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How do I find a woman that doesn't have ridiculously high standards like expect me to be 6 foot tall and look like I just walked out of a men's swimsuit catalog?

Also women that don't have the patience of a cocaine addict with ADHD?
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>>32558841
It wouldnt matter if you were good looking and 6ft if you arent social.
I never learned how to socialize and am a khhv at 21 even as a prettyboy.
For anybody who actually breeds and has kids for the love of all that is holy in this shit universe socialize them properly.
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>>32558849
>KHHV
Forgive me for being a boomer but what the fuck does this mean? 10th time I've seen that word here.
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>>32558841
If you're actually incapable of engaging with your average woman and unironically believe that all of them are looking for 6 foot swimsuit models then you're really not cut out for relationships. The internet has turned your brain to mush and there's nothing we can do.
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>>32558883
JFGI
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>>32558905
>for relationships.
Nobody's looking for relationships. All people want these days is casual sex with no strings attached.
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>>32558908
jesus fucking god in the ass?
sounds kinky
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>>32558841
touch her heart and soul

>Also women that don't have the patience of a cocaine addict with ADHD?
kek, you're on your own there
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>>32558841
I don't want tall men or men looking like models. I don't have ADHD.
How to find women like me? Idk, we're everywhere, just not on dating apps. Outside, in shops, at concerts,...
I will never install any dating app, it's a jewish scam meant to dehumanize us
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>>32558841
get clean first or find junkies
man junkies are the easiest shit in the world I don't know how some anons don't score
there was this girl who would get me girls, long story, she's very much hooked into 2cb
once I had some in my house (I don't consume but I buy to share with the girls that come over)
she was so desperate for a hit that she came to suck my dick for two hours for 15 bucks of it
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>>32558841
a single mom
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>>32559159
yeah but then you're fucking a junkie lmao. even when i was in a situation where a junkie was literally grabbing my dick i shooed her away because that's nothing for them but it could fuck my shit up for life.
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>>32558841
You have to actually try and look for decent women but I hate to tell you, you’re going to sift through a bunch of self entitled narcissists and emotionally unstable people who put everything on you from emotional load bearing, anxieties, and responsibilities along with fixing them

Believe me, a lot of young girls aren’t worth it. Their standards are insane for that minuscule things they have to offer. (Sex. That’s really it.)

Try older women, but even then be careful and know that some people are single for a reason when they’re that old.

Young women don’t know what they want, or even who they are. They think they do but it entirely runs off if some weird hypergamous or insane standard, they want a dad.

Atleast older women have a job and themselves figured out more to know what they want.
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>>32558925
>Nobody's looking for relationships. All people want these days is casual sex with no strings attached.
Categorically false. You don't interact with enough people to know what they want.
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>>32559165
I'm still clean tho
you gotta fuck them while they are young and just getting into it
I'm not telling you to fuck a 26 year old one who's licked shit from the floor of a rich dude for a couple hundred dollars and is on her way to kill herself as soon as she realizes how low she's fallen, you stop talking to those a couple years before that
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>>32559202
yeah but THEN you're just a piece of shit who helped ruin someone's daughter instead of showing compassion at a chaotic time in their lives. i would tell you to rope but that's too good for you.
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>>32559194
This ...this right here OP
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>>32559096
>just not on dating apps
I met my girlfriend on omegle
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>>32558841
>How do I find a woman that doesn't have ridiculously high standards
amazon jungle
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>>32559683
What standards in particular are too high and are they held by every single woman?
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>>32558963
He's telling you to google it instead of disrupting the thread.
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>>32558841
Have you considered leaving your house?
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>>32559249
not my fault we were all young
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>>32559722
I don't care.
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>>32559719
>What standards in particular are too high and are they held by every single woman?
height, face and race. the holy trinity. Women literally don't give a fuck about the bottom 90% and actively compete with each other to bag chad or atleast get try their best to get his semen inside them
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>>32558841

All over. The average girl doesn't have those expectations. Every average girl has dated men under 6ft.

If you aren't masculine and socially adept then you have no chance and no amount of looks will change that.
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>>32559786
>masculine
lgbt?

