I cum in 15 seconds of a blowjob. Things I have tried:1) Kegels/reverse kegels2) Nofap3) Noporn4) Edging5) Any other normie adviceNothing will ever work, I need Drugs to actually act on the time range before involuntary kegels happen. This happens internally and not due some retarded theroy about muscles. Any retard can pump a girl for half an hour if they are born with the right settings, you just have to modify your unlucky settings into better settings that can make you last longer. Also I probably have higher nerve density than average so sex feels better for me, im also uncut. Obviously circumcision is a not a solution. Enter numbing topicals.Now let's talk about drugs:1) Clomipramine (anafranil) on demand, 4 hours before: Didn't do much. For some reason, the next day after like 15 hours I tried again and noticed a bit more control, but still not making a relevant difference.2) Paroxetine 4 hours before: Didn't do anything3) Dapoxetine (Priligy, the only SSRI approved for PE, at both 30 and 60mg dosages) 2 hours before: Didn't do anything, perhaps a bit more control, not relevant enough to justify the price(continued)
Topicals:1) Fortacin. This spray contains lidocaine and prilocaine and applies around 7,5 mg de lidocaine and 2,5 mg per shoot. This is the only topical approved for PE. This is the only thing that actually makes a difference. I can at least numb it enough that I don't cum in 15 seconds, however, there's problems.I have an allergic reaction to something on it, so I cannot use it. I also still didn't last long enough.2) EMLA cream: This also has lidocaine and prilocaine. Since it's a cream and not some spray that shoots like a shotgun, I can actually focus it on the frenulum, avoiding the glans which is where I get the allergic reaction. I tried on glans too, it gets a bit red but much more tolerable, not sure if due different vehicle or due lower dosage, in any case, I still use it only on the frenulum. This saves me from insta cumming, but I still reach the near PONR too fast and have to stop all the time which is frustrating.So my last hope as it stands is to try tramadol, which I have read a study that says it worked better on demand than SSRIs for some. So my question is, anyone that has real PE, did try tramadol? How did it compare to SSRIs? specially interested in non-responders to SSRI.I do not want to try dodgy shit like kratom, PYT, alphaherb etc, made in some eastern european/indian/chink bathtub. Also please avoid normie advice from people that don't know what it is to cum in seconds since forever.
>>32326629Try some whiskey. This thread is a mess!
>>32326631I don't drink and it will not work anyway. I need to try tramadol.
>>32326629I’ve been stricken with incurable PE after I stopped doing SSRI’s. I did all the memes—the worst being kegels which actually made it worse. Kike urologist literally recommended I go back on SSRI’s to cure it (I’m never touching that poison ever again).PE has destroyed my confidence and downstream my romantic life. Super fucking embarrassing. I don’t even bother chasing women even more. Will be following in case there’s any good tips here.
>>32326632Sounds like you need to try whiskey for reasons more than just ED
>>32326629Lol I have a really hard time Cumming. I rail my gf for atleast an hour every time. It gets exhausting.
>>32326635Same she feels bad that it takes so long to get me off especially from regular fucking
>>32326632>i dont drink give me opiates tho
>>32326629How long do you last while inserted? Cum blowie and then perform properly when it matters.
>>32326634>just drink everytime you want to fuck bro>>32326633Wait so you had a normal time before SSRIs and now you are cooked? I have heard this before, reason why I do not want to take the fucking thing on a daily basis.Have you tried to take SSRI on demand? some people swear it works, however it does jack shit for me. Tramadol has to be it otherwise im becoming a monk aka watch VR porn.>>32326635>>32326636Are you american (dried dicks)
>>32326633Same anon here to follow up after seeing your second post.Kratom dependence is sneaky and the effects of chronic use are bad in my experience (alopecia and low sex drive being my worst). It did make me last slightly longer (not long enough) but i knew it was a habit to kick.Tramadol absolutely works wonders. I was prescribed a couple weeks of it after breaking a couple ribs. Seriously could fuck forever. But this isn’t the right silver bullet because not only can it be addictive but also the psychological dependence was bad for PE too. So when I ran out it kind of made my PE worse for sometime. And good luck finding a doctor who will prescribe it to you for PE—unfortunately all the junkies ruined the opioid market and most doctors are super hesistant to prescribe it. Can be a huge seizure risk too
>>32326629I think I've only came once from a bj
>>32326637>SSRIs designed to make you last longer do not work but having a glass of alcohol will make you last longer bro also implying on demand tramadol is worse than drinking alcohol regularly bro>>323266380
>>32326642So you cum back to back? or can you not stay hard?
