>Eyes appear to eternally glare>Regardless of any emotion felt>Can't smile worth a damn>Slightly paranoid and distrusting>Like my personal space to be MINE>Diagnosis: Resting Bitch Face>Status: TerminalThe options at my disposal are either to lean into my skittish nature and come across like a fearful little schizo lamb, which is a superb way to attract predators and psychopaths, or to swallow my feelings and act like an aloof bitch on purpose. Do I just take the cuntpill and hope some guy is entranced by how stoic and rude I act? How the fuck do I do this?
>>32332789I have this as an ugly guy but people keep talking to me anyway. You are probably fine.
>>32332833Men are intimidating by default, it doesn't work against your social dynamic. It's not the same. My condolences about your face, though.
>>32332847Well I don't know. If you have a social circle you should probably look for a guy there, anyway. Ideally people should want to date you after they get to know your personality, and not before.
>>32332868If I had a social circle, I wouldn't post here, I'd talk to my friends. Can't understand people with well developed lives who come here worth a damn.
>>32332877>If I had a social circle, I wouldn't post here, I'd talk to my friends.Well then. Try a hobby space. My sister and I went to comic con recently and she spoke to like 10 strangers and made some good friends. You can use groups to meet individuals, and you can get individuals to bring you to other groups you are unaware of. You are extremely unlikely to attract anyone just by sitting around though. Even if you are a 10/10. The kind of guys who hit on women they don't know in public places are usually PUA types and not really boyfriend material. I've heard a lot of stories about random approaches from my sister, and not a single one of them was a normal guy. Always some kind of perverted uncle.
>>32332789https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=QT3fOMJdfbc
>>32332938Your sister is probably not a tall athletic woman with resting bitch face who freezes up mid conversation. I do go to hobby spaces, but I am typically avoided. I have tried softening my bitch-factor, but nothing much has come of that, so now I'm thinking, maybe I need to lean into it.But yeah. Never been hit on by a guy that didn't come off as a total sleazeball.
>>32332789>>32332833There's no such thing as resting bitch face. Funny how everyone with RBF has a chronic alphabet soup buffet of mental illnesses and traumas. RBF is some reddit-tier nonsense. You are just bitches. Learn to relax your face and smile like a normal human being, it's not complicated, just do it instead of wallowing in a crab bucket of self-deprecation and patheticness.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kgtc9pRvRbQ
>>32333315My sister heightmogs basically every woman that isn't obviously very tall. She's 5'10''. She used to be very athletic but is emaciated looking now because of a chronic illness.She doesn't freeze up mid conversation though, I'll give you that. If you want to go the same route as my sister, find some kind of public service job. My sister went into teaching and after a couple of years of tardwrangling evil retard kids, she's become a very assertive, open communicator. Kind of makes me look bad when we are together in public because she is so fast in seizing conversation cues that I never get to say anything. Anyway.>I do go to hobby spaces, but I am typically avoided.You have to talk to people yourself. If you stay silent and wait for others to approach you, it probably won't happen. The idea that you can lean into being a distant, cold, bitchy person and become popular by doing that seems like a cope.My advice is to try just introducing yourself and go from there. If you find a place where the same folks attend, let's say, twice a week, just introducing yourself and dropping by for small talk each time you go will net you some acquaintances that can gradually evolve into friends. Very useful, and you can keep it short but sweet with conversations.
