from rivelino on twitter>Three key points:>1-You need to be displaying yourself in front of groups.>2-The better you are at your sexy hobby –– the more skill and talent you display –– the more powerful your sexy hobby will be at attracting women>3-You can see your sexy hobby as a form of social proof –– so again, it needs to be social. You can't hide your sexy hobby and expect it to do anything for you>Here's a partial list of sexy hobbies:>surfer>beach volleyball player>salsa/ballroom dancer>musician or DJ>bartender>world traveler>party thrower or promoter>photographer or visual artist>amateur chef who hosts dinner parties>personal trainer>ski, golf, tennis player or instructor>yoga instructor>sailing instructor>keynote speaker>stand up comic>city tour guide>hiking expert or group organizer>poet or writer who reads his work at open micsanon, did you ever have a sexy hobby that got you attraction and attention from women? if so, what was it? looking for ideas so i can log off and live a real life
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>>32321503Anon, taking up a hobby you don't even like in the vain hope it will make women start to like you is extraordinarily UNsexy behavior.And the "sexiness" of the hobby is more determined by the guy doing it than the other way around.
>>32321523actually i'm thinking of DJ since i love picking music and i enjoy it a lot. will take a while until i get gigs but it seems fun to me
>>32321529Alright, that's cool then, go for it.As long as you're doing it because you actually like it. Don't do it just to get girls. If girls start flocking to you because you're the DJ, consider it a happy accident and not the endgame.
>>32321549respectfully i disagree, doing something because i think it will get me women is a great excuse to get out of the house and proactive with my life
>>32321560>get out of the house and proactive with my lifeYou should be doing that anyway though.And ironically enough, once you start doing that women will fall into place much easier. Like a lot of people here, you have your cause and effect mixed up.
>>32321582nah. socializing more often within a context where i court attention would objectively be better for my chances at attracting women. i'm not expecting to work a DJ gig and have women fawning all over me, but just increase my chances. i promise you i'm thinking about this correctly. stick to the topic or shut up
>>32321590>nah. socializing more often within a context where i court attention would objectively be better for my chances at attracting womenAnd again, I don't see why you're not doing that already. That's just day to day life for guys who are actually successful with or in demand by women.>hurr durr I'm a shut-in with no passions and no social life>wtf why aren't hot women just spawning into my bedroom??>stick to the topic or shut upAnd here's where you let your mask drop and your inner asshole shine. We are on topic, pay attention faggot.
>>32321617>And again, I don't see why you're not doing that already.This post is about outgoing, social hobbies for this exact purpose. Rather than chime in with suggestions or your exact experience, your advice was some nonsense about how it's more important to have fun. Leisure is not my challenge here and I stated that in the OP>And here's where you let your mask drop and your inner asshole shine. so do you have any experiences to relate or suggestions for hobbies or did you just come to criticize the OP question
>>32321503I am 40 and I have no woman, I have no hobbies, I have no children, I have no house, I have no friends, I have no money and live paycheck to paycheck. When will my real life begin bros? I'm tired of the grind, I'm tired of this life, just very very tired that's all.
>>32321529unless you reach name recognition level 99% of the time you'll be playing other people's picks
>>32322401NTA. Depends on the genre. For example, in the type of electronic music I DJ, nobody tells me what to play.
>>32321523>>32321549What's genuinely wrong with doing stuff for girls / to be more appealing if you're aware of it and don't sperg about it ? Like legit question
>>32326417Nothing. If being yourself means that no one is attracted to you, then don't be yourself.
>>32321704>When will my real life begin bros?This is it. You've been living it the whole time.>life is what happens while you're making other plans
>>32321704today. it has to be today. even if it's just you going out and buying a notebook that says "changes I'll make" and committing to 10 minutes of real, discernible life changes you can make, that's enough. but you have to work on it today. today everything can begin anew. but it has to be today. there is no tomorrow
>>32321503Trail running. I was one of the best runners in the class I was in and that result along with my trail running insta stories got me attention. A girl that I'm pretty sure was interested in me even asked me out to run but I was too autismo to go along with it.
