I had been talking with this girl for a few weeks before we met up. Had a great first date. Small casual second date. Invited me over and even though she let me know she wanted to move slowly, I made a move anyways and she accepted the advances. We ended up making out, and while we didn't have sex, we had a lot of nearly nude making out for hours with me playing with her body.Thought it was going somewhere. Later texts me that she wasn't interested in pursuing anything romantically or intimately with me since she's hung up with her ex, and even then she doesn't think I'm particularly her type. Did I just fuck up moving things too fast? I said it's cool and maybe we can be friends. Tbh I wouldn't mind pursuing it still, but I just can't figure out what went wrong. Is this normal? This all happened in the course of about a week. I'm not necessarily gonna DEVOTE myself to this one but honestly wondering if it's salvageable with time.
no only means no if you’re a beta bitch
>>32314373no, shes only using you for sex and physical contact while she copes about her breakup. Literally nothing you can do will make you anything other than what you are right now.think nothing of it and move on.
>>32314373She was pretty sure she didn't want anything sexual. But you were a nice guy, so she wavered and thought "Maybe I'm wrong." So she tried, and discovered she wasn't liking it.
>>32314373I'm severely insecure about my wealth, so I can't date. I'm 36 and make $150k but I'm constantly afraid that if I were to somehow get a girlfriend then she would leave me for someone like one of the self-made billionaires who made his money in silicon Valley at 19.Does anybody else feel like this? How do I stop being insecure about wealth and start talking to women before it's too late (if it isn't already)?
>>32315371>>32314576Maybe so. She did seem to like she was into it the entire time. Was really weird. But maybe I did fuck up moving too fast. >Pain
Maybe you just suck at sex or are ugly lol
>>32316289I'm a wagie and receive minimum wage and I got a loveable gf, just don't be autistic bro
>>32314373unironically you should have fucked her good so that she gets addicted to you. you moved to slow and allowed 'rationality' or self-doubt to creep in.if she's inviting you over, and allowing you to make moves, but says otherwise... listen to the body language not the words.
>>32322060She didn't wanna fuck. Edged her all night though so it was wild to me to get shot down so hard
>>32316289what kind of women are you dating/where are you living that these silicon valley billionaires are your competitors? most women will never come across those kinds of people. just find a woman that's making her own money, that way she's not constantly looking for ways to secure financial stability. women that don't have real jobs usually have to depend on their family/boyfriend for money. or find a woman from a rich family, that way she already has wealth and doesn't need a super rich boyfriend.
>>32314373The "still hung up on my ex" thing could be one of a few things. I'll state em just because i dont know the context of how long ago they broke up and how they broke up.This reason could be>"I don't want to be mean and turn you down, so I'll give you a fake reason">"I don't want anything serious, I just need a distraction and a warm body to fill that void that my ex boyfriend left me in this separation phase."Common reason that a woman truly doesn't want to openly admit to you. A lot of them do this (men do it too) because they're still trying to come to terms of the relationship they had ending or being over. A lot of people do this rather than sitting in their feelings and thoughts about this breakup and process. It only dawns on them that they aren't doing the right thing and need to stray away from the dating game to process what happened and then feel ready. You can even do that while dating. You can't figure out what it is until you try. Maybe this was just her realizing she isn't just ready to be committed again.At the end of the day, you were blessed with her telling you instead of selfishly stringing you along into thinking you guys could be something and using you to just make her ex that she wants back become jealous
