How do I stand out as a black girl? How do I attract white men? They’re my favourite but I don’t know how to send signals that I’m into them. I refuse to believe I’m worth less than because I’m black.
>>32550922>I refuse to believe I’m worth less than because I’m black.Then why do you yourself not want to date black men, you mentally ill fetishist?
PSA Reminder that there are no women on 4chan. OP is a white autistic kid who thinks he's funny.
>>32550954Because I have a bad history with black men unfortunately. It seems like a lot of them think they can treat me badly because I’m one of their own and not white or Latina. White men have always treated me better and are just generally more stable individuals all around.
>>32550922>How do I stand out as a black girl?Long straight hair + Smile + no tattoos.
>>32550960This is false. Im very much a woman and looking for genuine advice
>>32550965Classic, this why I always tell black girls to date outside their race. They’d have better luck but no one believes me
>>32550922in the same boat op and im not really sure either i even share a lot of the same hobbies as them like snowboarding, skateboarding and mtbing and i still can't find a cute white bf. my ex was white and i met him in college when i joined our radio station...he was really into hiphop lol sweet guy though... i really think having common ground doesn't make a difference and you should probably just focus on being as hot as possible. looksmax i guess :/ good luck out there though!!
>>32550922Any woman will attract the interest of men provided the following.>She is not fat.>She's fairly pretty as a minimum.>She's nice (ie. does not have a nasty personality).>She's not crazy.>She's not intolerably stupid.>She has something interesting to say or do (ie. there are interesting aspects of your personality and personal interests)That's it, men are simple that way (especially white men). You want to be like the girl next door. Be nice, dress nice, easy going, approachable (especially this), love to have fun, show your beautiful smile.>but I don’t know how to send signals that I’m into them.Can you elaborate? In what situations do you normally interact with white men? Work? University? Other? The kind of signals you use would differ accordingly. Also, white men have their own sub-cultures as well. Is there a "type" that you like?>How do I attract white men?Also depends. Are you looking for average Joe, young professional, the intellectual, etc.? Being a white man, I can tell you that we are not really a monolith even though there is a shared overarching culture.
>>32550922I date white men. The trick is to find ones who aren’t insecure and know how to think for themselves. Dating a black girl is still considered abnormal for white men and they are generally much more race conscious than women sadly. Because of this you gotta find the ones who are confident in who they are what they’re about. They are the ones who date black girls because they aren’t looking for approval from other men. Often they end up being older (35+) because those men are not as concerned with the opinions of others. So that’s my advice I guess; find white men who are self confident, self assured and don’t rule out older men.
>>32551042Hello rabbi
>>32551629Don’t even need to be a rabbi to see it’s better for the black girls to look outside their race (or I just don’t understand the rabbi reference). Their own men are seriously damaged and unreliable.I’ve had multiple black girl friends tell me white boys treat them better.
>>32550922Is that really you in the pic??
>>32551725/pol/fags think jews promote interracial marriage to end white genes or some nonsense
>>32551733Of course not, that is former miss New York Taryn Delanie and she could have whoever she pleased. I’m not nearly as sexy sadly
>>32551774>nonsenseLook up literally any mainstream Jewish organization and see for yourself what they think of intermarriage.They openly say it's a good thing, and it only becomes a "conspiracy" when the same things they proudly promote are seen as negative by others.Like this gem:https://nymag.com/intelligencer/2013/05/biden-praises-jews-goes-too-far.html
>>32550922>>32550965>>32551013Thank God there are black women like you. Tell your all your black girl friends to leave black men alone. Stop trying to date black men. Do not approach black men in clubs, bars, or places of work. Ignore them. Please and thank you.
>>32550922I would reccomend staying in shape, keeping yourself clean and neat. Many people here reccomend straightening hair imo I don't think thats needed if you can style it right. Perms fuck up your scalp over time anyway
>>32551851Unfortunately for you I’m a rare breed.
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>>32550922>How do I attract white menFashion and downplaying blacknessFor fashion you can either straighten your hair and dress like the girl next door, indie girl or goth/altWe generally dislike your family and friends
>>32551629Not even a jew thing unfortuneatly, the single motherhood rates are so high is because of lack of commitment from black guys and higher amount of resentment towards women of thier own race. Usually black women stayed in these relationships out of race loyalty but I'm starting to see more resentment build up in the community.
>>32552322Makes sense since black men are known for having zero responsibility and being extremely agressive.
