons?
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>>32253747
>I have a very hard time with protecting my own boundaries due to childhood physical abuse and sexual trauma so this is definitely the first order of importance to focus on and to learn to get better at.
I am sorry to hear that. It sets you back because you were primed to have your body be used/mistreated, you already learned to deal with it and you already kind of expect it on some level, that is inevitable.

However these things are never set in stone and the fact that you can see this and question your own patterns means that you have already done the hardest part. You don't want to know (if you don't already) how long people can continue to live in a state of denial at the expense of healing. The very fact that you can tell you don't feel as safe in your body as you could, is very good, because it is harder than just tuning that unpleasant awareness out and the fact that you are not tuning it out means you still have that on-going connection, you haven't shut yourself out wholly if you know what I mean? And being in tune in that way will mean you can experiment that much more directly with what works for you and what doesn't, as you'll just be able to tell.

I am no therapist but based on what I do know, also having experienced some abuse in childhood, I would strongly advise you to sort of take a mental picture of yourself at the age something especially bad happened. Try to look at that girl through the eyes of the woman you are now and truly feel how young she was and that she did not deserve those things. Then you try to befriend her. Give her a mental hug. Invite her when you are alone and feeling cozy, show her that you created a good life for yourself. That she can be safe now and you're there for her, there's no reason anymore to be afraid.

If feeling unsafe in your body goes back so far, this can really make a difference. Don't push your own boundaries, if it feels like too much, just leave it for later. But keep it in mind to try, please.
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>>32253757
Sounds lame
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>>32253792
>yeah there was a point in my life where I was a potential danger to society after 10pm. That’s why I’m not sympathetic towards people making bad choices and putting themselves in bad situations
So exactly what I just said. You're a piece of shit and blaming victims to justify it.
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>>32253805
>you haven't shut yourself out wholly
I never thought about it this way but it makes me feel very hopeful. Thank you. I will try to hold this like a spark that I can grow back into a flame.
>mental picture
I actually wrote a letter to little me just yesterday, telling her that I wish I could protect her from what is about to happen but that she will get trough it and will be alright and that I promise I will find a way to make things ok again.
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>>32253741
>Who is disagreeing with that
You retard. Your whole schtick through this retarded debate is that if you get raped it’s never your fault in any type of way. I disagree because you can decrease the likelihood of getting raped by making very simple and smart choices. The same is true of any crime. If you don’t want to be a victim it behooves you to not make yourself a target. You until this very post have repeatedly disregarded victims being accountable for being victimized which is an objectively false and overly encompassing take on the matter. My take is that victims that engage in risky behavior are less worthy of sympathy than people who don’t. You keep coming back with retarded comparisons unrelated to the point though like when you brought up someone leaving a candle lit. Like seriously wtf lol?
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>>32253698
M, I think *on average* men are less agreeable than women
>>32253719
Creamy 4 mimi
>>32253731
He be trippin dawg
>>32253782
This is why cats are superior
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>>32253829
God damn you suck at comprehension.
Taking responsibility for taking a dangerous risk does not equal being at fault when something does happen. The moral fault, is with the perpetrator.

This conversation isn't about sympathy. It's about fault/blame. Stick to the topic.
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>>32253823
>I actually wrote a letter to little me just yesterday
That is wonderful and exactly the sort of thing I mean. It sounds like you are in the process of making some very important steps in life!! Keep up the good work. Not feeling okay yet is a lot more doable when you feel wholly convinced you will do whatever it takes until you do feel okay with yourself.
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>>32253822
>You only blame victims to justify being a criminal
Are you seriously comparing a DUI where I got home safe to rape? You understand there is a difference between reckless and predatory behavior correct? Look I took a risk and that risk could have hurt someone. That was retarded. Eventually engaging in those behaviors caught up with me. Luckily it wasn’t in a permanent or harmful way but it did. I could have gone to jail and fucked up my career. How are you unable to comprehend me blatantly condemning shit behavior? Is it because you know I’m right and you’ve lost this debate? Play stupid games and you win stupid prizes. Dont rely on luck to keep you safe. How is this in any way controversial? It’s like talking to a wall for fucks sake.
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>>32253836
Yes dumbass you get less sympathy when you are at fault for putting yourself in bad situations. Fuck you’re retarded.
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>>32253844
Yes, I am learning to not forget to be hopeful. It works but some days its hard and some days i forget how. Talking to people like you that give me hope and inspire me is very helpful.
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>>32253867
>I took a risk and that risk could have hurt someone.
I don't believe it's malicious in the same way but it's equally as disrespectful to people other than yourself.

Because you refuse to accept that taking responsibility for being in a dangerous place and taking responsibility for harming another person are different. I am responsible for my own behavior. So so am at fault for being where I was, but I am not at fault for what was done to me by someone else. Jesus Christ this is not that hard.
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>>32253874
Okay yeah I correctly identified your issue. See
>>32253884
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A question for guys.

From your perspective, (and your experiences.) what's it like being just platonic friends with a girl that you find sexually attractive?