>>32326639>Wait so you had a normal time before SSRIs and now you are cooked?Yes. I was able to fuck no problem. Now it seems like the SSRI’s fucked up my whole serotonin system (a very important neurotransmitter for sex). Don’t do it. And like it said in my other post—don’t rely on tramadol. Yes it 100% works, but it’s dangerous in so many ways. Look like you’re not American so you’ll probably have a much easier time finding it though. Also if you so certain drugs like MDMA with it then it could be lethal.
>>32326629Have a consistent partner
>>32326640Kratom sucks because it could have mold for all we know, it's some fucking vegetable thing in a bag comming from god knows where. Im not taking anything that I cannot buy a pharmacy.You did not answer this: Did you try an SSRI on demand (4 hours before sex or testing with porn)About tramadol, on demand usage did not show any problems. I was scared by anti drugs fags too about SSRIs, "do not try bro, it ruined my life". So I bought the 3 type of SSRIs I described and experimented, they did nothing so that's it. If anything I feel better because I have now solved that doubt. Same thing with tramadol. Google this:>The Influence of Tramadol on Intravaginal Ejaculatory Latency Time and Sexual Satisfaction Score in Treating Patients With Premature EjaculationIn this study, SSRI vs tramadol is compared.>Conclusions>Compared with placebo and paroxetine, tramadol showed a greater improvement of IELT and SSS. Besides, 50 mg tramadol may be a more reasonable therapeutic dose for patients with PE.About safety profile:>In the included clinical trials, tramadol significantly increased IELT of patients with different degrees of PE in a dose-dependent manner, improved the satisfaction of patients with sexual activities, and the drug was well tolerated.>Tan et al. (2021) performed a meta-analysis and reported that on-demand tramadol revealed a better effect than on-demand paroxetine for patients with PE, and patients in both groups showed good tolerance. However, doctors should pay attention to whether patients were at risk of addiction.>Despite the risk of abuse and dependence, these events were rare, especially in the case of short-term intermittent use of small doses (Kaynar et al., 2012). However, the possibility of drug addiction and other effects on sexual function should be fully considered before prescribing this drug.So basically, it looks worth trying. Reaching the PONR in seconds and having to stop all the time sucks so I need a solution.
>>32326639Yes. I'm cut, which makes my cock a battering ram of hate. When I finally nut it's a violent torrent.
>>32326646In addition, if you take tramadol, do not mix it with an SSRI of course.Also, if you have an addictive personality, perhaps do not try it. But this is like porn. You see all these retards talking about porn this porn that, the same that do no fap noporn no nothing, this is because they project their addiction onto others. The idea here is using tramadol only once a week, so you can properly fuck a girl at least once in a while. This way gives her an expectation that you are able to give her a proper fuck. The rest of the days you just use a numbing topical and do what you can. By being able to last longer, it also builds coincidence. Who knows if fake it till you make it reprograming could work. Notorious porn actor Manuel Ferrara stated that he used to cum fast but was able to last longer at some point. Of course I would need to make millions to visit 7/10+ escorts daily to desensitise myself to the situation, however knowing how fast I reach PONR I think I really need drugs and modify settings.This dissease is really brutal and you are mocked by society. You cannot even mention it because you are cooked the moment you admit it. It is life ruining since you would rather edge to VR porn since you can start-stop for as long as you want vs fucking a girl where you cum in 15 seconds of a blowjo since you have no way to stop at the picosecond needed, since even the dick inside her mouth with no motion is enough stimulation to cum if you reach the PONR, so even if you stop you blast. So basically all the logistics of getting laid to cum fast as fuck make no sense. Even if you have money for escorts you still cum fast and you think shit why even bother I would rather stay here and watch some movie or play a game or whatever. People that don't have PE don't get it. They are low sentience retards and probably have low sensitivity. A lot are american cutcels too. At least im not cut and I can edge to porn with mega sensitivity. Anyway I will try tramadol asap.
Is your dick curved? That can make you bust faster
>>32326629Get drunkDo cocaineTake a ViagraYou're welcome.
>>32326643I can get a mega erection that is not the issue, what im saying is, once I get hard, I will just cum fast as fuck unless I stop every 3 seconds or so, so I can edge to porn for hours, but this is not realistic with a girl irl.>>32326645You cannot get a gf if you cum fast.>>32326644Again: Did you try SSRI on demand? SSRIs fuck you up because you take them daily. If you take it once every 2 weeks or so, they will do nothing. The problem is it didn't delay my PE.I don't do any drugs. I was told SSRIs are so dangerous and they didn't do shit beside some discomfort side effect, but they don't make me last longer so it sucks.I already posted studies and not a single person had a problem. My life is already ruined because of this fucking condition, so let me not try a pill that may allow me to have sex at least once a month properly is what you are saying.Tramadol is also hard to get here, however I have found an urologist that seems to be into research and has mentioned he has prescribed tramadol to some patients so I should be able to explain how I tried already SSRIs and want to try tramadol. What do I have to lose at this point. I just want to find out if I could last longer. I want to experience what it is to be able to pump a girl for more than 5 seconds without cumming. Do you understand.
