Not an incel, however I have not had sex or even touched a woman in well over four years now. I am so touch deprived that I get really strong ASMR/body tingles from the lightest contact with another human being. A woman who works at a firm down the hall smiled at me in the hallway - that was enough to give me full body chills for like an hour. So even the slightest display of warmth from someone sets me off into a minor state of ecstasy because I am so touchless, friendless, isolated, and my life is void of any real meaningful connection with others. How the fuck do you guys live like this? Oh I’m a broke wagie so I can’t afford massages, especially not the illegal kind.
Not that hard to get a movie date with a mid/ugly girl. Just put in some effort dude.
I'm a 28 year old khv and my only friend is my mom. Also don't make any money so can't afford anything like that. You get used to it eventually.
>>32334066It’s impossible. And I refuse to get with a fat chick.>>32334118…….Fuck
how old are you
>>32333985>not an incelyou are an incelyou had sex 4 years ago,that dosen't take away the fact that you are involuntarily celibate right now
>>32334320genuinely asking, why do you refuse to get with a fat woman? it doesn't sound like you're in a position to be picky
>>32333985Either get a pet or hire a local cuddle buddy, who will likely overcharge you for something you can get for free.
>>32334434Fair enough, I actually agree but figured virgin incels would screech and call me a normie. They somehow manage to gatekeep their own misery
>>32334465They just gross me out. As much as I crave human contact I at least want it to be with someone healthy. Trust me I don’t expect or think I deserve even a 5/10. But I still have some standard. Not fat, not horribly disfigured. That’s about it
>>3233433830. It’s over isn’t it?
>>32333985I’m a 36 year old virgin. At a certain point, you won’t care anymore
>>32334320Plenty of cute chubby chicks out there bro.
>>32333985Everyone's different. Some need touch more than others. What's causing you trouble finding someone? If you got a job, puts you above a lot of isolated people here already
>>32334615Pretty severe social anxiety. My job also pays shit and I barely make rent each month. Not a prestigious job at all and I’m embarrassed by it.
>>32334553The full numbness cannot come soon enough. I’ve experienced it in couple day stints, but my desire for women always comes back. I wish I could just permanently shut off my libido and need for affection. It’s a curse
>>32334749But you've dated before? Was it not as bad back then? Or something about how you met let you bypass it?
>>32334434Nah, he's right. If that retard could get laid once, he can easily do it again, he's just choosing not to for whatever reason.
>>32334792Yeah only because I was drunk and got approached. I’m not completely hideous so I’ve gotten lucky before. Basically a few women that did 100% of the work and I just had to remain conscious. As I’ve gotten older this has become far more rare, hence the four years of inceldom
>>32333985>> I am so touchless, friendless, isolated, and my life is void of any real meaningful connection with others. >> I'm not an incel though. Kek.
>>32335316>If that retard could get laid once, he can easily do it again, he's just choosing not to for whatever reason.Kek what kind of autistic socially unaware retard would seriously think this? I thought I was deep in the spectrum but damn imagine thinking getting a gf is some repeatable process like solving a math equation. Fucking megakek
>>32335342>Basically a few women that did 100% of the work and I just had to remain conscious. As I’ve gotten older this has become far more rare, hence the four years of inceldomI'm only a couple years older than you and have only been single and incel for about a year but it only gets worse as you get older. Most younger girls don't want you anymore and women our age have way too high standards in proportion to what they offer.In college all I needed was a six pack of hard cider and a DVD and I'd be able to get laid; these days I've spent over $200 on dinners only to get a peck on the cheek before getting ghosted.
>>32334066>>32334465>>32334611OP don't listen to these desperate animals, part of why things are so fucked these days is because you have men who are 6s and 7s going out to fuck women who are 2s and 3s. Good for you for having standards unlike the average fucking dog of a man out there
>>32334434celibacy is never involuntarily. celibacy is a virtue and a choice of good conduct. you aren't celibate if you're thinking about lust all day.
>>32333985https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=QT3fOMJdfbc
>>32333985I am a volcel-turned-incel (spent early life stoooodying and working) who's always had to rely on dating apps and those "women" really help the sour grapes / dodged bullet mentality. How I cope is electric blanket wrapped around a body pillow, then carefully slide it into the pillowcase.>Don't have to feed it>Don't have to entertain it>Don't have to clean up after it>Don't have to listen to itPush a button, wait a few minutes, and you have a toasty bed and warm, soft object to hold through the night.
>>32336033That’s the thing. At 30+ even a very average 5/10 woman has high expectations with respect to career and finances. If I had the money I would just see an escort once every few weeks to release the pressure valve, but our society purposefully keeps it illegal to make men suffer.
>>32337583It's not even about career and money, in general they just have very high expectations. Don't want to put out until dating for a while, expect you to romance and wow them, if you're not the Chad they've been holding out a decade for they just string you along.Those older women are just for fun anyway. If I had it my way I'd date a 19 year old when I'm looking for something serious
>>32337651>19 year oldWhy though? Aside obviously from looks and fertility, why the fuck would anyone want to spend time with a nineteen year old? Especially nowadays, they are straight up children mentally. She’s gonna fill you in on all the latest tik tok trends and what Billie Eilish has been up to? Unless you literally just want a womb and no sort of emotional or spiritual connection. If that’s the case I respect it.
>>32336994Hmm honestly I might give this a try. Definitely not even close to a body but it might be a somewhat effective cope
>>32337922Dude have you spent time with 30 year old women lately? They talk about the same shit, they're just as obsessed with Billie Eilish and the Barbie movie and other bullshit too. Maturity in females isn't something they gain, it's an inherent personality trait. They don't develop mentally past age 18 they just change their expectations and get more blown out over time.Not to mention I myself am pretty immature. If I found a 19 or 20 year old girl who was into anime and sci fi and robotics and shit we'd have a very long relationship with a lot in common.
>>32338093Fair enough. I don’t interact with girls that young, but anytime I overhear them on public transportation and such I want to smash my head into a wall. I guess the old hags really aren’t much better.
