>meet girl long distance>really like her>she shows me a pic>she doesn't look great>say shes cute because I like her personality and don't want her to feel bad>if she lost weight she would be cute easilyKinda blows, I'm not attracted to her physically but don't want to let her go.Am I doing her a disservice here?
>>32340479Losing weight's really easy just skip a mealPersonality's harder to change
Show the pic with her eyes/other features blackbarred. Though a nice chubby girl is probably better than no GF at all.
>>32340540Yeah personality is valuable. probably more valuable than a great body and face. maybe.>>32340580I can't man, can't chance someone recognizing her.
>>32340479My first chance for a relationship, I was in the same boat as you. Decided screw it and tried it anyway. Didn't go well. Being attracted to your partner is really non-negotiable. Better to realise this sooner than later. Consider if she felt this way about you, if you'd want to stay with her
you could try but i've never made it work, plenty of emotional pain and blueballs thobummer dude
>>32340679>>32340720that's really dissapointing, depressing, and I think I'm gonna try to make it work anyways even though it might end really badly. fuck.
