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>be outside
>perfect setup, perfect moment
>hesitate to talk to her
>even feel like an anxiety attack before I try to say hi to her
>later at home
>think about it
>it's been a day and I still can't forgive myself
>I am having a depressive episode over this
How do I forgive myself when I fail to do simple social things?
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There's nothing morally condemnable there.
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>>32323425
No but it hurt. I'd like to be that guy, but my confidence is inconsistent.
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>>32323365
Just let it fade while continuing to try again
I've had times when I've gotten legitimately angry with myself, like screaming at myself in a mirror, for not going up and talking to a girl
Nowadays I've gotten so used to it that I just don't care (it's the same result anyway if I go up to a girl or not, I'm not gonna have sex with her)
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>>32323365
it's all good bro. there's like 4 billion girl and infinite opportunities. Just get out there again and try to push yourself a little more.
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>>32324760
Ok. I'll take it easy.



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