I don't know how to feel about my dadI feel angry for his wrong decisions that affected not only him, but me as wellBut at the same time I know he has always tried to be a kind and good father to me.Unfortunately life was really hard for me and him, but I've turned into a bitter man. He chose only bad women in his life(including my mother, although I've learned how to forgive her) and that really changed the way I see women.
>>32335253As long as you keep dwelling on his choices, they’ll keep affecting you. It’s bad enough that your childhood was marked by them, do you want them to mark your adulthood too? You’re only an adult when you become completely independent of your parents. Letting his taste in women guide your perception of all women makes you a child because you still rely on your daddy to define how you see the world. So maybe grow up, learn from his mistakes and move on?
