I don't know what to do anymore. I want to stop thinking about her and our time together but we live in the same college dorms so I see her almost everyday. I think she likes a freshman now so I want to get over her before they get together so it doesn't hurt as much. What do?
>>32321708Two seemingly contradictory things, but they do work together:1. Immerse yourself in the routine of ordinary daily life. The more you're busy doing, the less mental time you have to obsess over her.2. Do something new. Join a club, learn to dance, meet new people - anything to be your new interest, to displace her
>>32321708Run. Fucking run. Discard every thought you have of her. Burn every physical object pertaining to that period. Focus on god, education, hustlegrinding, whatever the hell you believe in. Keep your friends close, if you have them. Talk to a girl, if and when the moment arises.Getting fucked over by some chick is an extremely deadly mental illness for a guy if you don't cut it off as soon as possible. You are in my prayers and I wish for your mind and soul's best health.
>>32321757>>32321777Thanks guys, I've already picked up painting and I'm occupied by my studies but fuck all I do now is studying for my exams so I'm alone a lot of time, which only makes my mind wonder and end up thinking about her. I feel like I've lost motivation to do anything, I'm just not interested in things anymore
>>32321708Short and tough answer is-You don't.I personally never got over her. The wound keeps festering you as you persevere. You can of course forget a bout her if you lie to yourself, but if you had somebody you felt was really special and looked better than most women you can only lie to yourself for so long before you go back to resentment.