In my life, I'm often worried if little gestures here and there, are only done by certain men around me because they secretly want to be in a romantic relationship with me. These days I'm much better at keeping good boundaries and strong friendships with people, so it's far less of a worry to me, but I do wonder how those sorts of situations felt from the other side of the aisle...
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>>32250855
Why is big titties and a necklace still the best combo
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>>32253144
>You guys are really bad at gaslighting no wonder you don't have girlfriends.
Unlike women, men don't manipulate. I'm being sincere when I say that you have bad mental health. As for the girlfriend remark, I don't have a girlfriend because I don't want one. I've refused enough women in my date, not that I'm some sort of chad tripping over women left and right but every women who has asked me out I've refused.
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>>32253775

*kisses your cheek* mwah
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>>32253144
>I'm going to have to doubt you here. I can't trust a man's opinion (who's just some guy and not like, a psychologist) on other men's emotional intelligence. You don't know what you don't know.
>needs a psychologists to tell you who is and isn't emotionally intelligent
Grim...
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>>32253890

I'm afraid to say your suspicions are right. Men are indeed looking for any kind of signal of romantic interest. Good men will be able to understand and maintain the boundary, bad men will be weird about it.
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>>32253930
You guys are just fucking up all over the place today. The only man I can trust to correctly identify emotionally intelligent men is a psychologist or someone with similar training. I don't need help lol.
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>>32253912
It's essentially bedazzling
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Femanons, yaoi or yuri?
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>>32250855
Why can I cum like a cup of jizz at a time? I want an explosion, not a couple ropes
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>>32253975
Stop watching so much hentai
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>>32253981
No, I want to cover someone’s entire face by myself
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>>32253884
>Its not malicious
Nope. Just retarded.
>Equally disrespectful
Disagree. Maybe more dangerous since you can potentially wipe out an entire family drinking and driving but that’s never the intent of drunk driving. Rape is a distinctly intentional predatory behavior. Two very different mindsets that lead to victimization. One is stupid and selfish. The other is objectively evil.
>I can’t differentiate between making bad choices and doing objectively evil shit aren’t different
No I can. My point is both can exist simultaneously.
>Im at fault for being where I was but not what happened
What happened wouldn’t have happened if you weren’t there. Now. Maybe you weren’t doing anything stupid and it was a freak unpredictable incident. Those happen. Those deserve absolute sympathy. But if you were ignoring obvious shit and making yourself an easy mark then you need to seriously reevaluate how you go about life because you’ve been objectively faced with the consequences of giving evil motherfuckers an opening.

Again.
>Lock up your shit
>Dont drink too much
>Dont sell drugs
>Stay away from huge crowds
>If you’re going out at night don’t go out alone
>Dont hang out with idiots, crazies, and scumbags
>Stay away from bad neighborhoods
>Carry a gun if you can
And magically you become many orders of magnitude less likely to get raped, robbed, beat up, drugged, kidnapped, stranded, or whatever. You have witnesses, people to help you in a fight, people to get you home if you’re too drunk or your car breaks down, and you aren’t surrounded by the type of people most likely to hurt you. DO THIS.
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>>32253986
>One is stupid and selfish. The other is objectively evil.
Both are blatant disrespect for the lives of other people. I'm not directly saying to you "you are as bad a person as a rapist" I'm saying I don't think what you did was any less bad.
>What happened wouldn’t have happened if you weren’t there.
Okay and? That is not "fault". And there you go about sympathy again. I don't care if you have no sympathy for any victim ever. My gripe here is that a victim is never at fault for the actions of another person.
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>>32253994
You’re literally just arguing semantics and trying to hide behind your current autistic position by pointing at mine from a decade ago. You’re focused on getting the last word and not making a point. It’s retarded. Be safe. Stay safe. Simple as. If you don’t. You invite problems.
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How do you guys cope with a bad job? I have to do so many extra tasks because coworkers ago and it's a small company. The only one left is an insecure old woman who looks for any reason to boss me around cuz there's no one else. Worse i can't resign my family forces me to stay. At least i gotta gf.
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>>32254009
Depends on the shit that makes it bad. If there’s an old lady bossing you around? Depends. Is she your boss? Find a new job. If not? Tell her to kick rocks.
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>>32254026
She's my manager. Like i said can't resign. If it was up to me i would be flipping burgers instead but i have to find a similair job to get out.
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>>32254009
>How do you guys cope with a bad job
Look for a new one
>Worse i can't resign my family forces me to stay
RIP
Set boundaries, make the best of the good aspects of the job, and make the most of your free time/gf to recoup
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>>32253890
M, I've had friends that are sexually attractive but unavailable/uninterested or whatever and it didn't affect the friendship
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>>32252146
>Gay
No
>Friends with Chris Tyson
No he isn’t/wasn’t, he only interviewed Chris and they never interacted with one another since. And p.s dipshit, I don’t care about that era at all because it sucks.
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>>32254006
>Semantics
Yeah pretty much. Which is why it's baffling that you're not getting my point. I see now that you're refusing to get it because you, like I said, don't see the distinction because you're a piece of shit. I didn't call you an evil piece of shit just a piece of shit. There's also a distinction there lol.
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What a fucking retarded take. Is Oprah close buddies with every single person she interviewed?
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>>32254091
Float the resume then dude. I’m down to help if you need it.
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>>32253974
Loving sensual couples with oil massaging.
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>>32253690
I kissed my bf over discord. <3
Internet kissies~
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>>32254141
I’m advocating for risk reduction and saying you can often avoid getting victimized by doing so. You’re just neurotically repeating that it’s never the victims fault because they wouldn’t be victimized if there weren’t rapists. But there are. That makes one of these points (mine) productive to discussion and the other (yours) retarded.
>Inb4 I’m not trying to have a productive conversation with you drunk driver!
Yeah we can tell. Bitch.



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