I've met a perfect girl. After 1st date I was already thinking to marry her. I asked her to be together very fast, and soon after we moved together.After about 1 year together, she confessed that she was a prostitute when studying at university, because needed money.WTF do I do now? I'm thinking to leave her, but I also think that if she confessed it to me, she is a honest person and cares about me. If she were a bitch without feelings, I would be married with an ex prostitute without ever knowing it.
>>32306048Personally, I would have preferred to not know. But this was before she ever met you and you can't change the past. Ultimately, it's your decision, but don't throw something good away over something that doesn't actively affect you.
>>32306048I can't speak for her but I knew a friend who temporarily went into prostitution to make ends meet and pay off debts. She got raped once so stopped after that.There is a spectrum in everything, including prostitutes. Some are desperate, some are traficked, some are just for the street or junkies. Inversely some are in debt and others want money. Its wide. Id suggest speak to her about it first as, she told you this in confidence. Yes its bad but it shows she wants to show you who she is in full.
>>32306077All of them are whores though, so ... not really seeing that much of a spectrum here.
>>32306048leave her, there are soooo many girls without that baggage.>but she told meno she didn't, she kept that shit from you for a year.This shows that she'll hide other shit from you in the future to suit her needs.Other guy hitting on her? you won't know.Her ex in town invites her to dinner? Why would you need to know?Move on, she's damaged, and untrustworthy. That temporary happiness will turn to poison in time.
>>32306048>because needed moneyand you should believe that, go on, marry her
>>32306048A woman that sells pussy so she can eat is very different than a university student low on cash. Destitute or comfortable, one understandable and the other not. I wouldn't marry a prostitute by choice.
>>32306139>how to tell people you're an incel without telling them you're an incel
>>32306048You run. She just told you she is a whore. Save your life and dodge that bullet.
>>32306048>telling anyonelolbreak up with her and teach her a lessonthis is not something you tell peoplewould I go around telling people I used to grope girls in the public transport when I was a horny teen?not reallyor that I was paralized and couldn't do much when a friend took another friend to my room to try and rape hernopesome things you never say to anyone, best buried in the past
>>32306189that post is much more agreeable than others here
>>32306048I went on a few dates with a girl who confessed something similar, that she had been an escort for a few years in her early twenties. It oddly didn't bother me at all. If there had been more relationship compatibility between us I probably would have been fine marrying her knowing that. If this is bothering you that much you should end it though, you're never going to be able to look past it or forget hearing it.
>>32306048>and soon after we moved together.This is actually more of a red flag to me
>>32306048Marry her. You said it correctly. If she had no feelings for you, you would've never known this
>>32306048Sonya was a prostitute and that didn't make her any less good as person and raskolnikov still loved her, put her past behind she trusted that you'd wouldn't leave her even after telling this she has trust in you and you need to have trust in her too that how relationships works, but make sure to have some STD checks just in case
>>32306100Best post here. Sentient men will start to get physically sick around dishonest women due to the subconscious picking up the threat of danger. OP needs to figure out how to remove this plague from his home. Physical health is at stake.
>>32306048You can make it work but you are going to have to do a lot of work. Also how would you react if one of her past clients gets in touch or happens to meet you?
>>32306048Run.
>>32306048>WTF do I do now?Just think on her body count:Just think about how many dicks she had on her hands.Just think about how many handjobs she gave.Just think about how many gallons of sperm she milked and stained her hands and arms with such liquid.Just think about how many dicks she licked, kissed and sucked.Just think how many penises she had inside her mouth.Just think about how many men did cum inside her mouth.Just think about how many gallons of sperm she drank.Just think about how many mouths, hands and tongues touched her vulva and tits.Just think about how many men rubbed their dicks on her vulva.Just think about how many men with their dicks penetrated her vagina.Just think about all the men that poured their sperm inside her. Now think about how mamy gallons of sperm these men poured inside her.Now think about how no one of these men gave to her the wedding ring.Now think how silly you are for still wasting your time, resources and money on such walking fleshlight.If after think in all this you still without get the ick and you still believing that her past doesn’t matter then you are a certified cuck, a loser without options that only deserve the leftovers of all these men that fucked her before you, but hey, don't forget what all these women say: nice guys finish last :D>but I also think that if she confessed it to me, she is a honest person and cares about meIf im selling to you a house with a serious issue related to asbestos: am i a honest person and i care about you if i tell you about the asbestos before or after made the sale?
