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I'll be 24 soon and I have 0 dating and relationship experience except 2 failed dates with girls from my friend group who asked me out. I also never had unpaid sex.

At my age, I feel like all the single women are single for a reason. They're the leftovers that no one wants. They've been through absolute mountains of cocks while I haven never had a girl willingly have sex with me.
How am I meant to cope with that? What's the way forward here?

>Inb4 muh men age like fine 30yo boomer redpill cope

No. Realistically, I can pull 18yos for another few years but as I get older the access I have to young women who haven't been ran through is rapidly diminishing.
Soon i'll be 25 and I will be able to (at best) get 20yo sluts.

I swear i'm bordering insanity from the hopelessness and sexlessness I feel from being a completely undesirable subhuman.
I will never forgive foids for what they've put me through.
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Guess your only option is to kill yourself. Oh well.
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>>32303821
not yet. I have plans.
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It’s always funny to read these kind of posts from young people.
Relax, stop spiralling. You’re pretty much still a child and your perception of the world is inaccurate at that age.
22 is SO YOUNG you don’t even know. Take a few deep breathes and relax
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>>32303879
>22 is SO YOUNG you don’t even know. Take a few deep breathes and relax
I'm 23 and a half. But some switch flipped at 22.
I went from being a somewhat hopeful doomer to realizing that life has passed me by. I'll never be in a relationship as a young man and that destroys me. It drives me insane. It makes me want to destroy everything in my sight.
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>>32303879
22 is feels like yesterday and I'm 27. Time just keeps getting faster. No, he shouldn't panic that much but now is the time to get started to fix it. Don't end up like me, op. It doesn't get better over time. Only worse
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>>32303894
I fully understand you on a deep level. It is fucked up that you have to be lonely. Whatever it is you plan to do, do it now. It does not get better. I'm trying to pick up the pieces of my life at 27 but I honestly see less and less hope every year
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>>32303804
Sex isn't everything OP. Find a hobby, take pride in said hobby and indulge in it.
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>>32303915
idk how you haven't gone insane, anon, props to you.
I feel like eventually all this misery inside me will burst and it won't be pretty.
There's no happy ending to this story. It feels like yesterday that I was feeling upset about missing out on teen love and now here goes early 20s love and sex too.
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>>32303925
Fuck hobbies. The love of other people is foundational to existence
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>>32303804
Honestly, if you really put your mind into it, you can get a relationship before the end of the month with someone nice enough. Put your brain to work and you'll see there's someone out there who's already checking you out. Don't be a loser, pay attention. There's always a chick out there who's already into you, even if you're a total uglyfuck, it's just how the universe works, otherwise only chads would get pussy.
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>>32303931
>I feel like eventually all this misery inside me will burst and it won't be pretty.
You won't, it will keep getting worse beyond your imagination.
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>>32303948
I don't even know any women.

>>32303957
>You won't, it will keep getting worse beyond your imagination.
eventually I won't put up with it any longer. Everyone has their limit.
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>>32303964
Yeah, but isn't it a major disrespect to your life if you fuck yourself over by doing something stupid while everyone else lives on and is happy?
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>>32303994
what life lol
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>>32304002
You've already suffered as it is. Now imagine yourself rotting in the ground with worms crawling in you while a girl you used to crush on is getting railed by someone else. Does that not infuriate you?
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>>32303804
> I'll be 24 soon and I have 0 dating and relationship experience
> Realistically, I can pull 18yos for another few years

lmao. i can’t pull women yet i think i can pull women? are you fucking retarded? you’re worried about the quality of ZERO. ZERO PUSSY. if you were my friend your nickname would be ZERO for life
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>>32304009
I'm talking about what's socially accessible to me based on my age.
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>>32304012
Dear ZERO,

after reading your previous post you have ZERO socially accessible women to you at ANY AGE
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>>32303804
what is this retarded post? you strive for affection for women but you have a preconceived notion that all of them are sluts and thats why they are single and thus don't want to date them. I'd wager you'd be offended if a woman thought every single male like you was that way because they were a total faggot.

what do you mean you can "realistically pull 18 year olds?" if that's the case then why don't you have any experience??
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>>32303964
Many men don't know any women either, just like you. But here's the thing: The simple act of existing is sometimes enough. Maybe there's a girl in one of your classes who asks you for help with something she could’ve Googled in two seconds. Or the cashier at the grocery store who gives you that extra-wide smile. Or maybe a neighbor who lingers on you just long enough for you to feel her staring until you look back. Now, I'm not saying every act of kindness or friendly look means they want to fuck you, but here’s the other thing: people are all too wrapped up in their own insecurities and fear of rejection, especially around your age. So, they end up dropping subtle hints hoping you'll make the first move. But even if you don't see any signals anywhere then don't worry, just start putting yourself out there. Volunteer, join a club, work with some organization or some shit. You just need to try.
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>>32304056
I meant that I should’ve gotten normal women that weren’t used and abused back when I was young.
Like normal men who lose their virginity in their teens do.

As for the other part- what I meant that when i’m 25 it won’t be socially acceptable for me to date 18yos. It already isn’t really. I’ll be forced to date second-hand whores.
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>>32304086
Nah, I don’t have any girls in my class and I don’t know any even vaguely. I failed with all the girls who approached and asked me out in the past, see https://archive.4plebs.org/pol/thread/469212751

and when I approach myself i’m invisible.
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>>32303804
I'm 23 and I'm in the same position except I'm not going to stoop so low as to get a prostitute. Either I get it fair and square or I don't, all there is to it.
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>>32303804
Re picrel: "Developmental milestones" is just something made up by people who wan to put you in a box. Ignore all that. Also, the character in the pic did a shitty job of looksmaxxing, of course. Properly done, he should be indistinguishable from a 25 yo.
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>>32303804
>They're the leftovers that no one wants. They've been through absolute mountains of cocks while I haven never had a girl willingly have sex with me.

Jeeze man you might not realise it but this kind of seething rage and insecurity really bubbles out from your inside. Imagine other men's cocks when you tinteract with women isn't the healthiest mindset.

What are you doing to attract women?

I'm a completely average 28 year old man and I've had tons of dating successes and fails with women of all kinds of backgrounds.
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>>32304089
>It would have been okay for me to sleep with people when I was younger
>People who had sex when they were younger are used up sluts


retard
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>>32303804
I'm a bit younger, 21, but in the same boat as you. Touchless kissless virgin that has never been in a relationship. Honestly the only way to cope about it is just to accept that the time for you to date as a younger man has passed. There is literally nothing you can do.
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>>32303804
You’re such trash. The way you think about women is disgusting and I hope you never get laid without paying for it. You genuinely do not deserve it, women deserve so much better than men like you.
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>>32304100
A girl asked you to take your clothes off and you wondered if that was when the sex was supposed to happen. Anon...
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>>32304100
This girl took you to her hotel room, got you naked, and you still say she didn't indicate she wanted sex. Were you expecting a written invitation?
It's no wonder spergs like you think you've got no chance with women. They can throw themselves at you and you'll be completely oblivious and screw up any opportunity you get.
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>>32304100
>we get into bed
>she tells me I can take my clothes off
>I do
>Was the sex supposed to happen then?
I can't believe you're sharing this kek
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>>32304202
Cope
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>>32305241
I wasn’t naked. I was in my underwear and socks. And before that I was in my jeans which I believe is why she told me to take them off because she was in her pyjamas.>>32305266
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>>32303879
I was going to say this, but what's the point? Nobody ITT who doesn't already know better will actually take your message on board. And even if they did, in about an hour some other retard is going to make the same thread, anyway. So fuck it.
>>32303804
TL;DR - Put your head between your legs and vanish down your own dick hole. Because that's all you're going to be good for.
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No
its over when you're out of school because there's no more places to speak to women freely
but it starts again when you have enough money to quit your job and go to uni 2nd time around
>At my age, I feel like all the single women are single for a reason. They're the leftovers that no one wants.
Thats not true. You're single and you know thats not true for you so its not true for them either.
You are a virgin so could they.
It just means that they didnt want to socialize at the time of school and then they were locked out of speaking to people.