>socially adept
loner
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>>32559781
Huh, so how come 90% of men aren't single? I've got a gf and so do all my friends, we're certainly not top 10% material
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>>32559159
>hooked into 2cb
I knew your story was a larp there. 2cb is a psychedelic drug with very little risk of dependency, it's not fucking heroin lol. Sure some people might be addicted to it like any other drug, but nobody will become too "desperate for a hit" to suck dick like a corner heroin whore for it.
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>>32559781
Once again, a closeted homosexual incel projecting his idea of a dream man on all girls.
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>>32558849
>I never learned how to socialize and am a khhv at 21 even as a prettyboy.
You're probably not as pretty as you think
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>>32558841
kek
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>>32558841
Women don't really have standards. I mean yeah if you're genuinely disgusting they'll have an ew response, but they're not actively thinking about or maintaining boundaries around what they want. You can violate 80% of a girl's predefined 'standards' and it won't matter if she likes whatever you're offering.
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>>32561252
>if she likes whatever you're offering.
and what do you offer?
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>>32561252
>Women don't really have standards as long as she likes whatever you're offering.
That is the definition of a standard you white skinned pretty faced man bimbo.
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>>32561301
>>32561330
Ok fair enough, maybe I should be a little more specific. Women only have one standard: they want someone who makes them feel good. That could mean playfulness, laughter, intrigue, arousal, or just making her feel happy about herself. If you can manage to catch her attention by making her feel good, suddenly any of the arbitrary 'factual' standards she holds will morph to match whatever you are.
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>>32558883
It's been used for at least a decade. You are just clearly a newfr**nd.
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>>32561391
How the fuck do you make her feel good over the internet?
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>>32558841
The truth is there is nowhere to meet people in the current year. There are very few single women walking on the streets anymore, they all drive but the main problem is most women are in relationships already starting with high school and college. They will tell you to go to bars and pubs but it doesn't seem to work anymore, in the past sure maybe but not anymore.

Then they tell you hobbies, to get hobbies and sign up for shit, but most women don't have hobbies (their hobby is socializing over the internet and in real life) not to mention the countless other guys that get into hobbies to meet women.
If you don't meet a girl in high school or college it's over in 2024, there is nowhere to meet women anymore, unless you cold approach in places where young women hang out. And let me tell you alone as a 30/40+ year old male, it's not going to go well. You would at least need a wingman but even then the odds are stacked against you not just because of the age difference.
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>>32561719
>most women are in relationships already starting with high school and college.
So you're telling me I need to find me an 18 year old and snap her up fast
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Dooming and glooming gets you nowhere my guy. Instead just try to get the thing you want and you'll be happy. Reminds me of the cartoon cat and dog where dog because he compassionately tries get farther than cat because he keeps making excuses.
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>>32559159
>man junkies are the easiest shit in the world I don't know how some anons don't score
because we don't talk to anyone ever
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>>32559096
>it's a jewish scam meant to dehumanize us
cute.
did one of your pervious boyfriends redpill you?
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>>32563005
kek
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>>32561719
I really need someone to make a rebuttal to this because it has been my complete experience. In college women were everywhere and on occasion one might demonstrate some interest with a passing glance or conversation. Now that I'm out of college I have no idea what to do. I have a bunch of hobbies but the amount of single women around my age involved in them are vanishingly small. I hit 30 and I'm starting to go bald, I don't know what to do besides cold approach. Dating apps are useless
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>>32563166
>I hit 30 and I'm starting to go bald
Be Jason Statham and just be a bad ass.
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>>32563196
I'm honestly considering it, I have a solid beard and I'm /fit/. I just want to be as attractive as possible to as many women as possible and I'm assuming the majority preference is a guy with a full head of hair. It's not like I'm 50.
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>How do I find a woman that doesn't have ridiculously high standards like...
The majority of women are wired to be monogamous with one husbando. Shame us for it and embrace poly
>Also women that don't have the patience of a cocaine addict with ADHD?
Why is youth valued in women?
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>>32563166
>Jason Statham

