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Socialising isn’t easy, women are complicated, there’s a reason they call having sex ‘getting lucky’. It’s crapshoot and the only way to keep going.

> I just can’t take the rejection and looking like an idiot.

No one tells anyone that this is part of the journey. Unfortunately your ego is going to get the shit beaten out of it and you’ll have some nights or months where it feels like all women hate you.

And the rejection is never going to leave, it’s there before and after relationships/hook ups. Very few people have broad appeal.

It’s a part of life for a lot of us. Getting in shape, dressing nice and a career help your chances but you’re still going to get rejected. But you’ll figure out what works for you, it’s just not going to be pretty getting there.

You guys are protecting your egos while your dicks shrivel up and die. Stop being afraid of making mistakes and get out there.

Only warning I’d give about rejection is don’t immediately go for someone who just saw you get rejected. No one wants to feel like a concession- even if they know they are deep down. Move to another part of the room, do it another time.

There’s plenty of threads here that can give you specific things to do, but accept that rejection is a major part of a sex life- for most of us there’s no getting around it… unless we pay for it.
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>>32340424
>No one tells anyone that this is part of the journey
I do
But I don't call it rejection since I'm not a fag. I call it testing interest (and getting a null result).
Rejection implies you failed or lost something, but you didn't. It's not like you're shooting at targets but you missed and wasted a bullet.
It's more like "I know the money's in one of these vases so I gotta break open the vases" and then so you go crack 'em open. No payday in one? Keep bustin'.
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>>32340424
I have nothing to offer to anyone so I don't ask women out.
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There's this fat girl that wants to fuck but she has a husband, I'm not really attracted to her tho should I do it bros
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>>32340424
I won't read patronizing PUA copypasta.
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>>32340424
Thanks for the advice!!
Any femanons want to date me? PLEAS!!
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>>32340812
Yet you take the time to write a comment. It's not patronising, not everything is an attack on you.
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>>32340826
Not me but I'll help you get over your fear of rejection.
We wouldn't have worked out.
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>>32340424
Men have declared spiritual jihad on women. This is it anons, the real gender war has begun, not the fake one with countless pronouns that is being shilled everywhere in the media, but the real gender war between man and woman.
Women are about to learn a harsh lesson.

Don't talk to women, don't help them, don't ask them out, don't have dating apps, don't interact with them. If a woman approaches you be nice and respectful but do not flirt or overtly joke, treat them as an equal man and then leave after the reason for the conversation is over. If a girl comes up to you and flirts kindly turn her down, if she asks you out suddenly say no thank you, don't make up a reason she only has agency because of some external reason not because she likes you. Be vague when talking about your life or weekend plans, anything you do or do with them like hooking up will be picked apart and analyzed by her and her online friends. You are a traitor and not helping anyone if you fall for their tricks.

If men can't display a modicum of power over society, this world and women, then I guess they don't hold much power at all.



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