You just need to quit your job and go to school again, thats the only thing that matters because its the only one that allows for men to speak to women.
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>>32303804
Would you want to date a woman who thinks all men past 20yo are sluts, or perhaps assholes?
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>>32304100
I think a part of you actually knew the sex was supposed to happen, but you were just afraid to take the initiative
The sad reality is if you are an at all passive guy you will never get pussy. It just won't ever happen
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>>32303879
>>32303948
You don't understand how much of a massive hangup it is to have not had any relationships or sex in your teen years. It fucks you mentally
Just about every person your age will treat like a freak or assume you are a faggot if they find out.
Not to mention you basically have to lie to every single women you date because the lack of any relationship history past a certain age freaks them out or is seen as a red flag
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Even though we are all literally in Hell and society is collapsing into total chaos, everyone is too depressed and demoralized to give a shit or enact real change.

There is no point to voting, because no matter who you vote for the System will ensure the status quo remains 1:1 with how it was in the previous administration.
There is no point to education, because degrees no longer matter, the white collar industry is dead and professors care more about indoctrination than teaching.
There is no point to dating, because the gender war has become so critical that most men are terminally alone and most women are okay with being single moms or spinsters.
There is no point to consuming entertainment, because all of it is terrible. Movies suck, games suck, music sucks, anime suck, YouTube sucks, everything is just content now.
There is no point to self-improvement, because genetics and childhood trauma impact your entire life and you cannot do anything besides cope about things getting better.
There is no point to saving money or starting a family or trying to own a home or get a stable career or make a name for yourself, because the West only wants to outsource all of this.

People constantly tell me I am in a negative mindset, meanwhile everyone outside is shambling around like the living dead. Tempers are shorter than ever, IQs are lower than ever, no one knows how to control their emotions and tribalism is at an all time high. Humanity has literally regressed back into a hunter-gatherer mindset despite progressivism, but we have zero of the freedom or physical advantages afforded to cavemen.

Reality is now converging with the Mouse Utopia and Stanford Prison Experiment. 80-20 is taken as law. Jews run every sector of the world. Fractional reserve banking won't ever go away. Narcissism and ironic detachment are the norm. War won't ever end.

I don't know what to do anymore because I'm just one guy. I have no power, no motivation, I'm just a husk like everyone else.
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>>32304978
A car is new before it gets old and worn out.
You absolute baboon nigger.

>>32305101
I'm not touchless. I kissed 7 girls, I held hands and hugged a few, I went on dates etc. But yeah it's still over.

>>32305219
ywnbaw

>>32305249
like I said to the other anon, I wasn't naked.
Read the whole post and see why I didn't know if sex was supposed to happen.
That's still not the closest I ever came to having sex, it's just an example.

>>32305671
I told you to hang yourself schoolnigger, gtfo my thread.

>>32305729
yeah, I would. Not that there's such a thing as a male slut anyway.
If you were smart you'd say something like "would you date a woman who thinks all men are incels" since the closest male equivalent of a slut is an incel.

>>32305757
I'm not sure honestly. It was a weird situation that i've never been in before.

>>32305817
true
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>>32303804
This post reads like a parody, you losers really have to get some better material at this point.
D+ work OP. See me after class.
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>>32306135
kill yourself.
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>>32303879
I'm 25
My parents already were lovers at 16
Fuck you.
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>>32303879
Realistically if he's still a virgin at 22 and he's not either extremely religious or a closeted gay man it's not looking too great.
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>>32303804
You got it all figured out, do not know why you are posting on an advice board.
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>>32304012
>>32304056
If you're 24 and still a virgin and you're like I said not a closeted gay man and/or a religious fundamentalist the chances are you're fucked for life and should just be going with whatever is accsessible to you. I think you're getting to the point where this attitude thst you're alone forever if you've genuinely never been in a relationship at all might be accurate.
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>>32304089
Most teen relationships are not "I fell in love at 16 and then immediately got married". I do hope you realize this on some level.
>>32306338
You too
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>>32305671
>"but it starts again when you have enough money to quit your job and go to uni 2nd time around"

>"You just need to quit your job and go to school again, thats the only thing that matters because its the only one that allows for men to speak to women."

I have a gf and never even went to college desu. Also seems like you're gearing up for a sexual harassment lawsuit with that one ngl.
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>>32306530
That's schooler, ignore him.
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>>32306330
I think the odds of you doing that are a lot higher OP, do the world a favor and take your bestie/frenemy Schooler with you.
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>>32306558
I'm aware of schooler. I'm probably just as annoying,but I do feel bad for him that he actually believes this would be a viable plan.
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>>32303804
I didn't lose my virginity until I was 34.
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>>32303804
It's over as soon as you turn 18 and leave the school system without a well established social circle. You go to work, but you won't make any friends, just coworkers. You join a sports club, same deal. It's over, because everyone already has their social circles locked in since childhood. You'll be nothing more than a coworker, destined to be alone for life. Social life and relationships are like trains you have to catch at the quay, a race against time that takes place during adolescence. And by extension, logically of course, no social life and no women.
But normies don't understand this because they are clueless normies who think you can walk into a bar full of strangers and magically form a social life like in The Sims. Only women can start from scratch and create a social life and get a boyfriend from scratch because of their status as women.

Whether you're 30 or not it doesn't change anything, maybe for the normies, but for you and me Chud, a year is like any other, the sands of time flowing towards nothingness, nothing less, nothing more.
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>>32303804
i thought the older men thing was a meme too but im unironically more popular with girls 18-22 now at 30 than i was at 18-22
was not an incel at 18-22 either though
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>>32306638
where do you even meet 18 - 22 girls now? How often do you fuck one?
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>>32303804
Same boat as you OP except I'm 32. I've had several chances at getting a girlfriend in the past but I missed them all either due to stupidity or just general insecurity.
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>>32303804
>be me
>35
>life is so fucking awesome
>boatload of cash
>paid off house
>business is taking off
>22 yo gf
>didn’t read anything you posted
Feels good, man
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>>32308087
30yo redpill boomer coping, never seen that one before.
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>>32308113
I don’t care what you think about me
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>>32308142
you do.
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>>32303804
>at my age, I feel like all the single women are single for a reason.
This is another reason you're unattractive.

You think you're better than people despite being a loser yourself. Recognize that relationships fall apart more often than they don't. It doesn't mean people are leftovers or undesirable. If a woman's like 35, fat and has three kids she is.
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>>32308168
cope
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>>32303936
Find god and use him to replace your need for human love
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>>32310174
virgin, ngmi
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>>32303804
Mail order bride.
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Find an interesting hobby. I swear that people who have interesting hobbies which give them flow(flow is a state where you partially forget world around and lose sense of time and worries when you're so focused on what you're doing) experiences are most satisfied in life.
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>>32310358
what hobby? everything is boring? What am I supposed to do? Paint? AI can do that better.
Code? AI.
play a sport? I'm too old to ever get anywhere with it.
what is there to do, really?
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>>32306638
The older men meme needs to come with a disclaimer.
>if you had girlfriends and got laid as a teenager and in your 20s and have experience, you'll do even better in your 30s
>if you were khv during your teens and 20s, you're not very likely to become a sudden pussy slayer in your 30s
Basically the main demographic who desperately want to believe in it are also the demographic that are the least likely to benefit from it. There are exceptions of course but it requires major effort.
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>>32310360
Jesus Christ, this post isn't even about women and it still underlines your pathetic mindset perfectly.
>I can't enjoy painting for fun because I'll be mogged by le AI!
>I can't enjoy playing sports for fun because I'll never be a millionaire professional athlete!
To the rest of you: THIS is why people like OP can't be helped.

