>>32559589
Guit that she was doing their thing with you.

If you need this described to you, then you aren't a person and shouldn't be trying to date anyone.

>>32559589
Because she was probably cheated on him. She feels guilt

>>32559634
they had left their relationship half a year ago

>>32559644
Guilt

>>32559662
so will she eventually feel guilty for leaving me as well? last day we met to talk about our breakup and i mentioned several times “”but i thought we had a real and genuine connection”” “”but the way you hold my hands and stared at my eyes made me thought this was real””

>>32559662
so had i not held her hand and met in less public places where he could notice, would i still be with her? was that the cause of our breakup?

>>32559706
you were the rebound and she only used you to try and re experience what she had with the man she loved and lost (not you).
I did this to a girl whose virginity I took, then dumped her 6 months later because she was nothing like the ex I still wanted.

>>32559720
would our relationship lasted if i had tried to do 100% the things she did with him instead of trying my own plans? like focusing on re visiting places she had already traveled to with him?

>>32559738
That's retarded anon. There's nothing you could do. She's not over the other guy.

>>32559589
if you're able to get a girl I think you are able to know why
most probably you saw this happen to someone else and you're very autistic and can't get it

>>32559771
I think he's esl

>>32559785
I'm esl but I can understand why a girl would do that, it takes intuition and knowing human nature, not speaking english

>>32559738
No. I just needed a body to drown my sorrows

>>32559792
You understand the concept of a rebound relationship and that she wasn't over hwe previous one.

>>32559589
I never had a girlfriend, don't talk to any women, closest thing is this girl texting me and sometimes she acts very flirty and "obsessed" with me

This was enough for me to reach the conclusion that girls do not forget their first bfs, so when you date some bitch who had a previous relationship you're already getting cucked, because girls seem to get very hung up on a guy, so their first boyfriend, the first time they fucked, it's all very special to them.
What I'm trying to say here is that she will always, deep down, be in love with her ex, and no man that comes after that will be as good or enough, it's just life. Women are very sensitive and very emotional, if they "fell in love" with a guy they'll be obsessed with him forever

And if that guy was better looking and more successful than you, you're 100% completely fucked

>>32559589
Who's more of the nerd and loser? The guy who is upset at his whore girlfriend that broke his heart, or the guy who made half a dozen fucking threads in a couple days about the same topic because he can't accept a whore used him as a rebound?

>>32559704
>i mentioned several times “”but i thought we had a real and genuine connection”” “”but the way you hold my hands and stared at my eyes made me thought this was real””
LMAO what a loser nerd faggot

>>32560807
>This was enough for me to reach the conclusion that girls do not forget their first bfs, so when you date some bitch who had a previous relationship you're already getting cucked, because girls seem to get very hung up on a guy, so their first boyfriend, the first time they fucked, it's all very special to them.
What I'm trying to say here is that she will always, deep down, be in love with her ex, and no man that comes after that will be as good or enough, it's just life. Women are very sensitive and very emotional, if they "fell in love" with a guy they'll be obsessed with him forever
This is absolutely not true if the girl is the dumper in the relationship. When a woman decides she is done, she is done. The past does not exist for women. It doesn't matter if it was the 6'6" valedictorian football captain with a 9 inch cock, if a woman has decided that male is no good anymore, she erases him from her brain space and replaces him with the next new and shiny dick.
>I never had a girlfriend, don't talk to any women, closest thing is this girl texting me and sometimes she acts very flirty and "obsessed" with me
Then what makes you qualified to talk about relationships? You've never been on the inside, you don't know what the fuck you're talking about. You have your incorrect "conclusion" because you have terminally-online blackpill incel brainrot
Also the obsessed girl is just using you for attention and you're desperate. Try asking her out and see how "obsessed" she actually is with you (doesn't matter if she has a boyfriend or not if she really likes you she'll cheat or leave)

>>32560960
>Also the obsessed girl is just using you for attention and you're desperate
What makes you think I don't know that? And my conclusion is fact

>>32560986
>What makes you think I don't know that?
Because you bring this up as some point of pride and experience with women when you've never even had a relationship.
>And my conclusion is fact
It absolutely isn't. I was my most recent ex's first and despite the fact we spent years together and I'm tall and have a big dick and work out and all that bullshit, I know for a fact she isn't thinking about me, at all. And you know what? Good.

>>32561002
>Because you bring this up as some point of pride
Not really, just to show you how little experience I have and despite that I was still able to understand how things go
>I know for a fact she isn't thinking about me, at all.
She might have found someone way better or maybe she'll come crawling back soon enough, give it time

>>32560986
>>32561002
Conversely, my first relationship was with a girl who has an LTR throughout high school before me. She didn't bring up her ex at all, except mentioning once that I could make her cum from fucking and that was something her ex almost never did, and i had to drag it out of her practically.
One time I creeped on her reddit account that she was still logged into on her laptop when she was in another room, and I saw her ex had messaged her. He response was basically "fuck off and stop stalking me." No other indicators they were still in touch at all.
When women are done, they are DONE.

>>32561015
never was caught up on my first boyfriend/virginity taker
that other guy is right it’s as if there’s a switch and as soon as it flips there’s no going back

>>32561015
>despite that I was still able to understand how things go
You don't "understand" anything, you're just letting what you read online color your opinions on something you've never personally experienced.

>>32560920
The BPD guy who emotionally manipulates his ex. OP is just caught in the crossfire.

>>32561172
Yeah sure

>>32561306
OP is the most mentally ill out of the three, he's made this thread literally about 5 or 6 times in the last 2 days. Sometimes with multiple threads up at once.
>Calling an evil bitch evil is "emotionally manipulative"
Or it's just calling a spade a spade, you faggot