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I want to looksmaxx my girlfriend, how?
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>>32332045
Bumping because I also wish my girlfriend was hotter.

I've been trying to slowly point things out I might like or encourage her when she does things I like.

She's a 6/10 now but I know I could get her to an 8 if she just dressed better, did her hair different, worked out just a little, and learned how to properly wear makeup.

I'll occasionally point out things I like I see women on TV or magazines wearing, never real life. She's finally started wearing skirts like I like, and everytime she does I shower her with compliments about it. The other day while we were in bed her hair fell over so she had bangs for a moment, which is something I want, and I immediately took advantage to say "hey you look really cute with bangs, you should try that" etc. sometimes she'll complain about her own bust size or talk about wanting to go to the gym, and I'll encourage that, I'll offer things like pic related or nutrition/fitness advice, even making plans to work out together.

The 3 roadblocks I'm hitting now:

1. She wears minimal makeup and when she does she just doesn't really know how to do it. I've finally gotten her to stop wearing the wrong lip color for her face, trying to figure out how to get her to use heavier foundation and better eyeliner more in line with what I like. Also I am trying to slowly convince her to start wearing flashier nail polish and nail designs because I think that's hot and she currently wears nothing.

2. Her style is very conservative and she has a great body, she would be 20x hotter if she just wore some skimpier clothes and tighter pants. If I could just get her in shorter skirts or in tank tops I'd be a happy man

3. She seems very insecure about her breasts, which I agree could be bigger. Trying a natural route now she's onboard with to increase size but if I doesn't work she's very against surgery, but I'd honestly like her to get a boob job but I would never say that in a million years, only encourage it if she offered
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>>32332128
>but I'd honestly like her to get a boob job
>if she just wore some skimpier clothes and tighter pants
fuck off degenerate, I want my girlfriend to be more beautiful for herself, to feel better in her own body and to make our relationship better, you want your girlfriend to become some bimbo slut to make others lust for her, we are not the same faggot
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>>32332128
Oops forgot the pic.

Basically I think the key is just to encourage changes you want, VERY LIGHTLY discourage things you don't want, offer to help/ match her effort whenever you can, and make it clear that you love her regardless.

Oh also pro tip: the 15 minutes or so after you fuck a woman, only if it's genuinely good, she is highly suggestable. You can literally reprogram a woman after she's nutted it's like a built in feature, try it
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>>32332134
I like what I like. She's loyal as it gets, it has nothing to do with others. Very sad if your girl can't be hot without you worrying about attracting other men
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>>32332045
>successfully looksmax your gf
>one day she looks at you and decides she looks too good to be with you and she could get someone "better"
>leaves you to go fuck niggers, dogs and sell feetpics to lonely rich guys
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>>32332139
No, no you retard, I don't care about other men, your shitty head completely missed the point. I want HER to feel better, you want YOU to feel better at someone else's expense, and you go so far that you could let your girlfriend look like a slut in front of strangers, just because YOU want to feel better, moron.
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>>32332151
>I'm a NEET r9k brainwashed mind and think that most of women are zoophiles
ok
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YOU don't. It's your role,as her bf to accept her as she is.

SHE can looksmax herself, but that's at her discretion. If she likes herself as she is, that's all there is.

If you aren't actually attracted to your gf why are you with her?
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>>32332155
Have you ever stopped to think that me wanting my girlfriend to look better for me is also good for our relationship? And Thad the steps taken to improve her attractiveness in my eyes will also boost her confidence for herself?

>>32332161
Sometimes you're with someone for more than their looks, but that doesn't mean you still can't try to make the most of it
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>>32332161
Thing is SHE wants. I try to take care of myself and I guess she sees that, so she sometimes ask about my opinion on different topics but I don't know what to answer because I like her already the way she is.
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>>32332134
>>32332155
>>32332161
>>32332171

This thread seemed really based at first but you all seem like massively gay redditors, sad
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>>32332213
>I want to use and manipulate other people for my own happiness, and if you don't, you're a redditor.
lol
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>>32332045
Who is this Max and why do you want your girl to look like him?
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ITT: 13 Steps to Cuckoldry
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>>32332128
give her tons of positive reinforcement whenever you see her doing something you like. if a pair of pants is slightly tighter, act like it's the greatest thing ever. no negative reinforcement when she wears something loose, just positive "you look beautiful / whatever" when she does something you like
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>>32332045
I think positive reinforcement is probably a good idea, but it depends on how much, also you can only really looksmax yourself. It's like losing weight, the person has to decide themselves. You can give her all the tips, advice, etc. But if she doesn't want to, it's not happening. Had personnel experience with ex that came down to this. She wouldn't lose weight even when I tried to positive reinforce, get active together, etc.


>>32332213
Yeah, at first I was feeling it, but it became worse as the fp anon kept talking. Also, the part about having her dress up and flaunt herself is kind of weird. Just the tone of it. And the roadblock section gives me, what woman call, the ick.
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>>32332045
Just do yoga and reach 5'8,5'9 or 174-175 cm nigger
After that work out and you got the mad max build.
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>>32332045
make her eat raw meat this will make her beautiful
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>>32332045
As if you have the choice.



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