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How to cope with the fact that I'm 22 and thus missed out on dating and finding a mate when women are in their prime? Also I'm going through these dating apps and it's just impossible for me to get likes. I'm tall, I'm not fat, I'm white, I have money, I have a degree, and have hobbies.
I can't meet a woman IRL because there are no women my age IRL, and most of them already have boyfriends, or are on dating apps where they could sleep with a different chad every day of the week. What the fuck am I to do? This shit sucks, I've been alone for way too long.
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>>32321774
Wtf 22 isnt old at all. Im 27 and have gone out with 19yos. Stop being cucked by your own insecurity
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>>32322143
I don't even meet 19 year olds despite going out every single day of the week. On the rare chance i do meet someone in my age bracket, they are not single, or they're some combination of non-white, cow-tier fat, libshit, etc.
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It might be due to having less expectation from the get-go, but I'm in my early 30s and have had one serious relationship and a few additional dates from using these services. I've tried out different variations on my profile, different pictures.

I've had different things I've been into from year to year, job to job. I've matched with probably a hundred people or something overall and some of them were even pretty darn attractive. I'm not ugly and I have some minimal education that's going to get more advanced here in a month or so. I can converse decently enough and my hobbies and interests I've found certain people find quite attractive.

I guess looking back on it, what's worked for matching with one person at one point might be a different profile presentation than what would work for another person matching with me. For me it's a game of trying different stuff out and sometimes having it fit. I've then matched with people and then reached the stage where we seem to get along well enough and enjoy talking, then when the day comes to meet I'm having a bad day or something so it doesn't work out.

Thankfully I'm past the point where in high school I was pining to have a girlfriend and going long periods where I'm not seeing anyone doesn't have a super significant impact for me
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You do know you can still date people younger than you as long as they're of legal age, right? I'm in my 30s and typically go out with girls in college. Maybe get charisma?
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>>32321774
>I'm tall, I'm not fat, I'm white, I have money, I have a degree, and have hobbies.
You are the Chad, dumbass. The world should be your oyster right now.
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>>32321774
>22
>missed out on prime women
What kind of pedo fantasy is this?
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>>32321774
If it gives you any hopium. A 20 year old girl (indirectly) asked me (24y.o.) out on a date and we're going to the museums on Thursday, after going on an outing she planned last Friday. That's not a woman in her prime, BUT if an unlovable sperg chud like me could get someone from the opposite sex younger to literally invite me out twice (with more outings planned down the line), then I'm pretty sure you can manage to date an 18 year old too (still not a woman's prime but it's objectively better than dating a >25 year old roastie)



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