Be realistic about your preference though anon, putting a group of men on a pedastal can get unhealthy, theres a lot of weird dudes out there. Take good care of your appearance, stay fit, and be friendly and outgoing, white guys seem to branch out more nowadays, and more happens with men when you are social with them. I wish you the best in finding the white boy of your dreams
>>32552557Thank you, yeah they are expressing more interest now than when I was in my teen and very early twenties. It does feel like a potential shift is taking place slowly. Makes me feel hopeful
>>32550922Bait. Ignore. >>32552164
>>32552322>>32552451You guys are retarded. It's simply because there's no black fathers since they're all in prison. Because of this there's no active father figure in the house hold which leads to the sons to be raised without a dad and therefore they act fatherless which gets them thrown in prison, starting the cycle.Perhaps if both the father and the mother were present at all times than maybe this curse would be lifted.
>>32550922The big 3; Confidance, kindness, and humor. Be direct about who you are and what you like/dislike, show your affection in little ways, and don't be afraid to laugh or joke around.I personally like when women are comfortable with their femininity but don't allow it to become the crux of their personality, but guys have all sorts of different tastes when it comes to that.After our first date I knew I was hooked on my girl, she has a presence that makes me want to be the best version of myself and it still drives me wild after all this time.>t. white dude, black gf, 7 years together
>>32550922OP no funny shit, I can’t believe your actually cooning for sum white meat
>>32550922Honestly, I usually just assume black women are exclusively interested in black men.Do you have any nerdy interests?If I saw a black lady wearing let's say an Alice Cooper tshirt, I'd be more likely to approach.
>>32555728We're in the real thread, the one you linked is the bait one.
>>32550922We're afraid that we can't compete with bbc
>>32559716I hope that’s not true. Most black guys are pretty average actually >>32558855Why? No one tells men they can’t chase snow bunnies so is it so wrong that I do too? Genuinely >>32556502Thank you !!
If a black girls got a septum piercing I pretty much naturally assume she'll gargle the white meat.
The most important thing is don't pretend to be white. Don't behave white, don't talk like you was white, definitely don't dye your hair blonde. Of course you shouldn't behave like a hood rat too, you need the golden mean. But you'll never be more white than the actual whites so there's no point in trying. And just be confident, dress well and flirt, that's really all it takest. fucked 4 white guys
>>32560656Thanks, this makes sense. Reminds me of when I was teaching English in Vietnam and a few of the Vietnamese teachers tried to convince me to dye my hair blonde. They thought it would help put the parents at ease. Lolol. Im only a little lighter than average so it would’ve looked absurd. The kids liked me all the same and the parents never bothered me so everything worked out.
>>32559346Thanks for this, I think that goes both ways actually! It’s always safest to assume white men prefer their own and often they do. I don’t allow myself to develop feelings for white men anymore unless they send clear signals because it’s so uncommon for them to divert (in my direction anyway, I might just be ugly though. I am overweight). In general it seems like they do prefer their own but many are still open to different races.
>>32560656I would normally be mad, but at least you're giving racemixers STDs.
>>32550922I like black chicks but people make fun of me for it. I’d date one but I don’t want to be mocked.
Unironically just be in shape and that's it. if you have nerdy interests be sure you make that obvious but being in shape really is the most important thing. idk if it's just selection bias but i feel like out of all the overweight girls i run into on apps, there is a higher percentage among black women so by being in shape you already stand out a considerable degree.I'm a white dude and have probably banged like 30-40 chicks in my life, mostly white but also some latina, persian, arabic, indian, japanese, korean and a couple other hispanic and middle eastern countries. i've never banged a black chick though despite being attracted to them and hooking up with a few before. the biggest problem is that many of you look like you just date black guys or don't make it obvious you're into white guys, and that's actually not even really your fault as i think it's just as assumptive bias a lot of us white dudes have. but reality is reality so you have to try harder to compensate and catch a white guy's attentionif you know the guy on social media, just like some of his posts or stories. that'll send the message and if he's interested he'll reach out. the only black girls online i've ever even had success with just flirting and talking to they sent some type of hint first then i reached out. black girls that look like they mainly date black guys and didn't give me any hint or anything like that, anytime i tried sliding in the DMs it went nowhere. with white dudes you will probably have to initiate the chase or at least do the very first step then let the guy take it from there
>>32564133>there is a higher percentage among black womenObesity is more common among blacks (in the US), so this isn't just your experience, it's statistically true.Incidentally, statistics say that black women get lower reply rates than women of other races on dating sites. Theoretically, the kind of women that would get the least replies would be an obese black woman with children.
>>32564174This is not a helpful comment.
