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I got dumped because I was too nice. How do I not get dumped for this? And no I'm not the fake nice that's two faced and gets angry, I really just got sad and moved on but idk how to deal with being too nice
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>>32322919
"Nice" is a euphemism. Nice is attractive and good. "Nice" is "you are boring and depressing to be around."
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nigga made me think I was on /v/ for a grip
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>>32323010
Ah ok , so im probably boring and depressing. How do I not be?
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>>32323045
Be less self-conscious and negative.
Notice interesting and happy people and emulate them like an actor.
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>>32323090
Ok, thanks /adv/, this was a relatively straight forward and fast thread. I'll start doing that
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>>32322919
>I got dumped because I was too nice.
No you didn't.
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>>32322919
Nice = boring. Don’t be tempted to change yourself. This is purely a compatibility issue
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>>32322919
replying because I love threads of fate, absolute gem.

What others have said is right, basically you're being boring or depressing, or generally unfun to be around. "Nice" is a euphamism for they just aren't thrilled to hang out with you but nothing is definitively offensive about you. When you're getting to know someone you have to kind of play the part of your best, most fun and interesting self. People only see the more mundane sides of eachother until later in the relationship (maybe 2-3 months in).
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>>32322919
No single person in this world is completely nice. So you obviously lack authenticity. Yes you are fake nice
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>>32323045
Nice = you are afraid to speak your mind and stand your ground when you should. You don't have the courage to go and get what you actually want when it's in conflict with others. eg you are too nice to be a man. Men with inspirations and desires are attractive.

Why you are like this? Low self-esteem is common. Being afraid of being judged as nacrissist by the society. You need to have a degree of self-importance and belief in yourself to be able to assert yourself and stop giving too many fucks of what others think.
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>>32323235
>this is purely a compatibility issue
/thread

There's probably not anything wrong with you, OP. Being able to accept that there are some people you're better off not dating is a much healthier outlook.



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