Is pic related true? How do I properly hide my autism/become more threatening to women?
>>32327389It's true and you can't hide it, sorryBeing short and fat but still a normie is 100x better than looking like a Chad but being a pinocchio on the inside. You'll have to get lucky and find a neurodivergent woman. Oddly enough, it seems like neurodivergent girls are never single either, so you're fucked.
>>32327389Use this version in future.
>>32327389>>32327418How do they do it? Is it the autism face?
most women would rather tolerate deviance that comes with being antisocial ( violence, lying) than deviance that comes with being asocial ( being an outcast/autist)
>>32327389>Is pic related true?Its true but not for the autistic reason that dudes here think its true. For some reason you guys think that an abusive boyfriend is like a loud-mouthed alcoholic in a tank top who walks around slapping people. In reality its often a lot more subtle and takes a bit of emotional/social intelligence to be successfully abusive. Abusive guys are really good at sniffing potential victims out, targeting their weaknesses, manipulating and isolating them away from friends and family, easing up and love-bombing when the victim tries to get away then slowly pushing boundaries and escalating. Abusive people often purposefully put on an act when they first meet someone of being really well adjusted and sensitive and kind but then slowly changes as they slowly get their victim isolated and emotionally/psychologically worn down. Long story short, you can tell if someone is autistic immediately because of their lack of social awareness. Abusive guys often have incredible self-awareness and use their ability to blend in and be likeable as a tool to victimize people.
>>32329120Kek what a moron. Niggers have the highest rates of DV and abuse, do you think they're "emotionally intelligent" manipulators or some shit? No it's because women really are that fucking stupid, just like you.
>>32329120nah. sometimes it truly is this way, but often women ignore their gut. even the cleverest psychopaths slip up. most abusers aren't some machevillian geniuses preying on women. women ignore those signs because being with a cluser B leaning man is THAT stimulating to them, at first, and once the trauma bond is created is incredibly hard to break
>>32329120yeah, this would be true in 1974 not 2024. all the behaviors you just listed have been known and talked about on social media for a decade or more, women today are not ignorant of these behaviors andwhat they mean, they just don't care. see >>32329065
>>32327389autists get to the retarded conclusions you got very easily and out of the blue and think hitting their partner is something they desireyou're kinda gullible when it comes to social interactions and are because of it very unpredictableone day you're hitting your wife and the next day you're convinced toothpaste is poisonous and stop using itthat's why people avoid getting with an autist, specially a bigger one you can't just control physically with strenght if they start doing unacceptable shityou know when a normal guy is going to be violent, women who get with those guys constantly are ok with having some strong chances of them hitting a neighbor to defend them one day and the next day hitting them, but that has nothing to do with them being blind to it.
>>32329189>one day you're hitting your wife and the next day you're convinced toothpaste is poisonous and stop using itAutists aren't schizos you stupid ass nigger
>>32329202maybe a bad example but they are easily convinced of the most stupid stuffsee chris chan
>>32329168I mean, if you're 14 and you've never had an adult relationship or spoken with women before I can understand how you'd think like this. Its just something you'll hopefully figure out when you grow up. Firstly, you're mistaking a few different kinds of abusers. They're not all the same and it really depends culturally. A lot of muslim men beat their wives but that has more to do with the culture then the emotional intelligence of the men. They don't have to manipulate women into normalizing violence because the place they lived in has already normalized it. In a lot of minority communities corporal punishment is still commonly used and accepted. Secondly,statistics also show that in most of these relationships both spouses hit each other so it doesn't really take any effort to normalize a victim to something they grew up with. That's hardly the same as abusing someone who didn't necessarily come from a home like that. Thirdly, you're also only talking about domestic violence, as if people hitting each other is the only kind of abuse that exists in relationships. If physical violence is the only type of abuse you think happens you're miles behind the curve on this conversation. Like I said, this will all make more sense when you grow up and start interacting with real life women.
>>32329233Chris chan literally developed multiple psychoses you toolYeah autists are "gullible" but over time most of us learn how to mask and just by sheer memorization/brute force can get through social interactionsThe point of the meme is no matter how hard we mask, no matter how hard we try and "be normal", we get sniffed out anyway by most normie women, and unfortunately for us most women are normies.
