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Is is possible to lead a fulfilling and rewarding life as a 163cm guy?
It feels like the world hates manlets, lookism lingo going mainstream makes the hate even worse
It just feels so grim out there
I live in Australia and get height mogged by the average zoomer (I’m 25)
Idk it’s just hard to shut it out completely, I don’t want to be bitter but it’s clear being a short guy in the west is just life on hard mode
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>>32429902
It will be harder, but you are not doomed nor helpless.

If you walk like you've never heard a single short guy meme you'll pull far harder than the short guy who's self aware of the memes.

>Charisma is king
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>>32429902
Australians measure themselves in centimeters? Wtf?
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>>32429957
Yes they have the same measurements as bongs
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>its another height demoralizing thread
I swear I see guys shorter than me with GFs all the time. You're fine.
>6'0
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>>32429902
You asked this shit yesterday.
Height is nearly irrelevant when compared to obsessive feel-shit-about-myself personality. Which you won't change. So for you, it's over.
But that's not because you're short, it's because you're retarded.
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>>32430045
no i didn't, show me the archives right now
i used the same gwen as the lanklet asking if he was too skinny , he was 6ft
dummy.
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>>32430037
>nooo you’re fine bro! Heh height doesn’t matter at all! Trust me I’m 6ft but girls don’t even notice you’re fine bro xD
Says the 6’ guy to the fucking 5’4 manlet
Normies are unreal
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>>32430081
Lol, fuck you
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>>32430112
Gaslighting FUCK
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>>32429902
>Is is possible to lead a fulfilling and rewarding life as a 163cm guy?
yeah 100% lol
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>>32430102
Manlets still get laid, why do you think they still exist? If every girl on the planet was fucking every tallfag, you wouldn't exist. I know the reason why I don't get laid, it's because I'm a sperg retard who doesn't talk to girls/doesn't know how to talk to girls. I'm a total virgin, 150%.
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>>32430037
>I swear I see guys shorter than me with GFs all the time.
No you don't.
>Manlets still get laid,
No they don't.
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We have 5 threads like this up now, are they all made by the same guy?
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>>32431072
its one lanklet who gets off on shitting on manlets, same iphone file names and similar stories
dude is responsible for most of the heightism bs
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>>32431034
How tall are you and why do you post lies on the internet?
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>>32431034
And right there, that negativity, that's the reason why you don't get laid. Women get dry when they encounter a man full of hate.
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>>32431075
>lies
Stop gaslighting gullible people
>>32431078
Being short and ugly is what gets women dry. Fuck off
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>>32429902
It doesn't seem to have stopped Kevin Hart, Seth Green, Michael J Fox, Martin Scorcese, Frankie Valli, Fats Domino, or the President of Ireland.
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>>32431158
Answer the question, liar.
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>>32431306
~162cm
Your point?
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you guys really gotta stop gaslighting short people
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>>32430938
NTA but manlets literally will not exist in the upcoming generations because women will flat out refuse to repopulate with them. And why would they when even mid-to-ugly bitches can get fucked by chad with a single text? There's a reason this incel shit wasn't a thing until the mid 2010s, because the rise of social media has turned women into egotistical demons. We will only just now begin to notice the effects on the gene pool that stem from their retardedly high standards
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>>32429902
I'm 163 cm, 23 years old. I gave up when I was 19, I mentally couldn't handle being the shortest guy in the room and feeling like a kid. Retreated into my room, now I'm just waiting to die. When I was 21 I managed to voluntarily sabotage my brain by sleeping few hours and setting up alarms through the night, took me 10 months but at the end I successfully managed to forget most things about my life (I have just a handful of memories now) and have reduced thoughts so I don't feel as bad as I used to. I can't do simple maths anymore though, lol.
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>>32429902
Tom Cruise is like 4'11" and he's successful even in Hollywood.
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>>32434533
what the fuck
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>>32429902
Just get off the internet and social media. It's poisoning your mind and your own perception. In the real world, it doesn't matter. Plenty of short people with full lives and loving families.
It may be too late for you though, your brain is already fried.
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>>32434790
>>32434541
Please stop being retarded holy fuck
>just be Tom cruise bro
Yeah no he’s a fucking millionaire and blew up before major heightism holy fuck