>>32310412
>There are exceptions of course but it requires major effort.
And we know how people here fell about major effort, of course. Or even minor effort.
For what it's worth, I agree with your assessment. It's basically a "rich get richer and the poor get poorer" situation (usually). However, note also that doesn't stop the guys we try to help from claiming the inverse as well: that ALL men become ugly or incel or beta bux in their 30s and beyond, that anyone claiming otherwise is "coping", etc. Just pure seethe and cope at every turn.
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>>32310360
hobbies are not a competition who can do it better
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>>32310466
When you're a vulnerable narcissist like OP, EVERYTHING is always a competition. A competition you're always losing, by default.
It's a horrible way to go through life.
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>>32304089
>When I'm 25 it won't be accessible for me to date 18 year olds
Who gives a shit? And depending on the laws in your area, why not go younger? Who gives a shit what people think
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>>32303804
>self eliminated already at 22
NGMI
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>>32310466
They're pointless shit unless you can get something out of them which like I said I can't. Most hobbies are no better than shitposting here.

>>32310628
read the first sentence after the title, nigger.
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>>32311065
>They're pointless shit unless you can get something out of them which like I said I can't.
Horrible fucking attitude, kys.
>>32311065
>read the first sentence after the title, nigger.
Yep, self-eliminated, just like that anon said.
You said yourself you've never even asked a girl out. Whose fault is that, if not yours? Exactly.
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>>32311875
>Yep, self-eliminated, just like that anon said.
>You said yourself you've never even asked a girl out. Whose fault is that, if not yours? Exactly.
I went on 2 dates and I approached girls at a nightclub this summer.
Where do you expect me to ask girls out lmao, I made it pretty obvious that I don't even know many women.
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>>32303804
>They're the leftovers that no one wants.
This only applies at 30 and especially 40.
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>>32306042
>tranny seethes at the only good advice he's been given
Kill yourself you retard. It's school or nothing.
>>32306530
Who cares? Nothing you wrote changes my point.
The only point of uni is to let men meet women and men have no other venue to meet women at all. If you had basic reading comprehension skills or had any intellect you'd recognize it as true.
>>32306585
I feel bad for you that you'd rather die as a shut in incel wageslave than do the only thing that can let you meet women. You're just retarded and pathetic.
My plan is the only thing anyone who asks how to meet women needs to hear, its the only thing that can help them. I feel bad that anyone wouldn't follow through with it.
>>32310358
For all you know OP and all incels already have those. None of it matters. He'd have made the same post even if he had or didnt have it. It doesn't matter, it doesnt change anything he's written.
>>32306604
You can literelly go to school system at any age you want. You can be attending university whenever you need to. You just need some money.
>>32306702
the same way as at any age, in school or through friends.
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>>32311917
end yourself nigger, don't even post in my thread again.
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>>32311920
kill yourself you fucking retard, do not ever make thread about this subject if you dont want decent advice on the subject
dont ever appear on this board again you faggot
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>>32311911
>I went on 2 dates
Yeah, when they asked YOU out (and you still blew it). You did nothing to change your situation, pussy.
>I made it pretty obvious that I don't even know many women.
And again, how is that NOT your fault. You're supposed to know women. If you're not living your life the correct way, how is that anyone's fault besides yours?
>>32311912
It applies to OP as well and he's only 23. Notice how he only conveniently thinks women can be "leftovers" and not men (or at least, not him). No self-awareness or accountability whatsoever, as you can see from his other points I addressed in this post.
>>32311917
kys Schooler.
>>32311920
Kek, the ONE thing you and I can agree on OP.
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It really is over at 12+, isn't it?
>I'll be 14 soon and I have 0 dating and relationship experience except 2 failed dates with girls from my friend group who asked me out. I also never had unpaid sex.
>At my age, I feel like all the single women are single for a reason. They're the leftovers that no one wants. They've been through absolute mountains of cocks while I haven never had a girl willingly have sex with me.
>How am I meant to cope with that? What's the way forward here?
>>Inb4 muh men age like wine 20yo boomer redpill cope
>No. Realistically, I can pull 8yos for another few years but as I get older the access I have to young women who haven't been ran through is rapidly diminishing.
>Soon i'll be 15 and I will be able to (at best) get 10yo sluts.
>I swear i'm bordering insanity from the hopelessness and sexlessness I feel from being a completely undesirable subhuman.
>I will never forgive foids for what they've put me through.
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>>32311950
Kill yourself retarded cunt
>>32311965
Nothing in your post disproves what I wrote, it just proves the reddit location spam is objectively wrong and only schools allow for men to speak to women
and then its just 3 samefag posts doing ad hominems
everyone can do that sort of posts
pic related, reddit location spammer when he tries to talk to strangers, that means I wont he argument
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>>32311953
kek, it do be like that
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Pictured - redditor incels after someone who's been to bars explains to them there's no way to speak to women there
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>>32311947
Another year is coming to an end and you still haven't taken your own shit advice. I can't wait until you eventually go back to le school as a 50yo man and try partying with 18 - 22yos. It'll be hilarious when you finally off yourself. Can't wait.

>>32311950
>Yeah, when they asked YOU out (and you still blew it). You did nothing to change your situation, pussy.
well, one of them I technically asked her out.
She approached me at a bar and at the end when it was closing I said i'd like to see her again. I meant as friends but she took it as us going on a date so we went on 2 dates.

>>32311950
>And again, how is that NOT your fault. You're supposed to know women. If you're not living your life the correct way, how is that anyone's fault besides yours?
How am I meant to know women? Where are they? I have a mostly male friend group except for the 2 girls I went on dates with and I study a STEMcel degree.
Where are these women you speak of?

>>32311950
>It applies to OP as well and he's only 23. Notice how he only conveniently thinks women can be "leftovers" and not men (or at least, not him). No self-awareness or accountability whatsoever, as you can see from his other points I addressed in this post.
well, yeah?
The women who are single at that age are leftovers. The men who don't get anything like me are incels.
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>>32311978
Schooler, you have never, ever spoken to a woman in your life.As a married man with children - I met my wife at work. Not work. not through family.
My oldest son met his wife at a church dance. not school, not friends.
You are not just wrong, you are insane.
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>>32303804
>>32311953
Your fate was already known at an early age. In the 2nd grade, I already knew I’d never be athletic, get good grades, fit in, or get a girlfriend. Proper exercise, lifting weights, eating healthy may allow you to feel & sleep better but it will NEVER get you a girlfriend! It’s all about the DNA.That’s why guys with good DNA can get any female without trying. But if you have the wrong DNA it doesn’t matter. So for 95% of us delinquent males even major changes to better yourself won’t even improve your odds 1% to find a relationship. I should know, being 61. My substitute is prostitution in Europe trips or when stuck in my country USA where unfortunately prostitution is illegal, I pretend women on porn sites are my partner. But even that gets old or boring.
Though suicide isn’t considered I do at times wish I was diagnosed with a disease giving me only weeks to live or I wish I was murdered like in a gun point mugging or car jacking. I’ve had enough life experiences good & bad but even if can guarantee me a lot more good than bad remains the rest of my life that isn’t enough to motivate me to continue on if my life can’t include a girlfriend. Watching reruns or good movies, good nature walks or eating at good restaurants doesn’t fill the void anymore. Not fitting in wears you out therefore I absolutely have no reason to exist anymore.
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>>32311998
you're a delusional child. economy around the world is trash so saving up to return to school is not a matter of few years. And even as 50 year old you still have a chance at speaking to women as long as you're in uni as opposed to being 30 or 40 and being locked alone in your room like you want to. Even as a 50 year old I will do better partying wheras you will just slice your wrists long before then since you're obsessed with not admitting the only intelligent person you speak is correct just because it contradicts what lying redditors told you.
>>32311999
I have spoken to women, you never had. You are an incel moron whose likely never had a job in your life. If you had one you'd have known that its not a place where flirting is possible since it has shitty castrated corporate atmosphere and there's whole departments about not flirting there.
>church dance
lmao you retarded nigger
you dont even know what a church is
you have no idea what happens there, you just post random bullshit you've read on incel websites. there's no church dance, in churches its just mass and then go home and its just old dying shits.
You are wrong and insane, you are objectively delusional and have no idea what the real world looks like at all.

