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>be friends with this gorgeous cute alternative girl with colored hair, literally girl next door ramona flowers dream type
>she and i hit it off after not talking for some years
>reveals she's a transexual man now and they're now fat and ugly as shit with ill fitting body and facial hair despite obviously still liking girly things
>reveals he always had feelings for me
>blew my chance on marrying with a beautiful girl who's now a fat ugly bastard
>want to be friends but literally am bewildered by how cute she used to be compared to now and it's difficult to manage whenever I see pictures of how she used to look

How do I cope with this. I'm not gay. I have to constantly make sure she knows I'm not going to be in a 'gay' relationship with her.
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wow dude i really feel bad you missed out on some fantasy world where you fuck a man you giant faggot
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She's lying and trying to use you you dope. You're a reserve, a floaty she's going to drag her fat ass with her in her mentally ill death spiral. You're just some sap to cling onto
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If you're that invested then maybe try to get her out of it by asking her why she did this. Usually these types have sexual/gender role trauma, do it because their friends did, or are fujo coomers. Words are just words, explanations given online for certain feelings aren't always correct. Usually only get through to such people by uncovering their deep trauma and forcing them to face it, afterall trying to severely change your body is a way of escapism from deeper issues. But if she actually wants to stay like that then just move on. You shouldn't settle for being a validation machine.



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