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I started dating someone and she revealed to me that she does not want to have penetrative sex. she only had it a handful of times and hated it every time.
I am a late bloomer who struggled with ED and over 15 or so years of sleeping with women I only finished once during "normal" PIV sex.
Does anyone have experience with this? How do you handle it?
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>>32336724
Leave.
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>>32336724
A girl that likes you would still want to try it with you even if it hurt with dudes before you
She fucking despise you
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do some heavy petting?
if you're both weird about penetration its fine to leave that for way later

>15 years of struggling to cum during sex
damn bro
im mega awkward until about 4 drinks with a new chick but once im comfortable and in love, that bitch is catching loads non-stop
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>>32336764
we are both well into our 30s, I know what I like and what I don't and I expect she does too.

>>32336766
it's been a weird combination of things. took me a while to realize regular condoms are too tight (not bragging. not necessarily the length, but the girth), then I am way in my head and focused on making her cum and figure out what she likes and then it might just be that condom placement and foreskin can be tricky. it is not that I don't finish, but I don't finish in her. we fuck for a good while and then I take the condom off and I get sucked off or finish the last few strokes with my hand.
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>>32336724
BOTH of you can have lots of sexual fun and satisfaction by exploring everything but the penetrative part.
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>>32336724
>over 15 or so years of sleeping with women I only finished once
maybe, just maybe you're gay
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>>32337071
No they really can't.
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>>32337437
maybe you can't. sex is a full body exercise.
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>>32336791
>condoms
oh.. thats not ED lmao

chick probably needs to relax and be very aroused to comfortably fit a dick inside her
good luck with that it takes patience



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