You fucking redditors love spamming church church church everywhere but you HAVE NEVER EVER BEEN TO ONE or even SPOKE TO SOMEONE WHO HAS GONE TO A CHURCH

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RirLhSIen70

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4m6ycPAmpIM

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nDz0UUyYF5M

look at this you dumb nigger

this is what happens in church
no young women
no socializing
no dance
no speaking, no talking, no hooking up or dating or any form of contact with others

its just mass

How many fucking times do we have to have this discussion before it gets through to your retarded incel heads?
You dont know what a church is beyond it being included in your retarded list spam you've memorized and mindlessly copy paste everywhere.
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>>32312003
Ah, there he is.
They mega-quitter.
>No midget ever married
>No guy with an ugly face ever married
>No man with a bad leg ever married
LOLOLOLOL
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>>32312034
Not him but come on lmao, married men are basically incels. It's like a participation award for finishing last.
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Here's more videos of what a church is to you retarded incel redditors who lie

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8wyaDZ8zboE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kz_3tfVg_WY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=28Iqgc6JUPA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ucv0HsPZ0SY

save these links and rewatch them every single time before you ever post anything about churches ever again
I know you love archivefagging and saving posts so save these for yourself and repost them in every single thread you see anyone mention church as place to meet women

Fundamentally you cannot ever meet anyone there. There's no room to do so. Its just mass, its just one old retard reading shit off pulpit to crowd of old dying geezers.
No one who has ever been to a church would ever tell someone to go there to meet women, it cannot be done. there's very strict decorum in there, there's no speaking and no socializing at all going on in that place.

You cannot meet anyone in there.
Everyone who disagrees just exposes they have not ever gone to a church.
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>>32312030
>I have spoken to women,
Liar.
You have said many times you have never spoken with women because you never went to school.
Remember?
Every parish I have ever been to has a
>WAIT FOR IT
Social hall just for socializing.
And I am a grown man that chaperones church dances, you drooling moron! My church alone has 4 a year!
This is from one such dance!
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>>32312042
>married men getting sex with their wives are JUST LIKE social outcasts that will die virigns!
lol
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>>32312051
>>32312030
I know they don't have many churches in Mumbai where you live, Schooler, but people do meet before and after Mass, you dummy.
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>>32312076
They're not much better. Marriage in 1950 + 74 is the definition of paying full price for a used car.
Go look at what the average age women get married is.
You're devoting your life to another man's one night stand lmao.
An incel who can pay to fuck 20yo hookers is objectively superior to you.
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>>32312081
Isn't Schooler a polackcel?
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>>32312051
Pictures of and articles about Catholic dances for young people so they can meet potential spouses
>https://www.traditionsanity.com/p/why-catholics-should-learn-to-dance

>https://youtu.be/oow56hRpBeg?si=lxIagdAIiWtzKc-Y

>https://www.chicagocatholic.com/chicagoland/-/article/2014/03/23/students-share-the-joy-of-dance-at-ballroom-contest

Schooler on suicide watch
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>>32312084
>Paying a used up whore for sex is better than having a loving wife
lmao, even
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>>32311998
>when it was closing I said i'd like to see her again.
Ok, good, that's actually not bad.
>I meant as friends
That is. Obviously she was going to take that as a date. The point is, it was obviously pretty easy because you did it without thinking about it or even realizing that you did it.
>How am I meant to know women? Where are they?
You're not a shut-in, right? They're everywhere you turn. You're supposed to know some already, and be in a position where you can meet more.
>I have a mostly male friend group except for the 2 girls I went on dates with and I study a STEMcel degree.
Again that's just it, you're not SUPPOSED to have an all or mostly male friend group. What, are you still in your 5th grade "girls are icky" stage? And haven't you claimed that your friends are at least cool/popular/normal guys even if you aren't? I find it hard to believe they don't know any women then, even if it's just the friends of their girlfriends.
As for STEMcel, remember you CHOSE that degree. It wasn't pre-ordained, that's what you wanted. But again, you're not limited to just talking to whatever girls might happen to be in your class. If you're smart enough to do STEM, you should also be smart enough to realize that there won't be a lot of women in these nerd classes and it will be even MORE important for you to establish a social circle outside of it, not less. Because it's common sense.
>The women who are single at that age are leftovers. The men who don't get anything like me are incels.
What the hell is the difference? Either way, the point is it's people no one else wants.

And Schooler, STFU
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>>32312081
>mumbai
is that were you live retarded incel?
People do no meet before or after mass. i know thinking is hard for a shitskin like you so watch the videos I've linked. there's no room for meeting women at all. There are none there physically to speak to you fucking mumbaimoron.
>>32312070
You are the liar here.
>Social hall just for socializing.
you're just exposing that you've never ever even once been to a church ever in your life you retarded liar.
You are a retarded child who has no clue what you're talking about and no idea about world outside of schools.
You drooling fucking retard, watch the videos I've posted to get idea of what a church looks like. You are such a monkey spammer. You have been presented with objective facts, there's no possibility of meeting women in there. All you do is just further admit you have never spoken to women and never went to a church.
>>32312101
Your own video literelly shows school kids, who met in some kind of high school. Nothing a grown man can ever do to be part of this dance or hook up or date anyone in the video.
They met in school, the school organized dance.
Church played no part in them ever meeting one another, never let them speak to each other, its just school.
You are a certified retard with no thinking skills. You've just posted video proof that churches do not let men speak to women but schools do.
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>>32312106
>You're not a shut-in, right? They're everywhere you turn. You're supposed to know some already, and be in a position where you can meet more.
I talk to them sometimes when I go to bars/ clubs with my friends. I mostly wait for them to approach me because I figured out that women who like me approach me. When I try approaching myself they don't even see me as a human being.

>>32312106
>Again that's just it, you're not SUPPOSED to have an all or mostly male friend group. What, are you still in your 5th grade "girls are icky" stage?
no, we're just dudes that hang out, we talk to girls at bars if there's girls to talk to. Like I said, I went on 2 dates with the 2 girls from my friend group lol. They're rarely around anymore. They were more like acquaintances in my friend group. And they both have boyfriends now anyway.

