I'm getting so blackpilled on women. I'm on yet another girlfriend and yet again, something is just off. She's sweet and kind and loving and we have similar interests and values and even future plans. And I just feel nothing, it's not it. I want it to be but she's just kind of boring, I don't feel a connection. I've met other women who I genuinely felt a bond with, who's conversations were interesting, and passions and thoughts and feelings made them attractive and desirable. And they always either turned me down or ended up being neurotic basket cases. I feel like I just can't win. I just want to be with someone I feel is an equal and a partner, an interesting independent soul that I still connect to and share something with. Not a crazy person I have to bear with or a NPC I have to take feeling something for. What the fuck do I even do now? Try to change her? See if s bond grows? Just give up on "feeling" anything and be happy with what I have? Break it off and just go back to either another boring settle or trying to tame a difficult person? Is it so much to ask for a girl who is intelligent, independent, attractive, and good? Damn
>>323320924 billion women, at least 1 billion must be in a range of ages you can datekeep looking up and don't give upthis I've tried twice and it didn't work thing is why we advice incels to try a relationship even if they are not completely attracted to the girl, just to learn what you like about girls and what they ask from you in returnI'm pretty sure you've learned at least how to keep a gf kinda happy now, maybe you could go back to finding other girl who's interesting for you and applying what you've learned
>>32332135I'm just growing weary of the process. I've had many girlfriends now and god knows how many dates. How many more heart wrenching breakups do I have to go through. I feel guilty just moving on again and again from people who love me but just aren't right for me. I just wanna married and settle down so I can move on from this gay chapter of my life. But I know if I don't get it right I'm just going to be miserable and in turn make someone else miserable too.
>>32332092Is there the slightest, remotest possibility that you are the problem?
>>32332092All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (7 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to
>>32332341I'm open to the idea but I genuinely can't figure it out. People have accused me of having a "grass is always greener" mindset and that I'll never be satisfied with anyone because I'll always want "better".But I disagree. I've met women, just a few, that I would give anything to be with and if I could would have made me happy, fulfilled, and truly in love for the rest of my life..but those girls always left and turned me down. I keep ending up with the scraps.If it's a matter of me nor grateful, sure, but how do you change that? When at your core you know you have a catch or a woman, but you just don't find her interesting or attractive, how do you cope with that? I've dated girls that were incredible, as I am now and I objectively realize how lucky I am. But in my heart? I don't desire them, I don't miss her when shes gone. I see other women every single day and think "fuck that's so much better than what I have now". Its instinct, and if I could lobotomize myself to just say "I'm happy with anything" I would, but it's just nature, idk how to fix it. If at the end of the day I have high standards, it's not really something I can chsnge
>>32332357She is literally all the things you've described, and mine. But I still want better. Also you didn't list interesting and funny and intelligent as desirable traits but they are
>>32332378Only her love matters.
>>32332401Just being loved by anyone is worthless. At least that's how it feels. Plenty have loved me, but they would love anyone who did the bare minimum. I want to be loved by someone exceptional. Why don't I deserve that? What is so bad about me that I can only win the love of someone I don't even love myself? For once I want to be loved by someone who's love is not so easily earned, who's love and affection is a reflection of my own worth, not just the affection of the desperate and broken
>>32332401>have had pic related >2 of the happiest sexiest years of my life go by>left me over something trivial and stupid>I do something even dumber because of it>alone and have to live with the guilt of not only a failed relationship but also the consequences of my actions as a backlash to being neglected God, women are not worth the heartbreak.