>>32329236You just wrote a whole lot of cope buddyThis guy >>32329184 managed to explain why you're wrong in a single fucking sentence you stupid munch LMAO
>>32329184>nah. sometimes it truly is this way, but often women ignore their gut.Everyone often ignores their gut, anon. Men do it all of the time in relationship. Women have no monopoly on building comfortable fantasies because facing reality is too difficult. >most abusers aren't some machevillian geniuses preying on women.Not what I said. You're conflating "machevellian genius" with plain ol' emotional intelligence. Plenty of serial killers, cult leaders, con men and evangelical grifters over the years have successfully manipulated people into doing all sorts of insane things with surprisingly low cognitive function. Its a different kind of intelligence than you're thinking. >women ignore those signs because being with a cluser B leaning man is THAT stimulating to them, at first, and once the trauma bond is created is incredibly hard to breakNah you're way off. Abusers target people they know they can abused and victims are usually people who have been abused before or are in particularly vulnerable places in their lives where isolating and manipulating them is easier. There is an element of denial required to stay in an abusive relationship but my entire point was that this idea that its just so easy to spot a manipulative and abusive person right off the bat is stupid.
>>32329187>all the behaviors you just listed have been known and talked about on social media for a decade or more, women today are not ignorant of these behaviors andwhat they mean, they just don't care.Yeah, that just doesn't make any logical sense whatsoever. The behaviors of BPD women have been talked about on social media yet men keep going for them. Reading about behaviors and living in the experience and feeling it are two entirely different things. Its beyond childish to think that simply reading about a thing on the internet somehow makes the human mind completely invulnerable to manipulation.
>>32329236i think the point you're missing here is that women fear above all including physical harm to not only themselves but potentially their children is social judgment/social exlusion. autists are a social nightmare as far as women are concerned and potentially getting beat(and getting attention for it) is a much preferable outcome than potentially being ostracized from their social group because their autistic bf gives her friends the ick
>>32329259>You just wrote a whole lot of cope buddySo you don't have any argument why I'm wrong?
>>32329280>Yeah, that just doesn't make any logical sense whatsoever.correct, women do not operate on logic, they operate on emotions and "vibes"
>>32329274I wasn't talking about rational intelligence (though that certainly helps) I was mostly talking about the combination of emotional intelligence and calousness that antisocial men possess. a lot of cognitive empathy but no emotional empathy, pretty muchpeople mostly trick themselves. I've met women where literally everyone in her social circle knew the guy was bad news, and they still went with it. abuse doesn't always follow the standard pattern of lovebombing/isolation either. one of my old friends gave his girl all the freedom she wanted, yet eventually it came out he was a terrible abuser. dude invited her parents to dinner and then stuck a carrot up her ass so she couldn't sit still. imagine that god damn
>>32329255the point of my comment is you guys get sniffed out and then discarded from the potential list of suitors because you never know what will happen with you guyschris chan looked like a funcionin autist in high schoollook at him nowI wouldn't want to date someone knowing that.
>>32329290No "I" don't, but the other guy I quote in my reply did you fucking retarded ass nigger. Stupid ass nigger can't even read lol>>32329274Oh look more cope. You have to be female LMAO
>>32329284>i think the point you're missing here is that women fear above all including physical harm to not only themselves but potentially their children is social judgment/social exclusionYeah it just really sounds like you haven't met a lot of women nor understand the dynamics that go into an abusive relationship. >autists are a social nightmare as far as women are concerned and potentially getting beat(and getting attention for it) is a much preferable outcome than potentially being ostracized from their social group because their autistic bf gives her friends the ickThe dichotomy you're presenting has no relation to one another. The choices aren't just "autism" or "getting beat" so I have no clue why you'd try to characterize it as if women are choosing one over the other. Maybe being in a relationship with someone who doesn't understand social cues is hard and it has nothing to do with being embarrassed of what your girlfriends think. Your narrative is so weird. It truly sounds like you've never been in a serious relationship before.