>>32312106
>And haven't you claimed that your friends are at least cool/popular/normal guys even if you aren't? I find it hard to believe they don't know any women then, even if it's just the friends of their girlfriends.
I mean they're not fratbros if that's what you mean. They're gamers and weebs mostly but they are fun sociable guys and they can easily get along with people at bars I go to. I wouldn't want to be with the total normie NPCs studying business or something like that.
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It's genuinly amusing how fucking retarded niggers on this board are

people who try to argue against me are the dumbest people on the whole internet

you just posted objective proof that the only way to meet women is through schools and objective proof that churches do not let you dance or speak to women or interact with them at all

you posted article that disproves everything you've posted so far and admits that I am correct and that only by going to school again you can ever interact with women

You are a retard, you are for real a complete fucking retard if you ever try to argue against me. I am objectively correct and every second you disagree with me you are just proving how low IQ retard you are. You already told us they dont have churches in that 3rd world shithole you live in so stop trying to argue against someone who lives in normal human country who's bothered to educate you on how real life looks like.
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>>32303804
>At my age, I feel like all the single women are single for a reason. They're the leftovers that no one wants
dude
you feel this at 22?
i'm fucking 35.
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>>32304089
There are 48 year olds dating 18 year olds right here.
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>>32312106
>As for STEMcel, remember you CHOSE that degree. It wasn't pre-ordained, that's what you wanted. But again, you're not limited to just talking to whatever girls might happen to be in your class. If you're smart enough to do STEM, you should also be smart enough to realize that there won't be a lot of women in these nerd classes and it will be even MORE important for you to establish a social circle outside of it, not less. Because it's common sense.
When I was choosing my major I was more thinking about what I enjoy doing, not where there's women. I go to a STEMcel college in general so there aren't many women anywhere here. I have to meet them outside of it which i'm trying to do.
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>>32312121
>I mostly wait for them to approach me because I figured out that women who like me approach me
And you figured WRONG, as I and others have told you a million times. Look OP, you don't know anything about women and you have next to zero experience. Anything you "figure" is likely wrong because you have no idea what you're talking about, so just stfu and learn for once. Otherwise you're no better than your buddy Schooler.
>no, we're just dudes that hang out, we talk to girls at bars if there's girls to talk to.
Oh, so now you do talk to girls? I bet it's more like maybe your boys talk to a girl here and there and you stand around like the group's puppy dog.
>I mean they're not fratbros if that's what you mean.
They don't have to be. As you say yourself though, they're at least normal fun social guys, so why can't you be that? And if you can't, why are they even letting you go out with them. I wouldn't.
>I wouldn't want to be with the total normie NPCs studying business or something like that.
More cope. You don't want to be them, you just want what they have. (girlfriends in this case) And no one is expecting you to get stacy (though maybe you're holding out for that), why can't you at least hit it off and ask out some quirky nerdy gamer girl or something? That's your level and natural match, not the hot girls. Your boys seem to be able to do it, so why can't you.
There's an extra layer of cope at play here because most of those "NPCs" studying business will make more money than the average washout STEMfag as well, but that's off-topic so we don't even need to go there. Just a reminder that I'm on to you and your little games of cope and deflection.
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>>32312110
Why Schooler doesn’t know churches have social halls
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oh boy, another thread where OP tries desperately to say "it's over", to justify his falling behind, which is ultimately a lack of trying (and easily remedied by trying).

at this point maybe 50%+ of /adv/ are these posts. back in the early-mid 2010s it was "no hope because i'm a loser", now it's "no hope because i'm old" because they refuse to take any personal accountability and instead just blame others. i can't believe anyone spends legitimate time to try to talk these retards out of it, they don't need whitepills, they need public accountability, we should find these people and ridicule them for not trying, for sitting at home wasting away for no reason
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>>32312110
>go to google
>search for church social hall
>thousands of maps
Who to believe?
Reality or Schooler?
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>>32312153
>And you figured WRONG, as I and others have told you a million times. Look OP, you don't know anything about women and you have next to zero experience. Anything you "figure" is likely wrong because you have no idea what you're talking about, so just stfu and learn for once. Otherwise you're no better than your buddy Schooler.

I tested this out. I approached women at a nightclub last July and I was able to get a conversation going with both guys and girls, even as a mega sperg, which is already better than schooler can do if his life depended on it, but I still got nowhere. They had no sexual interest in me.
On the other hand, girls who approached me showed obvious interest.
Girls who like a guy will approach him. Ones who like me approach me. Those who don't - well, don't.

>>32312153
>Oh, so now you do talk to girls? I bet it's more like maybe your boys talk to a girl here and there and you stand around like the group's puppy dog.
I talk to them when I can. It's rare but it happens. Most of the time it's them talking while I stand around because they're way more socially experienced but sometimes I end up talking to them one on one.

>>32312153
>they're at least normal fun social guys, so why can't you be that?
just not who I am. Too many negative experiences growing up which resulted in me cutting off all my "friends" from back then and spending my entire time on 4chan and and video games.

>>32312153
>And if you can't, why are they even letting you go out with them. I wouldn't.
maybe because they're not abused 4chan dogs and they're nicer than you.

>>32312153
>More cope. You don't want to be them, you just want what they have. (girlfriends in this case) And no one is expecting you to get stacy (though maybe you're holding out for that), why can't you at least hit it off and ask out some quirky nerdy gamer girl or something? That's your level and natural match, not the hot girls. Your boys seem to be able to do it, so why can't you.
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>>32312153
>More cope. You don't want to be them, you just want what they have. (girlfriends in this case) And no one is expecting you to get stacy (though maybe you're holding out for that), why can't you at least hit it off and ask out some quirky nerdy gamer girl or something? That's your level and natural match, not the hot girls. Your boys seem to be able to do it, so why can't you.
>There's an extra layer of cope at play here because most of those "NPCs" studying business will make more money than the average washout STEMfag as well, but that's off-topic so we don't even need to go there. Just a reminder that I'm on to you and your little games of cope and deflection.
so much wrong in this little paragraph I don't even know where to begin lol

a) I want what they and everyone else and their mother and their dog have.
It's not exclusive to business students lol

b) because i'm not even a quirky gamer guy myself.
Those "quirky gamer girls" except a sociable guy too.
I don't have high standards - they're basically not fat, not too skinny, feminine proportions, 4+/10 face and not black.

c) I don't care because I don't plan on working in this field after I graduate. I hope to become a bartender immediately after. Not going to be stuck in some gay office working a 9 - 5.
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>>32312185
>Ones who like me approach me.
Some of the ones who are interested will approach. MOST of them will not.
>just not who I am.
Jesus Christ, ok well guess what? No women for you then. Because that's who you're supposed to be, and what women like. You're in your 20s, so act like it and stop using whatever happened to you as a kid as a crutch to determine your adult life forever.
And if you're not fun and social AT LEAST go after the weird boring nerdy femcel girls. Who guess what, you won't likely find at parties and bars. Though there may be some in your school.
>maybe because they're not abused 4chan dogs and they're nicer than you
Are you saying I'm "an abused 4chan dog"? Lol, I've only been here for a few years. And I'm here to do the abusing. (more like tough love from the father figure/older brother/coach you clearly never had, but a lot of you guys choose to take it as abuse).
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>>32312213
>Some of the ones who are interested will approach. MOST of them will not.
I told you that I tested this out. I mass approached with 0 interest from any of them. I even befriended this Norwegian Chad and he tried setting me up with a bitch and nothing happened.
Women who like me approach me. It's pointless to approach without even any IOIs, all it does is inflate their already grossly bloated ego.

