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So I lost my virginity when I was 6 to two girls my age. My family took them in for 9 months and it turned out their dad molested them which is why they were so promiscuous. They ended up going back to live with him due to neither talking about it to adults (only to me and my younger brother). I don't have a lot of places to talk about it so I figured I'd try adv. Any advice? Questions? Comments? Thought I'd pick metal playing cards for the image because I can't think of a SFW image to match what happened.
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What's the status of their dad?
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>>32328974
No clue. The police and other organizations won't give out their last name for "privacy reasons". Their names are Taylor and Tara but that's all I have.
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>>32328808
This pretty much happened to me too. I would recommend therapy if it's affecting you. I personally don't know myself how much it has impacted my life, and honestly sometimes you never really know. The truth is, as long as you have your eye on it and don't become some weird child molester, it doesn't have to be relevant to you living a good life. I have a good life and I'm not a child molester, so have fun.
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>>32329076
Therapy fucking sucks. I froze up whenever I tried to talk about it and I always felt like I had some weird fucked up sociopath dissecting me.
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>>32328808
now that you mention it, I think a couple of mormon children we knew were abused back home
the girl (red haired, small eyes, freckles) always wanted something with me and her brother (also red haired, chubby) wanted something with my sister. we were less than 10 years old tho, my sister 7 or so and I was 9, and they were our classmates. Thing is when I gave her a chance (this happened in south america and most people in my neighborhood was brown or white with dark hair so they stood out like sore thumbs and my friends insisted I gave it a try), she took my hands and put them on her stomach and directed them down and down little by little
thing is she smelled like pee down there (normal for children, they are still learning to wipe or something I guess) and I've always hated that smell, so that was a non starter
the dude also tried something weird with my sister, she backed out at the first date, the girl wanted to keep trying but I was also not very enthusiastic about it.
It all seemed quite normal back then, it was the early 90s and wether it was because both me and my friends kept stumbling upon our parents having sex or because some other friends were sexually abused (one I'm pretty sure, he would touch us down there and tell us his brother did the same as a "game"), so it was just another weird thing that happened back then, not a big deal.
I always listen to my niece now, no matter how stupid the thing she tells me is and I never get mad at her, so she can keep telling me her stories, because I wanna be there if something weird starts happening, parents back there would be mad all the time so you always feared telling them what you did because you never knew when it was your fault and when it'd be someone else's.
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>>32329212
Man I feel bad for you. At least the girls who did it with me didn't stink. It was back in 06 for me, although I'm kinda annoyed at my parents for not picking up some of these red flags. They were taking wiimotes into the bathtub to use as vibrators for fucks sake (which broke two of them since they got waterlogged). Still they were both very kind girls and didn't deserve the hand they got dealt. Still wonder what happened to them after they went home. Hopefully things got better.
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>>32328808

What are you seeking advice about? This isn't a general chat board, try /b/ if that's what you want. This is for advice on specific situations.

If you need therapy get some, otherwise move on with your life.
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>>32332152
In his defense if he asked /b/ most of them would just jerk off to it.
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>>32328808
What exactly is your issue? Moral outrage that children are molested? Why not direct that into positive energy? Work to keep it from happening to others, through SPCC and other social agencies.
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>>32332302
What's SPCC?
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>self-bumpong this much
Attention is as bad as drugs
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>>32336229
NTA. Just bored



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