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Why do girls flock to somewhat handsome autists who can't speak for shit? There is a guy who works at the clothing store next to where I work and he looks braindead, but he does have relatively handsome facial features. He has a weird smile and a blank stare, and he often stares at the distance when you speak to him. Girls always hang out in his store and shoot the shit with him while he just looks retarded. I don't understand what they get out of it? Some take advantage of him, get perks like rebates and such, but it's still weird how many girls surround him and how often? What do girls see in people like this?
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>>32335187
By can't speak for shit I mean genuinely he can't talk. His tone of voice is off. He mumbles and has weird timing. Like you can tell he is not present. He is lost in his own thoughts
Maybe it is that they see potential in him and want to help him?
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>> handsome autists

This doesn't exist. It's like saying you can be a handsome downy. You can't. So try to post with more succinct and accurate language to convey your thoughts.

Is he actually diagnosed autistic, or are you just being a tremendous edgelord?
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>>32335204
Wdym they don't exist. I'm obviously not talking about clinically diagnosed retards but the type of person described in my post. Someone severely socially impaired, colloquially referred to as an "autist"

I described the person so no need to derail the question
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>>32335210

>> Someone severely socially impaired, colloquially referred to as an "autist"

No they aren't. Your serial online shit makes you sound retarded.

>> girls see a handsome guy
>> he is quiet, of few words and brooding
>> that gives him mystery to go along with his looks
>> he's young and has a job

Oh gee, what a puzzle it is why girls might want to spend time with him. Pull your head out of your ass and spend more time in real life that you do online. Maybe you'll start to understand
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>>32335187
Maybe he seems safer. Men in general are garbage human beings. Honestly, maybe he's just nice. Maybe they're taking advantage like you said.
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>>32335187
>>32335199
kek rent free
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>>32335227
Shut the fuck up you fucking faggot ass
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>>32335228
They aren't dating him. They are just hanging out with him in his store. They talk and feel cool when they do, and he just stands there looking out the window with a weird smile. What I think it is, is the girls are his class mates and they find it cool to hang out in his store. He lets them get behind the counter and feel like they own the place. He is alone in the store. So I think it's more of a taking advantage thing and he seems nice. Clout/taking advantage and hanging out with a class mate. But I'm wondering if there is some other attraction for women that I don't see?
>>32335233
I'm not seething. I'm friends with him. I call him player. He just smiles and gives a creepy look, then turns around and starts humming to himself, feeling based. He is very crazy and funny, but Idk what girls see in him
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>>32335187
>Why do girls flock to somewhat handsome autists who can't speak for shit?
stoicism, stability, and being focused on your own shit without regards for social contagion are incredibly attractive when found in someone who grew up weird but cute so they're not neurotic wimps

if you're someone good looking, it's alpha that they just stare at you. you are expecting something and they are not forthcoming, while not getting triggered. that reads as high status male (him) demonstrating hierarchy to you (unfixable loser)
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>>32335240
Lol
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>>32335204
I had a girl I liked who liked me in middleschool and I was severely severely spergy at very least. Not sure I was aware she liked me or that I liked her though.



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