>>32332222
You landed her for a reason and that's not luck. Don't be insecure about it, or she'll dump you because of that and not because of attractiveness

>>32332222
You'll self sabotage. Stop worrying

>>32332228
>Don't be insecure about it
I am trying my best, because youre right I know that the fastest way to self-sabotage is by being insecure about it. I am trying my best to just stay cool and calm about things, not get my hopes up to much to the point where I become desperate.

But I have been so jaded by love in the past. I am trying not to will it into existence by thinking about it, but I keep thinking that at some point she will realize shes dating down being with me. I need to take actionable steps to prove to her she made the right choice.

>>32332241
Focus on what you're good at, on what you did to score with her.

>but I keep thinking that at some point she will realize shes dating down being with me
you think she doesn't know already, with all the attention girls get these days?

Maybe opening up with her about this could help, if you really trust each other. Probably talking calmly about it now would be better than revealing yourself in a bad jelly outburst some time down the road.

>>32332264
>Focus on what you're good at, on what you did to score with her.
I really don't know what I did lol, I expected she would lose interest in me like normal so I just acted normal like myself

>you think she doesn't know already, with all the attention girls get these days?
I dont know, I think shes insecure. She told me that I help her feel beautiful in a way that she hasnt before, which I guess is good but at the same time what happens when she finally sees how beautiful she is compared to me?

>Maybe opening up with her about this could help, if you really trust each other.
I don't want to explicitly say it, I think that would be extremely unattractive to her. However, I have re-iterated to her that I want to be the best boyfriend I can be for her, etc

>>32332273
>what happens when she finally sees how beautiful she is compared to me?
Nothing, even if she feels like miss universe next to you. That means you make her feel like miss universe. Women like comfy and she feels comfy with you.
Maybe she's not even that hot for the rest of men and you're just deep in love, but that's actually a good (and adorable) thing

>I don't want to explicitly say it, I think that would be extremely unattractive to her.
I get what you mean, that's why I added a "maybe" at the start. Saying it bluntly might be a bit unattractive yes, but letting yourself spiral deeper into it will definitely be unattractive.

>However, I have re-iterated to her that I want to be the best boyfriend I can be for her, etc
That's actually cute. I think you're doing it right, better than you're giving credit yourself for, you just need to let go the anxiety.

>>32332312
>even if she feels like miss universe next to you
Man she really does seem like miss universe to me, just genuinely the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. When I first met her I wanted her so badly, but I never would have expected things to get this far

>Women like comfy and she feels comfy with you
This I feel is the best outcome, I hope she really appreciates how much love and affection I have for her. Not even just for being beautiful, but her vibe is so perfect too and she seems to genuinely find interest in the same things I do. Idk man I dont want this to be too good to be true but I feel like it is

>I think you're doing it right, better than you're giving credit yourself for, you just need to let go the anxiety.
Im trying, at least I am self-aware enough to know that I am prone to self-sabotage so I am trying to prevent that

>>32332241
>she will realize shes dating down being with me
change this mentality right now or it's over,if she liked you and you liked her then neither of you are "dating down" or "outside of your league" that is all BS is she is a higher level than you on the dating videogame,has grinded more or what.
Your both human beings and have your own faults