My girlfriend told me, "You're lucky I know how to ride." We were having a conversation on the phone about how hard we were going to fuck on Sunday, and she texted me that.I just texted back, "I guess so," because I obviously am not; she could have learnt how to ride with me instead of the guys she fucked before.I guess she saw I didnt feel that good about her message because she replied "but I ride you harder", and just kept it going.What should I do?
>>32561134Idk if you're really insecure it doesn't matter. She'll move on before you do anyways. Obviously she was trying to be playful. I think you've communicated that you weren't comfortable with that, but pushing it beyond that won't help. My advice is to stop caring so much. Nobody's a permanent fixture in your life.
>>32561134Congratulations, you understand now women view sex as a service to men.Is she your first? This is an insecurity a lot of sensitive autist guys have with their first GFs unless you're also her first.Just have fun, she chose you dude. You're getting the pussy, you're winning.
>>32561134Ah geezShe just lost some respect for youBe confident that you're better than her past partners, or she won't be.
how does your gf ride? I’m very insecure about my sex skillsI lost my virginity to my currently boyfriend and he asked me to be on top one time but I guess he didn’t like it because he flipped me back down very quickly and never attempted that position again
>>32561134>What should I do?stop being a fucking drag you have a fucking partner. i have to spend my entire life alone after having been rejected at each new stage of life by every different kind of woman. all you have to do is smile and not get triggered by babbys first shit test. fuck you
>>32561134Yuck. It's so offputting when women try to act like construction workers.
>>32561256>>Not OP, but probably more experienced from the looks of it.From my experience, all girls think they're better at riding than they actually are. I don't have the heart to tell them, but it seems like it feels better for them than it does for me.
>>32561280>I don't have the heart to tell themPlease tell me. I hate doing it I would love an excuse not to.
>>32561134God that's so hot. Ask her about how she learned and with who, and where, and when. Get all the details. Then when she's riding you tell her to call you by that guy's name.
>>32561277Lol, this. As if talking shop about fucking other guys is in attractive in any way shape or form.
>>32561285You want my advice? Try out new things. You're new. Different people fit together differently, and there's a lot of stuff to explore. For whatever reason it takes new sexhavers a while to get comfortable with experimentation in new positions or just directly talking about what they like and don't like. Assume all preferences will be partner-specific, and they might change over time. It's supposed to be fun. For riding in particular, it may be the angle, the sensation just not being all there, not feeling in control, or it could just be the uneasiness about having your weight on his dick. One wrong move and he's getting snapped in half, or at least that's what it feels like sometimes, especially with inexperienced girls. Makes it hard to enjoy it.Also, doing your bf a favor here: if you're giving a blowjob, more throat isn't always better. It can be jarring and uncomfortable from his perspective if you're forcing it. Use lots of spit and don't get too fancy with it - just find a rhythm you can maintain and make sure your teeth are out of the way lol.
>>32561280Why do men hate when women feel pleasure?Shit that keeps me a service top who will only orgasm in private.
>>32562413>why do men hate when women feel pleasure?Why do women feel pleasure when men fucking grab their throat and throttle them? Idk. Honestly have no idea where the question's coming from either. Never gotten any complaints, myself.
>>32561242>>32561247>>32561255>>32561256You're insufferable faggots. >>32561134You'll feel fine in a few days when you realise not every woman is funny. Imagine it in the same vein as a guy trying to brag about making his partner orgasm. It feels like a bizarre boast
>>32561134KEK, yeah uh, not her best moment to be honest, but it's pretty innocent. That being said, if you're a person who's reaction to this is to break up with her, you're probably not ready for a relationship and she oughta move on to a better guy. I say that as a dude btw.Love that she said "but I ride you harder"; like the situation was just cringey and this just makes the story funnier cause she sorta dropped a ball and is scrambling to pick it up - very endearing in a way. >what should I doYou suck it up and move on man. Continue the flirting texts about the Sunday fuck, get the mood going again after her stumble. Maybe mention something that conveys that she's in your thoughts, and maybe suggest something you'd love for her to wear, etc etc
>>32561280imo its good because it delays when I cum so she may get to easier. It feels quite nice to feel them cumming with your dick in it no matter what position
Any chance it's from riding her dildo?
>>32562413>Why do men hate when women feel pleasure?I think you've forgotten how obsessed some of us are with face sitting
>>32563330What's insufferable about saying women view sex as a service? It's the truth, women tend not to view sex as this special, validating act the same way men do, they look at is as something to please their man. That's why they're such a disconnect between what men want and what women think men want. Most men would want the virginal girl while most women think men want a girl who's got "experience"
>>32563725My ex and I had something special in this regard. I don't cum easily and generally have to focus to make it happen, but I found the feeling of her cumming was enough to trigger me, so as a result we could cum together pretty consistently which was neat.
>>32561242>My advice is to stop caring so much. Nobody's a permanent fixture in your life.A woman is never yours, it's only your turn.>>32561247SHE CHOSE YOU
>>32561134I think it was supposed to be a joke
>>32561134That's a very serious insecurity, anon. It's not something there is an easy fix for.>What should I do?From what you've said it doesn't seem like she meant to offend you, of course; so don't hold it against her. Don't bring it up with her until you've fully understood why you feel that way. For something like this, there isn't the necessity to talk about it, either; though that depends on what resolution you find in understanding your feelings.
men are a joke
>>32561134You're insecure af. You are lucky. Inexperienced girls suck. I'd rather have a girl ride me good right from the beginning than having shit sex for a year.
>MUH INSECURITY>MUH SHE CHOSE YOU>MUH QUIT BEING A PUSSYYou are rightfully feeling insecure. Women who are promiscuous indicate two things:1. She has a greater chance to have had experienced good sex that you will never measure up to. You are competing with her past and if you don't stand out she might leave you. Your investment in the relationship will be for nothing.2. Having multiple partners and talking freely about sex like this shows she might not take relationships as seriously and it is more about "feelings" than wanting to build something that takes hard work. She might leave you if it starts to get serious. It is your decision to stay or go, OP. Just keep these things in mind.
>>32561134You're a pagan judging by the image you posted so what do you care about Puritanism?
>>32561280the ultraslut I lost my virginity to was incredible at riding. half of it was just had a lot of stamina despite being chubby
