I wish I didn’t have to make this thread but here I am.>me and girl exchange eye contact at college>see her one day at gym, waiting for her to finish her set because I needed to use the machine>she starts convo with me, we talk about what we’re doing in school>it ends off well>don’t see her for a week or two, but one day see her again at gym>she conveniently comes over to where I am, we start convo again>I ask for her number and get it>we start texting, it’s somewhat slow but good. She said that she wanted me to ask for her number the first time and wants to know me better>we keep texting, it gets slower. Says stuff like “I’m a bad texter”>a week goes by>see her again at gym, she again comes right next to me working out>at this point I was confused, so I said how I feltThis is where I messed up>I told her how I felt. And that I liked her and wanted it take her out, and was wondering if she felt the same way. >she says yeah and I say let’s hangout Sunday>text her this morning, no responseSo basically guys, what I learned is that you can’t push too much. There is push and pull. I must’ve given too much push. Instead of saying how I felt, I should’ve just said “when’re we hanging out?” Instead and been stoic. Even though I was calm and said my how I honestly felt, it must’ve made her dislike me. And even though if that sounds weird, it’s because it is. Let the woman set the pace and tone, and if you’re wondering why they don’t do anything and feel like YOU have to do it. Don’t. They just maybe don’t like you as much as you do. What do you guys think? Is what I said true?
I think you're coming from a direction of belief that's almost reflective of superstition but I do believe myself there's some truth to what you're expressing belief in about what might be a good way to go about things.This is an interesting way of looking at it I came across on that huge gay website that's like TV: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WyKFHd7cSaUCheck it out. It might help you in your journey of quests for the next time OP
>>32323193Oh wow, this is great. I understand now. I jumped to level 7 too quickly. But she did say she liked me too so idk
>>32323193>I think you're coming from a direction of belief that's almost reflective of superstition but I do believe myself there's some truth to what you're expressing belief in about what might be a good way to go about things.Wdym by this?