>>32329308>the point of my comment is you guys get sniffed out and then discarded from the potential list of suitors because you never know what will happen with you guysNo it's because autistic guys are usually asocial and straightforward and that doesn't give the vagina tingles to most women unless they themselves are also neurodivergent and lean masculine. Do you think the gorilla nigger thugs normie women date are predictable? No but they give dumb normie women the vagina tingles. A normie woman would literally date a violent gorilla nigger thug twice their age that will actually murder them because he's "exciting" over a nice quiet guy who happens to be autistic. Pic fucking related.>chris chan looked like a funcionin autist in high schoolAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
>>32329284The paragraphs of cope in response to your one sentence truth bombs are all you need to know you're 100% right
>>32329315>deep rooted biological behaviors that devolved over millions of years of human evolution suddenly stop being a driving factor in human behavior for no particular reasonyeah, nah. our subconscious brains drive a lot of our behaviors. a good example would be men generally being attracted to wide hips. not because we consciously choose to, but because that subconscious caveman part of the brain choses to
>>32329300>dude invited her parents to dinner and then stuck a carrot up her ass so she couldn't sit stillGOAT shit (this is the guy she chose over you btw)
>>32329120So are women really that emotionally clueless? How do you navigate your independence then?
>>32329187evolutionary psychology takes much longer than that to changethere's a reason why there are no space-faring civilisations out there. the great wall is female behaviour in all species.
>>32329338why open a thread asking for questions if you think you have all the answers my dudethis is adv, not your bloganyways, I gave you information I've gathered on my years being a social butterfly back in my 20s, take it or leave it.
>>32327389Most women aren't in abusive relationships. Guys very obviously have autism but are oblivious to autistic behaviors. If you believe otherwise there is something wrong with you mentally, objectively.
Women would rather be with someone who can harm others (and them) than be with someone who can'tIf you're gonna be autistic, be the one with retard strength
>>32329910They say they won't date autistic 'incels' because "they might go on a shooting spree"
>>32329338whos the girl though?
>>32329739I'm not OP you dummy>anyways, I gave you information I've gathered on my years being a social butterfly back in my 20s, take it or leave it.You think you're the only one? I spent all my 20s socializing and in an LTR, but that was all through the vehicle of being in a STEM-focused uni and then PhD program. It's only now that I've found myself single in my 30s that I've realized how much normie women fucking shun autist men, and no it's not because we're all potential school shooters or whatever feel-bad bullshit you're trying to spew. It's because we're awkward, too blunt, can't read social cues well, and as >>32329284 said this just gives girls the ick. Normie women literally prefer to date gorilla niggers with half their IQ that will actually beat and kill them, because those gorilla niggers were at least not cursed with feeling perpetually uncomfortable in their own skin like we pinocchios do.So I'll take your "information," hand it back to you with my lived experience, and let you shove it up your ass.
>>32330396There's a difference between being dangerous and lashing out like a salty fagAt least try and make an effort not to be a retard
>>32330547Look up Lauren McCluskey. She paid the toll because she decided being with an occasionally employed gorilla nigger twice her age was a better call than "settling" for a sweet autistic guy who probably would have treated her like a queen.
>>32327389No one needs to sniff out anything, being a pinnochio is immediately apparent visually. It's as possible to hide being austistic as it is for a blob fish to pretend it's a lion. That is, you can't. Spergs aren't human. Their relationship to humanity is the same relationship an early alpha build has to a finished game. Some of the elements of being human are there, but it's fundamentally incomplete. No one wants to mate with a genetic dead end. Just rope.
>>32330587>No one wants to mate with a genetic dead end. Just rope.Yeah but some of us are good with technology so we have to stick around to carry you retard spergs forward.
>>32330396females still think guns are for pussythey never say they're worried "they might go on a punching spree"
Doesn't matter, rizz 'em with the 'tism.
>>32327389People can't tell you're autistic.They tell if you're insecure.Simply be secure.