>>32326629Jesus Christ. Who does she fuck
>>32326629Look at her fucking faceimagine if she never hit the wall.she would definitely be getting knuckle sandwiches every day after a certain point.
>>32326651You can get a gf if you cum fast, you just need to get incredibly good at head/hands, and for her to actually love you and shit. Women don't complain if you bust in a few seconds if you've already made them cum 10 times
>>32326651Right, but there’s no way you can just bust unlimited nutsSo, after you first cim and then get hard again it has to take longer, that’s just biology, you just have to find your limit
sounds like you have mental issues why dont you chill and not be all neurotic about your dick feeling good
>>32326629Are you a shitskin? Monkeys aren't meant to enjoy sex they just bust immediately to make more useless litters of shits.Look away from her, think about baseball. Breathe and relax.
>>75469261Idk blackpilled incel, it worked for me. Love exists and surprisingly not every woman is an evil character created in your mind that goes to fuck chad if she has bad sex once
>>32326651>You cannot get a gf if you cum fast.Most women love that they can control you so easy, if you cum again after 15 more seconds then I can see some issues. If you can't get hard after the BJ and some fooling around then yeah you definitely have a problem.
Death grippingFuck chicks you find ugly
>>32326629Holy shit, OP. Im so jelly. I want to cum buckets in the mouth of any whore that sucks my dick and make her taste it, but my dick is so desensitised due to deathgrip/fast strokes, women being terrible at giving bjs and mental meds that im totally unable to cum from a bj and women usually get tired quickly (and also are terrible at it, i cannot stress this enough). Just enjoy the ride and dont try to be macho. Women get off at knowing they can make you cum easily. If you are autistic, just use a flavored condom to desensitise it a bit
>>32326629Annectdotal, but the few times I've taken a large dose of magnesium earlier in the evening before sex, I last way longer. Generally I may pop in 3-5 mins with intercourse, or ~secobds BJ, but I can last an hour easy without busting after magnesium. Think PE is largely due to stress / tension, and magnesium helps combat that tension.
Kek well since I'm a bit of a druggy, let me tell you some suggestions:Red Kratom + Benedryl take like 3-5g to start. Try not to get addicted, but understand that it is quite literally similar to heroine. Benedryl is for the nausea. Gapapentine if take like 1800mg+ I just last forever in bed. Other opiods:Sake as Kratom but more expensive in my experience, but some juckies can't get high off Kratom. As other anons said including fpbp, you can try alcohol too. Very similar to Gabapentine in how its affecting your brain. I'd stay away from Penibut. Literally everyone I knew who got into that went literally crazy and had wicked withdraws and psychological breakdowns. 3 separate people.
>>32326630Benchod basterd I didn't read how stupid you are. Tramadol is extremely similar to Kratom both in felt effect and action on the brain. As I said above, just know it's literally like heroine but cheap and legal, so don't get hooked.
>>32326629It could just be mental, you enjoy it so much you coom fast. Don't worry about it
>>32326651>You cannot get a gf if you cum fast.Most women would take it as a compliment that they make you so excited, just make sure she cums too.
>>32326666yeah, it's first world problems. Being unable to cum in a decent timeframe/way is a vastly graver problem.
In all honesty, the night I felt the more powerful and lasted the longest was after drinking and losing two ribs in a bar fight. I was there, partially drunk, short breath and pain, but boy oh boy was I a beast. I never felt like that again.So just drink and fight.
0 willpower mf literally ingesting a pharmacy of drugs instead of working on his mental
>>32326629>I cum in 15 seconds of a blowjobNo, you don't.
>>32326653its ai you stupid fucking retard
>>32326629Im jealous. It takes me sometimes 30-45 mins and by then the girl is worn out or thinks im not attracted to her lol.
>>32326635>>32326636Delayed ejaculator here as well Sometimes I cant cum at all with my gf Been like this way ever since I first wanked at the ripe old age of 16. Took forever to cum
>>32326629You made this thread yesterday and then you told everybody that you take the medication as needed instead of taking it the way it's meant to be taken. And then everybody told you that you were doing it wrong and that you would not get the benefits of the medication or the side effects that were indicated by it if you were not taking it properly for a long time for it to build up in your bloodstream. Stop spamming the board.
>>32326629I wish I could come from a BJ. Happened once in three years
>>32326629I've only ever cum once from sex or a blowjob, usually I have to pull out after half an hour and finish myselfI should really try nofap
Bros is it over? When i jerk off all i need is a picture of an attractive girl and ill ejaculate in like 15-20 seconds of stroking it. Im a khhv and i thought you can just go for multiple rounds and its no big deal. Wtf bros it's over?
>>32326648
>>32326629Just get more blowjobs.
