I'm often accused of being a player or having a girlfriend/ having multiple girlfriends yet I'm a fucking virgin at 25.I know I'm good looking, I get told it basically every fucking day. There are some benefits, on the odd times I do go out, I never have to buy myself a drink, either some dude or some woman will buy me a drink.>Last one that did that was a woman who had a boyfriend, I was just talking with her at the bar and the dude just stood right next to me and stared me down. When I asked if he was alright he said "I'm her boyfriend". That's when I knew I was in a fucked up situation.I don't have many friends, I have people I would call "associates". But even they make sly comments that >I must get all the girls>I'm probably a dogOne women who I started talking to at a Halloween party said at the beginning I probably already have a girlfriend, I told her I didn't. After some more talking a drinking she flipped back and got angry saying "NO! I KNOW A GUY LIKE YOU HAS A GIRLFRIEND!" The women I do get to talking to act shocked and even disappointed when I've eventually told them I wanted to take things slow.>Some act like they're something wrong with me when I tell.them.im.not seeing other women Or even women will ask me what I like, when I tell them they pretend to be super interested in the subject until I ask them about it and then they act confused.>Like "Oh great, you lied to me in the hopes that I'd like you more" Real Nice guy (girl) shit.The funny thing is, I know a dude who is a "player". He's just an average looking guy, never once talked about women or "how much sex he gets" like other guys who brag about that type of shit. It wasn't until one day after I'd known him for over a year he just showed me all the girls he was dating after a told him about a girl that kept looking at him.Is there any solution for me?
>>32329634It sounds like you can atleast get laid. Why don't you try asking someone out and getting in a relationship with them. Then just take them wherever you go and people will stop calling you a fuckboy
feels fake as fuck. so you’re suffering from being too handsome? lmao bro literally just get some friends and go hangout with people this advice literally works for you if you’re so attractive and if worst comes to worst just get on dating apps
>>32329735I had invited a girl out recently. I had been talking to her for a while, when I asked her out she said she was really nervous, I told her not to be. The date was okay but we didn't really connect, I tried to move in close to her on occasions, but she backed off.The next day she said that she was just really nervous the whole time and that she thought I wasn't going to show up for the date. We talked some more and to summarise it basically boiled down to her saying that she'd been hurt by men in the past and didn't want to get hurt again
If true, then there’s not really anything to do other than inform them that their preconceived notions are misconceptions.In the case of jealous partners, there’s nothing to do other than walk away or exact violence, as they will be obnoxious and jealous regardless. Exacting violence carries risk and a toll.In regards to women, try to find a good one that will take things slowly and bond with you, anything else is begging for relationship failure and cost with no benefit.That said, you should actively look for one. You’re twenty five, you’re not getting any younger. You’re still in your youth, but you’re in its latter third; you’re closer to the beginning of middle age than the beginning of your youth.You have more time as a man, but will nonetheless encounter some level of difficulty if you have children past about thirty.This Anon >>32329747 is a troglodyte who doesn’t understand the concept of valuing true love and connection over casual sex. Possibly a cel.
>I don't have many friends, I have people I would call "associates". But even they make sly comments that>I must get all the girls>I'm probably a dogI've had coworkers make similar comments about me and I figured they were just joking around/exaggerating. I wouldn't take it too seriously unless it bothers you. Else you are probably good looking if you're getting attention from actual women.
>>32329634you're autistic. get diagnosed. anyone who is handsome but doesn't get laid must have a social handicap of some kind. you even said it yourself, average looking guys can be players. that's because all normal people have good socialization skills.