>>32327418Idk I'm autistic and have been with several women, half of them neurotypical. It definitely makes it harder, but it's not a killer.For me what's helped most is being interesting. I'm not very fit nor am I very masculine. However, I've managed to grab the attention of more eccentric girls because of my own eccentric interests.For example, the first conversation I had with the girl I'm currently dating was about George Washington's presidency and how it was commonly thought that he was going to become a king. So my autistic interests paid off in the end I guess
>>32329184>even the cleverest psychopaths slip upthat's where the "I can fix him" mentality kicks in, they don't see an abuser but rather a kind and sensitive but deeply troubled man who needs their help
>>32329120>Abusive guys often have incredible self-awarenessNahNPD and BPD ain't
>>32330587>Their relationship to humanity is the same relationship an early alpha build has to a finished game. I agree entirely, Mr. Alpha
>>32330805I'll forgive your reddit spacing but>Idk I'm autistic and have been with several womenSo have I, but they've all had a dash of the 'tism one way or another. My first GF and I met because we were in the brony fandom. My next fling after that was partially because we both liked Steven Universe and anime. My most recent ex liked how I was getting recognized in my academic field and had an autistic plan to start my own business (which I've finally realized)>However, I've managed to grab the attention of more eccentric girls because of my own eccentric interests.If they're "eccentric" then by definition they're not neurotypical, sorry. Women cluster very tightly around the mean when it comes to mental attributes.>For example, the first conversation I had with the girl I'm currently dating was about George Washington's presidency and how it was commonly thought that he was going to become a king. So my autistic interests paid off in the end I guessYou really must be from r*ddit if you think this is at all typical. Do you know how many times I've "icked" women by bringing up autistic interests like that? Not even brony or weeaboo shit or anything, but just talking about my interest or hobbies, like different cultivars of tomatoes or some shit? It happens so frequently they should call me The Janitor, because of how I mop those pussies dry and then sweep them out of the function. You're talking to someone who's "banter" is so autistic he made a stripper give up halfway through a lap dance with his attempts at dirty talk. It's bad, dude.
>>32329168hey stop being racist. we love black people. they are great people. we love them very much much
>>32330798>Simply be secure.That's like telling a fish "just fly." Part of being autistic is never being comfortable in your own skin. Anyone claiming to be confident while having "autism" is simply lying. Being socially awkward and unable to handle interpersonal interactions, and therefore not confident with social situations, is literally part of the diagnosis.
>>32330813>that's where the "I can fix him" mentality kicks in, they don't see an abuser but rather a kind and sensitive but deeply troubled man who needs their helpThere's people who struggle with the "I can fix him" mentality but its also important to remember that abuse comes in phases. Abusers, for 95% of their lives and can be extremely kind and understanding and supportive and that 95% often keeps people around for the 5% of time when abuse happens. This kind of compensatory enabling happens in all areas of our lives, not just relationships. How many times has anyone worked at a job, for example, where 95% of the time it was a great job but 5% of the time their boss would scream at them or call them names. You think its also so cut and dry when people know they're being abused and should leave, especially when the majority of the time everything functions and they're happy? Its really more complicated than the teenage virgins here are capable of comprehending.
>>32330961I didn't say it's easy. If you're autistic, then you'll always be fucked socially. I grew up thinking that I was normal (I don't know why I thought that considering that I had virtually no friends, nor did I have any desire to socialize) so when it hit me that I was different and would never be normal no matter how hard I tried, that shit hit me hard. It's something that I'll never ever be over, no matter how hard I try. It haunts me and always will haunt me that I'll never be comfortable in my own skinI was mainly trying to illustrate that I've had romantic success in the past even though I'm probably (although I guess I'll never know for sure how I come off) visibly autistic. It seems you've had some success too. I'm trying to say that it's not over, and that even though we'll never be normal people. We can find love too, just because we're autistic doesn't mean that we can't.With that being said, I see how my life experience might be different than yours, and how it might not align with many people's experiences. I'm just saying what worked for me, anway
>>32329184If we dropped men every time one of you did something that made us wary even for a moment, you'd be complaining that women just dropped men for no reason.
>>32331437So you're saying that women have shit judgement all around and are just barely sentient fuck puppets that, if given the chance, would react to stimuli the same way insects do, impulsively and thoughtlessly?