>>32326629here the solution here and only from me retard:take 1-2 ml GHB (or 1,4 Butanediol in my case), it will make you a bit more horny but more importantly you won't cum until you really want to. Thank me later for the HGH gains as well.Oh, and it's dirt cheap poor fuck
>>32326629lmao i wish i had that same issue. i was never able to cum from a bj and i have to rail my gf for at least 20-30 minutes to be able to cumit takes me 3 minutes if i'm fapping though, and nofap doesn't fix my issue, it only kills my libido.
>>32326681>it only kills my libido.How?I am struggling so much to reduce fapping, every time it just builds up so much I can hardly contain myself.
>>32326629Bang out the easy one before sex. You are welcome
>>32326682pretty much self-explanatory, if i stop fapping, i lose interest in sex and become more angry for no reason. but if i fap daily, my libido continues to be normal and i'm more relaxed.
>>32326684Ah ok, didn't think it was so "self explanatory", it's completely different from my experience, but we're all different. So be it.
>>32326629>1) Kegels/reverse kegelsa practice that gives stronger orgasms>2) Nofapbacking yourself up makes the sensations during sex more intense>3) Nopornyou're on 4chan posting pics of sexy women, so doubt>4) Edginganother practice that gives you quicker, stronger orgasms>5) Any other normie advice"I've tried nothing and I'm all out of ideas"you are literally doing the opposite of what you should be doing, and the drugs you mentioned have really bad side effects like blurred vision, tremors, nausea, insomnia, diarrhea and seizures. Just masturbate before taking your girlfriend out.
>>32326629Pau Yong tong creme or TKNX You're welcome
>>32326663have you tried tramadol? sounds like the safest/best option
>>32326629you need to create a progressive overload plan bro, here's an idea:first play some porn, but you can't be skipping around looking for the best scenes, you just play it and start fapping. You don't stop fapping even if you feel like you are about to cum, you need to keep working your hand. You are only allowed to mentally suppress the urge and you can do reverse kegels (the same movement like forcing a fart). You are also allowed to close your eyes.once you cum, you stop the video and see how long did you last. next session you try to beat that time. After you reach 15-20 minutes while watching porn, you can get a hooker to suck your dick and do the same mental/kegel/eyes closed thing. When you can last for 15 minutes getting a blowjob, start fucking their pussy, the program is the same - time yourself and try to get better.This all sounds kinda clinical and not hot at all, but I have a feeling this is actually good for premature ejaculation
>>32326689I've never been able to finish from a blowie, even though it arguably feels better, I need to be pounding the shit out of a girl's hole to get off, I think its a mental thing, all about seeing her faces and hearing her moan
>>32326675Most women are actually very bad at BJs. Unless you're sith a slut or literal hooker don't feel bad
>>32326630Hey faggot. You forgot an important detail. What is your refractory period like, and your ability to achieve and sustain an erection on round 2+?
Have you tried just jerking off a lot?
>>32326629Was it with this girl on the pic? I would cum in 3 seconds, tbqh. Go fuck an ugly fat chick instead, you will last longer. Than work your way up. It's just like working out with weights. Just instead of increasing the resistance, increase the physical attractiveness of the girl. Shit, I just realized this really is a /fit thread.
>>32326629Just get a quick blowjob, cum, foreplay for a bit, them fuck once you're hard again and have more stamina.
>>32326629where is everyone making these hot AI women
>>32326629Those tits are inappropriate. There’s nothing wrong with kratom but it won’t do anything to solve your problem. Just stop getting such great blowjobs. That’s the funny thing. The worse they are, the better it is. If you like drugs, check out cabergoline. It may make a little difference.
>>32326639SSRIs can make it hard for you to cum while you're getting adjusted to them (which can take like a month). After you get used to them, you'll cum like normal.>>32326629Try amphetamines. They can make it pretty difficult to cum.
>>32326651>You cannot get a gf if you cum fast.Idiot, the most frustrating thing in the world is having a guy who just can't cum even when you're sore and bored. I'm pretty good at head and when I make a guy cum fast I feel like a sex goddess. When it takes forever it's disappointing.
>>32327571Can confirm. I hooked up with a fat chick on Bumble a few years ago, and she was great at giving head. I'd never gotten a blowjob before but could tell right away she was a pro (no teeth, pure warm sensation). It was great, but the feeling was so foreign to me and I was on a combination of alcohol+adderall that made it extremely difficult to stay hard for very long without visual stimulation, so I was unable to cum for her no matter how hard she tried. She even told me she wanted to taste my cum which turned me on like crazy. The spirit was willing, but the flesh was not willing to comply.Needless to say, it was disappointing for the both of us. I felt bad about it and so did she.
>>32327571what if they coom in 5 seconds
>>32327615This isn't as much of a problem as you probably think it is.