>in the real world it doesn’t even matter
Yeah you hear that OP you may be the size of a well fed toddler but it doesn’t matter okay!? People can’t tell you’re 5’3 just be confident and smile!1
I’m so fucking sick of the gaslighting
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>>32434835
>blew up before major heightism holy fuck
Are you fucking retarded? Do you really think "heightism" is a recent phenomenon? Women have always preferred taller men. No one is more discriminatory towards your own height than yourself. Get over it dude.
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>>32434835
The best part of this mentality is that I don't have to do anything or wish for anything. You are already living in a hell of your own creation. For me to get my revenge, I just need you to go outside and just glance at a taller dude. You're a joke. Keep seething.
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Idk how you can't just get an Asian gf I thought Australia was full of Asians. Anyway, your best bet would be to SEAmaxx. I am a 173 cm América and no American woman has ever shown interest in me and I know it's my face cause I'd say I am pretty good looking otherwise. I had to geomaxx just to experience love and sex, but it was worth it. Go where you are wanted.
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>>32434900
>>32434877
Cope more delusional bluepiller
Manlets get zero action
Dnr
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>>32434553
?
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>>32434533
Get help man. And geomaxx to SEA
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>>32429902
why do gen xers think zoomers fuck with this haircut?
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>>32435492
You're right. Manlets get no action when they are as miserable as you. Why the fuck would a woman want to be with someone who is so negative?
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>>32429902
i'm 160cm, 34 and had many girlfriends, both good looking and bad looking, from 4'9 to 5'10. I have now a succesful job, a house. Life is pretty good, don't give up. If you want easy mode get a girl from thailand/vietnam/philippines or something
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>>32431164
>just be a wealthy celebrity bro
You people are so dumb its beyond description.
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>>32436798
It didn't stop them from becoming wealthy and famous, dumb fuck.
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It sounds more like you just want us to affirm your world views rather than get advice. Yes, typically, being taller as a man is seen as a more attractive quality than being short. This doesn't mean you can't be attractive in other ways. You are obsessed with height. You are your own greatest obstacle in dating. Find something to be confident about and improve yourself to be a more likeable person all around. It's harder than continuing to live in your own delusional defeatist reality, but you will be happier in the long run.
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>>32429902
it'll be a bit harder in many ways (or, A LOT harder if you're also ugly and/or asperger's in addition to being that short), but you will ultimately have just as good a life as anyone else.

any answer other than this is redpill bullshit.

I see short dudes all the time even short ethnic dudes and the only difference in their lifestyle is that they have to (usually) settle for a chubbier woman. but many "chads" end up with chubby women anyway, so who really cares.
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>>32429902
5'5 and 35 here, make money. For the love of god make money it overwrites everything.
I used to feel exactly the same way that you did, then late 20s started rolling around and unlike most of my peers I actually had a house, a business, freedom and for the first time women. Girls 18 to 25 are the most braindead superficial creature in the world, after 25 they turned into braindead superficial creature who are starting to get desperate due to losing power fast.

I remember the moment it clicked, I was 28, hanging out with 11 other dudes from high school at a party. We were around a campfire talking about how much changed since we were 15. Basically we all went one by one discussing our life. 4 guys were divorced and completely broken, the rest were stuck in dead end job, all were balding, getting fat, shit relationship with an ugly nagging wife (girls that used to be genuine bombshells) and then we got to me and I just realized holy shit things are good.
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>>32438470
>>32437515
based posts
i am 5'8, and it definitely gets easier after 25
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>>32438470
>Girls 18 to 25 are the most braindead superficial creature in the world, after 25 they turned into braindead superficial creature who are starting to get desperate due to losing power fast.
Kek. This guy is based.
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>>32438470
I like your ways. How ran through were the 25+ yr old women though?
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>>32438576
Eh you can never truly know, there's that old saying of multiply a woman's number by three and divide a men's number by three and you'll get the real answer. Overall I'd say you get both extremes, girls with 15+ and girls with 0-2. If by 30 a girl isn't hitched it's either because she's practice girlfriend material or so paranoid that she doesn't let anyone in unless it's worth it.
All women want the same thing though, unlike men who have very varied tastes women want rich, famous, tall, handsome athletic,in that order.

Woman get... really fucking weird after 25 and even more so after 30 if they haven't had a kid, especially in this day and age with the destruction of gender roles.
Women are starting to feel, not understand, but feel the effect of this new dating bullshit. This new system of a handful of men like me fucking hundreds of 18-25 girls while a bunch of maladjusted incels (not their fault, there's always gonna be a bottom 80%) get nothing and turn into hermits, monks, neets, or grind to become one of the top is creating a shiton of problem.
Alpha window is real. I've destroyed dozens of women because they cannot cope with spending a 2 weeks 8k vacation with me in Cancun or Barcelona and then going back to splitting the bill on a muffin with Jim from target.
So now you get women living like queens with hot rich men for 6-8 years, then stuck in misery for 50+ years trying to recapture those day and failing, with their only choice being the "incels" or cats, inevitably driving them to madness.
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>>32430102
I'm 5"2 and I still got a good life (good job, girlfriend, freinds, hobby). Stop being bitter and do things you're passionate about
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These doomer threads about height are retarded. No one gives a fuck about your height if you're masculine. That's what matters.

The world hates children in adult bodies. Learn to be an adult. Stop playing toys. Learn integrity, masculinity and competition. Stop hanging out with your mummy. Start hanging out with your daddy. Stop listening to what women say they want, they don't know. They've never known. They never will know. They want masculinity. 150 years of science confirms it. Social media is starting to confirm it now if you care about that.

