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I need a boyfriend but I am too depressed to consistently talk to men among other shit I need to do in life like work. Female btwincase spammers
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>>32328912
Lay in bed until you get the energy to do thing.
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welcome to life in the 21st century. this is what yall wanted instead of being houswives and moms, you get to suffer along with everyone else.
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>>32328933
Hasn't helped me I just keep avoiding
>>32328940
Go to r9k I am not gonna have this with you
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>>32328912
>I need a boyfriend
Why?
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>>32328955
I just want to be inlove for once in my life. I need the strong feelings
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Date me for practice
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>>32328970
I would work on fixing myself. If I don't love myself, why should anyone else?
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>>32328970
Things may be different for you as a woman but as a guy who actually managed to get his first girlfriend during a deep depressive episode, I can confidently say that it doesn't change shit. Sex will feel like nothing and you'll get bored or apathetic within two to three months if not sooner than that. If you don't have energy or passion for anything else what makes you think you would have energy or passion for a relationship? How you fix your depression I can't say, I've been trying to figure that one out myself, but after all I've said you're still adamant about getting a bf, just use dating apps. You don't have to go out at all to find guys and it's possible to find men in there that are desperate enough to make you their gf without even going on dates or whatever.
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>>32329068
who the fuck said she didnt love herself. gtfo out of here weird ass bitch.
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If you legit don't like talking you are compatible with like 90% of guys. It is hard to actually create a bond sometimes if you don't talk. But when you find the right person you might actually talk more. Also there are lots of things that don't necessarily require talking like working out. You can just make eye contact, do some signs of invitation and then you have sex for a few months while you decide if you really like the person at all.
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>>32329449
Take it easy simp
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ur not a femcel retard. search enough and you’ll find a down bad guy with no effort
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>>32328912
>be not fat
>download app
>take selfies
>pick from a list of men way out of your league because the dating market is fucked up
>don't get fucked on the first date (by saying no I know crazy)
bitch it's easy mode for women.
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what post above said ^^

literally just do that and win as a woman
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>>32328940
I want to be a housewife but most men expect me to have a job.
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>>32329898
how old are you?
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>>32329907
29. Before you go on about cock carousels I dated exclusively awkward nerds and none of the relationships worked out in the end.
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>>32330140
Lol
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>>32330140
Then I suggest giving up and become a prostitute or just kill yourself at this point. at 29 your life is pretty much over.
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>>32330140
What a coincidence, exactly the same age as me. I get the being too depressed to do stuff, but idk, if you don't even want to talk to people, how do you expect to maintain that relationship once you have one?

To me at least, the whole point of a relationship is to have someone that you enjoy having around instead of seeing it as a chore. i lived together with my ex-gf for 5 years, but once she started treating our relationship like a chore it ended just like that
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>>32330140
>none of the relationships worked out in the end.
how?
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>>32330361
I'm not OP, I'm still actively trying.

>>32330475
I was in two long term relationships over the last nine years (4 years each.) One was actually abusive, though I really tried to help him change, and the other turned out to be in the closet.

>>32330290
Okay buddy.



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