>>32312213
>Jesus Christ, ok well guess what? No women for you then. Because that's who you're supposed to be, and what women like. You're in your 20s, so act like it and stop using whatever happened to you as a kid as a crutch to determine your adult life forever.
It's how it works though. Childhood and teen experiences shape up the rest of your life. I'm trying and I am in a lot better place than I was some years ago simply because I have people I talk to regularly but it's too little, too late. Hitting 20 with 0 dating experience is basically the final nail.
And i'm 24 in less than 6 months.
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>>32312197
>b) because i'm not even a quirky gamer guy myself.
>Those "quirky gamer girls" except a sociable guy too.
Doesn't matter, you're the social equivalent of it. If not beneath that since most of those guys still have more personality than you, as well as a "niche" that attracts similar women. You sound like you're shooting above your price range. And if even gamer girls expect a fun social guy, well then there you go. That only proves my point.
And yes I've read your weird bartender fantasy before. You're just as autistic as Schooler, plus it means you went to your STEMcel school for nothing. You could at least do something with it, otherwise what the hell was the point?
Also just LOL if you think bartender is something you're supposed to do for a long term career plan.
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>>32312182
you posted a school
AGAIN
you dumb fucking monkey
if you believe in me you believe in reality
if you disagree with me you are retarded
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>>32312243
>ou sound like you're shooting above your price range

lmao? I'm "shooting" for girls who approach me.
I told you my standards and they're often exceeded by the girls who show initial interest in me.

>>32312243
>plus it means you went to your STEMcel school for nothing.
who cares? Fuck cooding. I did my 6 month internship and i'd rather stick a HIV needle up my asshole than be back there for another week.
I'm not getting a gay ass corporate 9 - 5 wagie job.

>>32312243
>just LOL if you think bartender is something you're supposed to do for a long term career plan.
It's my plan until i'm at least 30 by which point life is over anyway. I'm not going to waste the rest of my 20s in an office. And why can't it be a long term career plan? I don't want to have a wife or kids so it's not like I need much money.
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>>32312264
>It's my plan until i'm at least 30 by which point life is over anyway
LOL, you're not even worth talking to at this point.
And you're young, but you're not a literal kid. 30 is closer than you think, let's see what tune you're singing then, faggot.
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>>32312276
>And you're young, but you're not a literal kid. 30 is closer than you think, let's see what tune you're singing then, faggot.
yes, i'm aware that my life is coming to an end and i've never even had unpaid sex.
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>>32312248
>doesn’t know many church’s have schools
lol
>thinks adults never use the social halls after Mass
lmao, even
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>>32306604
>the sands of time flowing towards nothingness, nothing less, nothing more.
Beautiful prose my anon
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>>32303804
if this makes you feel any better, MANY such cases
you can blame atheism, birth control, instagram, dating apps or whatever polcels think is the real root cause (not them being total failures of men. it's definitely the bitches fault only)
and if this makes you feel even better, you can be the fattest ugly unwashed incel creep in the block and yet if you are lucky enough and due to random unknown reasons the wires cross in a right way in a girls brain she will be into you and will seek your company, you might just not notice it or you pretend that you don't notice it.
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>>32312307
"Your anon" is a bot.
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>>32312532
>six year old data
lol
>proves incels wrong, too
lmao, even
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>>32303804
I only lost my virgo at 25. I'm 35 now and since then I've been with around 30 women and had 2 gf. I'm decent looking though, but I had to work for it
It's not too late man, you're a fucking child. Get a grip, figure out what is aesthetic and mold yourself to it. Try to improve personality also, though that's not as easy
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>>32304009
>you’re worried about the quality of ZERO. ZERO PUSSY. if you were my friend your nickname would be ZERO for life

>Dear ZERO

this shit made my day
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>>32313827
It really is this simple sometimes. I honestly think looks (physique, grooming, and clothing) are the easier parts. These lame ass dudes just need to learn how to develop an attractive personality without beign cringe.
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>>32313827
I'm on the verge of being an oldcel. The best years of my sex life that I never (14 - 22) had are already behind me.
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>>32313827
He already has good aesthetic and his personality is great. Women have absolutely no idea at all what his personality is because they're not speaking to him at all, they're unaware of it and they never will know it until he comes back to school.
They just walk past him and dont know his personality just like they dont know his name. Telling him to change his personality to meet women is like telling him to change his middle name. No one knows it at all.
>>32312300
Then its still a school you fucking retard not church.
And nearly every church in the world has no such thing as "social hall" you autistic bitch
its a shame you're such a retard that you dont know it
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>>32315048
>He already has good aesthetic and his personality is great
Nah, I can say it's not.

>>32315048
>Women have absolutely no idea at all what his personality is because they're not speaking to him at all,
They are sometimes.

>>32315048
>they're unaware of it and they never will know it until he comes back to school.
I'm literally in school right now, you utterly braindead fucking monkey. Are you a bot? I can't fathom how an actual human bean can be this braindead.
you've gotta be some curry or a slav.
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>>32315062
if you were in school you wouldnt be having any of these problems you fucking retard
in schools you can literelly just walk around and talk to people you see around
>hey how are you? whats your major? what is it about?
thats it, thats all it takes in schools
Are you a fucking retard?
I cannot fathom how braindead of a retard you have to be to listen to all my advice and be in school and still be in this thread instead of just hanging out on campus and chatting to chicks.
You've gotta be the most braindead fucking pajeet, there's no other explanation. Its 2nd time you brought this retardation up. Kill yourself and take out as many shitskins around you, your entire race is lower than chimps.
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>>32303804
>I swear i'm bordering insanity from the hopelessness and sexlessness I feel from being a completely undesirable subhuman.
Then change.

I was completely socially retarded at 17, lost my virginity at 27, and cheated on my wife with someone half my age at 22.
You're thinking that it always ends up that you don't get the girl when in fact it only ever ends once. Everything up to that is just progress.

But are you progressing?
Are you learning ?
Are you making mistakes and figuring out how to avoid them in the future?
Are you improving your life by improving yourself?
Are *changing*?

You can't git gud while safely tucked into the warm safety of your comfort zone.
Let go of anger and hatred.
Start socializing with people, not just women.
Get better at being a person.
Then get better at being a person women you like will like back.
Do it today.
If it scares you, GREAT. Do what scares you.
Change.
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>>32315187
>at 22.
Duh.
I was 44. Oops.
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>>32303936
That's your opinion. Billions of humans have happily gone other ways.
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>>32303804
Consider the fact that women want to be taken care of. Don't see giving money to women as prostitution. That's what they expect. If not straight cash for sex then you're buying her gifts, taking her on dates, paying her car and phone bill, whatever. Talk to a hooker and she'll start giving you her bills to pay. First it's the phone bill, then everything else slowly comes in. That's just how they are with men. You're looking at it all wrong.They don't want to be "strong independent don't need no man" types. They want you to take care of them.
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>>32315189
I was getting ready to say half your age at 22 would be 11
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>>32315295
Yeah that's a bit young, even for me. Heh
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>>32315240
Human beings are social creatures. Ignoring any and all desire for companionship with the opposite sex isn't healthy.
While pursuing a hobby for love of that hobby is wonderful, settling for hobbies instead of social, romantic, or sexual interactions is complacently festering and rotting rather than risking growth and change.
Stop trying to champion cowardice.
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>>32315106
>if you were in school you wouldnt be having any of these problems you fucking retard
>in schools you can literelly just walk around and talk to people you see around
no, you can't. They're all on their phones and in the cafeteria when I get food they're all at their tables surrounded by meatshields. I only talk to people from my course but it's a STEM course so the only women are pajeetas that barely even speak English.

>>32315106
>thats it, thats all it takes in schools
>Are you a fucking retard?
A bitch scrolling instagram or talking to her actual friends isn't interested in talking to some random autist about her major.
Absolute dipshit slavnigger retard, I wish Hitler finished your kind off.
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>>32315187
>and cheated on my wife with someone half my age at 22.
based cunchad
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>>32315267
This is such a weird cope from boomers who still think we live in the middle ages. Women are allowed to work now. They don't need their college part-time burgerflipper boyfriends to pay their fucking phone bills which are like what, 20 a month? lol @ you.
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>>32315187
none of this is applicable advice, its just generic bullshit from instagram
Op already does all of your advice, he is already learnign and changing and improved

He has learned and changed far more than any 15 year old but they are the ones having sex despite not having done any of your advice

The only difference is that OP is not in school so speaking to women isnt possible for him

Op has changed so much more than any 15 year old could that if your advice was real he'd already have had tons of sex by now. but women are unaware of any change or learning and him doing what scares him or whatever.
Women only care about speaking and that can only be done in school or through friends.