Grow up

Grow up

Grow up
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>>32429902
It’s not possible to lead a good life as any non chad male, unless you seamaxx
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>>32438668
>The world hates children in adult bodies.
Unless they’re a woman
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Most of the serious replies in these threads are basically
>just get money bro and you'll get some leftover women once you both are past your mid 20's
Therefore confirming OP's post claiming that manlets can't live a fulfilling and rewarding life.
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>>32438687

Nope. Male or female, the world hates children in adult bodies. All you millennial and zoomer cunts need to grow the fuck up. It's embarrassing.

Adult females should behave like real women, not little girls.

Grow up

Grow up

Grow up
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>>32438751

No one saying that is giving you a serious reply. That's not real. The reality is you all need to grow up. That's the only advice any of you need. Stop being children. Pop your mumma titty out your mouth, and be a man.
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>>32438470
>5'5 and 35 here, make money. For the love of god make money it overwrites everything.
How do I get a good net worth by the time I hit 30? It'll be 22 next year, I work two jobs (two dead end jobs) and as of now I have a certification for Electrical Engineering (entry level)
Do I go back to school? Specifically Community College?
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>>32438588
this is true. what people don't realize is that a big reason why cute girls age 22-25 won't date them is because they're already dating guys age 28-36
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>>32438668
>they don't know. They've never known. They never will know. They want masculinity.

Also true although hormonal birth control makes this is a little more complicated.
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>>32438909
You need an actual degree (or if you're in trades you need whatever the trades equivalent is). Can be electrical engineering, doesn't matter. But a certificate won't cut it.
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>>32438909
Get an actual skill that people need, clear away all your debts, start your own business, burn the candle by both end fuck work life balance it's your 20s you can take it, buy don't rent getting a house even a cheap one is better, save every penny and max out 401k and ira, live extremely cheap.
It sucks, this is not fun at all and it will take 5-10 years for it to start feeling good. It was 8 years for me before I could start having fun (26).
But once you save up that first 100k generating let's say even a small 3-5% a year in interest it gets much easier. That's 5k a year you don't have to work for. After that you get to 200k, and now it's generation 10k-12k a year. and saving becomes both fun and easier.
Than like me you get to 1.7 mil at 35, generating 8% so 136k a year without working on it and by that point you can live on that alone.
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>>32433623
This

The internet did two things:
1. Revealed how insane women are
2. Connect the men who would have been silent and alone before the internet.

The consequences to the human genepool will be catastrophic
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>>32434541
Manlet actors wear lifts in every scene, so they don't look short when filmed
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>>32439414
Lifts only give you a few inches. They mainly use camera angles like they did for the midget Tom Hardy in Dark Knight Rises. They can't hide their height in real life. Everyone knows Tom Cruise is a midget, but it doesn't matter.
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>>32429902
I'm 165cm and I pray for a heart attack or deadly tumor every day
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>>32438668
>Start hanging out with your daddy
Not OP, but my Dad died when I was in college and I have no role model in my life anymore. My step-father is a manchild that my mother pretty openly dislikes. My paternal grandfather is aging, ill, and has always been more taciturn and quiet. My maternal grandfather died when I was still in elementary school and I never got to really learn from him.
I know I need to grow up and be a man rather than a weak-willed whiny bitch, but I can't find the motivation to change and I don't have a path to follow.
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>>32429902
Dating wise, you are kind of fucked, yeah. But I if you really do want to have a gf, I'd say fuck the odds and just keep trying anyways. Not really helpful, but it's better than just submitting to the blackpill. Don't get hung up on any potential rejection or any other shortcomings, you'll just keep feeding your self doubt.
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>>32436809
The people you're trying to give a pep talk to will never reach the level of success EVER, you dumb fuck. How is that suppose to help them?
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>>32439298

No it doesn't. The dykes and bitches with penis envy have just run a psyop on men trying to convince everyone masculinity is bad so they don't have to compete with us. Because they can't. Women want masculinity. Always. Even when they're pregnant or on an oral contraceptive that makes their body think they're pregnant. Masculinity is king and always will be.

If the incels learned how to be men and batted inside their own leagues, they wouldn't be incels anymore. It's really that simple.

>>32443354

You need to befriend some older males who are willing to take you under their wings and show you the way. Plenty of places to do that. Specifics depend on where you are.
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>>32443672
Holy autism. I never said they would. Let me spell it out for you: OP's height isn't the issue. It's his world views. That's what I'm getting at here.
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>>32434877
The average difference in height between a man and woman should be 15%. So the guy is 15% taller than the girl, maybe a bit more or less.

Now you have disgusting midget 5’2 women thinking they deserve a 6’5 man
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>>32434996
Hope you abort the little shitskin gook mongrels that come out of that seamonkey whores body. They will grow up to be short, micropenis, black hair and black eyes, supreme gentleman.

You were too dysgenic to reproduce and now you found a loophole and the rest of the world has too look at the freakish mongrels born from that
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It really is just one angry bitter lanklet virgin constantly creating and sperging on these threads.
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>>32444857
Always the Same photos and wording too



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