Im mid 30's and cum in 15 seconds of a blowjob or a few thrusts. Things I have tried:1) Kegels/reverse kegels2) Nofap3) Noporn4) Edging5) Cum before visiting girl then go again (I cum fast all times)6) Any other normie adviceNothing will ever work, I need Drugs to actually act on the time range before involuntary kegels happen. This happens internally and not due some retarded theroy about muscles. Any retard can pump a girl for half an hour if they are born with the right settings, you just have to modify your unlucky settings into better settings that can make you last longer. Also I probably have higher nerve density than average so sex feels better for me, im also uncut. Obviously circumcision is a not a solution. Enter numbing topicals.Now let's talk about drugs:1) Clomipramine (anafranil) on demand, 4 hours before: Didn't do much. For some reason, the next day after like 15 hours I tried again and noticed a bit more control, but still not making a relevant difference.2) Paroxetine 4 hours before: Didn't do anything3) Dapoxetine (Priligy, the only SSRI approved for PE, at both 30 and 60mg dosages) 2 hours before: Didn't do anything, perhaps a bit more control, not relevant enough to justify the price(continued)
Topicals:1) Fortacin. This spray contains lidocaine and prilocaine and applies around 7,5 mg de lidocaine and 2,5 mg per shoot. This is the only topical approved for PE. This is the only thing that actually makes a difference. I can at least numb it enough that I don't cum in 15 seconds, however, there's problems.I have an allergic reaction to something on it, so I cannot use it. I also still didn't last long enough.2) EMLA cream: This also has lidocaine and prilocaine. Since it's a cream and not some spray that shoots like a shotgun, I can actually focus it on the frenulum, avoiding the glans which is where I get the allergic reaction. I tried on glans too, it gets a bit red but much more tolerable, not sure if due different vehicle or due lower dosage, in any case, I still use it only on the frenulum. This saves me from insta cumming, but I still reach the near PONR too fast and have to stop all the time which is frustrating.So my last hope as it stands is to try tramadol, which I have read a study that says it worked better on demand than SSRIs for some. So my question is, anyone that has real PE, did try tramadol? How did it compare to SSRIs? specially interested in non-responders to SSRI. Google this study:>The Influence of Tramadol on Intravaginal Ejaculatory Latency Time and Sexual Satisfaction Score in Treating Patients With Premature Ejaculation: A Network Meta-AnalysisI do not want to try dodgy shit like kratom, PYT, alphaherb etc, made in some eastern european/indian/chink bathtub. Also please avoid normie advice from people that don't know what it is to cum in seconds since forever.
You have low T. Get a hormone panel.
>>32332639Retard take. Im lean naturally and hard as fuck erections.
>>32331343how are your erections? do they feel strong?if you're getting weak erections and you're cumming fast, this is a problem that I had - stopped using mouthwash entirely, as it kills nitric oxide levels, then I was fine
>>32331343Im 32 and imo its stupid to work on not cumming. It is way more trouble than it is worth and pursuing that will probably ruin intercourse. What id more so suggest is that instead you work on ruining your orgasms.Practice and get used to how it feels by jerking off till you feel you are almost there and then stopping stimulation and the cum just dribbles out. Then give your dick a few moments to to not finish the orgasm and viola you have a ruined orgasm. When you do it properly you can reach a state where you have jizzed perhaps even multiple times but your boner is still active and you can enjoy the pleasure and be a meat dildo for the action.For sex its a very useful thing to get down and as long as you have the physical stamina to keep it up you will be blowing chicks minds.
Jerk off more (multiple times a day) and use a tighter grip each time.No fap and no porn will have the opposite effect, retard.