Moar liek Rich Coper lmao. No, don't shave your head. Go to Turkiye and get a hair transplant. You'll not only feel better about yourself, but you'll look better too.
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>>32563005
I'm a virgin
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>>32561601
For the most part, you don't lol. Never mentioned the internet. The internet is a horrible way to connect with women.
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>>32558841
STOP APPROACHING WOMEN. STOP USING ONLINE APPS. STOP GIVING WOMEN ATTENTION

Stop Asking Women On Dates, stop texting them thinking you are interesting because you are not. The reason you are getting ghosted is because you text and try to be funny, try to make her laugh or sound interesting. If you do manage to go to the next step and are actually meeting up and then get ghosted, stop taking women on dates. That stuff doesn't work anymore in the current year.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pyEdsrfTd6Q
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gK1w1cAKS7o

Most importantly stop approaching women, at least for a while. They are already seething and this will only get worse and worse as they get less and less attention from men.

If men can't display a modicum of power over society, this world and women, then I guess they don't hold much power at all.
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>>32564348
If I don't approach women then how will I have children?
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>>32564348
The idea of punishing women by starting some kind of campaign to deny them attention is hilarious. Good luck, loser.
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>>32565686
I will punish you, mortal!!!!
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>>32563166
All the good looking women who would make great wives and mothers are taken in high school and college the latest. Whatever remains is taken shortly after they enter the workforce. There exist very few good looking (7 and above) women that are single and have a good heart, are modest, raised in a decent family, soft spoken and pretty. The window of opportunity when they are single is very very narrow. These are the 2% of women, the highest stock of females this wonderful creation can offer. If you don't frequent their circles or the events they attend you have no chance of meeting them. Women also don't go anywhere alone, so whatever hobbies women have or events they attend it is done with their husband or boyfriend and if they are single with their groups of friends.

tldr; there simply aren't enough single good looking young white women to go around for everybody, they are rare and exist mostly in very niche places where men without social circles (loners) can't get in to
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>>32565233
Some vagboys still have a uterus, maybe date them.
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>>32570188
Also, most of them are gold diggers because makeup is expensive and they gotta stay pretty; don't take offense to it, they're making an investment by dating rich men.
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>>32558841
By being a man who doesn't have a ridiculously high status like wanting a supermodel or a chick with D-cups. Those are the ones who generally want tall hot guys with a lot of money.
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>>32558841
Okay. So, here's the secret. You know how when you see a girl you immediately like her? Maybe she is hot. Maybe she is just cute. Maybe she is average. But you still like her.

These women often don't like you back. Its okay.

Women operate in a similar manner. They will like men who don't like them back.

So, what you need to do is go after women who you don't like, BUT they like you.

I know it can suck. But men are way better at adapting to less attractive partners than women are.
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>>32559194
>that minuscule things they have to offer. (Sex. That’s really it.)
And it's isn't great too.
>be me
>mid thirties making 6 figures
>dated early 20
>her idea of bj is dick in mouth
>started hinting she wanted the new iphone
>broke up
Fucking a femboy is much better.
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>>32563166
The trick is to work on your social skills early on, or make women in high-end/high-education you target.
Like women in health sectors (Doctors-avoid surgical branches-/nurses), academia, and women that take over family business.
In 95%, they're 6-8/10, realistic expectations for partner, 2-3 body count max.
Over all they make good wife materials, stay away from cities, and move to small town.
Avoid HR at all cost, and any meme collage degree.
Also "dating apps" are just one night stands app now
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>>32570268
Dude, I don't give a shit about supermodels or D cups (who the fuck wants boobs that huge?!)

Even the ugly chicks want men that look hot. That's the problem.

By the way, I don't really care how a girl looks. As long as she has all her teeth and doesn't look like a man, then she's sexy to me.
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>>32570307
I did this and had a miserable 2 year relationship. I was able to tolerate her being fat because she had an otherwise good personality, but then she started getting insecure about being fat and instead of trying to fix it she basically took it out on me, saying crazy shit like "I secretly hate her." A person's outward appearance is a reflection of their inner state of being, if you are fat then you have inner conflicts that need to be resolves before I want anything to do with you.
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>>32570249
Not those type of women I described, they don't wear make-up daily either.
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>>32558841
You don't
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>>32558841
Just bee yourself
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>>32573829
bee myself huh
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>>32573896
Yes



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