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is watching porn cheating in a relationship?
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>>32312518

That depends on the terms set out between the parties inside the relationship. However generally it isn't considered to be, no.
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>>32312518
most couples wouldn't count it as cheating unless you count watching a movie that you know has nudes as cheating too.
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>>32312518
Only when you star in it
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>>32312518
Anything you would hide from your partner is essentially cheating.
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>>32312518
No
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>>32312518
No. But it flirts with infidelity. It’s right up on the boundary and plays with the idea of infidelity without being infidelity.
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>>32312518
Eye of the beholder.
To cheat means to lie.
You lie to your partner even if its a white lie? Thats cheating.
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>>32312518
I've never really considered it cheating myself. I've had times where my gf was horny and I was too tired so she just masturbated which I think is fair. Also, her masturbating would usually end up turning me on anyway.

I think as long as you tie your sex together then its okay. The issue is when you never touch each other and are only getting off to porn in another room or something which creates a sexual divide.
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>>32312518
Watching porn in a relationship is the equivalent of taking the role of cuck, watching other people have sex WHILE showing no interest in your woman. Pretty grim unless it's girl solo, in which case your girl will say it's cheating.
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>>32312518
Sounds like your not having enough sex in your relationship, I haven't watched porn in 3 years I have an active sex life with my gf.
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it can be.
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>>32312518
not technically cheating but still wrong,i mean you are literally SIMULATING that you are fucking other women and wish to do it for real
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Cheating?
No.
Bad for you?
Yes.
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if (you)r gf considers porn cheating then it's cheating. or it might as well be, it'll have the same end result.
if you have to lie to your partner about what you're doing because you're afraid they'll freak out over it you have the wrong partner, break up with them and find someone who doesn't have dumb opinions
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>>32312518
No. But watch it together. It can be fun if the material is something you both enjoy. If she doesn't enjoy it then your relationship is probably doomed anyway as your sexual interests are too far apart.
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>>32318241
Braindead take. If the gf considers voting for the wrong person to be abuse- why would anyone with a spine accept it? Words have definitions.

>>32312529
Middle ground. At least try to have something you both agree with.
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>>32312518
Not technically cheating, but it's inappropriate nonetheless, because it's still a breach of intimacy.
The grey area would be camwhores or something, where there's some kind of interaction with the girl.
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Me and my missus both enjoy a little solo session, we often record and share with each other to spice things up so it is an issue only if you make it an issue. Be open, be honest with each other and decide what's best for you.
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No. You're not having sex. If a judge or a doctor wouldn't be interested in what you're doing, then it doesn't count.
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>>32318575
>No. But watch it together.
dont do this
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>>32321670
Explain yourself.
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>>32312646
This. Porn, smoking, drinking, on-line relationships... if you have to hide it, it's cheating.

If you're not hiding it, but it interferes with a normal, intimate sexual relationship with your spouse/partner, it's cheating.
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>>32320065
Yuck
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>>32312646
This... is frankly the best answer to the question.
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>>32312518
This was a controversial issue I had with an ex of mine. She believed that watching porn was cheating, but hentai wasn't, which was rather strange to me.

But no. It's not cheating, because they're pixels on a screen, and you can learn from porn how to be a better partner. Some people already mentioned that watching with your partner would be a great way to bond, I highly recommend this, especially if you wanted to get into tantra.
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>>32312646
So taking a huge stinky shit is cheating?



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