All this instagram caption bullshit influencer linkedin posting is useless.
Only going to school again can change anything.

>>32315267
Again thats bullshit
they have sex with people they speak to. you can be giving them money every day and no one will know your name or see you in person but they will fuck guys they meet in schools.
>>32315435
>They're all on their phones
No they aren't. I go to schools regularly and they are often just sitting around or reading through notes or just standing idly where everyone is free to speak to them. And even if they are on phones its still a social place so they will put them down when you ask them about what class they are waiting for and will make conversations about it.
>A bitch scrolling instagram or talking to her actual friends
in school you are her actual friend, she makes her friends by first talking about major
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>>32315472
>No they aren't. I go to schools regularly and they are often just sitting around or reading through notes or just standing idly where everyone is free to speak to them. And even if they are on phones its still a social place so they will put them down when you ask them about what class they are waiting for and will make conversations about it.

Idk what kind of fairy high school musical school you go to, it doesn't happen here.
They don't want to be bothered by someone asking questions about their major. They already have their own friends to talk about that with.

>>32315472
>in school you are her actual friend, she makes her friends by first talking about major
No, she doesn't. She talks to people in her own major and people she knew from high school etc. Not from talking to random autists who approach them to ask obviously desperate querstions.
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>>32315472
>Op already does all of your advice, he is already learnign and changing and improved
Stop fucking talking for me, you absolute retard. I'm OP.

I've "improved" in the sense that I made friends and I went out to bars with them where I made more friends and built up my social circle, and i've been on dates with women I met at bars but it never really worked out.

>>32315472
>The only difference is that OP is not in school so speaking to women isnt possible for him
Holy shit, tie a fucking noose, you retard.
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>>32315441
Don't you want to be taken care of?
Why wouldn't a woman?
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>>32315495
taken care of =/= paying for their shit.
People usually split the bill on dates too.
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>>32315472
>none of this is applicable advice
It's not particularly specific but it's applicable.

>its just generic bullshit from instagram
It's literally what I did, Slick.

>Op already does all of your advice, he is already learnign and changing and improved
How do you know?

>15 year old but they are the ones having sex despite not having done any of your advice
So? Their comfort zone includes saying shit to girls and getting somewhere with it. That's all.

>women are unaware of any change or learning and him doing what scares him or whatever.
Wut
The idea isn't to quietly improve alone in a basement like a secret government experiment.
The idea is to interact and-

>Women only care about speaking and that can only be done in school or through friends.
Oh.
Hi Schooler. Any luck resolving any of your cognitive distortions? No?
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>>32315498
You didn't answer the question.
Which means you know the answer and are just trying to win an argument on the internet instead of learn how women like to be taken care of.

Find a woman you like.
Then Buy Her Chairs.

https://youtu.be/uECk82--_84?si=u_Pu8LhdV8u8W0fG
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>>32315518
you're a simp betabuxx cuck and a tripfag on top of it. There's no argument to be "won" here or learned from you.
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>>32315483
>it doesn't happen here.
Yes it does, you just dont remember what schools are like
Go to any university campus and you will see people are putting down phones when someone speaks to them.
The whole reason for schools is to let men speak to women and asking about major/classes is the best way to start conversation with them because it lets you start talking for longer.
How did they meet those other friends? By having them start speaking to them in uni usually about classes
You're not an autist doing it, it's the normal way to set up relationships. All of her friends were "autists who approach them to ask obviously desperate querstions" asking about classes is the way you can trace back nearly every single relationship between human beings
Accept im right or slice your wrists already
>>32315487
Going to bars does not allow you to make friends you retard, it doesnt let you meet anyone there no matter how much you improve no one there even knows you've done it they just sit at their own table with their meats and you are forced to sit alone with no option to speak at all
>>32315509
None of itis applicable to real life.
>How do you know?
By asking yourself "if OP took this advice would he still write this post" and if the answer is yes then it makes no difference if he did or not
>So?
If your post was accurate no one younger than OP would ever have sex because by your own logic they have not been able to change as much since they literelly werent even born before he started changing himse;lf
>The idea isn't to quietly improve alone in a basement like a secret government experiment.
Exactly so your advice is useless.
To interact with anyone you have to be inside of schools. You have to have some cognitive disability to spend all this time writing about quietly improve alone in a basement like a secret government experiment and then get enraged when someone points out to you that it doesnt change shit, only speaking in schools improves anything.
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>>32315529
>Yes it does, you just dont remember what schools are like
I'm in my final year of college now, you braindead slav monkey subhuman.I[m OP. All the friends I ever made was from my major who I also went out to bars, concerts, festivals etc with.
Talking to some random bitch studying psychology who I have nothing in common with doesn't work.
>>32315529
>Going to bars does not allow you to make friends you retard, it doesnt let you meet anyone there no matter how much you improve no one there even knows you've done it they just sit at their own table with their meats and you are forced to sit alone with no option to speak at all
nope, but that is what happens in the college cafeteria.

And stop speaking for me, nigger. You don't know me. Kill yourself.
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>>32315441
They also "don't need no man now".
Modernization created two types of women: the type that will use men for pleasure because she can work and the type that will use men to maximum her own lifestyle because she can choose to work. Neither type is interested in losers like OP.
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>>32315541
>They also "don't need no man now".
>Modernization created two types of women: the type that will use men for pleasure because she can work and the type that will use men to maximum her own lifestyle because she can choose to work. Neither type is interested in losers like OP.

Stop reading twitter posts and start touching grass.
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>>32315048
>If a church has a school it isn't a church any more
>No churches have social halls
FFS, Schooler, the trolling is too far. No one can take you seriously OR humorously any more.
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4hrb
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>>32303848
https://youtube.com/watch?v=lxZpEFJhO6k&
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>>32315527
>you're a simp betabuxx cuck
What have you gained by internalizing the idea that taking care of your partner is somehow a failing? Has it enriched your life in any way?

>and a tripfag on top of it.
That just makes me an attentionwhore faggot. It doesn't negate any of my points.

>There's no argument to be "won" here
Agreed.

>or learned from you.
It's possible to learn important life lessons from even an old Kids in the Hall rerun if you are willing to actually think about things.
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>>32303925
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>>32304086
>Or the cashier at the grocery store who gives you that extra-wide smile.
lmao
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>>32315543
You don't know what people want.
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Why can't some people on this board accept that some people aren't interested in hobbies?
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>>32312132
>There are wealthy 48 year olds paying 18 year olds to date them right here.
k
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This image always seems so ridiculous and reductive.
Its trying to tell you how shit life is and how it can never get better because you missed out on some supposed required "milestone."
Life moves forward, with or without you. To remain mentally stunted and having a lack of will to live isnt because you didnt have a girlfriend when you were young, its because you are convincing yourself thats the problem.
I'm a 28 yo virgin NEET and It is quite probable that I will never have sex in my life. And yet that doesnt really bother me. Because there are so many more aspects of life that are important.

