>>32328126
Ask yourself if she's emotionally healthy enough for marriage or children. If the answer is no you are just prolonging the inevitable. It sucks. I was not strong enough to do it so she ended it eventually.for us, in an extremely painful and disrespectful way.

>>32328158
she does want to get married and have children soon

Bro why did you not wanna see her doe

>>32328273
i dont want to catch ringworm

Sup Keria

>>32328126

>> for which I became world champion this year

Roflmao. What a retarded thing to boast about and sink your time into.

>>32328491
it's so people don't say i should spend less time playing videogame

are you asian?

>>32328126
>Can a BPD demon change?
Yes. She should look into DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) it basically turns bpdemons into normal healthy people through good coping skills and mindfulness.

>>32328589
no but she is

>>32328617
>DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy)
she refuses to see a psy

>>32328642
She can do DBT herself, there are many resources online for it.
Although that is worrying that she refuses to seek professional help. May I ask why?

>>32328126
I'd sy, if this isn't as bad and she's treating it, go back, but hold her to her word and communicateif she starts being toxic to snap her out of it, (she says she's gonna stop it but yeah, no one stops a behavior like that that easily)

Like, what im trying to say, if you see her tryin and you love her, stay

>>32328666
nice try satan
but seriously because she's ashamed of it and she's scared of people finding out i guess

>>32328674
>and communicateif she starts being toxic to snap her out of it
when she gets into meltdown mode there's no snapping out, she ignores everything i say and does her monologue of : go back to your ex or find a girl that's not toxic, that's not the worst person, that's not a psycho, i bet you regret coming back to me, that you wish you left me, etc...

Sounds bad but being a video game champion is almost guaranteed to give you a warped perspective of reality.

Like I'm sorry, you're probably some sort of antisocial, grumpy, rude or retarded. Tell us which game.

>>32328704
>antisocial, grumpy, rude or retarded
yeah i'm all of those, but she really is BPD. For example, she gets jealous if I go to the dentist because it's a girl. If she sends me a message and i'm napping, working or playing video games, she assume i'm leaving her on read and loses her mind

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>>32328126
>just straight up stopped seeing her for four months because she had a rash
>she gets upset about this and dumps you
>wow so emotional so hysterical wowee

Is she actually BPD or are you some OCD autist who ghosted her over something she was already trying to fix (the rash) ?

>>32328762
Hm, sounds to me like you're both mentally ill, and that you could fix a lot of your problems if you actually tried; but I've had a friend exactly like you before. He was a
>nerdy, lanky, very pale white guy that couldn't shut the fuck up about his autistic hobbies
Yet he got surprising amounts of pussy.

So, I know you don't really want to change. The choice reduces to this: Stay with her and try to accept her craziness. Leave her and accept that the next girl is going to be a mess just the same. Personally I'd stay and I'd try to find some sort of double-compromise.

>>32328774
she wasn't trying to fix it. She just kept saying she's scared to go to the doctor. yes she really is bpd

>>32328783
>Leave her and accept that the next girl is going to be a mess just the same
I mean, none of my exes were crazy. My previous roommate was a BPD girl though so I've seen it before

What game did you became,world champion in?

>>32328788
That's Classic BPD. Scared to fix a problem, so it just gets worse and then they act like it's not their fault. No accountability even to their own health.

You shouldn't go back to her. This is all BPD shit that isn't going to get better unless she actually seeks professional help. Otherwise she'll just keep you on this on-off rollercoaster forever.

>>32328443
holy kek
>>32328215
>last week break up with me
>she does want to get married!
huh?

>>32328126
What video game?

>>32330670
>This is all BPD shit that isn't going to get better
Could just end the line there. The prognosis is pretty grim. Not 0% but pretty grim.