This is not a fetish thing. She gets far too into her job responsibilities (elementary school teaching) and will literally just forget to eat until she's extremely crabby. She's terrified of gaining weight as well so that's probably a factor at play.Today I harped on her ALL DAY about making sure she didn't let it happen again (she had a breakdown last night because she was inadvertently starving herself WHILE on her period and thought she was too ugly to be loved, etc.) and she was in extremely good spirits, flirty and not a hint of aggression or irritation, so I'm almost certain that 9 times out of 10 she's hungry when she's in a funk. Any advice? Do I make a "snack schedule" for her? I want to help in any way I can but I don't want to treat her like a toddler
There's a very simple fix to your problem. The issue is that you've failed to think outside the box. You keep treating her like a rabbit you are luring with a carrot. That is no good. Women do not respond to such spineless treatment. You must take on her lack of eating with militant force. Be pragmatic. I will lay out the simple solution henceforth. Let me preface that I myself tried this on my gf and it worked wonders. Your gonna want to tie her up and force feed her on a regular basis. Do not let her leave the house, that is obvious. Make sure she is entertained and well taken care of. If she needs to go the bathroom you carry her there. The most crucial part of this process is that you maintain a soft and caring attitude. Make sure she understands that he is beautiful and loved. Then spoon feed her all kinds of calorie-dense foods. You just keep this up for about a week and voila! She's all better! now she will remember to always eat and she will hunger to be under your control and have your positive affirmation.