Lets assume 'its over' and you will never have sex. So what? What are you supposed to do instead? The answer is whatever you want to do.
If you truly think this means you should lay down and rot because finding a girlfriend is the only thing that matters to you, thats quite sad. Me, I'm going to pursue my other passions and find enjoyment in forging my own life.
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>>32320029
>I'm a 28 yo virgin NEET
this has to be a joke, right?
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>>32320046
Whats so unbelievable about it?
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>>32303804
YA'LL ARE YOUNG MEN DUMBASS
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>>32322106
Also this
>t. 45 year old 4chan faggot
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>>32303804
It's over when you realize it's over
I realized it at 16 years old and indeed my life ended up being shit
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>>32311917
Do you like Frank Zappa or Dreamtheater by any chance? Maybe even TMR? I'll admit I probably do need to find a career eventually but I'm a sperglord who never went to college and I've had plenty of relationships. Interesting takeaway ig. I honestly think I'd be abysmal had I went to college out the gate.
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>>32307141
I'm sorry bro...
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>>32303925
OP, don't listen to "people" like this. They don't really know what they're saying. When they say things like "Sex isn't everything", Find a hobby", "Looks don't matter", etc they're really just absent mindedly repeating things that are considered socially acceptable. They're exchanging meaningless phrases that sound nice on paper but aren't actually true for social currency. It's basically a form of virtue signaling and can be safely ignored.
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>>32325811
I do agree that looks don't matter though. I see way too many ugly subhuman men with bitches that I would kill for. Not to mention that I got cucked by bitches who simped for me with guys who had to simp for them.
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>>32303894
>>32303915
>>32322106
Its over
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>>32303804
>GUYS GUYS MY FRONTAL LOBE ISNT FINISHED DEVELOPING BUT I DONT OWN SIX GORILLIAN DOLLARS AND NO GIRL WANTS ME!!!

Its over anon. Ropemaxxing is the only way out.
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>>32327522
this but unironically
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OP I have only read your post and no replies.

Get yourself in good shape, exercising daily, well groomed, well dressed.

And approach women. Start immediately, don’t wait till you’re in perfect shape or something (just be well groomed/dressed and polite/respectful)

It may suck at first but keep doing it and it will get easier because your nerves will decrease.

Charisma is being yourself. Autist or not, just be happy and respectful and be yourself.

Develop your interests too. And make money etc so you can look after yourself. but the most immediate things are the above.

Check my insta @4dapparel :)
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>>32315529
If you're not a bot, what are you diagnosed with?
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>>32328827
>Get yourself in good shape, exercising daily, well groomed, well dressed.
I'm in decent shape.
I dress normie, i'm a jeans and t-shirt kinda guy. If I tried dressing better it wouldn't feel right.

>>32328827
>And approach women. Start immediately, don’t wait till you’re in perfect shape or something (just be well groomed/dressed and polite/respectful)
I get nowhere with women who approach me. Approaching women wouldn't do anything.
In fact, I did try last July. I mass approached women but none were interested. The conclusion I came to is that women who are attracted to me physically will approach me. Those who aren't won't.

Also desu, I legit don't even know where to find women lol. I go to bars sometimes with my friends and solo clubbing when i'm abroad but that's about it.
Other than that i'm in my final year of a STEMcel degree with 3 Muslim women who I don't even think speak English.
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>>32327448
anyone have the jak in the top left
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>>32303936
yeah if you're a baby
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>>32328941
>The conclusion I came to is that women who are attracted to me physically will approach me.
You are utter dogshit at coming to accurate conclusions.
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FWIW I lost my virginity at 24.

Shit didn't get better and I ended up escortcelling, but I didn't die a virgin.
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>22
Try being 40+, kiddo. Get your ass out there before it's really all over.
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>>32330193
It's the tripfag subhuman again. Elaborate how.
I literally tested my theory.
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>>32331746
>I literally tested my theory.
Confirming a bias is relatively simple to do.

>Elaborate how.
>>32328941
>I mass approached women but none were interested.
There are countless factors at play that you're ignoring the possibility that they exist. They range from approaching women while carrying a severed head to an incel who hates women (not saying you) talking to a woman and believing he is perfectly concealing his feelings when he's not. And countless variations like time of day, location, age, activity, and a thousand other reasons why things might not work out. I literally had a first date randomly interrupted by my parents seated down at the table next to us as the only other people in the restaurant.
But fine. You tried.
I digress.
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>>32331746
>>32332852
Even if it were 100% true (and it's not) that no woman that you approached would ever have been attracted to you, that doesn't mean that it was the fact that you approached that was the issue.
And even if it were 100% true (and it's not) that every woman that you approached was not attracted to you because you approached, that doesn't mean that women who are attracted to you physically will approach you.

You are not remotely considering any other reason why a woman would or would not approach. You are ignoring the entirety of Western culture. You are ignoring the many practical reasons why women don't approach: approaching risks rejection, rejection is scary, rejection hurts, women are approached by men often, women often don't need to approach, women often don't want to approach. There are countless cultural examples of women waiting for the guy to approach and being appealing to encourage being approached.

But your logical argument is this:
Since women don't like me when I approach, therefore women who like me will approach me.
It's dogshit logic. The two are unrelated.

The garbage conclusion you could arrive at from your garbage input would be:
Assume all women I approach don't like me.
Therefore, if I approach a woman, she will not like me.
Therefore, if want a woman to like me, I should not approach her.

See how it doesn't conclude jack shit about what women will or won't approach?
Git gud nigga
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>>32303894
You don't know shit. I'm starting to feel like my life is coming together right now and I'm 31.
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My penis is so fragile nowadays that I can't even edge it without it falling apart. You could have it badder than you've.
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>>32303804
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=QT3fOMJdfbc
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h3tebf
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>>32303804
22 and in the same position. it's fucking horrible.
Fuck this gay society. It's built around making it so white people don't have offspring
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>>32305219
why is this board full of redditors
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>>32305819
this so much this
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>>32312051
this>>32312081
I've been to like 10 different churches where I live and there's like 3 where people stay after mass and socialize and there wasn't a single person under the age of 50 there
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>>32334719
One of my buddies has been in the traditional mass rabbit hole for years
He actually met a SUPER cute girl, they were together for a while, and it seemed like they'd marry, then she just dumped him. She married some rando six months later.

This was when he was like 29 or 30, now he's 37 and he just can't get another date.

Churches only work if you're young, if you're single at 30 in those circles you're perceived as weirdo and you may as well be dead
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h34e
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>>32303804
I'm glad I'm in my mid 30s
Sex and women are ok but it's nothing to kill yourself over. I was obsessed with it until I actually did it.
It's nice, but in all honesty they cause more trouble than it's worth
Unless you want kids then I guess you're fucked sure
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>>32303804
Always glad to see incels suffer
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>>32337903
That still won't make you a real woman.
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>>32337911
Statistically incels are the ones more likely to troon out.
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>>32312172
>ridicule them for not trying, for sitting at home wasting away
how the fuck am I supposed to do anything social related without someone to assist me? I don't have friends.
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Zoomers are so cooked.
22 is a fucking baby
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>>32328862
it's called "being a normal, well functioning person"
its like exact opposite of being a sperg like you.
>>32316112
Then you're not meeting them in a church but in a school you retard. you posted a whole fucking article about how there's no dances or ways to meet women in churches and there are only in schools.
>>32334766
youre just lying
age doesnt even matter there since there's no option to speak to anyone
age does not factor into anything. women dont magically break into mens homes to fuck them when they're the same age.
people who get to 30 as virgins wont magically have their age matter suddenly. only speaking inside of schools or social circles matters.
the only thing to do at 30 is to quit your job and come back to school. you can be 22 or 28 or 60 it makes no difference, outside of school you are dead. simmiliarily inside of schools 30 or 37 or 40 also doesnt matter
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>>32338320
Kys schooler



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