Yesterday my wife told me that we do not have enough sex that is just us without any toys, and she needs to have more of just us sex, and more sex in general, to maintain our intimacy. She said she decided this the day before (so 2 days ago) after I had finished giving her multiple orgasms with just my cock. She chose to tell me yesterday only because I asked why she was being distant and weird. This on the outset may seem like a non-issue, that I should just fuck her more problem over. However we already have sex every day, to every other day. I'm in my 40s and still get hit on by women in their 20s. She is in her late 30s but still gets mistaken for late 20s and is ridiculously good looking. We have kids, businesses, and other commitments. I don't see how we would be able to physically fit in any more sex on an ongoing basis. Sure the odd spontaneous twice in one day, but we already do that a couple of times a month. It's been fine like this for awhile however suddenly she wants more and I don't know how to keep up with that. I already have sex when I'm not in the mood in order to satisfy her. [1/2]
[ 2/2] We've talked and decided to restrict the frequency of using toys during sex to only a few times per month, but she is adament she needs more sex. I've expressed that I'm not sure how to physically fit it in and her only response is that I'm the man, I'm supposed to lead so I should figure it out. I genuinely don't see any regular free time where we could spare 1-2 hours extra for another round of sex without sacrificing time in our businesses which may cause them to not succeed as well. This isn't a case where I can just tell her to lump it. She is the time of woman who will get mad and abusive if she doesn't have her sexual needs satiated. I don't want the quality of our relationship to suffer. We are still deeply in love decades after marriage and I'd like to keep it that way. But for the life of me I,can't see a way to make it work. If you were me would you sacrifce 5-12 hours per week put into our businesses and have them not perform as well, or would you do something else? How would you handle this?
>my hot, youthful wife wants to have sex with me more often, but... my business...
Idk sounds like a lead-in to blame you for her fucking another cock
It's probably not the actual amount, but the quality because you are unromantic or stiff and silent autism bot.She'll just replace you with a penetratorBot.
>>32325557Not all "sex" has gto be intercourse or orgasmic. What she wants is more of a presence of sex in your lives. The occasional surprise kiss or casual passing grope in the kitchen will keep the temperature up
>>32325650Sounds like this to me. How often do you tell her she looks sexy in whatever outfit? How often do you randomly message her in the day to say you can't wait to fuck her that night? You might have great sex but do you still provide sensuality with gentle touches and intimacy of a non-sexual nature as people do, and that is often forgotten after that honeymoon period (which sometimes last years) and routine sets in?
>>32325581Our businesses. Plural. We both work on them. They're successful, with 8 figure revenues, but we're on track to turn that into 10 figure revenues within the decade and that's a substantial amount of financial security to give up. We have many employees that we also have to consider here. Yes she's very beautiful, but I'm no leather handbag. I just wish there were a way to compromise here. I thought we had compromised in terms of having sex every day, to every other day as our schedules permit, but this has apparently become insufficient. Genuinely, how would you handle this?
>>32325557what the fuck is the point of sex toys
>>32325604No>>32325606Roflmao. Not even close. She worships my cock and cums repeatedly throughout. >>32325650>>32325706All sex has to be orgasmix. Romance isn't sex and isn't what she is after. Nor are compliments, affection or utterances,of adornment. Picture the most disgustingly in love teenagers you xan think of. Almost 20 years of marriage and we're still very much like that. When we're in the same room our hands are always on each other. We surprise each other with gifts, activities, acts of service and other romantic guestures. When we aren't in the same room, we're in contact via text. We tell each other we love the other a gazillion times a day. We call each other by pet names. Our sex is passkonate and spontaneous. We communicate incredibly well/openly and are genuinely each others best friend. We put in tremendous effort every day to our marriage. The problem isn't a misunderstanding. She wants fewer toys and more of my dick. That's explicitly what she wants. The problem is that given sex never lasts any less than an hour, and usually closer to two, there seemingly aren't enough hours in the day to make that a reality. So I'm asking advice on how to fit it in. Would you give up a few hundred million a year in revenue to have sex with your wife one more time a day? Seems very short sighted. I want her, but I just don't see where the time comes,from.
>>32325775Depends on the toy and the,situation. They can add new senations, extend or expand existing senations, restrain or dominate, form part of foreplay, warm things up or slow things down, there's a lot of choices. To be xlear, she still loves all that stuff, she's just looking for some more time just us without any of that stuff to enhance the emotional connection of the whole thing.
>>32325787Assuming what you've said is true and you know why would anyone just go on the internet and lie, then you're fucked mate.
>>32325815I wouldn't go so far as to say I'm fucked, but I do indeed feel like I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place. She's expecting me to come up with a solution. I guess I'm just going to take time away from the businesses and I'll just have to hope this doesn't last more than a year. I'm getting older now, and tiredness comes with it but I guess I just have to saddle up.
>>32325604this>op walks in on his wife getting fucked by younger coworker>"this is your fault! i told you i needed more sex months ago and you didn't give me it, now look what you made me do i thought you loved me how could you do this to me its not fair!
>>32325557Just fuck your hot wife anon. Stop creating problems where there are none. Have your testosterone checked and stop being a huge faggot.
>>32325557It is deeply offensive and sadistic of you to come to a panel of teenage dweebs who have never actually spoken to a real live girl, and complain about too much sex.
>>32325748>I'm a giga millionaire with a nympho wife btwyeah okay cool, fuck off
>>32325748>Genuinely, how would you handle this?Just fuck your wife more. I can't believe you even need to be told this. Keep your wife happy, you can't fuck your money and it won't keep you company. The fact that you seem to care so much about your businesses, which already seem to be doing well, that you can't spare a few extra hours a week to please your wife is your actual problem that you need to sort out.
