If so, how do i get rid of a bad aura? I look like a normal guy (white, built, average height, not a creep) but for some reason (women in particular) seem to be turned off by me. Do I have to be very extroverted or something? Are women becoming increasingly weary of single men? I know I can come on a bit strongly but idk what i'm doing wrong or if its just in my head
>>32332704unless you are dating the 1/10000 legitimate psychic in your neighbourhood, women aren't reading your aura, nigga.
>>32332704call it just a general presence then. How do i build a good one that people are attracted too?
>>32332743my view is that people are extremely different so there's no perfect strategy that will work on anyone. your best bet is focusing on yourself and your strengths, developing those, and then minimising your weaknesses. it's more about being your best self, not creating an alluring persona specifically for seducing people.
>>32332704I don't think there's such thing as a literal "aura" but yes there's something very visible that turns off women. Nothing paranormal, just biological or psychological, maybe even chemical. It's a state of mind and I believe it manifests via something subtle in the eyes or facial expressions, or perhaps a scent.And looksmaxxing doesn't fix it. And "talking to women" doesn't fix it, and taking two showers a day and putting a layer of deodorant doesn't fix it. (Probably you should do these anyway, if only so your chances rise from 0% to 0.1%)I don't really know how to solve it at its core, or if it's even possible.
>>32332704>Are auras real? No, but there is a real phenomenon similar to it, it’s not magick though. It’s simply the subconscious process of knowing someone feels ‘off’. This is a sort of skill that you can acquire the more you encounter and interact with people, the more you cross paths with bad faith actors + good faith actors, the more you begin to intuitively spot subtle signs of someone’s character within minutes, even seconds. You can even become really faster at spotting bad people if (you) yourself are either a bad person, or have been one formerly in the past. So rough childhood = you got trauma in you = your nervous system is on constant high alert (internal anxiety) = your mind is constantly acting as a threat detector. Here is an example: A guy knocked on my fianceé’s door, a neighbour. I was present at the time. My woman answers, and he has this wicked half-smile on him, his eyes were glassed over, vacant and empty. He asks for some sugar as he ran out. I told him no we don’t, and wished him well. Then I told my woman under no circumstances do we ever answer the door to him again. She was confused as fuck, thought I was paranoid. I just got real sinister vibes from the guy. It was the way he spoke, his facial expressions, the body language, all of it painted the image of a man who had some kind of sick desperation on him. Sure enough, few months later he stops being our neighbour. He got arrested on a drug and murder attempt charge among other shit. The reason I knew is because I grew up around an actual diagnosed ASPD psychopath, my cousin. He had the same look in his eye. I just knew. Once you know you know.>Do I have to be very extroverted or something?No. Forcing extroversion is the biggest sign something is off. It sounds cliche, but the advice ‘be yourself’ is a cliche for good reason. Masking a false persona is for autists + psychos. Autists are harmless, psychos aint. nobody is gonna 50/50 guess on that shit.
>>32332743It's called being mentally healthy, dumdum.
>>32333285you dont have to be mean to me :(
>>32333277how do i know if i'm the problem? I'm a pretty sweet wholesome guy, but about 50% of the girls i come across seem weary, but the other 50% are fine. could the women just be anxious, overly-alert cunts?
>>32333504>how do i know if i'm the problem? I'm a pretty sweet wholesome guy, but about 50% of the girls i come across seem weary, but the other 50% are fine. could the women just be anxious, overly-alert cunts?Doubtful. Psycho charm usually wins people over, so if you were a problem, you’d be getting social gains lol. They are really sweet and wholesome to the point the peaceful calmness is insane, like the air got sucked out of a room and it’s nice and still and serene, that’s how you can tell if you’re talking to a psycho. If you were exuding that social energy, the women wouldn’t be anxious. How is your facial expressions and body language when talking to women? Do you feel tense in your muscles? (back, shoulders, jaws, face?)
>>32332704It's called charm and only certain people are born with it when the planets align.
>>32332984>It's a state of mind and I believe it manifests via something subtle in the eyes or facial expressionsLack of confidence, sadness, discomfort, neediness, all of that is perceived through the things you've mentioned and they are not subtle. Also tone of voice and posture.
>>32333504>but about 50% of the girls i come across seem weary, but the other 50% are fineThose are good numbers. Mine are much worse. Some girls act like I have an infectious disease when I'm around them and others like me just fine. I guess that's just how it is.
>>32333696i do overthink shit, and 4chan often tells me I'M the problem. but its good to know its the roastie cunts who have the problem
>>32332704Women are BBC only in 2024.
>>32334287That is all the eight women you met in the last three years.Shouting up is actually an option.
Have you guys heard of charisma?Apparently it's quite the thing!
It definitely exists, i know a professor that can make a whole auditory go silent by just hanging his coat on a chair. I don't know why that's just how it is. Although back in my day we called it gravitas, aura is a zoomer brain rot term.
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>>32332704White women hate white males also tran****** women are not women