>>32306077do you know what my gf did when she needed money and was kicked out of her parents house? she got a waitress job whores acting like they don't have options other than whoring
to be honest if I was a girl and hot I would have whored myself for easy moneyso I get why some girls do itI guess guys who can relate to them will get over it, and guys who can't won't.most girls won't think about whoring themselves, men only thing about whoring themselves before thinking about the number of really ugly girls they'd have to fuck, if there are any girls among their clients in the first place, most probably old gay dudes.
>>32306139Go to a food pantry you fucking whore Go to a church soup kitchen
>>32306086incel mindsetwere all whoreswe just sell different partsread a parliament of whores
>>32306100>>32306790Kinda based ngl
>>32309788Great post and checked despite the esl ("gave to her the wedding ring")
>>32309788The house includes the right of abode and land ownership you moron.
>>32306139>a woman will starve to death if she can't be a whore
>>32306048>After about 1 year together, she confessed that she was a prostitute when studying at university, because needed money>WTF do I do now? Unfortunately high body count girls will be way more likely to cheat on you, she has an ideal man that doesn't exist created by the best aspects of men she has slept with combining into that fictional guy that is perfect in everywhere that you can't compete with. You'll never truly be good enough and all the extra baggage she'll eventually take it out on you, it will ware down your marriage.For your own sake break it off but you don't need to be a complete ass about it, she is just to far gone to be marriage material her past will come to haunt the marriage when she encounters a certain man that is closer to that fictional guy I mentioned earlier that was based on all the best traits of the men she slept with.
>>32306641Low standards low quality man posting low quality adv
>>32306048I married a hooker.Biggest mistake of my life.Anywhere you go, there will be men who’ve fucked her and recognise her.I’ve had fights with men in shops and the streets both arguments and fists, because they approach her in front of me, because they have been customers of hers and think there’s some unspoken bond between them.Any females in your life whether family or friends instantly look at you differently if it comes out what she does for a living. My sister suddenly didn’t even want me around my 3 nephews.My workplace found out, I had a particularly cunty manager who has since left the business, who had an argument with me at work, then went and paid to fuck my wife that night, and was smug to me since he was asked to leave a few weeks after bragging and laughing about it in the staff room to other staff who told me.Lastly there is all the shit that builds up in her head. The drama. The demands. The way that they want you to lose your very soul and dignity to only support and service their needs. Then there’s the duality, hookers LIE FOR A LIVING. They fuck unattractive middle aged men and tell them they’re sexy. Everything about their working life is a lie.Then a stupid idiot like myself with no understanding of the complexities invites a woman like this into my life and realise I’ve swallowed a live grenade.Marrying a hooker will see you being lonelier and outcast more than you ever could imagine.You’ll always be stressed and worried about their work and mental stateYou realise when they are falling g out of love with you because the sex is mechanical and routine - the same routine they use on customers, at this point they will start demanding more money from you.Finally when they no longer love you they will seek to bankrupt you, like they bad life decisions are your fault and you could not save them.DONT MARRY PROSTITUTES
>>32306048>> I've met a perfect girlThere is no such thing. Not objectively, not subjectively, not relative. There are zero perfect people. Everyone has flaws. Everyone has faults. Everyone makes mistakes. So, you've learned that your girlfriend was a hooker. How you proceed beyond this point depends entirely on the details of why, for how long, with how many people, under what conditions she was a whore, and what, if anything, she learned from the experience. Someone who, despite being coy about it upto now, thinks back fondly or without shame, at that time is unlikely to be worth marrying. Where as someone who is ashamed of it and used the experience as a catalyst to become a better person with a strong moral compass may in fact be even more worth marrying than before. Similarly, someone who behaves as a prostitute but only with a small number of men over a short period, or with a single man in a sugar daddy relationship, may be salvageable as oppose to someone who was hanging out on corners getting railed by 12 guys a day for years... Context matters. Go get some and make your decisions. We cannot decide what you're willing to accept for you.
