Allright Anons i need your whisdom. I am really in love with the sister of a friend of mine for about 2 years now. Like really in love. >She told me that she is concernd for my health becaue i drank to mutch coffee (i was drinking too much coffee like 8-16 a day) and now evreytime i have a coffee in my hand i have to think at that moment and feel disgusted by the coffee. >She told me that she likes the harry potter books and wants someone to talk to about the books and now i am in the middle of the 4th book. >When she is in the room i am more stressed than that time i was shoot almost twice (at the same day). The problem is i asked her out about a year ago and she told me that she only likes me as a friend to be fair i was a bout as smooth as sandpaper and as charismatic dry peace of bread. But her behaviour doesn't really add up. >At a party she was sitting between me and her best friend and she was leaning against me while talking with me while between her and her friend was a half meter gab. >I overheard a conversation between her and her friend where her best friend tried to encurage her to talk to "him" and just go to "him" and tell "him" how you feel, while booth kept looking at me (i was standing alone so no mistaking that). Anons i can lead a Squad in combat with no sleep but i cant fucking talk to women so please help a retard like myself. Also sorry for my most likely bad englisch but it not my first language.
>>32561594Of course, she says yes or you get closure, experience, and become stronger. Learning to get kicked in the face is the name of the game. What separates the winners from losers.
>>32561594yeah you should always tell a girl you like her. later on there may not even be any you like. so just tell them you like them when you like them. otherwise, you'll just keep wondering "what if, what if" as the years go by.tell her how you feel, and maybe tell her the first three greentext lines you told us too. tell her you love her and what your love for her means for you. at that point, what she wants is entirely up to her
>>32561594Bud I had a really crushing experience a month ago. I liked a girl and I thought she liked me, in the end I saw everything nice she did as a sign that she does like me and I overlooked everything bad. I asked her out when I was almost sure she would say yes but she said no, I couldn't hear any uncertainty either, after talking with a female friend of mine I believe there have never been a point in time when she saw me as a potential partner. And it's hard to go back to reality after that. Like I'm not sure about your situation but she rejected you once I doubt thing has changed. In my case I had to ask to know and I believe you need to ask too, but you need to cut contact after that. Keep in mind that it isn't your fault when she doesn't like you as much as you do her. We are all different and we can't choose who we fall in love with. But you need to move on and find someone that reciprocates your feelings, you might never find that person if you are stuck with someone that doesn't.
>>32561594>The problem is i asked her out about a year ago and she told me that she only likes me as a friendOkay. You tried. She is not interested. That's the end of it. Right now you're acting like a stalker. Let it go.
>>32561594From what you said I find it unlikely that she's interested in you, but you really shoud ask her out. You have nothing to lose, and it's the only way to properly get over it.
>>32563731>>32564852>>32566513Thanks guys for the /adv/ i will tell her while also making it clear that i dont exect or hope that she changes her mind. And when it goes wrong i normaly see her about 2 to 3 times a year so its not that bad.
