Almost every girl is either already taken or they’re fat or ugly. There are also some other disqualifying factors like they’re some years older than me, too tall, if they’ve had previous boyfriends. I really don’t think I’m being too picky but maybe I am. Maybe a little immature but is just an innocent girl who is like a 6/10 too much to ask for?>inb4 “Your standards are too high”They’re not. Im probably like a ~6/10 (maybe 7/10 but I’m short) so my standards in terms of looks are reasonable. I literally just want a plain Jane girl. And not Hollywood-tier “plain girls” (where it’s just a really attractive girl wearing glasses bc that supposedly makes her ugly). I don’t even think I want a hot girl because I’d feel insecure about not being good enough as a looksmatch and always thinking she could do better.Maybe I just need to TALK to more girls to get to know their actual personalities and go from there? Maybe then I’ll be/feel less shallow?I WANT a gf, I want someone to give meaning to my life so I don’t just doomscroll and goon all day long. Because I legit feel like I have no purpose to life I therefore feel zero motivation to do coursework, to improve myself physically, to not sleep in till almost noon. >inb4“you’re being selfish. No girl wants to date a guy with your mindset. You need to be the right guy before you can get the right girl.”If it’s a mindset issue, then give me some solution or diagnosis that’s more creative than that. TLDR: I want a gf but there aren’t any girls who I would want to be my gf. Wat do?
>>32340414Recommend one of:WaifuGayAsexual
>>32340414Also>I WANT a gf, I want someone to give meaning to my life so I don’t just doomscroll and goon all day long. Because I legit feel like I have no purpose to life I therefore feel zero motivation to do coursework, to improve myself physically, to not sleep in till almost noonThat's mentally illA gf doesn't fix thatFix it before getting gf
>>32340414Plus the obvious easy solution is to want the girls who are available You aren't doing that so you probably don't want a gfYou just want to blame your lack of motivation on somethingSelf-made problem.
>>32340414You're unironically too picky. Ruling out anyone with a previous bf rules out the majority of women you'd otherwise get along with
>>32340414>Maybe I just need to TALK to more girls to get to know their actual personalities and go from there?Yes. The more people you meet and get to know, the more likely you'll find people you like. This goes for friends and potential relationships.
>>32340414I won't read your complicated thesis about matters that are not so complicated.