>>32312146>we just sell different partsso... not actually whores then? what an astonishing insight you have.
>>32306048>hey bro your gf licked my arsehole and swallowed my cum for $100 a few years ago.You really want to have this conversation…
>>32306048You must be fucking gay man. You secretly love trying to get the last rim last fucking drops of other fucking men’s. Come out of your girlfriend pussy when you fucking Lick itImagine all those fucking sniggers and Indian and white trash Cox slide in in and out of a fucking shaved pussyThat must give you a little chubby make you horny because other men find Your girlfriend Sexy for moneyI wonder on your wedding night whether you’ll have visions in your head as you fuck on the most important night of sex you ever gonna have? I think you guys have just got out of prison to handover some cash. They made making number plates to slam their fucking cock up your girlfriend’s arsehole?Let’s be honest that’s probably what will make you come. It’s a story. You’ll be able to tell your kids at their 21st birthday party.
>>32312559i can’t even begin to fathom to absolutely zero levels of self esteem that would make you think it’s the right thing to do to marry a whore
>>32306048Don't use the word "prostitute" when thinking about it, it waters it down. Use the word "whore" in all its historical context, and think about what that has meant. Is that really the type of woman you want to be your wife and the mother of your children?
>>32306048I can't believe people are falling for this larp
>>32314438>t. Prostitute
>>32312611>context mattersLmaoNo! It doesn’t.Don’t marry whores.
>>32306048I won't be someone that tells people to never touch sex workers as partners but you need to be honest with yourself about how insecure you'll be about her past. I'll reiterate something that retards on other websites don't emphasize enough: its ok for you to reject someone for whatever reason it may be. No one is owed a romantic relationship from you and shouldn't feel bad about exiting. However, if you can handle her promiscuous past and aren't too concerned about A) previous clients possibly reappearing in her life and B) content that may have been made with her and posted online, then by all means go ahead (with proper STD testing of course).Me personally, hell no. I don't think most guys are so unlovable/unfuckable that they should settle with retired escorts. At the end of the day though, its your life. Do whatever will give you peace. (This is all assuming you aren't trolling.)
>>32314537You know escorts are all kind of fucked up in the head and heart don’t you?Like it’s way worse than just awkward social shit. I mean look at this fucking loser and try not to judge >>32312559Simple recipe to ruin your life.>find retired narcissist whore with undiagnosed BPD and baby rabies where the only thing she’s ever had her appearance is quickly fading and she wants some simp to buy her a house she can wash her vagina in.>marry her.>erm… PROFIT?It’ll be even worse if you have kids with her and she won’t understand why her own children hate her the same you she secretly used to hate some of her clients and her step father. I mean blasting meth doesn’t screw up your life so bad.So I have had 2 exs I found out had had sex with prostitutes before dating me. Both were instantly dumped, blocked, erased from my life. It’s disgusting. God forbid a girl found out her man had DATED a prostitute EVER! I’d ruin his life for hiding that from me. Pig!
>>32306048there is no such thing as "was" a prostitute
>>32306048Its good that she told you that she was prostitute. Even if she did not tell you, you would have known about it anyway. I will tell you about >she was a prostitute when studying at university, because needed money.There were a very small number of girls in the polytechnic and university that were prostitutes. They did not really need the money. They were mentally disturbed girls that were molested as children by on older male or female that was a family member, alternatively, drug users. They were quite frighted about missing the expensive fashion and travel as well as the drugs/narcotics they were addicted to. I remember some guy that married a former stripper, after having their second kid she was out at the "bar" and with "friends" she started stripping again.
