I want to put it out there that I'm not trying to do anything really weird. I don't want to like, do hormones or anything.I just got kinda curious how it would feel to be the one doing the penetrating part, and I started looking at strapons after I learned about them.Then I ordered one, not expecting to get a chance to use it but just to have it in case I ever did.I came clean with my bf about being into that last night. He looked disgusted and I feel ashamed now, but there's a part of me that just can't shake wondering what it would feel like.I love my bf, so I'm not interested in finding another guy. I just wondered if there was some way to talk him into giving it a try just once.
>>32321835LmfaoI have a story. So about 20 years ago my step dad order a strap on without asking/informing my mother first and the "discreet packaging" it shipped in was an ego waffle box covered in duct tape.Fucking ask your partner before buying new kinky toys. What you did was disrespectful.
>>32321861I understand he wasn't into it, but why was it disrespectful? When I bought it I honestly didn't expect to ever show it to him. Just to have it sitting there as a curiosity I'd not try to indulge. I only came clean to him about it because I started feeling guilty about this weird fixation.
>>32321835Straight men don't typically want things in their ass. That'd be like him asking you to let him do your biggest turnoff that he knows you wouldn't enjoy.
>>32321874*SheWasn't into it. He bought the strap on and didn't ask her to use it on him until he had already bought it. You ask BEFORE you make the purchase.What could you possibly do with a strap on except use it on him or another man. How is he supposed to feel about you keeping it around "as a curiosity" what if he had found it without you saying anything?
i wish my wife would buy a strap on and bring another woman to us to use it with. i think it would be so insanely hot to get a bj from a girl while she’s being fucked by another girl with a strap on. and she wouldn’t even be able to keep a consistent bj rhythm because she’s getting filled up. and i want to fuck my wife while she’s sucking down a strap on dildo. and smash her head down on it while i cum
>>32321835Try it with a female friend
>>32321883This lol. I remember a girl bragging about having a non conventional bf but it turns out he was bisexual. She was cool with it up until she found out he had gotten bent over by another man before and she couldn’t look at him the same way again. I kind of feel bad for my bisexual bros out there but I guess women are afraid of men who can’t be controlled by pussy lol
>>32321920getting penetrated is submissive. women don’t want to know their man has been owned by another man. and that their man has given his asshole up to another cock to be fucked. it’s extremely unnattractive. bisexuals are fags
>>32321835Lmao, drink wormwood tea, theres worms in your brain messing with you.
>>32321835>He looked disgusted>I just wondered if there was some way to talk him into giving it a try just once.Why does consent only work in one direction? No means no.
>>32321835>I love my bf, so I'm not interested in finding another guy. I just wondered if there was some way to talk him into giving it a try just once.don't try it. goof around with it on your own if you please, but don't try to push him into something like this. with that said, don't feel bad for liking what you like either.
he's not into it, he's never going to be into it. you are asking him to assume the role of a woman while you play the man in a farcical sex act. most straight men will rightly see that as weird and wrong.
>>32321835Shoving something up your butt, unlike what gay porn implies, is unnatural and hurts. A vag is much stretchier than a butt and more durable as well
>>32321835I suggest rimming first. See if you can get him to lay back (ass on the edge of the bed is best) so you can give a blowjob.. but make sure you spend lots of time on the balls.. then the taint. Finally move down to his asshole and genltly go for it. If hes moaning and squirming, hes into it (But it doesnt hurt to ask) Dont forget while you lick his ass to jerk his cock at the same time. If hes really into it, try rubbing your finger against his ass and slowly apply pressure until it sinks in. It really needs good lube for this, but if you ever get to the point you can stroke his cock and finger his ass, he will cum buckets.After that, pegging should be close behind.This is best done after a shower (hygiene)tjrsan
>>32321901I don't know. Even when I ordered it I was like "I shouldn't be doing this" but I wasn't hurting anyone so I decided it was ok. Maybe I was wrong.>>32321917I'm not going to cheat, and I'm not a lesbian. I go to church.>>32322081I saw it more as we both consent to sex, and maybe that who gets penetrated was maybe a thing we could start taking turns with.>>32322366That sounds kind of gross. I've never given him a bj.
>>32323804>I've never given him a bjLess is more when it comes to bait. You went overboard.