>>32315114Btw, the husband would call her and message her - no answer. One day I was over, playing and watching TV with their daughter when she did return the call and the husband was watching TV with us it was like so>What are you doing?>...>Where are you now!?>...>Oh, love I am just worried about you. You are out since late last night. What I am going to tell *insert daughter's name*?>...>So when are you coming back?>...>Alright, I'll see you then. Love you...I felt really bad for him and the daughter. I felt sad typing it.
>>32312559Wow anon. Its a testament to people that actually tried to extend sympathy, empathy and a new start to prostitutes and then to emiserate them. They try to make you feel like you are doing a noble thing for them. You are drained, humiliated and neglected; simping and white knighting for her. If anything, my dad used to tell me that prostitutes tend to visit the urologist a lot. I hope you find love, peace and happiness anon>>32315137>Just adopt a rostie,ex-party girl or BPD/NPD>Just rescue an ex-stripper or prostituteFuck off.
>>32306048>she is a honest person and cares about meif she cared about you she would have kept it to herself.she already knows you are a simp cuck so now she is just trying to see how far she can push you and how much she can extract from you.
>>32306048Obv I banged escorts in Tijuana but wouldn't be with one for the long runMaybe date and pretend to be her novio if she's giving me extra perks but for that I can just date regular civie women I'm not ugly, on the contrary, but being in that world changes a womanEither way though, the majority of modern women are a pain Honestly, fucking escorts when it's not super expensive and they are hot like in TJ makes it difficult it be "normal" and seek out regular women in Southern California But then again I'm antisocial and hate/don't care about people so there's thatKek, I traumatized one escort that owed me money by showing her images of her old escorting listings where a specific tattoo on her is visible, images of her that mongers uploaded on telegram, her doxx, and a list of her family members, shame we had a good thing going on
>>32306048She has to be somewhat attractive in order to be a prostitute. It's very common these days. If you really love her then stick it out. She's a person, too. She'll want sex eventually and not with you. Imagine she's exactly the same as you but in a woman's body.
>>32315203What I want to know is why are all the attractive women hookers and the ugly ones so conservative. It's like they finally get their chance and start selling it immediately.Don't pretend women aren't horny. I know so many chicks who did nasty shit when we were kids because they wanted some dick and ended up pregnant before 18. Women aren't logical beings. They're emotional hornballs. Either angry, bitchy, or horny. That's their 3 moods.
>>32306048curious.is she really really good at sex? Meaning does she seem extremely confident and knowledge about it?
>>32315294>Imagine she's exactly the same as you but in a woman's body.Um, no...
>>32306048LmaoCuck
>>32306048If you're not perfect, stay with her.
If she confessed early on I'd understand about honesty - she told you way way way later and with the reason "because muh college" which she could have worked at mcdonalds to pay for instead. Whore and dishonest secret keeper.
>>32306048>marrying a literal whorelolthis is even lower than those pieces of shit that marry pornstars
>>32315203did u end up getting the $$ back? its been months right
>>32323735Yeah I did
>>32315344Yeah, I mean you just answered the question in your post
>>32306048>I've met a perfect girlThen don't poison this perfection.
>>32306048did you even consider the possibility she had no choice but to confess because stalkers/former johns know her whereabouts and threaten to out her?sex workers like to leave everything behind and start a new life but it doesn't work this way. weirdos take pleasure in ruining their lives years after they quit.anyway, whatever you do, DON'T have children with her
>>32306048if you were fine with the idea of her not having saved her virginity to marriage getting mad about the sex she had before being for money is pretty retarded, it's a pointless distinction. All casual sex havers are whores ultimately.
>>32306048Leave herBut before that get a recording of her admitting that and spread it to the whole world so another man won't be fooled by that whore
